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Posted by PiscesGal76
As far as good traits for Taurus: gentle natured, family man, hard working when they set their minds to it, homebodies (if you are too, thats a major plus!), often cleanfreaks, loves the finer, quality things in life, very caring in their own way. They arent fast in commiting to you or to tell you that they love you but you'll sure know in their ways and behaviours, things they'll do for you. Great apetite for sex!

Good traits for Scorpio: hard working family man, rather workaholic, doesnt hesitate to help you with whatever help you need, hates conflicts, great humor, explosive but good natured, awesome sex!

Good traits for Cancer: gentle, loving, would give the coat off his back to help someone, would suffer for you just to see you happy, very clingy and possesive when they love you (you can take that as a good thing or a bad thing), great with kids! Not materialistic, rather is in nature than in a fancy hotel.

These are my good experiences with the 3 signs.

Posted by PiscesGal76
Most toxic goes to Pisces men to be honest. I tried with 2, both were toxic as hell. Seeking attention from the ladies, trying to portrait themselves as very helpful, undrrstanding and true people but in fact, all they want to do is get into your pants! First Pisces still holds a grudge after 9 years cause I caught him cheating and called him on it. I broke it off and he couldnt handle that. Second Pisces was just recently, started out as friends, totally unexpected, he appeared very supportive, understanding, focused, the whole nine yards,... we met up for icecream, had a 2 hour chat and had a great time. A few weeks after, with many texts, phonecalls ect, he asked me out for dinner. I said yes but I also said to not have expectations of any kind. Well, we met up 2nd time and half hour in... he told me he likes me more than just liking me. He hadnt said it a second ago and he was all over me, kissing, touching, trying to crawl inside me basically. Right on the spot I said that I'm not at the same feelings as him. He was ok with that... but still didnt keep hands to himself. Ugh... I ended up going home early as I didnt feel safe at all. And I was fully dressed but felt very naked and vulnerable! I ended our contact all together. He also had other traits that I did not like. When I spoke with the waitress, he wouldnt let me finish my sentences and would start his own conversation. He did that at home aswell when we were together. Also, if I would tell him something, he would talk about himself and tried to outdo me. Very annoying!

So yeah, for me, Pisces men are most toxic.

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Posted by BETYOURLIFEONIT
Cancer's often have a hard time finding themselves. Until then all you get is a Crab literally.

Not to mention high susceptibility to issues concerning their self image and nothing being good enough. Becomes real tiresome sometimes.

Also very very very very very salty. At least we don't have thyroid problems.

Interesting insight I just came across on Cancer men, makes so much sense.

Isolde, why haven’t you posted in this Cancer man help thread? Go forth and give your blessings:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/cancer/cancer-personality-14210324/?checkpg=1

Thanks for bringing it to my attention, I think CG11 has already answered it quite aptly 😂

Really? I never saw astrology paint them as “perfect sweeties”. Always saw them painted more as emotionally vulnerable and entangled.

Clever editing there, first sentence would’ve suffice. As you’ve spent a bit of time on here you would be an expert on threads v reality v astrology books.
More than happy to listen to your take on it, after all this is your thread on toxicity.

Engaging in a conversation with you is just me gauging out more insight on the Cancer male. I find it interesting how your responses are always more prideful than another Cancer male, BETYOURLIFEONIT, who seems to be more humble and forthcoming about the Cancer sun shortcomings. It must be his Aries moon vs your Aqua moon. That has now piqued my interest on understanding the Aries moon further.

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I’m glad you’ve finally figured it out 👏











You still don’t realise I’m trolling you Neno 🤣🤣🤣

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I don’t think any of those signs are toxic. People pursuing them don’t understand them hence the many threads.

Something must definitely be wrong with them if they’re not able to be understood in a big number. Did the “Cancer man left me” thread get deleted?!

People are inherently selfish, so it could just as easily be said that those that are misunderstood.. just weren't given the time of day by their partners to be understood.

That makes sense given that folks would rather come to dxp to ask others about their partners, than actually taking the time to get to know their partners personally.

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Posted by BETYOURLIFEONIT
Cancer's often have a hard time finding themselves. Until then all you get is a Crab literally.

Not to mention high susceptibility to issues concerning their self image and nothing being good enough. Becomes real tiresome sometimes.

Also very very very very very salty. At least we don't have thyroid problems.

Interesting insight I just came across on Cancer men, makes so much sense.

Isolde, why haven’t you posted in this Cancer man help thread? Go forth and give your blessings:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/cancer/cancer-personality-14210324/?checkpg=1

Thanks for bringing it to my attention, I think CG11 has already answered it quite aptly 😂

Really? I never saw astrology paint them as “perfect sweeties”. Always saw them painted more as emotionally vulnerable and entangled.

Clever editing there, first sentence would’ve suffice. As you’ve spent a bit of time on here you would be an expert on threads v reality v astrology books.
More than happy to listen to your take on it, after all this is your thread on toxicity.

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Posted by BETYOURLIFEONIT
Cancer's often have a hard time finding themselves. Until then all you get is a Crab literally.

Not to mention high susceptibility to issues concerning their self image and nothing being good enough. Becomes real tiresome sometimes.

Also very very very very very salty. At least we don't have thyroid problems.

Interesting insight I just came across on Cancer men, makes so much sense.

Isolde, why haven’t you posted in this Cancer man help thread? Go forth and give your blessings:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/cancer/cancer-personality-14210324/?checkpg=1

Thanks for bringing it to my attention, I think CG11 has already answered it quite aptly 😂

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Posted by BETYOURLIFEONIT
Cancer's often have a hard time finding themselves. Until then all you get is a Crab literally.

Not to mention high susceptibility to issues concerning their self image and nothing being good enough. Becomes real tiresome sometimes.

Also very very very very very salty. At least we don't have thyroid problems.

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I don’t think any of those signs are toxic. People perusing them don’t understand them hence the many threads.

Not everyone is designed to crack enigma codes

Y’all ain’t enigmas, y’all just too extra

Not sure you’ve grasped the concept of the word Toxic 🙄 let alone to try to even explain anything else.
Are you the type that requires instruction manuals for everything i.e if you had a baby it would de-stabilise your thinking cos it didn’t come with an ikea manual 😂

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I don’t think any of those signs are toxic. People pursuing them don’t understand them hence the many threads.

Something must definitely be wrong with them if they’re not able to be understood in a big number. Did the “Cancer man left me” thread get deleted?!

The signs you have listed are hard work, and it’s takes a while with them. Would I ever wait around for them no, but some women want a challenge. So they think they are being clever by scoping out their birth-chart and unravelling them, it speaks more about the person who is pursuing them... not the subject.

The fact you mentioned Virgo men, how you don’t know anything about them tells me your not the brightest of spark.

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I'm in relationship with a Scorp and it's smoothly. We're both water signs so we need our space. I think when you don't understand eachothers (love)language, any sign can be considered toxic.

What kind of scorp do you have yourself and how long have you two been together? Honestly I personally think water signs are the BEST for Scorpio and Cancer men. No other sign deserves to have to suffer with them lol. I believe water signs can set them straight the best if anyone can. Water signs and Geminis should take the Tauruses too.

No.

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Agree with Taurus. As much as I like some of them, they're absolute horrors in relationships by my experience. The worst case was a Taurus in the forces that my bestie met on the rebound. This guy was so controlling that he nearly raged out when a friend and I were playing ping pong "the wrong way", despite the fact that we were on a binge weekend doing whatever we wanted and only invited him as courtesy of having been alongside our friend.

I had to warn her that I was very likely to kill him in the near future, if she started going off the radar due to his wishes.

Also noticed that a lot of the domestic abuse cases I've had to review at work had Taurus men as the perpetrator.

Were there any other signs that stood out? And what about when it came to any female abusers?

Not quite. I mainly picked Taurus because it's the only pattern where I realized their patterns/MO were consistent with other Taureans. Pisces men could be a runner up though.

Where the toxic version of taurus men use accusations, possessions and guilt-tripping, toxic pisces men will play mind games and emotional manipulation to keep the partner stranded in their small world.

For women, I'd say Scorpio or Cancer.
Cancer when toxic, is the worst perpetrator. Cancer will do butterty things and gaslight the treetrunk out of the partner and try to convince the partner that they (the cancer) have been the only victim.

Scorpio is only mentioned because I do not agree with the type of partner that expects everything and only wants to offer crumbs on the trust spectrum, while often playing games to constantly testing the partner. It's far from as damaging as other forms of abuse, but it's still abusive.

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This oddly sounds/feels romantic to me

In what way?
Tell me.

You're a Pisces aren't you. The guy here is a Pisces too..

Just the two couples in their own relationships having their own set of problems, but finding love and solace in each other. I mean yes it's cheating, but they're happy together. It's kind of like seeing the other side of a story because you always see views of the other side. The side that is being cheated and fed up or not complacent.

have you not seen Lost In Translation? It's basically what re-started off this whole genre

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Posted by rabidtalker
cancer male here (with pisces moon, leo rising, leo venus, aries mars)

some of my best friends and worst enemies have been taurus, cancer and scorpios but the best relationships, non-romantic and romantic have been with taurus, cancer and scorpio. I desire to end up with a taurus one day, maybe...based on a relationship i've had with one with a capricorn moon. One of my best female friends is a cancer with a virgo moon. scorps are the only ones who have been enemies with me, mostly before I even realize it to be the case. Some of my best friendships have also been with scorps.

Posted by Marai
I'm in relationship with a Scorp and it's smoothly. We're both water signs so we need our space. I think when you don't understand eachothers (love)language, any sign can be considered toxic.

Posted by jeane
i like to think i have a positive and healthy relationship with a taurus. they are not all bad!

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All the functional relationships are too busy having sex.

Pls tiziani. This is a very big misconception. Sex is no where near the main determinant of a functional, healthy relationship. In fact, it’s the sex that gets these people to post about their toxic relationships as if that’s the only thing they stay for in the relationships !

No! He is right!
After my marriage I can spot couple who have sex and who don’t.
And if you will underestimate importance if sex in your rship - it’s doomed!

going to reference dr phil here so a tonne of salt is needed here but he spouts that when a relationship is good, sex plays a 10% role. when it is not, sex becomes 90% of the issue.

here it is

MYTH #7: A GREAT RELATIONSHIP HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH SEX
The belief that sex is not important is a dangerous and intimacy-eroding myth. Sex provides an important time-out from the pressures of our daily lives and allows us to experience a quality level of closeness, vulnerability and sharing with our partners.
Sex might not be everything but it registers higher (90 percent) on the "importance scale" if it's a source of frustration in your relationship. If your sex life is unfulfilled, it becomes a gigantic issue. On the other hand, couples that have satisfying sex lives rate sex at only 10 percent on the "importance scale."
Don't restrict your thinking by considering sex to be something that only consists of the actual physical act. Touching, caressing, holding hands and any means by which you provide physical comfort to your partner can all be viewed as part of a fulfilling sex life.

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Posted by virgoOPPP
i'm scared of cancer and taurus men

Posted by ElvisStalinWoods
Agree with Taurus. As much as I like some of them, they're absolute horrors in relationships by my experience. The worst case was a Taurus in the forces that my bestie met on the rebound. This guy was so controlling that he nearly raged out when a friend and I were playing ping pong "the wrong way", despite the fact that we were on a binge weekend doing whatever we wanted and only invited him as courtesy of having been alongside our friend.

I had to warn her that I was very likely to kill him in the near future, if she started going off the radar due to his wishes.

Also noticed that a lot of the domestic abuse cases I've had to review at work had Taurus men as the perpetrator.

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Posted by Isolde
I don’t think any of those signs are toxic. People perusing them don’t understand them hence the many threads.

Not everyone is designed to crack enigma codes

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