@waterbearer_fem: She didn't actually introduce me. Her family knew of me and they would talk about me openly. I admit I wasn't in the right frame of mind after we broke up but in our last conversation she did say she hopes she doesn't regret her decision to break up with me and that she wanted to remain friends because she could imagine life without talking to me. That was 4 months ago and she hardly makes an effort.
Honestly if she just spoke to me, it would be about losing face at all. I have said that girl time and time again lets talk and clear stuff up. She agrees she wants to talk but over the months, we never have.
She is in a hard place between me and her parents as her parents don't agree with us, I understand that. I did make some mistakes and I have apologised for them. Can I message you my apology? I have left the door open for her, so if she doesn't come back then in time I guess she will regret her decision.
She is completely distant from me. She goes through phases where she looks at me in a way she is interested then when I asked if she wants to talk her barriers go back up.
Recently we had to engage in a group exercise, and everyone engaged except her. My emails to her about work were met with short responses, I wasn't even acknowledged by name. Sometimes I didn't even get a response.
Sometimes we walk past each other and I get ignored, other times she looks at me and waits for me to say hello first.
@waterbearer_fem - I think there is feelings left. The situation she was in was quite intense and I didn't help it. I sent an email and apologised and cleared the air. The ball is in her court now, the purpose of this post was for me to learn and not make the same mistake again, despite the starsign. My ex is one person that cant handle emotions to well, so she can have all the space she needs.
@chuckem - Damn man, don't know what to say. Thanks for the help the other day mate, its appreciated.
The short story is that I was a bit pushy with her after she told her folks about us and continued to be pushy after we broke up.
She slowly blocks me off everything and doesn't even engage in work related stuff (we work together).
Been through a massive period of realisation and sent her a long email apologising and explaining myself. Told her Id love to have her back but that doesn't work then I just want her to be happy. She has a cancer moon so I now realise she may be super sensitive.
The thing is that through out this period of distance sometimes she completely blanks me, sometimes she looks at me, some times she feels uncomfortable and other times she turns away.
I am trying to understand her behaviour. Its been 6 months since she has been like this with me....
@gemmitarius - If we are sincerely sorry then yes we will. But if its not a big deal to us or doesn't mean anything then we tend not to say sorry because its a pride thing. Recently after speaking a helpful aqua here, she helped me realise some mistakes I made and as a result I ended up sending my ex a long email apologising and expressing what I have learnt.
@HeavyEntertainmentShow - Lol mate I have no idea about celebrities. But generally speaking I think they are a law onto their own and are far different from us commoners. However saying that yes I would say Leos do have a high sex drive. The only girl that could keep up with me was my Taurus ex. When it came to sex I think the Lion and Bull combination works, but doesn't work so well elsewhere.
@the_sunflower - Leo friends are fine. I have a friend who is also a Leo that I have known for over 30 years. We do tend to clash in certain cases, where it comes to stubbornness etc. The best way to describe the relationship is when its calm its calm, when its rocky then its very rocky, but we always ended up calming down and then it was like nothing ever happened.
@joanne_p - Hey that's an open ended question. Leos need to hunt and be mentally stimulated so how we treat the opposite sex is based on what we are fed. There are girls that I have spoken to and friendzoned almost immediately, whilst there is my ex who I still love dearly and want back. We weren't friends at all, we spoke for a few weeks at work and went straight into a relationship. If you have a personal circumstance you want to discuss feel free to PM me
I believe that fate is something that you will never know about, purely because what is written for you is written for you and you cant change that. Getting a tarot reading, may give you some insight, but it will never tell you the full story.
Theres nothing wrong with getting one done, I didn't believe in Astrology until I started posting on DXP. And I have typed my details in on the net and the information I got back was astonishing. It described me down to a tee, my personality, emotions, how I behave etc.
If the tarot reader tells you what to do or not to do, it will be your choice at the end of the day.
I just wanted some insight into Aquarius women who have cancer moons. Please read the post below and offer some insight into how you deal with emotional issues, and how a guy can break down that barrier and get you to you open up. I am Leo male with a Libra Moon.
_______ This is the most subjective position of the Moon. The Moon is "at home" in the sign of Cancer, as the Moon is the natural ruler of the sign. Moon in Cancer natives have a large potential to be able to get in touch with the feelings and moods of others. Often, they are quite wrapped up in themselves. Their memories of the past are outstanding, especially for all things emotional. Moon in Cancer people are never detached--they cling to things, their home, and people they care for. They seek out security and familiarity in all they do. They look for peace and quiet. Their attachment to all that is safe means they are a little leery of change. These peace-loving souls dislike superficiality in all of its forms. They are devoted and accommodating. The insecure ones accumulate things in an attempt to feel secure.
Because of their strong attachment to, and memory of, the past, others may complain that Moon in Cancer natives tend to whip a dead horse. They may dwell on hurts long after everyone else has moved on. When they feel they have been taken for granted (which may be often!), they don't always confront others directly. This is when they can use roundabout ways to get your attention. In fact, these natives, when they are insecure, can become quite manipulative. They can also be victims of habit. These people can have a hard time compartmentalizing their lives, simply because their watery Moon tends to know no boundaries. Sometimes, as a result, they may act irrationally.
Their moodiness can baffle others, but their unique outlook on life is something most people can appreciate. When treated with tenderness and understanding, Moon in Cancer natives return the favor with warmth and protection. Give them security, and you'll take the crabbiness out of the Crab, at least for awhile. These people are wonderfully dependable overall, despite their occasional mood swings. Make a friend of Moon in Cancer, and you will be taken care of for life.
Most of the time I am in control of my emotions and thoughts, I deal with stuff logically.
If a Leo is invested in you then yes the drama stops, because they are more focussed on your well being and making you happy. A Leos woman is his queen therefore she needs to be radiant and happy and a Leo will go out of his way to make sure you are. If Leo really cares then they have the ability to self reflect and will make the necessary changes.
However, when a Leo does become a drama king and potentially sabotages the relationship is when our pride and ego is threatened, or the partner is just not listening. We are fixed so go from the extreme of making changes, being accommodating to the other end of "Right that's im not putting up with anymore." When we reach that point there is no turning back because we told you, we showed you and our pride is hurt.
The way to deal with a drama king Leo is to wait until he is calmer and sit him down and talk to him. Don't patronise, talk and explain the issue. Normally we do try to resolve stuff so we will listen. It takes time for us to change, but to deal with it the best thing to do is have a code word we understand. Don't do the read between the lines bullbutter it doesn't work with us.
Something you need to calm down normally works. We then sit back, think and reflect.
Always remember a Leo is always in some form emotionally driven.