Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by SnowBunny726Posted by Saturn_Returns
It's known as playing the game and sucking up.
I often try to keep to myself, much to the annoyance of some of my work colleagues (both past and present). Besides, I've always been too much of an outlier for many to comprehend.
Weirdo! 😌
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Posted by BaeMaxxPosted by serenidad
having experienced both (working alongside others and working for myself), i can say that both offers advantages and disadvantages. some people thrive off of social interaction (like they actually feel energized from it), whereas others can feel sorta depleted from it. some people feel more comfortable being part of a group and dividing responsibilities, whereas others don't mind having all the responsibility on their shoulders if it means they will have more freedom.
i was always hell bent on working from home and eventually made it happen.
but i definitely enjoyed and appreciated the opportunity to work for an employer because it offered a stable income for me while trying to get my own business off the ground, so i'm forever grateful for that. 'cause like, imagine if was jobless during that time. it would've been really hard. so, just use your work place as a stepping stone to get to where you wanna go.
as far as the mingling with co workers thing, yeah, i never really understood the whole appeal of co workers going out to have lunch/drinks together (even though sometimes we kinda gotta go along with it in order to seem pleasant, agreeable ? lol)
also, when i was much younger, i used to wear my burnout as a badge of honor or something , but now that i think about it, i was running away from my grief by trying to lose myself in my work. so people could do this as a way to run away from emotions they don't wanna feel. when you're fully immersed in your work, you don't think about anything else.
Who needs a group when you have dxp? Hahaha 😂click to expand
Posted by Saturn_Returns
It's known as playing the game and sucking up.
I often try to keep to myself, much to the annoyance of some of my work colleagues (both past and present). Besides, I've always been too much of an outlier for many to comprehend.
Posted by GeminiJim
Have you really only just realised this??
You're only a "team" because it sounds more palatable than group of employees
Posted by Bumboklaat
I've known this my whole life. Good thing you figured it out tho. Congrats on life experience, you will be real, you will not always fit in but at least you will be real.
Also this is not in every culture. In the USA work/business is everything which is were so bad at enjoying it. We think were well off until you look at other first world countries.
Posted by TXCowboy
Time for a career change, entirely.
You belong in the hospitality sector, consider this heavily.
Posted by cerseiPosted by SnowBunny726
Ok idk what y'all are using to calculate this stuff but if I had to guess my dominants would be Cancer, Water, Moon and 1st House. My Cancer Moon is the most heavily aspected and my 1st House has my Sun and Moon.
What’s your rising sign? Is it Leo ? That would mean your sun rules your entire chart and with the sun in the 1st house that would put more emphasis on the 1st house and the sun.
But I find Astro.com -> Walter pullen chart to be more accurate finding your dominants. Only it doesn’t tell you your house dominant. But if you want I can look at your chart to get an idea what your dominant house is. The easiest way is when you have a stellium in a house but otherwise it’s a bit more difficult to figure outclick to expand
Posted by cerseiPosted by SnowBunny726
Ok idk what y'all are using to calculate this stuff but if I had to guess my dominants would be Cancer, Water, Moon and 1st House. My Cancer Moon is the most heavily aspected and my 1st House has my Sun and Moon.
What’s your rising sign? Is it Leo ? That would mean your sun rules your entire chart and with the sun in the 1st house that would put more emphasis on the 1st house and the sun.
But I find Astro.com -> Walter pullen chart to be more accurate finding your dominants. Only it doesn’t tell you your house dominant. But if you want I can look at your chart to get an idea what your dominant house is. The easiest way is when you have a stellium in a house but otherwise it’s a bit more difficult to figure outclick to expand