SassyKiwi

Posted by Haruuka

Yes, if I love him, I will be with him and give him every thing .. love and care, I will maybe marry him, but if he cheat on me I will kill him and move on

Imagine if we did a mass genocide of cheaters 😁

Posted by oxSunQueenxo

Posted by SassyKiwi
I don't know what's going on in other threads but hoe men exist because of hoe women. The kitty is more expensive than the peen. The peen is free. These hoe women are emotionlessly giving themselves up easily to men in relationships just for the sake of some cheap thrill and pleasure, their existence encourages not having any respect for themselves, the person they're treetrunking, or the concept of commitment.

To be able to find a man who doesn't easily fall into the hands of the basic hoe woman, they must have strong self-control and morals from the get-go. But also don't lie to yourself, you have to uphold similar values to attract that.

These men aren't that hard to find, but they're also not perfect either, some realize their worth and can put themselves in an annoying pedestal.

I also believe the energy you exert heavily influences what you'll get in return.

But then bad things happen to good people and you realize maybe some people just aren't destined for certain things.

Just never give up your ambitions for a man. You will always regret it. Never lean on another person or relationship to bring you happiness. You have to find a way to be content with yourself first and if it's meant to happen, a good guy will come along and complement your life if you're into marriage or long term commitment (it seems like people are pushing to outdate marriage? Lol idk you new age people are crazy and full of something new every day.)

Explain the bold part... Because based on my observations, it's the women who want commitment and not the men. But I'm curious about your perspective on that.

Everything else you have said, I completely agree with.

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All the bold part means is it's easier for the average woman to get laid than the average man. It's harder to obtain a woman's consent in sex than a man's.

I don't know what's going on in other threads but hoe men exist because of hoe women. The kitty is more expensive than the peen. The peen is free. These hoe women are emotionlessly giving themselves up easily to men in relationships just for the sake of some cheap thrill and pleasure, their existence encourages not having any respect for themselves, the person they're treetrunking, or the concept of commitment.

To be able to find a man who doesn't easily fall into the hands of the basic hoe woman, they must have strong self-control and morals from the get-go. But also don't lie to yourself, you have to uphold similar values to attract that.

These men aren't that hard to find, but they're also not perfect either, some realize their worth and can put themselves in an annoying pedestal.

I also believe the energy you exert heavily influences what you'll get in return.

But then bad things happen to good people and you realize maybe some people just aren't destined for certain things.

Just never give up your ambitions for a man. You will always regret it. Never lean on another person or relationship to bring you happiness. You have to find a way to be content with yourself first and if it's meant to happen, a good guy will come along and complement your life if you're into marriage or long term commitment (it seems like people are pushing to outdate marriage? Lol idk you new age people are crazy and full of something new every day.)

No but I think it roots from a lack of self-fulfillment. Write down all your smallest and craziest goals and dreams and start crossing them off one by one. Or list all your fears and start going after them one by one.

An aries woman and 4 guys, 2 cap, 1 taurus, and 1 leo were in a huge poly relationship

Posted by UnusualVaginalDischarge

Posted by SassyKiwi
Uvd chica just get a pet goat

They're very fulfilling

Do you have one?

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No, but I want one 😞

I was told I looked better without makeup repeatedly overtime. Now I don't know if he was using reverse psychology on me and reinforcement to get me to stop but it worked

Stay woke and don't get mindtreetrunked

Do what you want

Celebrities aren't people you fool

Uvd chica just get a pet goat

They're very fulfilling

"Innocent" "Classy" "Non-westernized"

Did y'all get a good look in the mirror before typing those?

Posted by Shadowcat
Also the answer to your question would be because of how the media and our culture portrays masculinity

Please elaborate.

Posted by OneKnight
An angry woman in the house also drains man's energy.
I prefer to date than having one in the house now.

You men failed to cure our PMS so stfu

Posted by meraki

Posted by SassyKiwi

Posted by tiziani

Posted by SassyKiwi
what kind of people you'd find if you went outside and collected 100 random males and 100 random females, the reality and fact is the women would be more successful than the male.

Where did you find this?

When I say successful, it's very ambiguous, not just income, factoring in education, achievements, etc.

https://www.cnbc.com/2017/10/20/young-women-are-better-than-men-at-adulting-in-every-way-except-one.html

http://www.genfkd.org/women-climbing-economic-ladder-better-men

I'm sure you can find more stuff if you looked.

P.S. THIS ISN'T ABOUT ANYONE ABOVE 32. Pls keep that in mind, this is about the generation that's in the process of being the future. The women are rapidly catching up and outperforming their male counterparts. It's beautiful but I want to understand why guys in my generation are lagging.

How is that beautiful? Lol, if anything it's vile.

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It's beautiful because back then women had to marry into money, now they don't have to depend on a man, which they're making it easy to do anyway by not being much efficient these new generations.

Posted by meraki
The "War" on boys/men.

I'm mostly kidding, but this world jst doesn't give af about producing good men.
You need strong men to build strong men and it's a viscous cycle when it's the other way around.

Definitely. I'm sure there's a big correlation on inspiring/quality fathers with the decline.

Posted by Taniwha
You just notice the women because they stand out more, are young and sassy and flaunt it. The Men are grinding away and it takes a while for them stand out against all the older Men.

Maybe so.

And yes, if we personalized this topic, our social class would have a big impact on how we perceived all this. I am constantly surrounded by people who's children are pursuing degrees in the sciences, medicine, and law and aiming for six figure jobs. Personally among that I see the women more ambitious than the men (like the sisters doing better than their brothers) and always wondered what was up with that.

Posted by tiziani

Posted by SassyKiwi
what kind of people you'd find if you went outside and collected 100 random males and 100 random females, the reality and fact is the women would be more successful than the male.

Where did you find this?

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When I say successful, it's very ambiguous, not just income, factoring in education, achievements, etc.

https://www.cnbc.com/2017/10/20/young-women-are-better-than-men-at-adulting-in-every-way-except-one.html

http://www.genfkd.org/women-climbing-economic-ladder-better-men

I'm sure you can find more stuff if you looked.

P.S. THIS ISN'T ABOUT ANYONE ABOVE 32. Pls keep that in mind, this is about the generation that's in the process of being the future. The women are rapidly catching up and outperforming their male counterparts. It's beautiful but I want to understand why guys in my generation are lagging.

Posted by nikkistar

Posted by SassyKiwi



The answer is video games and porn. *slow clap*

BULLbutter

I am a Finance Manager and make a very good income. I have a 12 year old son, that has a busy wrestling schedule. Make time for my boyfriend. And push myself to the limits.

I also play League of Legends every night, along with a hefty Steam library. I have played PC games RELIGIOUSLY for the last 15+ years. I use it for stress relief purposes. It allows me to to decompress from life, and adulting.

I also watch porn.

Bullbutter. This is like those idiots that say "Video games made so-and-so kill that person".

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The last part was not the point of my post and there for lols, it was the first thing I clicked when I decided to see what Google had to say.

The point was not to personalize my post. If I personalized it I could say my last ex is currently 26 and made $ 135k last year. But he's literally the youngest guy at his firm. All his co-workers were from their late 30s and up. He was an example of someone super ambitious and rare among *my generation*. He was no where near the average guy of my generation.

The discussion is about the average population... what kind of people you'd find if you went outside and collected 100 random males and 100 random females, the reality and fact is the women would be more successful than the male. Why would that be the case is what I want to hear peoples' opinions on.

Btw aren't you like 40... I'm talking about people aged 20-32 years right at the very moment.

You've achieved success when you're genuinely content from within with who you've always wanted to be or else you'll always be feeling an emptiness.

I'm mostly talking about people within my generation ranging from 20-32 year old these days. I always come across tons of women who are like on their way or are already doctors, engineers, lawyers, other high paying professions while the average guy counterpart to them isn't doing as well nor appears to be in any rush to be as ambitious. Not talking about the rare sprinkles of CEOs and entrepreneurs (within age 20-32..), just among your average random sample of people that you'd collect from like the street or a dating site. Some of these high income earning women are supporting their husbands while they're like stay-at-home dads and it's just so astonishing to me. I'm not a feminist or any new age label and love how women can have this kind of power these days but what the treetrunk are guys doing with their lives? I've literally once gotten rejected over being too ambitious and started dialing back. Once I mention my career and life goals they run for the hills. Because apparently a woman can't be both ambitious and able to raise a family (really makes me wonder the kind of people they've encountered in life). I personally want a doctorates eventually, but I'm not gonna limit my pool of men to just other doctorates since a degree doesn't define much, but some guys seriously get their egos threatened and want someone who makes less or none to them. Why do guys work in such extremities and just not get their butter together in life in general?

I just found this: https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/sax-sex/201606/why-are-boys-now-less-motivated-girls?amp
The answer is video games and porn. *slow clap*

Idk know exactly about cancer suns but I do know about a cancer rising raised by a cancer sun admitting to doing a background check on me and telling me I was clear while I was super tipsy. It was weird when he casually started mentioning details that I never told him yet..