SassyKiwi

This is some heavy butter to wake up to

These threads need to get blacklisted

Does it even matter if someone's going to kiss it all off

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Wtf this thread hurts my nerves

As a finance major I smh

Idc about how much u spend on ur jacket. Car and house price pls?

im already owner, and i use uber

Get urself a mercedes or bmw then we can talk

Wtf r u talking about? You can buy Benz for less than 15k.

They devalue quick

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Depends on how much mileage you are looking at. There's nothing below 10k mileage for less than 30 grand

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Wtf this thread hurts my nerves

As a finance major I smh

Idc about how much u spend on ur jacket. Car and house price pls?

im already owner, and i use uber

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Get urself a mercedes or bmw then we can talk

Wtf this thread hurts my nerves

As a finance major I smh

Idc about how much u spend on ur jacket. Car and house price pls?

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Screw ego boosting, positive threads.

I am repulsed by and completely unfamiliar with aries and gemini energy.

I haven't grown up around much of it nor have attracted it throughout my life.

Can anyone tell me their experiences about Aries Venus?

Lol wow. "Repulsed" is a pretty strong reactions.

Ram Venus...had difficulty calming the ego, which I found annoying. I just blocked it out after a while.

Yeah, it is a strong reaction but it's held very true for me.

I easily get annoyed of aries/ego energy lol for that reason lol.

Lol. I get it. I struggle with Ram energy for the same reason, but I have found it's much more manageable when placed with water placements and less so with fire, air and earth placements. In that order. Perhaps because water signs are so passive, the fire doesn't burn as strong? *shrug* It's almost like I understand where they are coming from a bit better when they do get fired up.

Gem energy on the other hand, I feel you on that. Gem Moon is the worst placement of them all.

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My fire energy gets theirs and can be attracted to it but I don't have Aries energy specifically so there's this different undertone to it that can make me roll my eyes to the back of my head at times and it always gotta do with their ego. But yeah I agree with that order.

Yes there's this... odd, superficial energy to it and I feel it from those with the sun too but I'm surprised at your objectivity to it xD my progressed moon has been in Gemini for a while so I been a psychopath with lots to question for, it's been real fun

Uhm Scorpio, Capricorn, Taurus, or Leo

Dude idk wtf

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Posted by SassyKiwi
Screw ego boosting, positive threads.

I am repulsed by and completely unfamiliar with aries and gemini energy.

I haven't grown up around much of it nor have attracted it throughout my life.

Can anyone tell me their experiences about Aries Venus?

Lol wow. "Repulsed" is a pretty strong reactions.

Ram Venus...had difficulty calming the ego, which I found annoying. I just blocked it out after a while.

Yeah, it is a strong reaction but it's held very true for me.

I easily get annoyed of aries/ego energy lol for that reason lol.

jfc...

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LOL ?

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Posted by SassyKiwi
Screw ego boosting, positive threads.

I am repulsed by and completely unfamiliar with aries and gemini energy.

I haven't grown up around much of it nor have attracted it throughout my life.

Can anyone tell me their experiences about Aries Venus?

Lol wow. "Repulsed" is a pretty strong reactions.

Ram Venus...had difficulty calming the ego, which I found annoying. I just blocked it out after a while.

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Yeah, it is a strong reaction but it's held very true for me.

I easily get annoyed of aries/ego energy lol for that reason lol.

I'm not one who's ever been fazed by what society's been pushing or not but if you wanna wear a bra... wear it. If you don't, don't. Nobody really cares unless they've got some boob fetish or trauma.

There's worse oppression of women in this world today merely for not covering their hair or ankle that disturbs me more.

While I'm all for modesty because I personally find that more attractive and appealing... I think women starting to go topless as a norm would just be going backwards to nethanderal days. Saggy boobs just look funny and scary just as peoples' fat rolls. Hide that ish ty.

Water: Scorpio
Fire: Leo
Air: Aqua
Earth: Cap

Lol almost all fixed.

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"..gentle but magnetic, and his hand was always in my hair or touching my face..." They're all the same jfc.

Stay VERY woke is all I'm going to say. Keep yourself from falling for him until he assures you.

Edit: lol I went through the puppy love and the crying (I'm a very cold person myself) and the clearing all other men/commitment bug too, and dealing with them going distant all within a similar short time frame. It's not worth it. He just wants to sleep with you tbh. Do not expect more.

It's interesting that it can feel so real... he probably did just want to sleep with me. Logically, it makes sense. But it makes me wonder what would be worth it if a man like that isn't. I'm more scared of over-protecting myself than under-protecting anyway. Much more likely to put iron defences up even if I shouldn't.

What happened with the men you mention? They were persuasive? This guy was never very aggressive, especially compared to his peers (I live in a country where the men are very aggressive and masculine). And did they go cold after sex or did you notice it before?

Yeah he made it feel very real. The way he was so gentle, showing concern and attention you just wouldn't think otherwise. He wasn't aggressive at all but he did go completely cold after I wouldn't sleep with him... I went in unaware he was into casual which I don't do. To him there isn't a relationship without sex. And it had only been weeks so that's crazy. I ended up catching the feels regardless so I'm still trying to get over him and it really sucks. I don't think your guy is looking for anything serious either, just keep that in mind. Or just be straight up and talk to him in where he is in life... like if he's looking to settle yet or just still have fun. I keep being told Taurus take time so I guess you should make sure you have all the patience in the world for him if you want him. And let him do the leading and initiating. That'll tell you how he sees you.

I'm sorry

I would just do anything to not feel and yearn for him. I need to like be tranquilized omg

Just remind yourself that he can be easily replaced.

I WISH. I could have the most perfect guy in front of me and not be fazed. I don't fall very easily or often but when I do... It's for years.

Is your venus in a fixed sign?

What about him is appealing?

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I'm blaming the pluto transit conjuncting my venus. Rest of my personal planets are all fixed signs.

Very good question. My friend made me make a pros and cons list on him LOL. She won the argument and he did in fact end up having more cons than pros.

There is nothing appealing about him. Since we're both future law school students currently studying finance with marketing as a minor, that rarity brought us together. I admire his ridiculous willpower and motivation (I've once insinuated him taking adderall LOL). He's coc.ky as hell but it makes me smile. His presence drives me crazy, I just love his energy. And his affections, I got addicted to that real quick. I crave them. He's a health nut and freak which is always appreciated. I never put people on pedestals so I've just been completely appalled at my ability to do that to him. Every time I'm with him, the rest of the world is zoned out... I don't remember anything but him.

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"..gentle but magnetic, and his hand was always in my hair or touching my face..." They're all the same jfc.

Stay VERY woke is all I'm going to say. Keep yourself from falling for him until he assures you.

Edit: lol I went through the puppy love and the crying (I'm a very cold person myself) and the clearing all other men/commitment bug too, and dealing with them going distant all within a similar short time frame. It's not worth it. He just wants to sleep with you tbh. Do not expect more.

It's interesting that it can feel so real... he probably did just want to sleep with me. Logically, it makes sense. But it makes me wonder what would be worth it if a man like that isn't. I'm more scared of over-protecting myself than under-protecting anyway. Much more likely to put iron defences up even if I shouldn't.

What happened with the men you mention? They were persuasive? This guy was never very aggressive, especially compared to his peers (I live in a country where the men are very aggressive and masculine). And did they go cold after sex or did you notice it before?

Yeah he made it feel very real. The way he was so gentle, showing concern and attention you just wouldn't think otherwise. He wasn't aggressive at all but he did go completely cold after I wouldn't sleep with him... I went in unaware he was into casual which I don't do. To him there isn't a relationship without sex. And it had only been weeks so that's crazy. I ended up catching the feels regardless so I'm still trying to get over him and it really sucks. I don't think your guy is looking for anything serious either, just keep that in mind. Or just be straight up and talk to him in where he is in life... like if he's looking to settle yet or just still have fun. I keep being told Taurus take time so I guess you should make sure you have all the patience in the world for him if you want him. And let him do the leading and initiating. That'll tell you how he sees you.

I'm sorry

I would just do anything to not feel and yearn for him. I need to like be tranquilized omg

Just remind yourself that he can be easily replaced.

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I WISH. I could have the most perfect guy in front of me and not be fazed. I don't fall very easily or often but when I do... It's for years.

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Sassy I really want to know more about this man. Cold as in, he didn't write you at all? As in MIA? How many weeks has it been since he backed off? And did you ever talk to him about what he expected from you, or whether he wanted a real relationship or not?

We have class together so he can't really avoid me altogether yet. He does reply when I initiate a text or ask to meet up. But stopped initiating himself after that rejection except to study for an exam. I think guys in college are emotionally retarded so LOL not much you can expect. I'm just mostly mad at my heart for falling hard for him when me and my head have long been over him. It's turned me psychotic. I recently tried cutting things off with him for good for my own well being but him hugging me and trying to kiss my cheek (my lips slipped on his) DOES NOT help. He's well aware of how I feel about him... so the ball's in his court while I try to move on

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"..gentle but magnetic, and his hand was always in my hair or touching my face..." They're all the same jfc.

Stay VERY woke is all I'm going to say. Keep yourself from falling for him until he assures you.

Edit: lol I went through the puppy love and the crying (I'm a very cold person myself) and the clearing all other men/commitment bug too, and dealing with them going distant all within a similar short time frame. It's not worth it. He just wants to sleep with you tbh. Do not expect more.

It's interesting that it can feel so real... he probably did just want to sleep with me. Logically, it makes sense. But it makes me wonder what would be worth it if a man like that isn't. I'm more scared of over-protecting myself than under-protecting anyway. Much more likely to put iron defences up even if I shouldn't.

What happened with the men you mention? They were persuasive? This guy was never very aggressive, especially compared to his peers (I live in a country where the men are very aggressive and masculine). And did they go cold after sex or did you notice it before?

Yeah he made it feel very real. The way he was so gentle, showing concern and attention you just wouldn't think otherwise. He wasn't aggressive at all but he did go completely cold after I wouldn't sleep with him... I went in unaware he was into casual which I don't do. To him there isn't a relationship without sex. And it had only been weeks so that's crazy. I ended up catching the feels regardless so I'm still trying to get over him and it really sucks. I don't think your guy is looking for anything serious either, just keep that in mind. Or just be straight up and talk to him in where he is in life... like if he's looking to settle yet or just still have fun. I keep being told Taurus take time so I guess you should make sure you have all the patience in the world for him if you want him. And let him do the leading and initiating. That'll tell you how he sees you.

I'm sorry

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I would just do anything to not feel and yearn for him. I need to like be tranquilized omg

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Posted by SassyKiwi
"..gentle but magnetic, and his hand was always in my hair or touching my face..." They're all the same jfc.

Stay VERY woke is all I'm going to say. Keep yourself from falling for him until he assures you.

Edit: lol I went through the puppy love and the crying (I'm a very cold person myself) and the clearing all other men/commitment bug too, and dealing with them going distant all within a similar short time frame. It's not worth it. He just wants to sleep with you tbh. Do not expect more.

It's interesting that it can feel so real... he probably did just want to sleep with me. Logically, it makes sense. But it makes me wonder what would be worth it if a man like that isn't. I'm more scared of over-protecting myself than under-protecting anyway. Much more likely to put iron defences up even if I shouldn't.

What happened with the men you mention? They were persuasive? This guy was never very aggressive, especially compared to his peers (I live in a country where the men are very aggressive and masculine). And did they go cold after sex or did you notice it before?

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Yeah he made it feel very real. The way he was so gentle, showing concern and attention you just wouldn't think otherwise. He wasn't aggressive at all but he did go completely cold after I wouldn't sleep with him... I went in unaware he was into casual which I don't do. To him there isn't a relationship without sex. And it had only been weeks so that's crazy. I ended up catching the feels regardless so I'm still trying to get over him and it really sucks. I don't think your guy is looking for anything serious either, just keep that in mind. Or just be straight up and talk to him in where he is in life... like if he's looking to settle yet or just still have fun. I keep being told Taurus take time so I guess you should make sure you have all the patience in the world for him if you want him. And let him do the leading and initiating. That'll tell you how he sees you.

"..gentle but magnetic, and his hand was always in my hair or touching my face..." They're all the same jfc.

Stay VERY woke is all I'm going to say. Keep yourself from falling for him until he assures you.

Edit: lol I went through the puppy love and the crying (I'm a very cold person myself) and the clearing all other men/commitment bug too, and dealing with them going distant all within a similar short time frame. It's not worth it. He just wants to sleep with you tbh. Do not expect more.

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Love is for kitties

.......so says the one with the manliest dog in the world as his/her avatar.

Good going there, sport.

Yes I am a little boy from the village of Nonthaburi. cookiemonster u tryna underestimate ppl who got cuter avi than u

Nonthaburi is in Thailand, not New Zealand, so your nickname is pointless.

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Dude I was joking.

I never claimed to be this:


Or this:


I am this:


You misinterpreted the intentions for my username.

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Brrrrrr. That seems very cold to read. Do you realize that? Is it hard to see because of how obsessed you feel?

That's how I break my obsession. Find ways in which the person isn't an object of worship but just like everyone else. It sounds weird, but you need to humanize them, go looking for their bad qualities. One of the few times Scorpio overanalysis comes in handy. Once they become just as normal as everyone else they won't occupy so much of your mind.

Obsession is often when you love the idea or the way they make you feel more than the person.

Pshhh nah uh

Like every time they say they need to nap I want to be like "I volunteer to be ur body pillow" all for their comfort and enhanced napping experience duh and then when we hug I don't want to let them go ever bc THEY will get cold which nobody would want u know its not a good feeling I am just looking out

What does this whole thing mean?

Me trying to justify my obsession...

I see lol That is very cute, btw

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I know I am very cute ? it's his loss