He excercised incredible restraint. I cant stop thinking about him. I want him back in my life as a friend, lover, confidant. I dont know how to do it. Not contacting him and giving him space is the only sane thing to do it seems like but i dont wnat him to think thatbi didnt get my way and moved on. What shouldni do? Would he ever contact me again if i dont contact him? Any advice especially from libra man is greatly appreciated. And please i dont need any moral jusgements about being married for. 14 years and still wanting this new man. Life is complicated and things happen!