SassyKiwi

Posted by TheFalangeReturn

Posted by SassyKiwi
Women can be toxic af to each other

It’s hard to find women to befriend that have masculine energy that is more tolerable

So the feminist sorority is a facade?

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These new age feminists are batbutter crazy. They are too extra.

Women in general as a collective do better than one on one interpersonal relationships I’d say.

Women can be toxic af to each other

It’s hard to find women to befriend that have masculine energy that is more tolerable

I can make it simple for you nubnuts

Either you tolerate someone or you don’t

You also either want to have babies with them or you don’t

And if you do want to have babies with them make sure they also want to have babies with you

If you don’t want to have babies with them but want to keep them around for however long, make sure that’s something they’re cool with too

I don’t think there is much else to it ??

Posted by GenXgem
First time I got married I was only 19. Second time I was 35. Third time I was 40. They say it gets easier with time, bullbutter.

Men get older and balder 😒

Has each marriage taught you something new? Were their reasons for ending the marriages all different or similar?

I really don’t understand why people look down on “settling”? Because ultimately you will end up settling one way or another in life? Whether it’s a man-free, independent cat lady life or to a partner who helps provide for you to some degree... you’re settling for a certain endgame no matter what it is..?? Idk I think people just complicate things and ultimately just have no clue of what they really want in life and are just all over the place. TikTok therapists like to say it all goes back to inner self conflict and childhood/other trauma. Why can’t people just accept there will ALWAYS be something or someone better out there for them? It’s a matter of being content with drawing a line somewhere so you don’t go crazy constantly seeking and seeking because there will NEVER be an end to it... You see it so clearly in consumerism. There is always an upgrade and better model coming out. Are we so enslaved to consumerism that we subconsciously incorporate it to upgrading and changing the people in our lives?

So where is the line drawn between what’s settling and what one’s unrealistically chasing/expecting?

Posted by CoffeeAndCream
Is it leeching tho if that's your son? Children are supposed to take care of their parents. and unfortunatly that burden is going to be even greater with the generation broke retiring right now.

I'm absolutely okay with adult children taking care of their aging parents, which is why it's not something I bother to discuss with my husband. My issue is my mil taking advantage of my husband financially helping her and using his money to help her siblings and daughters who btw have great household incomes themselves.. It makes no sense to me besides her just trying to show "look how much right I have over my son's money." It's just extremely petty and strange to me. Of course I can't say anything about it if my husband doesn't care about where his money goes.. they're all treetrunking very strange. This also happens with my father. He's been the most successful out of his siblings and they've stole so much from him, even his nephews... but he still has a soft spot for them!!

As a married person I'd also go with

- Children
- Family (my parents, sibling and grandma - people who have always gone great lengths for me since I could remember)
- Spouse (people married for decades don't even entirely know their spouse and I'm only at the few years mark)
- Spouse's family (I'd love to put them last esp with a mil who doesn't think twice about serving her son spoiled food but leeches onto him for his money and steals it to give out to her siblings/daughters but for peacekeeping sake they have to be prioritized above friends 🙄)
- Friends

And no I wouldn't expect my son to put me before his spouse when he gets one, I can only hope he respects me and wants to keep me around in his life when he is off on his own. I believe that understanding is a sacrifice you're willing to make in the future when you choose to bring children into this world. I see the opposite firsthand with my Scorpio mil and how she expects to leech onto her son forcefully for the remainder of her life with nothing but spitefulness and entitlement instead of any gratitude.

Ooh yes I've had quite some significant ones

First I would like to give a shout out to my ex Sag who helped severely build up my self esteem, literally went from -2 to 80, unfortunately at the end he ended up becoming too toxic for me

He paved the pathway for me to continuously keep that self esteem of mine high enough. That is so important before considering any kind of romantic relationship with anyone. It'll greatly ensure you don't settle for less than you deserve

Which brings me to what I think I deserve, I want someone who provides for me in nearly most aspects but doesn't touch what I bring in. Maybe that is too idealistic and I like being in a bubble but that's what I want and I'll make sure that's what I get. I don't need their worship or anything, as long as they're faithful and I'm physically attracted to them, I'm good. Then my detached placements can fill in the rest and work on enjoying life in other areas

I believe in always staying fit and good looking for no one other than yourself. Some people like to get too comfortable with their partners and let themselves go. No. I must constantly look great for myself. It keeps your partner on their toes too you feel me. Really aiming for that milf status

Anyway that is what I have come to reason with so far after my significant romantic life encounters by my 20s

Oh also that I don't want to die alone, it's very lonely out there. I believe in at least dying with someone you tolerate that gives you more happy experiences that outweigh the bad cause most people are seriously far from perfect, don't let their outside fool you

And yes my Leo placements like thinking I'm a cute little princess

However I do have moments, especially during 2020 that make me feel like material things are truly useless (like they exhaust me and can cause clutter) and instead life experiences and people you have deep meaningful connections with throughout your life are what truly gives you a quality life. Not just putting that burden on one life partner. I might be a heavy introvert and not know how to express myself to others to create those deep connections easily but I really do crave that and aim to work on that for the remainder of my lifetime

Marrying the “love of your life” 😂 If only life was a Disney movie. If anyone’s being blatantly honest, one is extremely rare in finding AND marrying the love of their life by their 20s/30s out of the average life expectancy of 71. But it’s between those ages that a lot of people have their first marriages. That should tell you most people settle for someone who they think they can reasonably work with in a marriage which I don’t think is a bad thing at all. I’d like to think most people who consider marriage strive to be pragmatic. They most likely understand if they wait too long to find their actual “love of their life” they might have to sacrifice being able to bear children within mother nature’s limits especially if they wish to bring children into a home with parents who are both at the very least committed to each other. These people wanna avoid partaking in that complicated baby mama/baby daddy got a new gf/bf drama. Which brings me to another point, marriage is kind of an overkill unless you have goals of having children or are looking to get some legal benefits. So I strongly believe most people ultimately get married for having a stable structure to bring children into with a reasonably worthy companion.

For me personally, I’m married and in my 20s, sure I’ve had strong feelings for a few guys until now and I really couldn’t define any of them close to “the love of my life” but I currently like my husband and he still has time to potentially become “the love of my life” 😂

Splendid

Posted by dOpehEad
Anywho, its about saving money. Anyone who's had employees knows ya'll steal butter or take more than you need.

This one Scorpio chick stole all my blue pens like wtf man at least leave me ONE

LIL WAIST FAT ASS BITCH TAP IN

TAP TAP TAP IN

Not sure how it'll affect whatever house it transits through but,

"A Great Conjunction represents a time for you to release old habits in order to make way for new ways of doing things. If you aren’t open to change, it can feel uncomfortable. But if you are, you can make incredible progress toward dreams you’ve held onto for a long time. The expansive nature of Jupiter and the structure of Saturn team up to help you accomplish something that may have felt like a reach before but is now totally within your grasp.

For best results, choose a big, juicy goal that’s been calling to you for a while and spend as much time as you can in 2021 working toward it. Since Jupiter and Saturn both have to do with professional achievements, this is great energy to channel toward career success. Whatever you decide to pursue will have Jupiter’s accelerating force to kickstart growth in that area, plus the solid foundation of Saturn to ensure your results are long-lasting. It’s the kind of win your friends want to buy you champagne to celebrate, and it has staying power.

As with everything in the stars, you have to do the work to get the most out of it, but if you buckle down and meet the cosmos halfway, the results are truly magical. If you like, you could also light a purple candle on the day of the conjunction. Purple is Jupiter’s color and will help you maximize the good-natured parts of this alignment."

I am personally planning to start a specific goal that day which I hope to reap its long term benefits of.

Other things people are doing on this day are launching things for their business, investing, etc.

Posted by PinsAndNeedles

Posted by SassyKiwi
It pisses me off how we can send people to space but haven’t figured out creating a device to floss for us so I am still very dissatisfied at how far we’ve came technologically

The waterpik settled as being the best way to flush/floss.

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I have a waterpik that’s been collecting dust as it’s not supposed to replace flossing and it requires similar focus so I just floss since it’s more deep cleaning. Idk man I’m just tired of brushing, flossing and rinsing taking up way too much time on the daily

It pisses me off how we can send people to space but haven’t figured out creating a device to floss for us so I am still very dissatisfied at how far we’ve came technologically

These threads always nauseate me for some reason

Probably because I don’t consider celebrities as humans

It’d be more interesting to discuss the placements of those who participate in such threads as they are probably nauseating as well

I find libra moons more fake than people assume libra suns to be in general. Then when you have way too many libra placements you become cuckoo

Yes because I want to start traveling again asap

But I will also still be wearing my masks and gloves and touching common areas only with napkins until infection rates heavily decline overall

Why is the Gem with a man with kids if she can’t handle this butter. The ex will be in the picture until the day this dude dies cause he decided to bring children into this world with her. She is allowed to have whatever relationship she likes with the extended family of her children. Like how do you go into a relationship with a man with kids and not expect any of this. Is the Gem 19 or something? What a buttershow. I blame the OP for all this. He probably loves the drama.

Still the same lel