My Dad had a grand cross, Sun-Uranus Aries sq. Saturn in Cap. sq. Moon in Libra, sq. Mars in Cancer. Frustrated but stable. He could be explosive at times - but also sweet, too (Venus Taurus, moon Libra).
Ya it was stable - but with a lot of energy on the home front. Mom-Dad-Me-Brother all have Saturn in Capricorn, so we are all kind of focused, wanting to get on with our karma. The best thing about Uranus/Aquarius is 'seeing' ahead how things might be, and never really getting caught up too much in how things actually are. So focusing on one's higher self.
My Uranus is opposed Aquarius midheaven, south node in Aquarius (accumulated past), and Yod with 1st and 4th house planets (sun, mercury, pluto-mars-uranus) pointing to Jupiter in Aquarius in 9th. So everything is subtly bowing to this Aqua/Uranus energy.
It took me a while to get all of this energy (uranus-mars-nn-pluto) under control - eventually leading to Spirituality (Jupiter 9th, Venus 12th). Some find their way to God gently. It wasn't like that for me - it was internally brutal. I really had to take the sword to myself.
Ya, I have it in the 4th house on the angle, too - but on the 4th house side. My mom was an Aquarius, and my father was an Aries with sun conjunct Uranus. In my chart, Uranus is conjunct Mars, north node and Pluto. I was a team sports-addict as a youth. It is said that the first planet in a stellium is the one the other planets are in front of - so it has the final say (is the strongest).
I've been thinking about Fatima and the 3 secrets Divine Mother told those 3 Portuguese children. One of the secrets being that Russia would spread her errors unless Russia was consecrated. Errors = strife, wars, annihilation, etc....Good souls would be killed.
Russia/Soviet Union was a Government imposed atheist country for a long time - it is ingrained. People were eliminated/prisoned as a way of being - no more than being treated like a bunch of dogs by their masters. The government was God. Anyways, this was back in 1917 - the miracle of the sun at Fatima. She told them of the impending war (ww2) unless people changed, and that unless Russia was consecrated she would spread her evil ways throughout the world. She said she would give a sign of the lights in the sky right before the onset of war - and She did. And the Nazi's rolled into Czechoslovakia.
Some say Russia was consecrated in 1989 - but I don't think so. The world was consecrated but specifically Russia wasn't consecrated - as the Lady requested. Oddly, I was on a Russian fishing trawler working as a science tech/biology guy at this time (in 1989 the Soviet Union dissolved). Somehow I think I am in this world for this reason. Russia appears to be spreading her errors. Maybe Divine Mother has sent me here (and others, I'm sure) to help burn up this evil karma before it takes full form in this world.
God appears to be willing to use Russia as an evil hand to cause much turmoil and suffering, else to be consecrated and to be one of God's foundations here. I wonder what is going to happen?
When you "die" you just transfer into the astral plane. This astral body is within you but is more subtle than the physical body. You'll probably exit the physical plane through the lower chakras and will find suitable quarters with like vibrating souls in the astral world. You'll keep going back and forth until (probably due to suffering) you figure things out.
At my last two funerals I 'saw" the deceased in the astral plane - probably because there was such a focus on the person. Christ's pulling Lazarus soul back into his body makes more sense now. He reached into the astral world and pulled his soul back into his 'dead' physical form. This 'real' plane is at best a joke.
Heaven: Never ending joy. Consciousness expanded beyond understanding - like knowing everything at once. Everything is high and good. Harmony and peace.
Hell: Actually believing this world is it. Fighting, conflict, harm, violence. Evil. We are like a mouse in a maze - but most don't know this.
Yesterday, I had an interesting experience. I was trying to understand the nature of this world, the nature of normal people's minds - how they exist. I've been having trouble with this. This plane is kind of a low one. The devil (or ignorance) kind of dominates here. One has to be realistic on this. Most will exist within boundaries and limitations that they believe are real. And they may feel the need to do evil things.
I was being unrealistic about this. I need to see others where they are at and not judge them for this. So, one must know that there is evil pulsating throughout this world. In fact it is one of the bedrocks of this place - accept it, it isn't going anywhere.
So, I'm thinking all of this stuff. Time for an outer lesson. I have an electric car. Circumstances worked out for this lesson. I jumped out of my car at work and forgot to turn it off. So after work I don't have enough electricity to get home. There is one charging station on my drive home. I pull in and the one charger I need, says it is unable to read card (it's down). Moreover, it starts snowing brutally, all at once. I'm in trouble, now. I call the company that owns these charging machines - they reset and I'm able to charge.
By now, the snow is really coming down. I go about 5 miles and conditions become white-out. I can't see but about 20 feet in front of me. I'm going 45 mph into the white-out when I lose control and start fish tailing into an oncoming truck. I think to myself, "how entertaining Divine Mother". I manage to avoid a head-on and not go in the ditch. God is showing me things. Yes, darkness does have a stronghold here.
I thanked God for answering my thoughts about whether evil exists in this world. It was a condensed version of an unbelievable string of events to show me evil does exist and souls exist within these limitations. I'm not caught like this, anymore. I always use to look at others naively as though they were moving towards God/higher self, too - they aren't really. At least not at a race car's pace.
People's souls while in their bodies are blinded, like I was in my car only able to see 20 feet in front of me. Make believe danger everywhere - how horrible. I will no longer look at others as though they are my equals. Equals in the sense of being free. They are not. This was a big lesson for me - this is the devil's/ignorance's domain and peoples beings exist through this - I shall not forget this. In all circumstances with others one must realize the foundations of where they are coming from.
Ruler of the ascendant in its' own house the 5th - so should be into Leo/5th things in a practical way (Capricorn). She sees her mother and father much like your nephew - same signature - Father mars opposed saturn, but on nodes. Mother, Pluto around moon again (closer this time), with lots of feminine Sag energy. So, the same as your nephew.
Moon's nodes - ruler of the south node (accumulated past patterns) on the north node (newer patterns to develop). Also Saturn on the south node in the 8th house. Saturn important because she is a Capricorn. It is said soul's with their south node ruler on the north node can easily, positively tap into their past (in this case Aries/mars energy/8th) and apply it to the present - Libra/2nd. I guess this might mean that on a soul level she has integrated this opposition within herself.
Ya, real estate would be a good profession - nodes, mars, saturn tied into 2nd/8th houses. Libra/5th house means she will be fun and engaging doing this. And all of those 4th/5th house planets are tied into where her Saturn is (on the south node). She has this triangle all working together - 2 nodes with Cap sun. Practical creativity, like your nephew, but also concerned with resources (hers and others).
One thing I noticed about Libra females is that they are feminine on one hand but masculine on the other. When I would look at her (a Libra) quickly I would see a handsome man then I would look again and see a pretty woman. Yes, this is a tough combo in general. At least with an Aries man a Libra woman can be in all out fight mode if it comes down to that (which they hate), but with a Cancer man they see him as overly hidden and sensitive, and with a cardinal clash to boot.
Yes it goes for all planets - you have a stellium in house 4 (?). Saturn/Cap in the areas concerning Cancer - home life, family. Wherever Saturn/Cap is is an area where we must toil away, especially with Saturn exalted in its own sign. You must perfect your family situation - whatever that means. Painful? One foot in front of the other - goat energy must climb.
I wrote this song when I was in my early 20's. It sums up all of this intensity/Pluto in the 4th seeking, seeking........
(a song never heard - how plutonian is that, a real grunger)
Bury me down, Bury me low Bury me down, Bury me low Under the snow, into the ground Far beneath this sight and sound
Bury me down, Bury me low Bury me down, Bury me low My epitaph I composed read and wrote in my head My sanity fades Soon to be saved or soon to be dead
Bury me down, Bury me low Bury me down, Bury me low Into a place where every soul incarnate must go Seeking that sanity I once thought I did know On my self created battlefield I stand Sword gracefully preparing to swing in hand
Bury me down, Bury me low Bury me down, Bury me low Under the snow, into the ground Far beneath this sight and sound My epitaph I composed read and wrote in my head But now I choose love and the ways of grace instead So with vicious thrusts I do what I must For one day free I will stand Before all of this - God's creation And all of my fellow man
(now older, I am mostly a free soul in this bodily temple but I was going through quite the battle back then)
Uranus in Leo in the 4th conjunct MC, conjunct Mars in Leo, conjunct North Node in Leo, conjunct Pluto in Virgo (all in 4th. Sun in 1st). My father is an Aries with a grand cross in Cardinal signs (an intense at times frustrated Ram). My mom is an Aquarius, moon in Taurus and mars in Leo (positive, people friendly waterbearer). We all have Saturn in Capricorn = getting on with things.
I have Aquarius on top (MC) and Uranus on the bottom (IC). All of this intense energy/emotion yet I can detach myself from myself. My home environment was intense but in a positive "getting on with things" kind of way.
I think pluto has helped throw me deeply into my core to try and figure everything out - who am I really? What is the real nature of things? I could have been a sadistic, sex crazed, violent piece of butter. I guess my saving grace is Saturn in Cap conjunct Jupiter in Aquarius in the 9th. So, all of this raw intensity within working its slow way to enlightentment - which has happened, in fact.
At this point, God will work with me - almost directly. Now, I'm glad to have been "plopped' down into such an intense family foundation - it has helped me to get on with things, i.e. a big push soul-wise.
Ultimately we are all just souls in bodies. I've had to savage my thoughts from my depths. If you go into your closet and put on a red coat one day and a blue coat the next it is the same as putting on a light brown skin in one lifetime or a darker brown skin in the next. In both cases you will be taking the coat and skin off (death). It is better to anchor oneself in this bigger reality. We are not but projections of God, in fact. The moving/vibrating mass of light that you call your physical self is in a state of flux - and is bound by the creation of time. Is there anything permanent about us? Must I continue to be a lab rat in this creation's maze? I'm glad I'm not caught by the mass consciousness of race, etc... any more. What a real waste of time.