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Posted by akitu
How does affection make you feel? Have you ever been wrong? š answers in a vocaroo please
https://voca.ro/nYLQkG99hEjPosted by 40Caliber
I don't know if it's a Scorpio thing so much is a guy thing. Some men don't waste their time, some take forever. When somebody asked me to be their friend first, I really have to like you beforehand otherwise I tell you go get a dog.
Maybe I wanted him to be my human puppy š„ŗ Anyway, he got married recently at age 26. So yeah he was probably serious and looking for his future waifu.- Long ago there was this one scorpio man who Iād constantly randomly vibe with, who Iād kind of crush on from the shadows. It was crazy when he reciprocated the feelings to me openly one day. However I then shortly found out some shady butter about him and pushed him away right away but my feelings for him lingered long into the following year. Some part of me ached to reach out to him out of the blue. After I did I found out he also still had lingering feelings for me all that time! It was a very cheesy short lived emotionally high love story. However he was taking things way to fast for my Aqua energy. I really wanted to be his friend first and get to know him more. When I let him know that he became very hurt and told me he doesnāt need anymore friends... and then he randomly revealed some vulnerable heartbreaking things about himself and then blocked me forever. I suspected he had an Aqua moon. Anyway, why couldnāt he handle my offer to be friends first? I really wanted to be his friend.
Posted by Devil
Less annoying than adults imo.
ABSOLUTELY. When Iām stuck in an environment outside my home where Iām forced to interact with some of the most vile adults or vile kids, I will always choose the vile kids.Posted by ArilovesAqu
Aquas are so petty honestly š¤£ my aqua coworker has been holding a grudge against a cap coworker for literally 8 years. butter is exhausting
Maybe the ones with other weird emotionally trigged placements but as an Aqua Iād rather treat someone as not existing to me period than ever find them worthy enough to hold a grudge against.Posted by Black-Mamba
do what most Americans do with their kids, give her drugs until she's a lifeless robot
That is actually very dark. Iād actually feel extremely bad if I guided an youth astray. Besides with time theyāll eventually do it themselves.
Idk itās all so very conflicting!! They make my blood boil but theyāre also so emotionally manipulting with their cute and sweetness it just HURTS MY HEAD!!Posted by FactCheck
Dont give it sugar. Give it youtube.
IT doesnāt even need sugar to be hyper!!! I personally think constant technology like ipads and TVs in front of their faces at that age is really bad for them but I understand why parents do it, itās like a free nanny.- I donāt know why my desire to have so many children in the future is so strong when I canāt even tolerate my husbandās 4 year old niece. Sure sheās cute and says all the adorable right things like Iām her favorite princess. She even bullies my husband which comes in handy when he annoys me. But goodness she can get so freaking clingy. I will be in the bathroom and she will bang the door with all her heart out waiting for me to come out. LIKE CHILL IāM NOT EVEN YOUR MOM. I become a sloth when I come home from work and just cannot bother to keep up with her energy that could freaking fuel a space shuttle.
I grew up in a small family with not much exposure to baby cousins and babies in general which is why I crave to have a big family of my own one day but Iām starting to think I just find babies between 3 - 12 months cute and everything that comes before and after that just requires inhumane amounts of tolerance.
Can we not use small children as a renewable source of energy? I get the whole no child labor thing but they truly do need an outlet and we could really use it to our advantage. Maybe like a ball pit that absorbs their energies? - Can someone explain why most of the model looking guys are broke? I think they really think their looks are their best asset therefore they donāt feel motivated to work hard in other areas. To me, the average financially successful person is either average looking or below average.
- Um that sounds like an abnormal Aqua with lots of Gemini, Pisces or Cancer placements prob.
- You ready to drop $ 50k for a wedding? Where do yaāll wanna go for the honeymoon?! Either get that stuff out of the way before a newborn or wait until sheās cute enough to walk and be a flower girl. Gotta time it all right for aesthetics.
- As a fixed sign I despise mutables the most followed by half the cardinals and then on average tolerate other fixed signs the most.
Posted by Tenpxd
Posted by saggurl88
Well what actually happened? How are you gonna create this but not tell the scoop?! šššš
I tried to ruin what I have with my virg when my sag started looking for me. I know virg is good to me and I know sag is selfish and I am good to both when I should stick to my virg yeah sounds complicated lolclick to expand
āand I am good to bothā oh you child... some people need to learn things the hard way in life. It isnāt complicated nor does it make you complicated, you are just all over the place and need to sort out your priorities. Clearly a stable monogamous relationship is not up there for you.Posted by HippeeGem
Ok here goes. This was my day, lol. I was at work by 5 am today. My kids usually manage to get themselves up for school without me. My 20 year old Aries was off work today. Pisces daughter is the last to leave at 7:30.
She was upstairs getting ready, and my 16 year old Taurus overslept and missed the bus.
She heard him yelling at my Aries to wake up there's a fire. She ran downstairs and my Aries was in her room, and yelled at her to get the fire extinguisher.
I wasn't homes but apparently she had a lot of things plugged into one outlet including a space heater, and it caught a big stuffed animal on fire, and they said it was higher than her bed right next to it, about 4 feet high.
The rug is destroyed in they spot, part of the wall is black, but they contained it quickly, thankfully.
So my problem is, no one freaking called me ar work to tell me what happened.
And I'm also having major anxiety thinking about this all day (since I got home at 3 pm and finally learned about it), knowing how close we came to actual devastation. It was right next to my daughter's bed. What if this happened at 3 am while everyone was asleep? What if my Taurus didn't miss the bus to hear the smoke alarm the Aries was sleeping through and my Pisces didnt hear because she was blow drying her hair upstairs?
I'm mentally drained from what could've happened and this scared the butter out of me.
I'm proud of my kids for handling it well, the Aries tried getting it out with a pillow, he said he went into fight or flight mode, and now he has a burn on his arm :/ Then he used the fire extinguisher to get it out.
So part of my problem can't be solved. Things happen and I'm just a tight wound ball of anxiety right now, but also really relieved this didn't happen when we all weren't home, which happens a lot, or when they were asleep.
But my problem is, they didn't even call me at work. I got one text at 1 pm saying there was an incident, when will you be home mom? And that was it.
I'm just shaken up honestly. Idk what my question is. I want them to let me know what the hell is going on always.
And right now they're all just laughing and playing a game together like this wasnt a scary as all hell day. I dont get it? I'm so relieved but seriously not ok.
That was a real close call, please have your kids make sure they remove unused electronics before they go to sleep because overbearing the outlets is so hazardous. Maybe they didnāt want to tell you because they were worried youād get upset or theyād get in trouble plus they thought they were able to handle it well. Maybe make it clear to them that next time no matter what happens under your roof to inform you as soon as they've handled it instead of later. They could also just be growing up and feel they don't need to let their mom in on everything and give her that extra stress even though I think that's something pretty serious. Kids bounce back from those things, their time to stress will come soon enough when they walk out into the adult world and become parents themselves :p I hope you hugged them and lectured them about taking the appropriate fire safety precautions when you got home.Posted by virgoOPPP
blind loyalty is dumb asf.
it should be conditional and mutual.
suspending your own personal intellectual judgement in pre-favor of someone else's. the stuff of religion, cults and group crimes. sad, abusive, dangerous and irresponsible drones. practiced by drones who don't ever wanna meet themselves. just wanting to be codependent with others. that they can only identify themselves through another person or a group. how is this a virtue? basically to stop thinking and questioning is what makes a viRtUe. literally turning off your brain and not critically thinking is a viRtUe.
know what's better without conditions?
inteGRITy.
can't be earned and comes from an individual's natural inner belief and purpose.
I think there are other things wrong with a person capable of blind loyalty like how they were brought up and any traumas they experienced or social conditioning (ex: people who fight for terror groups are trained from a very young age so thatās all they understand in life).Posted by sagaciouscorp
Posted by SassyKiwi
Posted by sagaciouscorp
In need to start a detox program per doctors orders. I feel overwhelmed to start plus itās like 300 dollars that I know I will fail
What is the reason behind you needing to start this detox program? From experience none of that short term butter helps for long term. I personally believe there's a natural cure for nearly everything. Tell me the root issue and I'll find you less expensive solutions!
Immunity
I should just incorporate turmeric
Thank you old wise one from behind the curtainclick to expand
Turmeric is really for that! And you should look up hof method shower, itās something you can easily incorporate into your routine. Hereās a quick article giving a general idea of it:
https://www.businessinsider.com/how-to-try-wim-hof-method-cold-exposure-training-2018-1
Also are you getting enough sleep?Posted by jeane
Posted by SassyKiwi
Posted by jeane
Is there a way for me to know if my in laws really like me? I think they are pretending to be nice.
Youāre lucky! My in-laws are straight up nasty and open about not liking me (my mil has apron string syndrome). My mil is only fake nice to me in front of others because everyone else adores me. But what is making you think they are pretending? Are they different with you when youāre alone with them vs when youāre with them in front of others?
I'd be more reassured if they were openly nasty to me! Then at least I knew where I stood š.
Same to me if in company or alone. There is lots of family drama going on and my side is firmly chosen. It also happens to be not the side they are on.
I wonder if there is talk behind closed doors about me...actually I know there is talk about me behind closed doors.click to expand
Given a daughter-in-law/son-in-law is a new addition to the family that came from no blood relation, there will always be talks about you behind your back, scrutinizing everything you do or say.
As long as they try to maintain peace even if it's superficial and not do things to pin you and your husband against each other, count yourself very blessed.Posted by LadyLuna20
If a tree falls in the forest and no one is nearby, will a cancer still cry?
Most likely, but for various other reasons.- Oh wow. It was a pisces and gemini involved. Mutables...
Posted by Black-Mamba
your advice to me was dumb and not helpful at all. You're 25 years old right. This is why I wonder why I even bothered to play.
All you did was criticize me and try to belittle me instead of actually giving real advice.
so my advice to you is stop doing things you're not good at, like being a fake therapist.
First of all, I made this thread because I wanted to pass time while I was at work. It was simply for people to drop by with anything they wanted to get off their chest or rant about, I was willing to listen, respond and even converse with them. Simple as that. No literal therapy or counseling butter. This ENTIRE site is based off of people giving each other advice so this is nothing special, idk why you and ladyneptune make it seem like it is lol.
Your advice for me to stop giving advice is unsolicited especially since you find yourself so much better than me to the point where you started your own therapy thread right after being inspired by mine.
Second of all, my response to you came from a personal place since I have strong Leo placements and once struggled with seeking and requiring frequent attention and really did want a dog myself to help with it. If you havenāt noticed, women around your age love having a dog or cat companion so my advice was also pretty generic.
Idk if itās because of your cancer and leo placements but your energy often rubs me wrong. I find you very unnecessarily aggressive and constantly needing to be the center of anything. Yeah sure it can come off humorous, but thatās all it is limited to, another form of cheap entertainment in the dxp world. You do have real mental issues, but at least youāve acknowledged it yourself.
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