i married a aqua man. we have dated on and off for about 2 years, and then married for the wrong reasons. needless to say, it didn't work out. He IS/WAS NOT, anywhere near a typical aqua though. He had no motivation or drive. Almost no social life. But I did cater to him for several years and then I stopped when he stopped paying any attention to me or our child. Ummm....yeah, don't think it will ever happen again. But I will never say never. Who knows.
I'm married with a child and I am going through this situation. It didn't take that long for the marriage to be over, but to be honest it was over before it started because we married for the wrong reasons. But either way, I knew my marriage was over. Among many many other things, problems, and situations... He lost his job shortly after I lost mine, because he couldn't get up and go to work on time because he was up playing video games all night. he is 26 years old! Get off your a** and get a job. He was going to sit around and just allow others to help us out with bills and necessities. Neither of us had a job but he was being picky with what he would accept. He has no college education, so what could he really expect as far as pay? Not much more than minimum wage per hour. Either way he let himself go, stopped caring or even paying any attention to me, unless I got dressed up to go somewhere, or unless he wanted sex. I just knew it was over. And I dont want my child to think that his behavior is acceptable as a man or that that is what a marriage or relationship is about. get out. you deserve to be happy and loved. I did, and it wasn't even that long ago. But I have found someone that loves me and my child and I couldn't ask for much more. He and I are like yin and yang most of the time. He is everything I am not and vice versa.
I am seeing a leo w/ and aqua moon. he is so different from anyone i have ever met before. I am a cancer with a scorpio moon. He and i enjoy our time together and he tends to lead the relationship, which is naturally something he would do. He loves me or so he says, and his actions usually say he does. But he doesn't want to be physically close to me very often. And I don't mean sexually, i am more talking about intimacy. hand holding, cuddling. stuff like that. He doesn't enjoy any of it. He does it every once in a while, but only for a minute or two. So my question is, what gives? where does this come from? i have read about leos and i have read about how devoted they are and how they supposedly like to flaunt their relationships, pda, and all that stuff but that isn't the case with him. Is this a warning sign? or could it just be a quirk? HAS ANYONE RUN INTO THIS BEFORE? Can someone explain this. I just dont get it.
the link below leads to a reading I got from astro.com I have a slightly different reading from another website, which I will paste below. Can someone please help me. Explain how these things affect my personality. I am new to all of this and don't quite understand it.
sun at 14 deg 02' Cancer, 8th H. moon at 11 deg 45' Scorpio, 12th H. mercury at 10 deg 12' Cancer, 8th H. Venus at 0 deg 60' Cancer, 8th H. mars at 29 deg 58' cancer, 9th H. jupiter at 26 deg 47' aries, 5th H. saturn at 15 deg 54' sagittarius, 1st H. uranus at 23 deg 55' sagittarius, 2nd H. Pluto at 7 deg 03' scorpio, 12th H