Yes, he’s obviously going to put more miles on the car, the more he uses it. I’ve told him already but he thinks I should let him use it instead of him taking buses or whatever. He wants me to feel sorry for him taking the bus. We live in Los Angeles by the way.
I always hear from him “I will have my own car soon” but that never happens. He’s been saying the same thing for a long time and he takes no action. He has no money saved up. That’s why I’m getting angry and resentful.
Or maybe a temporary solution would be to tell him that until he gets his car I we can take a break from the relationship. I do love him but I my car is very valuable to me. I don’t want him to damage it someday or for the car to have less value faster.