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8th house synastry
Understanding 8th House Synastry in Astrology
8th house synastry reveals deep emotional connections and shared transformation between partners. It highlights intimacy, trust, and how individuals influence each other's psychological growth, often involving themes of shared resources and hidden desires. This aspect can create powerful bonds but also intense emotional challenges that require mutual understanding.
......please do tell. You can keep it short and simple. I have someone’s sun and mercury on my 8th house. You as the planet person did you feel intensely for the house person?
I only have Lilith in my 8th. But HE has Lilith in your 8th? How is it? I'm so curious.
I do have some obsession going on as the house person. Has anyone been the planet person? And how did you feel about the house person? From my experience the is intensity both ways.
I do have some obsession going on as the house person. Has anyone been the planet person? And how did you feel about the house person? From my experience the is intensity both ways.
I have sun in this guys 8th house. I haven’t been able to stop thinking about him for three years and I feel pretty obsessed with him. We get along great and the sex if through the roof but I keep reading that only the house person if affected. I can’t imagine that he’d be more drawn to him than I am to him because he’s in the back of my mind most of the time
I do have some obsession going on as the house person. Has anyone been the planet person? And how did you feel about the house person? From my experience the is intensity both ways.
I have sun in this guys 8th house. I haven’t been able to stop thinking about him for three years and I feel pretty obsessed with him. We get along great and the sex if through the roof but I keep reading that only the house person if affected. I can’t imagine that he’d be more drawn to him than I am to him because he’s in the back of my mind most of the time
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I agree you, both persons feel the intensity. Hope more people share their story here.
His moon is in my 8th house and my mercury is in his 8th house. I dunno how he feels really but it was the best sex of my life and I'm obsessed with him. I have heard both sides. Some say it's the house person some say it's the planet person.
He doesnt act obsessed with me tho and I dont think I'm the best sex hes ever had cause if I was we would probably be together....so I dunno.
So my Neptune is in someone's 8th House... What does that mean? Who feels this more, the House person or the planet person? I've read different opinions on that...
Here is a brief copy and paste.....and do you relate to the description?
Neptune in your Partners 8th
Situations become complicated or vague surrounding shared resources or money. Although the Neptune person will be quite generous with the house person, the house person may have many other financial obligations that require support and sensitivity of the Neptune person. In areas of sex, there can be a magical or mystical connection that will open you both up to deeper spirituality. You both may also share many esoteric interests and will enjoy uncovering the mysteries of the universe, and possibly the magic of sexual energy. Both parties need to be honest with one another, don't promise more than you can deliver.
I do have some obsession going on as the house person. Has anyone been the planet person? And how did you feel about the house person? From my experience the is intensity both ways.
I have sun in this guys 8th house. I haven’t been able to stop thinking about him for three years and I feel pretty obsessed with him. We get along great and the sex if through the roof but I keep reading that only the house person if affected. I can’t imagine that he’d be more drawn to him than I am to him because he’s in the back of my mind most of the time
I agree you, both persons feel the intensity. Hope more people share their story here.
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Yeah I hope to hear more stories from the house people
His moon is in my 8th house and my mercury is in his 8th house. I dunno how he feels really but it was the best sex of my life and I'm obsessed with him. I have heard both sides. Some say it's the house person some say it's the planet person.
He doesnt act obsessed with me tho and I dont think I'm the best sex hes ever had cause if I was we would probably be together....so I dunno.
I’m sure he feels it to. As a planet person I hide my obsession pretty hard because I don’t want rejection. Do you show your obsession?
Also... the sex. Ugh, so good.
His moon is in my 8th house and my mercury is in his 8th house. I dunno how he feels really but it was the best sex of my life and I'm obsessed with him. I have heard both sides. Some say it's the house person some say it's the planet person.
He doesnt act obsessed with me tho and I dont think I'm the best sex hes ever had cause if I was we would probably be together....so I dunno.
I’m sure he feels it to. As a planet person I hide my obsession pretty hard because I don’t want rejection. Do you show your obsession?
Also... the sex. Ugh, so good.
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I used to show it in the past. He dissapeared but then came back and now I'm trying to hide it. When we met up I tried to play cool but my body completly betrayed me. We didn't have sex but he did make his way into my pants and felt how wet I was....I had told him I wasnt really that wet but he knew I was lying... he was all like "omg, you lied to me!!!" 🙈😳 plus I couldnt stop biting my nails(nervous) and smiling. He makes me feel like a teenager and I'm freaking 40 yrs old.
But now he has dissapeared on me again. So that's why I wonder if he even feels the same. I cant fucking stop thinking about him and I keep dreaming about him. I just want it to stop cause it is torture.
His moon is in my 8th house and my mercury is in his 8th house. I dunno how he feels really but it was the best sex of my life and I'm obsessed with him. I have heard both sides. Some say it's the house person some say it's the planet person.
He doesnt act obsessed with me tho and I dont think I'm the best sex hes ever had cause if I was we would probably be together....so I dunno.
I’m sure he feels it to. As a planet person I hide my obsession pretty hard because I don’t want rejection. Do you show your obsession?
Also... the sex. Ugh, so good.
I used to show it in the past. He dissapeared but then came back and now I'm trying to hide it. When we met up I tried to play cool but my body completly betrayed me. We didn't have sex but he did make his way into my pants and felt how wet I was....I had told him I wasnt really that wet but he knew I was lying... he was all like "omg, you lied to me!!!" 🙈😳 plus I couldnt stop biting my nails(nervous) and smiling. He makes me feel like a teenager and I'm freaking 40 yrs old.
But now he has dissapeared on me again. So that's why I wonder if he even feels the same. I cant fucking stop thinking about him and I keep dreaming about him. I just want it to stop cause it is torture.
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Damn girl, I feel your pain. The disappearing, not knowing where you stand, constant thinking... I wonder if it’s worth admitting how I feel but I don’t want to risk anything
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I was so emotional when I wrote it, now as sag, I don’t like being too emotional 😆
Thank you!