Cap girls answering slow

So is it normal that someone texts you and you answer 7 hours or days later..

I like this Cap girl but I get insecure when someone is online and just doesn't open my message half day.

Yeah we met abroad and we live in different countries so there's no urgency cause I won't be arriving behind her door anyway but I would relocate when feeling connected to someone and seeing potential.

We met on hiking camp. 5 days together and on the last day she leaned on me, made sweet compliments and said she wants to hear my jokes everyday.

Im just wondering if her ignoring means that Im some annoying person texting and should move on.

I had also something similar with another Cap girl who texts me 3am, I answer to it 9am and then she opens that one

6(!) days later. Like wtf. You started conversation and now gone with the wind.

Posted by the_baby_carrot

Is she straight? 😕

I never really bluntly ask like that.. Just read the body language and behaviour.

Women can call themselves straight all life and then randomly walk away with a chick. Real stories.

No need for the labels in my planet

Just because you feel there’s no need for “labels”, doesn’t mean we all feel like that. I’m straight 100% , and that will never change. She’s probably straight too, and picked up on your interest in her and now doesn’t know how to get herself out of it.

Sounds to me, like she was just being nice.

Posted by Dreamyboy

There was this cap girl I used to talk to. Communication was weird with her. Maybe it was games, but it didn’t work because I knew what she was up to.

Anyways, she’d text me, but it would be very intermittent. Sometimes she’d disappear and pop up again after MONTHS! I asked her if she wanted to get some brunch one day after her telling me several times that she liked me, but she declined. I thought it was stupid of her to even say both of those things. This happened for like a year over all, her texting me out of nowhere and seeing how I was, flirting etc.

If anything, I was more annoyed by her style of communication and it went both ways. Eventually, she called me a rude asshole that had no sense of decency and etiquette.

She probably blocked me, but I never bothered to message her back after she wrote a huge text wall to me. Fucking crazy ass lady no wonder she is single.

I wouldn’t say she’s crazy, but whatever makes you sleep better.

Sounds like, she would text you when she was bored, also with the flirting- saw you as a little mental stimulation fun, but that’s about it.

Posted by Dreamyboy

Posted by NostalgicCappyy

Posted by Dreamyboy

There was this cap girl I used to talk to. Communication was weird with her. Maybe it was games, but it didn’t work because I knew what she was up to.

Anyways, she’d text me, but it would be very intermittent. Sometimes she’d disappear and pop up again after MONTHS! I asked her if she wanted to get some brunch one day after her telling me several times that she liked me, but she declined. I thought it was stupid of her to even say both of those things. This happened for like a year over all, her texting me out of nowhere and seeing how I was, flirting etc.

If anything, I was more annoyed by her style of communication and it went both ways. Eventually, she called me a rude asshole that had no sense of decency and etiquette.

She probably blocked me, but I never bothered to message her back after she wrote a huge text wall to me. Fucking crazy ass lady no wonder she is single.

I wouldn’t say she’s crazy, but whatever makes you sleep better.

Sounds like, she would text you when she was bored, also with the flirting- saw you as a little mental stimulation fun, but that’s about it.

That is also what I put together as well. I figured either she was crazy or bored. She’d literally text me to even argue. What in the fuck.

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Mental stimulation, has to start somewhere. 😉

If she was as interested in you as you are in her, she’d have texted back sooner. At the very least, she’d have probably taken the time to explain. Hey. Sorry. Been super swamped since we got back...

Earth signs in general are pretty outta sight, outta mind. Unless she’s got some significant Air placements, this probably isn’t going anywhere. Straight... gay... or anything in between.

Ok thanks for the replies.

Will stop contacting her and just enjoy the nice memories. If if thing don't work out Im glad I had the chance to meet new people.

Also you can keep answering the main question, maybe others want to read about Caps.

Have a great day ♡

As a lesbian cap , I’d say no. If she doesn’t open your messages often then or at least talk to you some every day or almost every day I’d let it go. She’s not putting you on her priority list. When we are into someone they become part of our daily routine. We move slow, but we’ll have a high interest in getting to know you.