MLeodrama
joined March 28, 2018
31 years old from Los Angeles, Leo | Sag Rising | Gemini Moon | Virgo Venus
  • MLeodrama
    31 years old from Los Angeles, Leo | Sag Rising | Gemini Moon | Virgo Venus
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    Yes. We like to know we are wanted. We hate chasing if it's not reciprocated. If we notice you don't reciprocate, we pull back and wait to see. Whatever you give a leo, you get back with interest. So the more you give, the more you get back. If you show disinterest, we have the ability to ice you out and make you feel like nothing. We prefer to be even and not doing all the work. We get bored and cbf wasting energy on people who play games.


    Should I reach out first? How long should I wait? I do give him a lot of attention tbh and I usually never do that with anyone. But today our convo was dead! :/


    If you want to talk to him, talk to him. If he's always the one to initiate, he probably needs to know it's not wasted on someone who isn't interested back.


    Nope defintely not one way
    I hit him up asking him what’s wrong. But I tell him how sexy he is all the time lol


    And is he initiating back? If it's going both ways, you don't need to keep tabs. If it's one sided, there might be an issue


    Yes he does and I don’t. Usually he hits me up first, but I always reply and I’m just as excited

    Then you can contact him back too. He likes you so it won't scare him off. He'll let you get closer instead


    I think he is starting to back off so I will too
    👌 single forever
    Life is so good that way


    What happened?


    Nothing. We would usually always talk all throughout the day. Yesterday barely anything. Around night time I told him he likes to take selfies (snap) and he said sorry. Idk he was very very short
    And it was taking him a long to to reply
    Idk just his energy
    So since he is going from giving me a lot of attention to none I’m moving on. Idc ifs it’s just a day. 🤗


    Lol. Maybe the selfie comment bruised his ego. You should text him asking for a selfie of him.


    Idk he didn’t talk to me all day before that, but I think he got a little upset. He said the same thing to me like two hours later when I uploaded one throwback pic lol


    Sometimes the best thing do with Leo is to just ask to be on a call. Once on call, just say you miss him and see what he responds with. Usually it'll melt away all the problems we have for you if you just show us you care and we would just start to spill the beans on what irks us or like start talking normally.

    Don't play games or spoil the relationship by waiting on each other.
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    Leos are direct. I second this, just ask him by calling or meeting in person. Leo's don't usually test you by not talking to you. I don't talk to my partners because I am busy with focusing on my projects or another area that requires my attention but that doesn't lessen my feelings for someone. Also, when a Leo is bored/uncertain of someone we don't talk much and if we're upset sometimes they'll give themselves some space because we can impulsively say something we don't necessarily mean. We do have a flair for the dramatic at times.

    If he's not communicating to your level of expectation, tell him (in a very, very nice way), how frequent you'd like to talk to him. When I'd get crazy busy, I would always make sure I'd call them in the morning or at night before bed. But I never go more than a day, maybe two, without talking to someone I'm romantically interested in.
  • MLeodrama
    31 years old from Los Angeles, Leo | Sag Rising | Gemini Moon | Virgo Venus
    Relationships so far this year have been a fun adventure which may not always have the ending I want. Recently single but enjoying dating life. It's a bittersweet adventure full of life lessons!

    Similar to Moonshine Leo's sentiment of respecting our selves, it seems that this year for me is more about self-love and being worthy of love. By that I mean, walking away from toxic romantic relationships, accepting that it's okay when someone doesn't work out (it's not necessarily your fault), and focusing in on what you NEED than what you WANT. You may want a certain type of person but maybe you might need to be alone for a bit to heal or have some introspection on life. Sometimes it's better to be alone then be with a crappy partner.

    It occurs to you that the male prospects in your available area may not be to your liking but have you ever considered the possibility that people get so hung up on what they particularly want in a partner that they never truly look at people as a whole? As a result, a person never truly had a chance with you or get to know you. Give a few of those "maybes" a yes instead of completely writing them off lol. If that doesn't work out, have you tried MeetUp? There are some awesome groups for hiking, going out to games, art walks, and other hobbies people meetup for that would increase your chances of serendipitous love.

    You're already the best possible woman/wife. Being yourself is the best possible version of you.

    You'll definitely find love because life has a funny way of coming together when you least expect it.

    In the mean time continue on focusing on your passion projects, goals, and big dreams. The rest (i.e. love) will eventually fall into place. Patience dear Leo.
  • MLeodrama
    31 years old from Los Angeles, Leo | Sag Rising | Gemini Moon | Virgo Venus
    1) Aquarius
    2) Sag
    3) Gemini

    Sag and Libra is similar to a Leo and Gemini pairing. Leo will only work if 1) They have placements that soften their ego and dramatic side or 2) Older Leo that's over drama and the ego. As a Leo I have a very close Libra friend and my number 3 in the office is a much trusted Libra. Can't personally speak for romantic pairs though.
  • MLeodrama
    31 years old from Los Angeles, Leo | Sag Rising | Gemini Moon | Virgo Venus
    How did all my fellow Leos weather this recent Mercury Retrograde (March 22nd - April 15th)? A friend of mine this morning was like, "Well the next week or two we're in Retroshade." My friend defines retroshade as wrapping up and resolving any miscommunications or missteps that resulted from the Mercury Retrograde.

    In my case there was relationship miscommunication which led to us going separate ways. Work and traffic were just minor random struggles that were easily cleared up with my teams or addressed by leaving an extra 15-20 mins for LA Traffic.
  • MLeodrama
    31 years old from Los Angeles, Leo | Sag Rising | Gemini Moon | Virgo Venus
    Unnecessary drama.

    Leos will throw people under the bus if they're young/immature or to save face. More mature or true Leos will step up as a leader and accept responsibility/consequences. I do not see an issue with the example where the Leo goes to that clerk's supervisor to inform them of their clerk's error. If that Leo does not directly supervise the clerk, then that Leo has no right to talk to the clerk directly because they do not manage said clerk. It's chain of command and lines of communication.

    The clerk's error resulted in a breakdown of workability with your case in which the Leo informed that clerk's Supervisor. I do not see that as an issue. People take things personally when they shouldn't at work. I think it's more of an issue within your firm or upper management to understand and clearly establish roles, responsibilities and lines of communication. What's even worse is the other Leo fueling the drama by that "too interested in his personal life" comment. There are attention-seeking dramatic Leos and then there are Leos that make excellent leaders. Sadly, your boss may be the former or have a rigid management style . Send your Leo supervisor to my firm, I'll straighten them up right quick lol.
  • MLeodrama
    31 years old from Los Angeles, Leo | Sag Rising | Gemini Moon | Virgo Venus
    Good god please kindly separate into paragraphs. It was reading word vomit. But here are my thoughts on your Leo:

    1) He definitely has FWB/Casual situation or someone like a Gemini he just playfully texts and gets a certain type attention from that may not be anything physical or in the realm of cheating since you two are not exclusive. I haveFWB and borderline friends I harmlessly flirt with but not sleep with.

    2) It's quite a big deal if you meet his friends and plans things around you. It shows that he does care for you more than you think. Just because he gets distant or have periods of being busy doesn't mean he's not into you. It just means we're busy ruling the world. I go on business trips and use to talk to my gf everyday. The minute I do get back from my trip or finish a project deadline for my teams, she's on the top of my list of people I make an effort to spend time with.

    3) Don't say he's bad at communicating. He's going to get all emo over it lol. Maybe say, "Well can you communicate with me by telling me x..." You did ask him questions and he answered them. Whether his answers are to your liking, that's on you. If you don't say anything and honestly speak it into existence, we won't know. We're Leos, not mind readers.

    4) I'm gonna go out on a limb here and assume that during that "3rd month conversation," even though he said he wasn't mentally ready for a relationship yet, he may (in his heart of hearts) have wanted to just hear you say that you wanted one. Instead, you went with half-assed options like, "It's cool to be FWB just let me know so I won't get attached etc." Um we're Leo's we want to be needed and given all the attention in the world. My Sag bestie explained Leos well, "You just want the illusion of being given a choice even though you already know what you want and made the decision." I just think he doesn't want to tip his hand or make his decision known because you haven't shown him a level of commitment or certainty he's waiting for.

    Hmm...but he could possibly still be hurt from his recent relationship and licking some wounds from that. He could be figuring out if it's lust, if he wants another relationship out of loneliness to fill some void after ending one just 2-3 months prior, or if he genuinely does like you enough to dive into another committed relationship.


  • MLeodrama
    31 years old from Los Angeles, Leo | Sag Rising | Gemini Moon | Virgo Venus
    Um I will say no to that romantic pairing unless the have other placements that softens an Aqua.

    I was with an Aqua woman for 3 years and had a few other Aqua exes. It worked for 3 years with one particular Aqua because of my Gemini Moon and Sag Rising kept up with an Aqua's emotional detachment and eccentric intellectual side. Their language of love and how they show affection is not a type most Leos prefer. They have a cold detachment about them you have to accept. They're not caring enough for me or attentive enough like a Virgo/Cancer. Although Aquas make great friends. In the past they've help me brainstorm some visionary ideas/solutions and bring to light a new perspective when it comes to work. My dad and brother are Aquas, love both of them to death but they do sure know how to push your damn buttons.
  • MLeodrama
    31 years old from Los Angeles, Leo | Sag Rising | Gemini Moon | Virgo Venus
    As a fellow Leo, meet her in person and determine what she's truly like. From my Virgo experience with women, Virgos are more in person, intimate, and slow burn types--handle with gentle care and patience because they're within their heads half the time with gears constantly spinning. Writing her the nicest words in the morning AND expecting a "thank you" will not get you anywhere with a Virgo. It occurs to me that your Leo Ego has yet to be humbled and tamed.

    Imagine a lion loudly trampling through a forest and a deer just steering clear of all that ruckus and brashness or just keeping it's distance from afar observing you. The deer is Virgo. You may not have created an environment for her to comfortably come to you, honestly communicate effectively, and let you entirely into her world and train of thought. Get rid of the fluff and keep it simple because she's not with you for fluff or flattery.

    There must still be something your Virgo values because I'm surprised she is still around after having monthly blow-ups. I'm curious as to her placement as well as yours.
  • MLeodrama
    31 years old from Los Angeles, Leo | Sag Rising | Gemini Moon | Virgo Venus
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    People use POF? I browsed it once everyone looked like they drove a late model Mustang and wore Football jerseys to weddings.


    Hard pass.


    I literally just laughed and choked on my tea read this. But so true.

    I prefer Match, Bumble, then Hinge. POF is as bad as Coffee Meets Stale Bagels. Tinder and OkC are flakey-ish people.
  • MLeodrama
    31 years old from Los Angeles, Leo | Sag Rising | Gemini Moon | Virgo Venus
    A young Leo or a scorned Leo can play the butter out of the field. But I wanna say Gemini, Libra, and Sag.
  • MLeodrama
    31 years old from Los Angeles, Leo | Sag Rising | Gemini Moon | Virgo Venus
    Posted by Lioness18881
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    Why have all my pics disappeared when I wish to change my avatar to another, already uploaded pic from my gallery.

    Wtf is wrong with this place? People are paying to gain access to extra features while the basics aren't even functioning correct!


    i managed to upload a pic but only after changing the size ....(smaller) probaj to. mozda ce pomoc!

    btw: dxp-tech can suck my dick



    The problem is that the pics are already uploaded. When I clicked on the 'make profile pic' button under one of the pics they all simply disappeared.

    Oh well DXP will have to manage without my hotness.


    Set it as your cover photo first then make it your profile pic. It's a treetrunking bleep but that's the only way i found to work it
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    Thank god for this! I just figured it out!
  • MLeodrama
    31 years old from Los Angeles, Leo | Sag Rising | Gemini Moon | Virgo Venus
    I dated a Sag twice and my best friend is a Sag. Hmm, I think Sags have this sense of wanderlust or just living and experiencing life to the fullest that may turn into an itch if unaddressed. If your Sag is young (under 27-28) then I think they just haven't made their mind up as to what they want or if they've had their full in seeing the world. It could be their Saturn Return.

    I don't think it's an issue of whether or not your Sag loves you (He does btw). The issue is whether of not your Sag wants this type of relationship and commitment as this moment in their life.

    Maybe they're not ready or the timing is just not quite right. My sag best friend broke up with her bf of 8 years because she painfully realized she wasn't ready to settle down yet or move to NYC for him. Four Years later she looks back at it as a beautiful time she had with someone that she was not ready for. Dear Leo, I'm sad to say but I don't think you have a say in this matter. It's really up to him and whether or not you have the patience to let him figure out what he truly wants, if you're his end game. I do think you have a fighting chance but I think this sag may be a long-game (it's not something that quickly resolves itself).

    My advice is to continue to be loving, to show support, and just be there for them.But before all that, have an honest conversation in person with your sag.



  • MLeodrama
    31 years old from Los Angeles, Leo | Sag Rising | Gemini Moon | Virgo Venus
    I read the Leo FAQ and it referenced the 3 stages Leos mature. Wondering what stage fellow Leos currently see themselves in??? I'm 31 and in between the Lion and Sphinx. I've had my share of a few heartaches and missteps that truly humbled me and kept that ego/arrogance in check.
  • MLeodrama
    31 years old from Los Angeles, Leo | Sag Rising | Gemini Moon | Virgo Venus
    I'm a Leo with a Gemini Moon and generally get along so well with Geminis except when they're indecisive. I dated two Geminis, I remember one time my ex was upset at something but waited until the next morning to tell me because she was all in her head about it rather than communicating. But once they do decide and communicate...was it a real butter-storm lol. Gems can fuel a fire but with equal measure they also have the ability to put out a fire.
  • MLeodrama
    31 years old from Los Angeles, Leo | Sag Rising | Gemini Moon | Virgo Venus
    Even when you want to be upset with a Virgo, 90% of the time you have no right to be upset because they have logically thought everything out (as well as every response) and at the end of the day, underneath all that over analytical craziness, you do realize they are truly the caring, nurturing and healing type of sign.

    I'm a Leo and had my fair share of 3 or 4 Virgo exes. Somehow Virgos and Geminis are the only signs I have ever considered getting back together with. Which is even more upsetting because you can't even get back together with them if they were the ones who did the dumping, they'll come back on their own terms. I had a Virgo ex email me a year to 18 months later to reconnect for a little while then disappear again.

    TL;DR
    1) You can't even get upset at a Virgo because they have a PowerPoint presentation and response for everything.
    2) They care so much in their own way that you can't help but get quickly over what made you upset at them in the first place.
    3) You have no say when you get dumped by them or have any idea when they'll decide to come back into your life as a friend or more.
  • MLeodrama
    31 years old from Los Angeles, Leo | Sag Rising | Gemini Moon | Virgo Venus
    It depends on your age and experience. I use to be social and over book myself with friends and events to keep myself bus--out of sight, out of mind. But as I got older you take care of yourself, exercise daily, meditate, eat well focus on a project at work, or pick up a new hobby. Once you accept that a future with someone no longer available as a possibility, only then can you move on. Regardless of the reasons or stories you tell yourself why it didn't work out, just live in the present.
  • MLeodrama
    31 years old from Los Angeles, Leo | Sag Rising | Gemini Moon | Virgo Venus
    5 most compatible from my experience

    1) Sag
    2) Gemini
    3) Libra
    4) Virgo
    5) Aquarius/Aquarius

    I have yet to date an Aries so I can't speak for that pairing. I can't do Scorpio or Capricorns--Just no. Virgos are so frustrating because they're like an introverted Gemini.