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MLeodrama
joined March 28, 2018
from Leo | Sag Rising | Gemini Moon | Virgo Venus
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    from Leo | Sag Rising | Gemini Moon | Virgo Venus
    Posted by Lioness18881
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    Surprisingly, the Leo's I know are very shy and reserved actually, but draw attention regardless. They also can be extroverted, but only in safe spaces or around people they're comfortable with though generally, they like to keep a low profile.

    Do you think people who don't really know them see them like this or is it because you know them ona deeper level that you see them this way rather than as the stereotype description? click to expand


    Hard to say, but from what I've seen, the Leo's are pretty reserved and quiet around people that don't know them for the most part but will be open to socializing them if approached. Pretty much, you have to be the one to talk to them, they won't initiate. Though most times, the people that don't know them WILL approach them just because of their aura. You always hear, "are they single?" whether it's a guy or girl.

    Thee Leo's are not loud or anything like that, just mostly smiles and good spirits. They'll open up and talk to folks if there's similar interests, and those people will think they're flirting when the Leo's are just making conversation. What's funny however is when they get asked out or what not, the Leo's immediately close off, even if they're attracted to that person. It's a cat and mouse game. When not attracted, they shut off and kinda just leave that situation altogether to go to someone who's close to them. click to expand



    Lol. That's a really good observation. I'm exactly like that but i don't think most people notice why. You must have a really close leo to know that well click to expand


    I don't think Leos are generally loud. I think loud can be confused as being very lively during a conversations/debate or us really enjoying ourselves with others who are close to us that we have known for quite time. We are definitely loud when we throw an occasional Leo fit. Being loud adds flair to our occasional melodramatic fit or upset moodiness resulting from being sensitive/touchy about a critique, advice, or comment.

    I mean ask an Aquarius how loud and dramatic we Leos get when they give their detached opinion/advice when it wasn't even solicited haha. A few Virgos may fall under that category as well if they truly know a Leo well enough lol. click to expand

    True. My roar is big if I'm mad.
    I notice the Aquarians on here hate us. Is that why? click to expand
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    I don't know. But they are our opposites!
  • MLeodrama
    from Leo | Sag Rising | Gemini Moon | Virgo Venus
    Posted by Endless
    Posted by EnvyYi
    I did.

    And since I did that he compliments me every day and texts me about how beautiful I am. He is not back in town and has not asked me out. I do not get it.

    I have that venus, we are slow girl you have no idea, theres two ways to handle that

    wait until he analyze everything and ask you out, could be tomorrow, could be next year

    or be more direct and tell him you want to go out, or plain and simple ask him out, just you take the initiative, he probably will need a little time to think about it too click to expand
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    I completely agree with this Virgo Venus sentiment since I too have Virgo Venus ugh. We're the slow burn type that are so observant of their partners that they're slowly checking off boxes and weighing the scales if you're worth pursuing. God knows when a Virgo Venus finally gets out of being in an analysis paralysis that he finally asks you out.

    It's 2018, be direct and just ask him out. Call him if you do choose to ask him out. Don't ask him via text.

    The Leo and Gemini Moon part of him will probably say yes but Virgo Venus will agree to a date several days or a even week out!

    If he says no, then you have your answer. It may not be the answer you wanted to hear but it's better knowing than wasting your time on someone who's just stuck on texting you. Cut him loose and move on.
  • MLeodrama
    from Leo | Sag Rising | Gemini Moon | Virgo Venus
    Posted by Lioness18881
    Posted by earlorg16
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    Surprisingly, the Leo's I know are very shy and reserved actually, but draw attention regardless. They also can be extroverted, but only in safe spaces or around people they're comfortable with though generally, they like to keep a low profile.

    Do you think people who don't really know them see them like this or is it because you know them ona deeper level that you see them this way rather than as the stereotype description? click to expand


    Hard to say, but from what I've seen, the Leo's are pretty reserved and quiet around people that don't know them for the most part but will be open to socializing them if approached. Pretty much, you have to be the one to talk to them, they won't initiate. Though most times, the people that don't know them WILL approach them just because of their aura. You always hear, "are they single?" whether it's a guy or girl.

    Thee Leo's are not loud or anything like that, just mostly smiles and good spirits. They'll open up and talk to folks if there's similar interests, and those people will think they're flirting when the Leo's are just making conversation. What's funny however is when they get asked out or what not, the Leo's immediately close off, even if they're attracted to that person. It's a cat and mouse game. When not attracted, they shut off and kinda just leave that situation altogether to go to someone who's close to them. click to expand



    Lol. That's a really good observation. I'm exactly like that but i don't think most people notice why. You must have a really close leo to know that well click to expand
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    I don't think Leos are generally loud. I think loud can be confused as being very lively during a conversations/debate or us really enjoying ourselves with others who are close to us that we have known for quite time. We are definitely loud when we throw an occasional Leo fit. Being loud adds flair to our occasional melodramatic fit or upset moodiness resulting from being sensitive/touchy about a critique, advice, or comment.

    I mean ask an Aquarius how loud and dramatic we Leos get when they give their detached opinion/advice when it wasn't even solicited haha. A few Virgos may fall under that category as well if they truly know a Leo well enough lol.
  • MLeodrama
    from Leo | Sag Rising | Gemini Moon | Virgo Venus
    Posted by Alswope307
    Posted by MLeodrama
    Yeah I second the comment on not sending pics. Be direct and leave a little bit of a chase for him. Also, I'm curious to know what your sign is?!?!




    Definetly about being direct, and i don't want to really be with a man who isn't either, i don't have time for games. I am a Pisces, which...i have read isn't the best match for a Leo either but I dated one (didn't work out at all) Wouldn't mind seeing if they're all the same or there's some good ones out there. click to expand
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    Interesting. I have no prior relationship experience with a Pisces, so I have a neutral view in terms of a Leo & Pisces compatibility. Out of two other water signs I've dated (Cancer and Scorpio), I think Cancer does better with a Leo.

    Hmm, well your sun sign isn't everything. A person's placements and their houses matter more. You may actually compliment each other's planets, houses, or placements.

    May the odds be forever in your favor.
  • MLeodrama
    from Leo | Sag Rising | Gemini Moon | Virgo Venus
    Yeah I second the comment on not sending pics. Be direct and leave a little bit of a chase for him. Also, I'm curious to know what your sign is?!?!
  • MLeodrama
    from Leo | Sag Rising | Gemini Moon | Virgo Venus
    He's an immature and insecure Leo cub, definitely dump him. You deserve far better! If you're going to date another Leo, find an older Leo who's more of a Lion or Sphinx.
  • MLeodrama
    from Leo | Sag Rising | Gemini Moon | Virgo Venus
    Don't date a Capricorn.

    If you do, I hope that they have an ascendant and/or moon that are compatible with yours!
  • MLeodrama
    from Leo | Sag Rising | Gemini Moon | Virgo Venus
    This topic just gave me a throw back to very late 90's chat rooms "a/s/l?!?"
  • MLeodrama
    from Leo | Sag Rising | Gemini Moon | Virgo Venus
    If you have to ask, then no haha.

    Also, in all seriousness, you shouldn't become a lesbian because two lesbians arguing in a relationship is just so unnecessarily dramatic at times. It's too much estrogen that I can't even sometimes.

    Perks - They take better care of you than men in the long term nurturing sense, someone else can potentially have the kid, better company over brunch, you can steal from each other's wardrobe, non-awkward tampon runs to the store, you never have to worry about being accidentally knocked-up or keeping up with any form of birth control, and boobies.
  • MLeodrama
    from Leo | Sag Rising | Gemini Moon | Virgo Venus
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    Posted by LibraJackson
    I've read somewhere recently that a Libra and a Leo are a match made in heaven.


    I could be wrong, so feel free to comment.





    How to attract a Leo man btw?





    I've dated people but my ex's were Aries, Libra, Sag and Gem. I never had a Leo.





    soo.. if this is right, this would explains why I haven't found the one hahaha




    Remember that soulmate doesn't mean the person you're meant to be with forever. A soulmate can be someone who is sent into your life to teach you a karmic lesson. They are there to help you grow as a person, which isn't always pleasant. A soulmate may put your heart through the ringer to prepare you for better things, but that doesn't means you're meant to be with them.



    Libra and Leo is fine on paper, but there are some real issues here that can destroy the connection. It's no secret that Leo and Libra attract each other, but longevity and substance can be tricky here. It's entirely possible that both signs set up high expectations and make lofty promises only to let each other down. click to expand
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    Agreed. I'm a Leo with Sag Rising and Gem Moon, I get along so well with Libras. However, long term wise... they're a little bit righteous and pessimistic at times. It can work but I can see a Leo needing a confidence boost when being down in the dumps and a Libra being pessimistic at the same time lol.

    Natal Charts, Placements, and Aspects are more like guides that do not take into account life experiences or set of unique circumstances that may strongly bring out certain characteristics in a person or have certain characteristics be softened/kept in check that it's non existent. However, Vedic readings of one's natal chart after the age of 29 are much more accurate.

  • MLeodrama
    from Leo | Sag Rising | Gemini Moon | Virgo Venus
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    Yes. We like to know we are wanted. We hate chasing if it's not reciprocated. If we notice you don't reciprocate, we pull back and wait to see. Whatever you give a leo, you get back with interest. So the more you give, the more you get back. If you show disinterest, we have the ability to ice you out and make you feel like nothing. We prefer to be even and not doing all the work. We get bored and cbf wasting energy on people who play games.


    Should I reach out first? How long should I wait? I do give him a lot of attention tbh and I usually never do that with anyone. But today our convo was dead! :/


    If you want to talk to him, talk to him. If he's always the one to initiate, he probably needs to know it's not wasted on someone who isn't interested back.


    Nope defintely not one way
    I hit him up asking him what’s wrong. But I tell him how sexy he is all the time lol


    And is he initiating back? If it's going both ways, you don't need to keep tabs. If it's one sided, there might be an issue


    Yes he does and I don’t. Usually he hits me up first, but I always reply and I’m just as excited

    Then you can contact him back too. He likes you so it won't scare him off. He'll let you get closer instead


    I think he is starting to back off so I will too
    👌 single forever
    Life is so good that way


    What happened?


    Nothing. We would usually always talk all throughout the day. Yesterday barely anything. Around night time I told him he likes to take selfies (snap) and he said sorry. Idk he was very very short
    And it was taking him a long to to reply
    Idk just his energy
    So since he is going from giving me a lot of attention to none I’m moving on. Idc ifs it’s just a day. 🤗


    Lol. Maybe the selfie comment bruised his ego. You should text him asking for a selfie of him.


    Idk he didn’t talk to me all day before that, but I think he got a little upset. He said the same thing to me like two hours later when I uploaded one throwback pic lol


    Sometimes the best thing do with Leo is to just ask to be on a call. Once on call, just say you miss him and see what he responds with. Usually it'll melt away all the problems we have for you if you just show us you care and we would just start to spill the beans on what irks us or like start talking normally.

    Don't play games or spoil the relationship by waiting on each other.
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    Leos are direct. I second this, just ask him by calling or meeting in person. Leo's don't usually test you by not talking to you. I don't talk to my partners because I am busy with focusing on my projects or another area that requires my attention but that doesn't lessen my feelings for someone. Also, when a Leo is bored/uncertain of someone we don't talk much and if we're upset sometimes they'll give themselves some space because we can impulsively say something we don't necessarily mean. We do have a flair for the dramatic at times.

    If he's not communicating to your level of expectation, tell him (in a very, very nice way), how frequent you'd like to talk to him. When I'd get crazy busy, I would always make sure I'd call them in the morning or at night before bed. But I never go more than a day, maybe two, without talking to someone I'm romantically interested in.
  • MLeodrama
    from Leo | Sag Rising | Gemini Moon | Virgo Venus
    Relationships so far this year have been a fun adventure which may not always have the ending I want. Recently single but enjoying dating life. It's a bittersweet adventure full of life lessons!

    Similar to Moonshine Leo's sentiment of respecting our selves, it seems that this year for me is more about self-love and being worthy of love. By that I mean, walking away from toxic romantic relationships, accepting that it's okay when someone doesn't work out (it's not necessarily your fault), and focusing in on what you NEED than what you WANT. You may want a certain type of person but maybe you might need to be alone for a bit to heal or have some introspection on life. Sometimes it's better to be alone then be with a crappy partner.

    It occurs to you that the male prospects in your available area may not be to your liking but have you ever considered the possibility that people get so hung up on what they particularly want in a partner that they never truly look at people as a whole? As a result, a person never truly had a chance with you or get to know you. Give a few of those "maybes" a yes instead of completely writing them off lol. If that doesn't work out, have you tried MeetUp? There are some awesome groups for hiking, going out to games, art walks, and other hobbies people meetup for that would increase your chances of serendipitous love.

    You're already the best possible woman/wife. Being yourself is the best possible version of you.

    You'll definitely find love because life has a funny way of coming together when you least expect it.

    In the mean time continue on focusing on your passion projects, goals, and big dreams. The rest (i.e. love) will eventually fall into place. Patience dear Leo.
  • MLeodrama
    from Leo | Sag Rising | Gemini Moon | Virgo Venus
    1) Aquarius
    2) Sag
    3) Gemini

    Sag and Libra is similar to a Leo and Gemini pairing. Leo will only work if 1) They have placements that soften their ego and dramatic side or 2) Older Leo that's over drama and the ego. As a Leo I have a very close Libra friend and my number 3 in the office is a much trusted Libra. Can't personally speak for romantic pairs though.
  • MLeodrama
    from Leo | Sag Rising | Gemini Moon | Virgo Venus
    How did all my fellow Leos weather this recent Mercury Retrograde (March 22nd - April 15th)? A friend of mine this morning was like, "Well the next week or two we're in Retroshade." My friend defines retroshade as wrapping up and resolving any miscommunications or missteps that resulted from the Mercury Retrograde.

    In my case there was relationship miscommunication which led to us going separate ways. Work and traffic were just minor random struggles that were easily cleared up with my teams or addressed by leaving an extra 15-20 mins for LA Traffic.
  • MLeodrama
    from Leo | Sag Rising | Gemini Moon | Virgo Venus
    Unnecessary drama.

    Leos will throw people under the bus if they're young/immature or to save face. More mature or true Leos will step up as a leader and accept responsibility/consequences. I do not see an issue with the example where the Leo goes to that clerk's supervisor to inform them of their clerk's error. If that Leo does not directly supervise the clerk, then that Leo has no right to talk to the clerk directly because they do not manage said clerk. It's chain of command and lines of communication.

    The clerk's error resulted in a breakdown of workability with your case in which the Leo informed that clerk's Supervisor. I do not see that as an issue. People take things personally when they shouldn't at work. I think it's more of an issue within your firm or upper management to understand and clearly establish roles, responsibilities and lines of communication. What's even worse is the other Leo fueling the drama by that "too interested in his personal life" comment. There are attention-seeking dramatic Leos and then there are Leos that make excellent leaders. Sadly, your boss may be the former or have a rigid management style . Send your Leo supervisor to my firm, I'll straighten them up right quick lol.
  • MLeodrama
    from Leo | Sag Rising | Gemini Moon | Virgo Venus
    Good god please kindly separate into paragraphs. It was reading word vomit. But here are my thoughts on your Leo:

    1) He definitely has FWB/Casual situation or someone like a Gemini he just playfully texts and gets a certain type attention from that may not be anything physical or in the realm of cheating since you two are not exclusive. I haveFWB and borderline friends I harmlessly flirt with but not sleep with.

    2) It's quite a big deal if you meet his friends and plans things around you. It shows that he does care for you more than you think. Just because he gets distant or have periods of being busy doesn't mean he's not into you. It just means we're busy ruling the world. I go on business trips and use to talk to my gf everyday. The minute I do get back from my trip or finish a project deadline for my teams, she's on the top of my list of people I make an effort to spend time with.

    3) Don't say he's bad at communicating. He's going to get all emo over it lol. Maybe say, "Well can you communicate with me by telling me x..." You did ask him questions and he answered them. Whether his answers are to your liking, that's on you. If you don't say anything and honestly speak it into existence, we won't know. We're Leos, not mind readers.

    4) I'm gonna go out on a limb here and assume that during that "3rd month conversation," even though he said he wasn't mentally ready for a relationship yet, he may (in his heart of hearts) have wanted to just hear you say that you wanted one. Instead, you went with half-assed options like, "It's cool to be FWB just let me know so I won't get attached etc." Um we're Leo's we want to be needed and given all the attention in the world. My Sag bestie explained Leos well, "You just want the illusion of being given a choice even though you already know what you want and made the decision." I just think he doesn't want to tip his hand or make his decision known because you haven't shown him a level of commitment or certainty he's waiting for.

    Hmm...but he could possibly still be hurt from his recent relationship and licking some wounds from that. He could be figuring out if it's lust, if he wants another relationship out of loneliness to fill some void after ending one just 2-3 months prior, or if he genuinely does like you enough to dive into another committed relationship.


  • MLeodrama
    from Leo | Sag Rising | Gemini Moon | Virgo Venus
    Um I will say no to that romantic pairing unless the have other placements that softens an Aqua.

    I was with an Aqua woman for 3 years and had a few other Aqua exes. It worked for 3 years with one particular Aqua because of my Gemini Moon and Sag Rising kept up with an Aqua's emotional detachment and eccentric intellectual side. Their language of love and how they show affection is not a type most Leos prefer. They have a cold detachment about them you have to accept. They're not caring enough for me or attentive enough like a Virgo/Cancer. Although Aquas make great friends. In the past they've help me brainstorm some visionary ideas/solutions and bring to light a new perspective when it comes to work. My dad and brother are Aquas, love both of them to death but they do sure know how to push your damn buttons.
  • MLeodrama
    from Leo | Sag Rising | Gemini Moon | Virgo Venus
    As a fellow Leo, meet her in person and determine what she's truly like. From my Virgo experience with women, Virgos are more in person, intimate, and slow burn types--handle with gentle care and patience because they're within their heads half the time with gears constantly spinning. Writing her the nicest words in the morning AND expecting a "thank you" will not get you anywhere with a Virgo. It occurs to me that your Leo Ego has yet to be humbled and tamed.

    Imagine a lion loudly trampling through a forest and a deer just steering clear of all that ruckus and brashness or just keeping it's distance from afar observing you. The deer is Virgo. You may not have created an environment for her to comfortably come to you, honestly communicate effectively, and let you entirely into her world and train of thought. Get rid of the fluff and keep it simple because she's not with you for fluff or flattery.

    There must still be something your Virgo values because I'm surprised she is still around after having monthly blow-ups. I'm curious as to her placement as well as yours.
  • MLeodrama
    from Leo | Sag Rising | Gemini Moon | Virgo Venus
    Posted by heliumfiasco
    People use POF? I browsed it once everyone looked like they drove a late model Mustang and wore Football jerseys to weddings.


    Hard pass.


    I literally just laughed and choked on my tea read this. But so true.

    I prefer Match, Bumble, then Hinge. POF is as bad as Coffee Meets Stale Bagels. Tinder and OkC are flakey-ish people.
  • MLeodrama
    from Leo | Sag Rising | Gemini Moon | Virgo Venus
    A young Leo or a scorned Leo can play the butter out of the field. But I wanna say Gemini, Libra, and Sag.