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- I don’t think anyone is worth the energy or effort to hate. But there have been people who have gone out of their way to not want well for me because of jealousy or whatever the treetrunk they’re so insecure about. I’ve had to learn to really control myself and ignore it, no matter how much up my face they could get (confronting does not work with them, they’re pathological liars). They’re clearly unhappy/unsatisfied with their lives to bother to continuously come after me even after I give them no responses. I have noticed it enrages some people even more when they get no reactions from you. Clearly their insecurity issues further get fueled or some butter since I treat them as invisible. And I swear some of these people deserve the biggest revenge back at them for the similar butter they’ve done to others in their life. I am actually leaving it up to karma. I believe it’ll manifest in due time.
- They are all butter but Libras definitely have more game than Scorpios 🤣 Mostly cause they're mextrosexual treetrunkers who can easily befriend women without eventually going full creep/psycho. Unless you're a Libra with too much other Libra placements (for some reason this causes mental issues).
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by SassyKiwi
Posted by saggurl88
I never have delusions in dating, usually men start getting frustrated with me because I will be a fwb and never ask where it goes.
The worst thing you can tell me is you want to be fwb. I treat you like the one.
Funny thing, Men feel a certain type of way too when they are being used for sex and I only call them when I want some. I don't even really consider a fwb as relationship material. I treat them the way they want to be treated, like an option.
I can do fwb fine, while I look for a boyfriend. Having one person to have sex with while I date is great. But then they start feeling a certain type of way because I don't want them.
This is why it's important to mean what you say. I will only have a fwb that I'm sexually attracted to, so their real personality doesn't matter to me because I don't call and check up on them, ask them questions, wonder what they're doing anyways.
I keep it as DOD- Dick on Demand
I also turn down people who just want to be fwb when we are already friends, especially if they start acting butthurt by me not calling them. If they are already that hurt, I will hurt them even more by treating them like an option.
A typical Sag doing typical Sag things :p
For me it's easier to stick with one person and not have sex on every date that I go on. They last quite a while, so it works.
Spending 1-2 years doing fwb so I don't have to settle for any old boyfriend, got me to where I am today, in a relationship with the person who was meant for me.click to expand
Women struggle the most with catching feels in fwb relationships but you can keep yourself emotionally detached. That Sag energy totally takes credit.Posted by saggurl88
I never have delusions in dating, usually men start getting frustrated with me because I will be a fwb and never ask where it goes.
The worst thing you can tell me is you want to be fwb. I treat you like the one.
Funny thing, Men feel a certain type of way too when they are being used for sex and I only call them when I want some. I don't even really consider a fwb as relationship material. I treat them the way they want to be treated, like an option.
I can do fwb fine, while I look for a boyfriend. Having one person to have sex with while I date is great. But then they start feeling a certain type of way because I don't want them.
This is why it's important to mean what you say. I will only have a fwb that I'm sexually attracted to, so their real personality doesn't matter to me because I don't call and check up on them, ask them questions, wonder what they're doing anyways.
I keep it as DOD- Dick on Demand
I also turn down people who just want to be fwb when we are already friends, especially if they start acting butthurt by me not calling them. If they are already that hurt, I will hurt them even more by treating them like an option.
A typical Sag doing typical Sag things :p- - Go to the park or exercise
- Online shopping
- Hang out with a friend I need to catch up with
- Start petty fights with internet people The user who posted this message has hidden it.
- Hair masks are messy AF for people with long hair. It would be way more convenient for men with short hair. But don’t ever tell them that… cause once you get them hooked on these things.. they will most likely never go back. Then your expenses on them will double when they could be better spent elsewhere! Plus their hair is always healthier and younger than ours cause they don’t have like 10 year old hair ends like us…
- Lol as someone who’s chart at first glance can come off as emotionally void, I actually like how Pisces can be emotional sponges and all. Sometimes it feels good to have someone to rant to who can really empathize from the core. You should also get pissy at him and see his response, it’s very interesting. I don’t think I would like them at all for long term relationships tho. They can be depressing too when they’re too in their emotions.
Posted by TxOgal
Posted by SassyKiwi
I would not recommend a high maintenance bf
why not?click to expand
I thought it would be self-explanatory lol- I would not recommend a high maintenance bf
- Twin flames is one of the most annoying concepts ever. I prefer kindred spirits.
- I was just thinking about this today. I continuously use it and am grateful for all the results I've received so far. However today I just randomly realized how exhausted I sometimes feel after it which gave me some anxiety because I had the wrong idea that I'm supposed to consistently be positive as much as possible. That's just not practical. It's totally okay to feel down sometimes and still believe in the process and let it do its thing.
Posted by TxOgal
Posted by Hamsthetics
-Overdependent
-Needy
-Lazy
-Hypersensitive
-Insecure/Pessimistic
-Delusional/Escapist
-Moody/Melancholic
-Gullible/Naive
-Over idealistic
-Introvert/Boring
Cap sun Pisces moon
all these don't bother you? I'm surprisedclick to expand
Probably cause he's also describing himself? 🤣Posted by Truemara
Posted by Timone
Posted by SnowBunny726
I've tried doing this before but it's never worked out for me in the end: how do people nowadays handle "dating" multiple people at once and then "picking" the best partner out of all of them? What about just dating one person at a time? If that person doesn't work out, there's always others. But I don't get how people can emotionally invest in more than one person at one time. At least to me, that just means you don't really click very well with any of them and will just settle with the one who gives you the least trouble until someone better comes up.
Like, if you have to date a pool of people and analyze them all to decide on a partner, that just doesn't sound like a natural match. Natural matches would just be automatically made IMO and without this trial and error sort of thing. Just my opinion though.
I agree. I instantly know if the person is someone I would like to see again and then my focus is on that person. I don't understand how people can date multiple people at the same time. I'm finding it hard to even find a connection with one person lol.
That other person might not feel that instant connection to decide to be exclusive in one meeting. Idk I was told this felt too pressuredclick to expand
Exactly.. I see it similar to putting all your eggs in one basket. People today have more options than ever to find a better match versus pre-tech days. I think it makes sense to take advantage of it. So then one questions how do you rake through so many people to find your best match? It comes down to your intentions on what kind of relationship you're seeking to begin with. And just because you're going on a date doesn't mean you need to start emotionally investing yourself from the get go like get a grip of yourself. Do you see them as a potential prospect for what you're ultimately desiring (if it's not marriage or a long term partner then you're kidding no one, you're just trying to pass time). It might be silly but for instance, I always had a unique habit of writing paragraphs for texts cause I'd only text people I'm interested in maybe a few times a day if I'm not meeting them (aqua placements). Condense everything into nice thoughtful paragraphs ya? I like depth. It's a quirk about me. Some people didn't like it and didn't mirror it, I'm glad cause clearly they couldn't handle that about me. Ooh and the ones who mirrored me and replied the same are the ones I clicked with the best. Ended up marrying one of them. Now I also like our short silly texts too because we passed one of the fundamental matches I wanted in my perspective (plus we live together now so I don't have anything to share with him that he can't see). So I think you can easily rake through people when you have certain criterias that people easily either meet or fail within the first few days/weeks/months or so of interactions. If you don't then the world is obviously your oyster and you'll feel overwhelmed. I guess it also boils down to you need to confidently know what you want and what you're looking for and not just leave it up to fate to match you. Going one by one is just too slow... once again you don't need to wait to feel some kind of emotional/chemistry pull. It can be like befriending multiple people instead of looking at it as dating and just going with the one who ticks majority if not all of your criterias (know your limits because nobody's going to wait around for you forever).
Lol I just don't get how people can waste their precious years on someone who ends up not being fit for them simply because they became too emotionally invested. Like I just couldn't do that. Time is too valuable. Invest in someone as much as they invest in it?Posted by SnowBunny726
Posted by SassyKiwi
Posted by SnowBunny726
Posted by ATGR
@snowbunny726 - Yeah, I don’t do that. I don’t think it’s very common to multiple date in Britain. Might be more common with the younger generation.
Definitely more common with the current generation speaking as a Gen Z person myself.
Also Gen Z here, it's obviously more efficient to multi date instead of wasting your precious youth months at a time with each person. Just don't advertise it on social media lol. This should also not be confused with hookup culture #sagpluto
Lol I'm not attacking anyone for multi dating.click to expand
Huh? I literally agreed with your point (kind of even proved it) on whatever I quoted and just added my perspective lol..- CUSTOM BUILD ON OWN PLOT.
Modern contemporary homes.
Posted by SnowBunny726
Posted by ATGR
@snowbunny726 - Yeah, I don’t do that. I don’t think it’s very common to multiple date in Britain. Might be more common with the younger generation.
Definitely more common with the current generation speaking as a Gen Z person myself.click to expand
Also Gen Z here, it's obviously more efficient to multi date instead of wasting your precious youth months at a time with each person. Just don't advertise it on social media lol. This should also not be confused with hookup culture #sagpluto- Scorpio, no ty
- As someone on the opposite spectrum who has a bunch of squares and oppositions and basically no trines, I consider myself fairly blessed. I can be lazy and expect life to hand me things without much effort…
Posted by Reincarnation2
"I've had my fun. I need a good man to settle down with. Don't waste my time."
Wtf you rambling about? I'm married. And unlike your disgusting hypocrite self, my husband and I BOTH saved ourselves for marriage. I can foresee your future spouse use you for money and pop out plenty of babies (future child supports) whilst sleeping with others on the side simply because of your one-sided mentality. You should be scared.
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