Posted by TerraminePosted by jeaneCover to make her think he was serious? Why would he be as serious as wanting her to meet his parents but then turn around in the blink of an eye to wanting nothing to do with her?
Why would he ask her to meet the parents if she was a fling to begin with?
Well, to be frank. It's probably not even a matter of seriousness at all. I mean, from the sounds of it. This wasn't the kind of obligatory "meeting the parents" that typically happens during a long enough relationship, which is super serious and whatnot. From the sounds of it, it was a lot more casual than that. Like "hey my parents happen to be here and I'm gonna be goin away, so why dton't you come along to see them just for fun?"
In which case that alone would answer your question. It wasn't a big deal, he probably wasn't going to make a big deal out of her to his parents. He'd probably just pass it off as what it is, his "recent date".
Hell, why even have her meet his parents this early on in the relationship at all? Fling or not? What stands out is that he wanted this to happen, conveniently before he would leave. Most likely to convince HER that he's more serious about this than he actually is. It gives him leeway to go away and do whatever the heck he gets up to, while being able to come back any time right back to her.
Which is exactly what you'd do if you were a player. You don't masterfully set things up like that if you're just looking for someone to settle down with. You set things up like that if you want to control the person in such a way so you keep your distance, but they are hooked on the bait you feed them. So they'll let you keep coming and going as you please.click to expand
Posted by 2Moon
A Libra with some temperament and attitude... Oh la la... lol.
I think he was right... But!
he should have been more understanding...
( you told him about your past / trust issues.. )
Why he is so mad? Like whoaaa.. calm down...
First thing to do when a Libra is mad at you is to give us space... We need space and alone time to process our emotions and thoughts mentally...
I think you should move on slowly.
If you can't, just leave us alone / pretend to move on and he will be back soon... lol.