yeah..even though he's the same age.. I think he might be a bit too immature for me..to even know what he really wants..I 'm not gonna wait around forever..I know there is definetly someone better out there for me..!!
no..you're not a prude... I 'm just not easy..it would have most likely made things worse if I had have slept with him...
yeah I did text back..I actaully saw him yest. I asked him what was the point of the st pats text.. he said he was trying to be nice..
I think he does really like me...but he just doesnt know how to deal with it..or doesnt want to...hmm frustrating.. but if he really wants me he 'll come get me.. I just have to wait a bit..which I predict is highly likely since he has a pattern of running hot n cold..times when we we we're not incontact then a few weeks later. he'll call or text me..
thanks to you both for your advice.. It pepped me up when I needed it..
this was last sunday morning..no he didnt fly out..he was relaxed, I offered something to eat, but he declined.. we went to the library together, he gave me a hug before he left said thannks for having me..etc thats all i can remember, but just after I posted the first message. I got a txt from him,saying happy st patricks day.. at about 1am .when I would normally be in bed.. what was the point of that?I assume he was at the pub..
I've never done this before. I've been reading alot of posts here and you guys seem to know what you're on about, and give out good advice.
so here goes..it's not a major drama..but this has been an INTENSE week with the whole lunar eclipse thing.. Being a cancerian an all..nothing bad had happened, but I'd just been feeling odd.. anyway that aside..of course it's a guy! libran 12 oct 84. he's just so indecisive.we're not going out, but we did for a week,( last nov) before he said " i like u but not enough".. Then he'll distance himself for a month or so..then out of the blue call/txt me and as though nothing happened.. I dont contact him,but he keeps coming back..this is annoying and frustrating.
last week, he calls me.. after a month..sligh tly intoxicated..but not slurring speech...going on about how, he quite likes me..etc.. I happened to be having a party the next week, so I invite him.. we have a great time...he missed the last train so had to stay.. I didn't sleep with him,( as much as I wanted to). I just want him to find out what he wants.
we dont have any classes together, so if I see him, its only by chance.. I would just like to have some regular time, even as friends. I dont feel confident chasing him ,since he has rejected me before.. but my intuition says he really does like me.. but is for some reason afraid to take it further..
I 'm thinking of giving him space until after the next new moon eclipse, which will be in his love zone, and then try and suggest we have coffee or something casual... and in the meantime focus on my studies...