Whyyyy?

how come Capricorns (both men and women) always seem to go for people who are already attached/in relationships with someone else? even on here, there's a pattern of threads where a Capricorn female's wondering when this or that man would break up with their girl or if he's still interested in her even after yearssss have passed and he's currently with someone else now like they're lying in wait or something.

and i remember there was this Capricorn guy trying to get with me at a time when i was already attached to someone else. but when i was single, he gave no shits. and then he eventually got with a girl who had a boyfriend (whom she left for him). then i got into another astro forum where i told basically everyone that i'm attached to someone else (not really true at that time but i didn't want anybody bothering me) but there's this Cap guy who'd message me and i'm just too Libra mars to tell him to leave me alone to introvert my way in life.

is this a cardinal thing?

i'm not questioning their loyalty or stability in a relationship so don't bring that shit up. i've released stats about the proof of their commitment in LTRs but it's like they'd only really be satisfied if they acquired the relationship by CONQUEST.

they are always alpha-ing. it's like Kyle (Capricorn) in RHOBH always trying to one up LVP when LVP just wants to turn her mansion into a zoo but Kyle trying to depose her. Caps out there treating everything like it's a game of battleships.

I don't really do this, I may get attracted to someone who is attached but then I get bored just thinking about how much pursuing it would take. But I know a Capricorn guy who has done this multiple times. He even caused the break up of one of his close friends.

I think it comes from he fact that Capricorns are pretty jealous and if we are not happily in a relationship ourselves we try to find flaws in other's relationship/ insert ourselves where it is none of our business / think we know what's best FOR OTHERS........all that butter. So I guess its a mixture of ego and jealousy

Posted by capgirl5

I don't really do this, I may get attracted to someone who is attached but then I get bored just thinking about how much pursuing it would take. But I know a Capricorn guy who has done this multiple times. He even caused the break up of one of his close friends.

I think it comes from he fact that Capricorns are pretty jealous and if we are not happily in a relationship ourselves we try to find flaws in other's relationship/ insert ourselves where it is none of our business / think we know what's best FOR OTHERS........all that butter. So I guess its a mixture of ego and jealousy

i'm saying this might be a cardinal thing coz Libras don't give a shit neither if you've got someone. hell they don't give a shit if THEY have someone HAHAH. they're like fuck it, no ring fair game. but everything's fair game to cardinals. you can literally tell these people you're married to try to get rid of them and it BACKFIRES.

@capgirl5 are Caps white knighters by nature? they want someone to rely on them? shit maybe it's actually earth sign bullshit now that i think on it. maybe it's cardinal + earth. but i see some of them go with independent women too but not too independent (there must be some illusion of dependency). which goes with @Kittens claim about fire sun women and Pisces wimmenz.

and the laughable stats i found about their frequent divorce with Aries. Cap moons too going for Aries. such comedy.

this would connect what i've observed from their behavior like when Kyle (Capricorn) from RHOBH claimed how her sister Kim Richards (addicted Virgo sun/Pisces moon) was ungrateful for not TRYING when her husband funds her rehab. and from my Cap family members who prefers you to be incapable (all the while blaming you for your incompetence) but secretly thriving on the fact that they're the ones who are doing all the work (explains how they don't work out with other Earth signs except more submissive versions of Virgos yuck why are we like this).

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@capgirl5 are Caps white knighters by nature? they want someone to rely on them? shit maybe it's actually earth sign bullshit now that i think on it. maybe it's cardinal + earth. but i see some of them go with independent women too but not too independent (there must be some illusion of dependency). which goes with @Kittens claim about fire sun women and Pisces wimmenz.

and the laughable stats i found about their frequent divorce with Aries. Cap moons too going for Aries. such comedy.

this would connect what i've observed from their behavior like when Kyle (Capricorn) from RHOBH claimed how her sister Kim Richards (addicted Virgo sun/Pisces moon) was ungrateful for not TRYING when her husband funds her rehab. and from my Cap family members who prefers you to be incapable (all the while blaming you for your incompetence) but secretly thriving on the fact that they're the ones who are doing all the work (explains how they don't work out with other Earth signs except more submissive versions of Virgos yuck why are we like this).

So funny you'd ask this. I honestly don't know what caps want in a relationship. My best friend is a taurus and she is the same way. We sort of want all our freedom and independence but also hate it when we can't lean on our partners. Like we know we can get some thing done without a partner's help but we also want them to help us but we also get mad because the help feels like they are underestimating us.....if that makes sense? We want a steady perfect relationship but will also take our sweet ass time to commit fully. And no we don't want to be the 'white knighters' either, coz we like our partners to be strong and independent. But if we offer help/opinion it needs to get respected or at least taken in a good way or else it will hurt our egos

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@capgirl5 are Caps white knighters by nature? they want someone to rely on them? shit maybe it's actually earth sign bullshit now that i think on it. maybe it's cardinal + earth. but i see some of them go with independent women too but not too independent (there must be some illusion of dependency). which goes with @Kittens claim about fire sun women and Pisces wimmenz.

and the laughable stats i found about their frequent divorce with Aries. Cap moons too going for Aries. such comedy.

this would connect what i've observed from their behavior like when Kyle (Capricorn) from RHOBH claimed how her sister Kim Richards (addicted Virgo sun/Pisces moon) was ungrateful for not TRYING when her husband funds her rehab. and from my Cap family members who prefers you to be incapable (all the while blaming you for your incompetence) but secretly thriving on the fact that they're the ones who are doing all the work (explains how they don't work out with other Earth signs except more submissive versions of Virgos yuck why are we like this).

So funny you'd ask this. I honestly don't know what caps want in a relationship. My best friend is a taurus and she is the same way. We sort of want all our freedom and independence but also hate it when we can't lean on our partners. Like we know we can get some thing done without a partner's help but we also want them to help us but we also get mad because the help feels like they are underestimating us.....if that makes sense? We want a steady perfect relationship but will also take our sweet ass time to commit fully. And no we don't want to be the 'white knighters' either, coz we like our partners to be strong and independent. But if we offer help/opinion it needs to get respected or at least taken in a good way or else it will hurt our egos

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you guys are so complicated

Nothing to do with Cardinal signs, I've been single and dated all three signs as a single person. It's probably a guy thing. You're never more attractive to a man than when other men want you.

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@capgirl5 are Caps white knighters by nature? they want someone to rely on them? shit maybe it's actually earth sign bullshit now that i think on it. maybe it's cardinal + earth. but i see some of them go with independent women too but not too independent (there must be some illusion of dependency). which goes with @Kittens claim about fire sun women and Pisces wimmenz.

and the laughable stats i found about their frequent divorce with Aries. Cap moons too going for Aries. such comedy.

this would connect what i've observed from their behavior like when Kyle (Capricorn) from RHOBH claimed how her sister Kim Richards (addicted Virgo sun/Pisces moon) was ungrateful for not TRYING when her husband funds her rehab. and from my Cap family members who prefers you to be incapable (all the while blaming you for your incompetence) but secretly thriving on the fact that they're the ones who are doing all the work (explains how they don't work out with other Earth signs except more submissive versions of Virgos yuck why are we like this).

So funny you'd ask this. I honestly don't know what caps want in a relationship. My best friend is a taurus and she is the same way. We sort of want all our freedom and independence but also hate it when we can't lean on our partners. Like we know we can get some thing done without a partner's help but we also want them to help us but we also get mad because the help feels like they are underestimating us.....if that makes sense? We want a steady perfect relationship but will also take our sweet ass time to commit fully. And no we don't want to be the 'white knighters' either, coz we like our partners to be strong and independent. But if we offer help/opinion it needs to get respected or at least taken in a good way or else it will hurt our egos

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Haa same here. Although I'm independent af, my partner must be reliable and dependable or else I will feel very uneasy. I need the sense of stability to feel secure enough to let myself go. At the same time, if I feel I am starting to depend too much on someone (and too much for me can be little for others), I also feel uncomfortable and I will start to pull away. I am not in the business of saving men either. And yeah smart men know to listen and respect my advice/opinions...

Posted by VenusX

Nothing to do with Cardinal signs, I've been single and dated all three signs as a single person. It's probably a guy thing. You're never more attractive to a man than when other men want you.

what about the women? i've noticed the women doing this the most.

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@capgirl5 are Caps white knighters by nature? they want someone to rely on them? shit maybe it's actually earth sign bullshit now that i think on it. maybe it's cardinal + earth. but i see some of them go with independent women too but not too independent (there must be some illusion of dependency). which goes with @Kittens claim about fire sun women and Pisces wimmenz.

and the laughable stats i found about their frequent divorce with Aries. Cap moons too going for Aries. such comedy.

this would connect what i've observed from their behavior like when Kyle (Capricorn) from RHOBH claimed how her sister Kim Richards (addicted Virgo sun/Pisces moon) was ungrateful for not TRYING when her husband funds her rehab. and from my Cap family members who prefers you to be incapable (all the while blaming you for your incompetence) but secretly thriving on the fact that they're the ones who are doing all the work (explains how they don't work out with other Earth signs except more submissive versions of Virgos yuck why are we like this).

So funny you'd ask this. I honestly don't know what caps want in a relationship. My best friend is a taurus and she is the same way. We sort of want all our freedom and independence but also hate it when we can't lean on our partners. Like we know we can get some thing done without a partner's help but we also want them to help us but we also get mad because the help feels like they are underestimating us.....if that makes sense? We want a steady perfect relationship but will also take our sweet ass time to commit fully. And no we don't want to be the 'white knighters' either, coz we like our partners to be strong and independent. But if we offer help/opinion it needs to get respected or at least taken in a good way or else it will hurt our egos

Haa same here. Although I'm independent af, my partner must be reliable and dependable or else I will feel very uneasy. I need the sense of stability to feel secure enough to let myself go. At the same time, if I feel I am starting to depend too much on someone (and too much for me can be little for others), I also feel uncomfortable and I will start to pull away. I am not in the business of saving men either. And yeah smart men know to listen and respect my advice/opinions...

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maybe you just don't notice you're white knighting

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@capgirl5 are Caps white knighters by nature? they want someone to rely on them? shit maybe it's actually earth sign bullshit now that i think on it. maybe it's cardinal + earth. but i see some of them go with independent women too but not too independent (there must be some illusion of dependency). which goes with @Kittens claim about fire sun women and Pisces wimmenz.

and the laughable stats i found about their frequent divorce with Aries. Cap moons too going for Aries. such comedy.

this would connect what i've observed from their behavior like when Kyle (Capricorn) from RHOBH claimed how her sister Kim Richards (addicted Virgo sun/Pisces moon) was ungrateful for not TRYING when her husband funds her rehab. and from my Cap family members who prefers you to be incapable (all the while blaming you for your incompetence) but secretly thriving on the fact that they're the ones who are doing all the work (explains how they don't work out with other Earth signs except more submissive versions of Virgos yuck why are we like this).

So funny you'd ask this. I honestly don't know what caps want in a relationship. My best friend is a taurus and she is the same way. We sort of want all our freedom and independence but also hate it when we can't lean on our partners. Like we know we can get some thing done without a partner's help but we also want them to help us but we also get mad because the help feels like they are underestimating us.....if that makes sense? We want a steady perfect relationship but will also take our sweet ass time to commit fully. And no we don't want to be the 'white knighters' either, coz we like our partners to be strong and independent. But if we offer help/opinion it needs to get respected or at least taken in a good way or else it will hurt our egos

you guys are so complicated

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So are Virgos!!!!

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@capgirl5 are Caps white knighters by nature? they want someone to rely on them? shit maybe it's actually earth sign bullshit now that i think on it. maybe it's cardinal + earth. but i see some of them go with independent women too but not too independent (there must be some illusion of dependency). which goes with @Kittens claim about fire sun women and Pisces wimmenz.

and the laughable stats i found about their frequent divorce with Aries. Cap moons too going for Aries. such comedy.

this would connect what i've observed from their behavior like when Kyle (Capricorn) from RHOBH claimed how her sister Kim Richards (addicted Virgo sun/Pisces moon) was ungrateful for not TRYING when her husband funds her rehab. and from my Cap family members who prefers you to be incapable (all the while blaming you for your incompetence) but secretly thriving on the fact that they're the ones who are doing all the work (explains how they don't work out with other Earth signs except more submissive versions of Virgos yuck why are we like this).

So funny you'd ask this. I honestly don't know what caps want in a relationship. My best friend is a taurus and she is the same way. We sort of want all our freedom and independence but also hate it when we can't lean on our partners. Like we know we can get some thing done without a partner's help but we also want them to help us but we also get mad because the help feels like they are underestimating us.....if that makes sense? We want a steady perfect relationship but will also take our sweet ass time to commit fully. And no we don't want to be the 'white knighters' either, coz we like our partners to be strong and independent. But if we offer help/opinion it needs to get respected or at least taken in a good way or else it will hurt our egos

Haa same here. Although I'm independent af, my partner must be reliable and dependable or else I will feel very uneasy. I need the sense of stability to feel secure enough to let myself go. At the same time, if I feel I am starting to depend too much on someone (and too much for me can be little for others), I also feel uncomfortable and I will start to pull away. I am not in the business of saving men either. And yeah smart men know to listen and respect my advice/opinions...

maybe you just don't notice you're white knighting

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Nah, I don't usually attract messy dudes tho. I tend to attract and also be attracted to guys who somewhat have it together. Same with my friendships. I don't like fixer uppers lol and I agree with capgirl5, my partner must be independent as well or else my aquarius moon ass will run far far away.

Posted by G6

Your sense of perception reminds me of Kitten.

i agree with some things Kittens say

at first not really but now i'm more convinced

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@capgirl5 are Caps white knighters by nature? they want someone to rely on them? shit maybe it's actually earth sign bullshit now that i think on it. maybe it's cardinal + earth. but i see some of them go with independent women too but not too independent (there must be some illusion of dependency). which goes with @Kittens claim about fire sun women and Pisces wimmenz.

and the laughable stats i found about their frequent divorce with Aries. Cap moons too going for Aries. such comedy.

this would connect what i've observed from their behavior like when Kyle (Capricorn) from RHOBH claimed how her sister Kim Richards (addicted Virgo sun/Pisces moon) was ungrateful for not TRYING when her husband funds her rehab. and from my Cap family members who prefers you to be incapable (all the while blaming you for your incompetence) but secretly thriving on the fact that they're the ones who are doing all the work (explains how they don't work out with other Earth signs except more submissive versions of Virgos yuck why are we like this).

So funny you'd ask this. I honestly don't know what caps want in a relationship. My best friend is a taurus and she is the same way. We sort of want all our freedom and independence but also hate it when we can't lean on our partners. Like we know we can get some thing done without a partner's help but we also want them to help us but we also get mad because the help feels like they are underestimating us.....if that makes sense? We want a steady perfect relationship but will also take our sweet ass time to commit fully. And no we don't want to be the 'white knighters' either, coz we like our partners to be strong and independent. But if we offer help/opinion it needs to get respected or at least taken in a good way or else it will hurt our egos

you guys are so complicated

So are Virgos!!!!

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Lol earth sign gang. Complicated and PICKY af. 🤪🤘

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@capgirl5 are Caps white knighters by nature? they want someone to rely on them? shit maybe it's actually earth sign bullshit now that i think on it. maybe it's cardinal + earth. but i see some of them go with independent women too but not too independent (there must be some illusion of dependency). which goes with @Kittens claim about fire sun women and Pisces wimmenz.

and the laughable stats i found about their frequent divorce with Aries. Cap moons too going for Aries. such comedy.

this would connect what i've observed from their behavior like when Kyle (Capricorn) from RHOBH claimed how her sister Kim Richards (addicted Virgo sun/Pisces moon) was ungrateful for not TRYING when her husband funds her rehab. and from my Cap family members who prefers you to be incapable (all the while blaming you for your incompetence) but secretly thriving on the fact that they're the ones who are doing all the work (explains how they don't work out with other Earth signs except more submissive versions of Virgos yuck why are we like this).

So funny you'd ask this. I honestly don't know what caps want in a relationship. My best friend is a taurus and she is the same way. We sort of want all our freedom and independence but also hate it when we can't lean on our partners. Like we know we can get some thing done without a partner's help but we also want them to help us but we also get mad because the help feels like they are underestimating us.....if that makes sense? We want a steady perfect relationship but will also take our sweet ass time to commit fully. And no we don't want to be the 'white knighters' either, coz we like our partners to be strong and independent. But if we offer help/opinion it needs to get respected or at least taken in a good way or else it will hurt our egos

you guys are so complicated

So are Virgos!!!!

Lol earth sign gang. Complicated and PICKY af. 🤪🤘

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after seeing the commitment stats of earth signs, i've come to the conclusion that Virgos have the shittiest taste of all the earth suns followed by Capricorn. they can literally stay with the shittiest people for a loooong time. i always thought it's Caps coz they always go for their conquest (yuck who wants someone so easy to prey on anyway?). but literally Virgo women as #1 for SAG MEN? we're just trash. at least Taurus women have the sense to elevate themselves financially/socially (maybe not always coz apparently like most every other sign, they come in 2 forms).

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Your sense of perception reminds me of Kitten.

i agree with some things Kittens say

at first not really but now i'm more convinced

"Small minds think alike."– Author Unknown

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we all have our opinions

some come in forms not easy to digest

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Posted by G6

Your sense of perception reminds me of Kitten.

i agree with some things Kittens say

at first not really but now i'm more convinced

"Small minds think alike."– Author Unknown

we all have our opinions

some come in forms not easy to digest

Yes, you're right. I noticed that your worn out prematurely digestive organs can't handle the truth.

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uhh ok why do we have to resort to this?

why can't you tell me exactly what the problem is with what i'm saying?

Posted by Gobby

Tbh, that's not really my style . When someone's attached, I usually back off and accept it. I'm not one for drama in my personal life.

Maybe it's down to a combination of the sun and moon, whether it's due to modality or element? Have you ever considered that as a viable possibility?

might also play into it. but you know, even if Caps do like conquest their relationships are lasting. things seem to work out for them in the end, so what's the harm? people don't get 'stolen' if they're not willing. i've never believed in that concept so i'm a little confused why some people are attacking me for putting this thought forward. it was just an observation.

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Posted by VenusX

Nothing to do with Cardinal signs, I've been single and dated all three signs as a single person. It's probably a guy thing. You're never more attractive to a man than when other men want you.

what about the women? i've noticed the women doing this the most.

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I can't speak for all cardinal women, but the ones I know ( Cap and Aries ) are loyal to the core.

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Nothing to do with Cardinal signs, I've been single and dated all three signs as a single person. It's probably a guy thing. You're never more attractive to a man than when other men want you.

what about the women? i've noticed the women doing this the most.

I can't speak for all cardinal women, but the ones I know ( Cap and Aries ) are loyal to the core.

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never said that they're not

rarely do anyone ever understand me at all in this place

i'm saying that things seem to mean a lot to them if they were acquired by CONQUEST

@VenusX what is your sign?

Posted by Erinelda

The only time a Capricorn ever stayed interested in me for a lengthy period of time was when I was in an abusive relationship and was just trying to have one friend to talk to. I think he got off on "saving me" emotionally. But when it came down to him having to help me leave my bad situation.. he offered no support and eventually ghosted.

Real winner he was lol.

they wanna white knight emotionally?

guess it explains why kittens won't spend on stitches

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they wanna white knight emotionally?

I really can't speak for all of them. But this one refused to discuss me leaving and my survival plan with me, in fact he would try to talk me out of leaving for my "safety". He only responded to me favorably when I was crying or raging. He had a ton of money he always talked about but never offered me anything, now I am a good girl and didn't give a shit at the time but as a responsible adult? I'm a bit pissed about that. Because he wanted to suck life out of a vulnerable person and not give anything back.

He still talked to me while I was homeless but offered me nothing constructive at all when we did talk, he just seemed butthurt. And he was losing interest in me as a person because I felt lighter. Then when I finally got my own place and was safe, sane and out of danger.. he ghosted for good.

After I told him that I loved him like family, that I appreciate him for being the only person I had...

It didn't matter because his toy has lost its flavor.

I suspect there was a little more than Capricorning going on, but those traits didn't help matters.

Is @Kittens dead by the way? Have you heard from him?

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it's hard for me to understand Capricorns which is sad coz it is my 3rd dominant after Virgo and Pisces.

as for Kittens, he still hasn't replied to any of my messages.

i'm worried coz this is a huge blow to him by the look of it. he's usually back to his ways by now. must've hurt. he actually makes good points if you're willing to wade through the bigotry but most people don't even try.

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they are always alpha-ing. it's like Kyle (Capricorn) in RHOBH always trying to one up LVP when LVP just wants to turn her mansion into a zoo but Kyle trying to depose her. Caps out there treating everything like it's a game of battleships.

Lisa should be happy Kyle was still talking to her after Lisa was trying to insinuate Kyle's husband cheats on her. What kind of friend does that? Kyle will always look bad because of her abrasiveness though smh.

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they are always alpha-ing. it's like Kyle (Capricorn) in RHOBH always trying to one up LVP when LVP just wants to turn her mansion into a zoo but Kyle trying to depose her. Caps out there treating everything like it's a game of battleships.

Lisa should be happy Kyle was still talking to her after Lisa was trying to insinuate Kyle's husband cheats on her. What kind of friend does that? Kyle will always look bad because of her abrasiveness though smh.

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Lisa's not without her faults but even in the past she's always defended Kyle but she doesn't get the same in return. YDAFUQ would LVP sell the puppygate story? it's not like she needs the money. Kyle reads wayyy to much shit about Virgos coz she got her Virgo sun/Pisces moon sister she's dealing with too. and if you're going to listen to a lot of the things Kyle SAYS about LVP, you'd see how she's NOT a good friend to LVP at all. she lost her brother and had to deal with this shit too?

they're all trying to target her coz their men are being accused of monetary fraud and this is not a coincidence due to the TIME when the whole puppygate started.

Posted by Skeleton

I know my cap mother is not that type, but my cap moon father does.

Plus witnessing few of the capmoon people as well.

noticed the same with cap moons

i'm convinced sometimes that people are more their moons than their sun