SassyKiwi

Posted by tiziani

Posted by SassyKiwi

Posted by tiziani
All the functional relationships are too busy having sex.

Pls tiziani. This is a very big misconception. Sex is no where near the main determinant of a functional, healthy relationship. In fact, it’s the sex that gets these people to post about their toxic relationships as if that’s the only thing they stay for in the relationships !

the only relationship formula that’s ever held up over time is that couples who have sex more than they argue stay together.

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Sure that sounds like an ideal place to be. Maybe it’s just me but I don’t hold sex up on such a high pedestal. There’s so much else in life and a companionship to explore alongside sex.

Posted by tiziani
All the functional relationships are too busy having sex.

Pls tiziani. This is a very big misconception. Sex is no where near the main determinant of a functional, healthy relationship. In fact, it’s the sex that gets these people to post about their toxic relationships as if that’s the only thing they stay for in the relationships !

Posted by _Dazed

Posted by SassyKiwi

Posted by _Dazed

Posted by SassyKiwi

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The relationship I have with myself is pretty healthy.

I’m sure it is sweetie

Why the condescending attitude?

It’s only condescending if you choose to take it that way

Either that or it’s just people in your dxp ‘inner circle’ only allowed to respond to you in a joking or sarcastic humorous tone without your panties getting in a bunch

The point of my comment is that before you can have a healthy relationship with anyone else, regardless of sign.. you must first have a healthy relationship with yourself. This is something most dxp users don't have.

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I appreciate you elaborating your initial post. I agree with that. As much as there’s so much dislike for Geminis, I was surprised to find a lot of users on here married to male ones moreso than other signs. That’s why I’m curious for anyone to share any positive experiences with the signs above who are not the signs & a male themselves ya feel?

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Posted by SassyKiwi

Posted by _Dazed
The relationship I have with myself is pretty healthy.

I’m sure it is sweetie

Why the condescending attitude?

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It’s only condescending if you choose to take it that way

Either that or it’s just people in your dxp ‘inner circle’ only allowed to respond to you in a joking or sarcastic humorous tone without your panties getting in a bunch

Posted by _Dazed
The relationship I have with myself is pretty healthy.

I’m sure it is sweetie

Most occurrence of these sign men based on the toxic relationship threads on here. Anyone like to share any POSITIVE, HEALTHY relationship experiences with the sign of these men?

More dets from her other thread...

Posted by pooface222
Hi Ladies..

I'm just wondering how far you would go to make a guy yours.?

I met a guy a long time ago who wanted to leave his partner for me. And I wanted to leave mine for him.
It never happened.

I've discussed this before a while back but from a very different perspective to this.

Now this guy sat around in his relationship with his partner, waiting for Me to leave my husband first.
Its a long story but I'll keep it short.

He was divorced, had a lump sum, etc but was in a rship with a woman for years and now wanted to leave her for me.
However this would require me getting divorced, selling my house and all that hassle and stress, plus getting a 2nd job to pay my own mortgage etc.

This guy was already living in his partners house. She was divorced and had her own place and when they met, he moved in.

Anyway..he wanted me to get a place of my own, so that he could then move in with me.
He didn't say this literally, but the mild implications he made, told me.
Any suggestions I made for him leaving his partner first, was met with excuses galore.
He just wanted to carry on seeing me (cheating), while I leave first.

My suggestion was that he stops cheating, gets a flat, either rented or bought, so that he - and I - are no longer cheating.

He waited for me to leave.
I waited for him to leave.
Neither one of us left.
So..nothing happened.

He got insecure because he felt I didht love him.

Uh wtf is this. He is just looking for the next cookiemonster to be his sugar mama that takes him in which is why he wasn’t taking any initiative to move out first. Guess the last lady finally came to her senses and kicked him out therefore now he’s moved in with his son.

He’s a complete dead beat with nothing but empty words and you want to go all out for him?!

You must really want to end up living in misery.

Posted by GODZ

Posted by SassyKiwi
1. Libra men - bias bc hubs
2. Pisces men
Wish I could put all these rest as 12s:
3. Sagittarius men
4. Aquarius men
5. Virgo men
6. Leo men
7. Scorpio men
8. Taurus men
9. Aries men
10. Gemini men
11. Cancer men
12. Capricorn men - bc of people like you smol

come on

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Control your people godz

Posted by GemiAwesomeAss

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Posted by LadyNeptune

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Welcome back gemitati

Thanks. I couldn’t live without you any longer...😭

Your struggles are over

Why? Are you married? Or at least engaged? You know that’s all I am looking for...

Still heterosexual here so you'll have to find some other female.

But dear...while you e tried to be funny - I’ve got all of my answers. You aren’t even engaged so marriage question is dismissed. I am however curious if that freedom lover your insufficient money making bf had been replaced yet...

Do you require the men you associate with to be decent or high income earners?

I am that type of an idiot - if I like the man - I’ll pay...that’s the best I can describe how much I don’t care about financial of the man.
There is more to it but I am trying answer shortly.

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Oh I want to know the long answer. That’s actually very interesting to me from women your age. How do you determine they don’t end up financially using you?

Posted by GemiAwesomeAss

Posted by SassyKiwi
1. Libra men - bias bc hubs
2. Pisces men
Wish I could put all these rest as 12s:
3. Sagittarius men
4. Aquarius men
5. Virgo men
6. Leo men
7. Scorpio men
8. Taurus men
9. Aries men
10. Gemini men
11. Cancer men
12. Capricorn men - bc of people like you smol

Don’t you loooove these stupid pointless games?

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Ya that’s why they receive petty response

1. Libra men - bias bc hubs
2. Pisces men
Wish I could put all these rest as 12s:
3. Sagittarius men
4. Aquarius men
5. Virgo men
6. Leo men
7. Scorpio men
8. Taurus men
9. Aries men
10. Gemini men
11. Cancer men
12. Capricorn men - bc of people like you smol

Posted by WitchmitchAries

Posted by SassyKiwi
5 pages later still no examples of what context he used it in. For instance, share parts of the text conversations you guys have.. ex:

Me: It took me a whole 30 mins to get over my fear of insects to clean up a dead bee by my window
Him: Oh you silly woman

Give us something to work with here

you just want juice details. the men have said why they would call a woman silly. That is all i needed. I was more curious then anything. Here the thing if he is not willing to tell me why he calls me silly i will never know. I can guess all i want to but still not know the truth. The only way to know for sure is for him to say it in front of me and i read is body language. this is just a question like i ask you "Why would you call a guy 'Cute"?

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Ya I do want the juice. Honestly some of these simple thread topics just baffle me. Like people are trying to understand if a guy calling them silly is a good or bad thing? Really? Does he not have any other redeeming qualities to make you overlook this for instance y’kno? Anyway the guy so far seems like a weird texter. Maybe he’s just textually awkward. I personally used to judge men on the way they carried conversations through text. I personally think it can say a lot about a person. A lot of times it’s easier to say certain things through text than in person to their face hence it can be a way to get different insight on people.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

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Posted by LadyNeptune
Welcome back gemitati

Thanks. I couldn’t live without you any longer...😭

Your struggles are over

Why? Are you married? Or at least engaged? You know that’s all I am looking for...

Still heterosexual here so you'll have to find some other female.

But dear...while you e tried to be funny - I’ve got all of my answers. You aren’t even engaged so marriage question is dismissed. I am however curious if that freedom lover your insufficient money making bf had been replaced yet...

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Do you require the men you associate with to be decent or high income earners?

5 pages later still no examples of what context he used it in. For instance, share parts of the text conversations you guys have.. ex:

Me: It took me a whole 30 mins to get over my fear of insects to clean up a dead bee by my window
Him: Oh you silly woman

Give us something to work with here

I want to start off by saying it’s actually kind of really crazy how strong your Leo moon comes off when you speak irl (your text posts come off more dampened). If I learned anything from being on dxp, it’s that Leo moon men are extremely prideful, attention seeking and outward than their Leo sun counterparts. I can’t even name a single male Leo sun on here from the top of my head but I can name you more Leo moon male users on here than any other placement because you guys are loud AF. It’s like yalls existence is based on making your presence be heard loud and clear. It’s always been fascinating to me how females with Leo moons are often more tame/subtle than the males here except for our resident CC of course. Btw all this is coming from someone who has significant Leo placements herself. Just a very fascinating observation reaffirmed by this thread.

^ That was my initial reaction after listening to like the first audio lol. I did go through the others. Good for you if you feel like you have grown and matured from your life experiences. Unfortunately I know plenty of people well in their 50s/60s/70s who are still straight up unevolved humans much less scorpios. Age does not always correlate with maturity (is very blatant in America right now).

Btw what house is your moon and sun in?

Granma! Hai! What’s the scorpie want this time?

Oh my wall of texts

First of all he caught feels. Second of all he sounds very posessive and insecure when you guys aren’t even a thing

Very bad red flags, don’t waste further time on him

And the whole icing you out on social media thing, blocking you and then later texting you stupid stuff screams immaturity

You come off more Aqua than him. He probably has cancer placements or something. He’s a broken man

If it’s a guy and he has a leo moon, I’m gonna have to advise you to run regardless of what his mars is ok

Eloping is for chums. Make the guy’s wallet bleed!

It’s a very bad thing. It means you naughty