Posted by Terramine
Posted by jeane
Why would he ask her to meet the parents if she was a fling to begin with?
Cover to make her think he was serious? Why would he be as serious as wanting her to meet his parents but then turn around in the blink of an eye to wanting nothing to do with her?

Well, to be frank. It's probably not even a matter of seriousness at all. I mean, from the sounds of it. This wasn't the kind of obligatory "meeting the parents" that typically happens during a long enough relationship, which is super serious and whatnot. From the sounds of it, it was a lot more casual than that. Like "hey my parents happen to be here and I'm gonna be goin away, so why dton't you come along to see them just for fun?"

In which case that alone would answer your question. It wasn't a big deal, he probably wasn't going to make a big deal out of her to his parents. He'd probably just pass it off as what it is, his "recent date".

Hell, why even have her meet his parents this early on in the relationship at all? Fling or not? What stands out is that he wanted this to happen, conveniently before he would leave. Most likely to convince HER that he's more serious about this than he actually is. It gives him leeway to go away and do whatever the heck he gets up to, while being able to come back any time right back to her.

Which is exactly what you'd do if you were a player. You don't masterfully set things up like that if you're just looking for someone to settle down with. You set things up like that if you want to control the person in such a way so you keep your distance, but they are hooked on the bait you feed them. So they'll let you keep coming and going as you please.
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This does makes a lot of sense! things are getting clearer in my head now!

Posted by 2Moon
A Libra with some temperament and attitude... Oh la la... lol.

I think he was right... But!
he should have been more understanding...
( you told him about your past / trust issues.. )

Why he is so mad? Like whoaaa.. calm down...


First thing to do when a Libra is mad at you is to give us space... We need space and alone time to process our emotions and thoughts mentally...

I think you should move on slowly.

If you can't, just leave us alone / pretend to move on and he will be back soon... lol.


Why is he mad?
Thanks! I definitely need to pace myself emotionally!
I'm a virgo. I was dating a libra men for about 6 months. We met online and we were in a long distance relationship. I got a lot of attention from him in these 6 months. I shared all my past with him already in texts, phone calls and Skyped. I was cheated on by a gemini before and after that I stopped trusting men in general. Anyway When finally we decided to meet, our first date went amazing. On the second date he asked me if I would like to meet his family as he was leaving in few days? I asked him if he was sure about me to which he got offended and asked me if I m not taking him seriously.
I said how would I know if I'm the only person in his life and I have a past so I can't know for sure.

I met his family the next day. After that he kind of started disappearing. I knew he was confused so When I asked him, he told me he is not sure about me now so he would like to end it. He said I'm not seeing what's coming to me and I should start believing in people and get over my past. I said I'm sorry. He still decided to end it. I was very angry and I called him later and spoke to him very rudely followed by some rude text messages.

After 2 days I called him again and tried to pursuade him to give it one more chance. He said he doesn't want it anymore and he went back to his city.

Later after few months I still couldn't get over him and felt bad about the whole thing as he was a nice guy and I misjudged him and not trusted him enough. I wrote an email to him to apologise, he didn't respond to my email for more than a month. Now all go a sudden I get his email saying he is sorry for all the pain I had to go through and ended on a good luck and take care note.

Do you guys think he might come back? Or it's the high time for me to move on?
I'm a virgo. I was dating a libra men for about 6 months. We met online and we were in a long distance relationship. I got a lot of attention from him in these 6 months. I shared all my past with him already in texts, phone calls and Skyped. I was cheated on by a gemini before and after that I stopped trusting men in general. Anyway When finally we decided to meet, our first date went amazing. On the second date he asked me if I would like to meet his family as he was leaving in few days? I asked him if he was sure about me to which he got offended and asked me if I m not taking him seriously.
I said how would I know if I'm the only person in his life and I have a past so I can't know for sure.

I met his family the next day. After that he kind of started disappearing. I knew he was confused so When I asked him, he told me he is not sure about me now so he would like to end it. He said I'm not seeing what's coming to me and I should start believing in people and get over my past. I said I'm sorry. He still decided to end it. I was very angry and I called him later and spoke to him very rudely followed by some rude text messages.

After 2 days I called him again and tried to pursuade him to give it one more chance. He said he doesn't want it anymore and he went back to his city.

Later after few months I still couldn't get over him and felt bad about the whole thing as he was a nice guy and I misjudged him and not trusted him enough. I wrote an email to him to apologise, he didn't respond to my email for more than a month. Now all go a sudden I get his email saying he is sorry for all the pain I had to go through and ended on a good luck and take care note.

Do you guys think he might come back? Or it's the high time for me to move on?