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Understanding the Connection Between Your Mother and Moon Sign
Your relationship with your mother can be influenced by your moon sign, which reflects your emotional needs and inner world. Analyzing both your and her signs can reveal patterns in your bond and communication style. Astrology offers insights into familial dynamics and helps foster understanding and healing.
Not too great. I felt more closer to my late Libra grandma whom I miss so dearly.
I don't know what my mom moon sign is. Without birth time I think she would be an Aquarius moon, I believe. Mine with or without birth time is Gemini.
Posted by Solo
Very on/off. Libra/Scorpio.I will fuck someone up for her but I'll also scream at her lol
You have opposite moons
and squared suns?
Posted by Solo
Very on/off. Libra/Scorpio.
I will fuck someone up for her but I'll also scream at her lolYou have opposite moons
and squared suns?click to expand
Dunno. We don't get along very long lol
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Oppositions and squares aren’t the best aspects, so that figures.
Posted by Bumboklaat
It was short lived but very vague mainly cause I was so young. My mom was very quiet with me and would mostly talk when I asked her questions. She was super protective and would treat me better than my siblings. I always felt uncomfortable about that.It did give me a lot of self value tho having a bit of a quiet superiority complex.
Her moon sign was Virgo. Mine is Scorpio.
What do you mean it was short lived ?
Posted by Bumboklaat
It was short lived but very vague mainly cause I was so young. My mom was very quiet with me and would mostly talk when I asked her questions. She was super protective and would treat me better than my siblings. I always felt uncomfortable about that.It did give me a lot of self value tho having a bit of a quiet superiority complex.
Her moon sign was Virgo. Mine is Scorpio.
What do you mean it was short lived ?
Posted by Bumboklaat
It was short lived but very vague mainly cause I was so young. My mom was very quiet with me and would mostly talk when I asked her questions. She was super protective and would treat me better than my siblings. I always felt uncomfortable about that.
It did give me a lot of self value tho having a bit of a quiet superiority complex.
Her moon sign was Virgo. Mine is Scorpio.What do you mean it was short lived ?
click to expandShe passed when I was 8. So I can recount max 5 years of memories with her.
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Oh no that is so sad …. Sorry for your loss, you were too young 🥹❤️
Annoys tf out of me with the constant complaining. That's her Moon in Virgo with Sun in Sagittarius and combine it with the electric SUDDEN overreactions of the Mars in Aquarius. Quite frankly the most disturbing.
Posted by KimboSlice
I love her more than I love myself❤️
What are both your moon signs?
click to expandShe’s a Libra moon and I’m a Scorpio moon.
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Thanks
Posted by VenusStellium7
Annoys tf out of me with the constant complaining. That's her Moon in Virgo with Sun in Sagittarius and combine it with the electric SUDDEN overreactions of the Mars in Aquarius. Quite frankly the most disturbing.
What’s your moon?
i’m from a single father home (dad divorced mom) but my mom’s been in and out of my life depending on her mood and mental/emotional stability level (off and on alcoholic) 😅 she’s a double scorpio. scorpio sun / scorpio moon
my biological mom was less than ideal but i don’t think i missed out all that much on the “mom experience” since the universe somehow blessed me with a few women who unexpectedly acted like a loving, caring mom towards me throughout my life. most notable ones being these two:
1. my non-biological mom aka our former nanny (au pair) virgo sun, aquarius moon
she’s still one of my very good friends (or more like family) till this day even though she’s like 20 years older than me lol she was everything one would picture an ideal mother to be. she came into my life when i was around five and worked for our family until i was 16 (she had to leave to take care of her sick parents). we technically didn’t need an au pair as soon as i turned 12 but i had a younger brother too and my dad needed an adult to keep an eye on us since he was working all the time.
2. my libra sun /libra moon best friend constantly acts like a mom 😅 she’ll say things like “send me pics of what you ate today so i know you’re eating healthy.” 😂 or “did you know that you’re shortening your lifespan by not sleeping enough!? how many hours are you sleeping??”😂 cuz she knows i barely sleep 😅 she’s always sending me books in the mail she thinks i might like or books that changed her life and that she wants me to read too lol
the last time my biological mom was in our family home (visiting) was:
i was 15 and came home from school one day to my mom screaming at our nanny, practically terrorizing her so i told her she can’t talk to our nanny like that and told her to go home. she called my dad later that night crying saying that i liked the nanny more than her to which my dad replied with “well, you can’t really blame him” which only made matters worse (she’s an off and on alcoholic. sober for certain periods and then relapses again when something doesn’t go her way).
but in hindsight though, i feel like i could’ve handled the nanny situation a lot better than i did. i was 15, my mom was screaming at our nanny, our nanny was looking like she was about to cry, i had to do something so i just blurted out “mom, you can’t talk to her like that. you need to go home.”
i dunno i was just pissed cuz my mom who was always a mess when anyone needed her was screaming at our nanny who was always there for us when she wasn’t.
my mom always had a tendency to drunk call me when she needed to vent/complain about something (didn’t matter if i had to get up super early for school the next day) but was never really around when it mattered to us (also i guess cuz my dad told her not to come around too often). she has a child (my half brother) by another man she became involved with after my dad.
we’re on good/decent terms now. i only talk to her on occasion.
Posted by VenusStellium7
Annoys tf out of me with the constant complaining. That's her Moon in Virgo with Sun in Sagittarius and combine it with the electric SUDDEN overreactions of the Mars in Aquarius. Quite frankly the most disturbing.What’s your moon?
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My Moon is in Taurus and in it is exactly at it's house placement of 2nd house.
Posted by VenusStellium7
Annoys tf out of me with the constant complaining. That's her Moon in Virgo with Sun in Sagittarius and combine it with the electric SUDDEN overreactions of the Mars in Aquarius. Quite frankly the most disturbing.What’s your moon?
click to expandMy Moon is in Taurus and in it is exactly at it's house placement of 2nd house.
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Mine too!
Posted by serenidad
the last time my biological mom was in our family home (visiting) was:i was 15 and came home from school one day to my mom screaming at our nanny, practically terrorizing her so i told her she can’t talk to our nanny like that and told her to go home. she called my dad later that night crying saying that i liked the nanny more than her to which my dad replied with “well, you can’t really blame him” which only made matters worse (she’s an off and on alcoholic. sober for certain periods and then relapses again when something doesn’t go her way).
but in hindsight though, i feel like i could’ve handled the nanny situation a lot better than i did. i was 15, my mom was screaming at our nanny, our nanny was looking like she was about to cry, i had to do something so i just blurted out “mom, you can’t talk to her like that. you need to go home.”
i dunno i was just pissed cuz my mom who was always a mess when anyone needed her was screaming at our nanny who was always there for us when she wasn’t.
my mom always had a tendency to drunk call me when she needed to vent/complain about something (didn’t matter if i had to get up super early for school the next day) but was never really around when it mattered to us (also i guess cuz my dad told her not to come around too often). she has a child (my half brother) by another man she became involved with after my dad.
we’re on good/decent terms now. i only talk to her on occasion.
Horrible side of moon in Scorpio
🥹💙
Posted by VenusStellium7
Annoys tf out of me with the constant complaining. That's her Moon in Virgo with Sun in Sagittarius and combine it with the electric SUDDEN overreactions of the Mars in Aquarius. Quite frankly the most disturbing.What’s your moon?
click to expandMy Moon is in Taurus and in it is exactly at it's house placement of 2nd house.
click to expandMine too!
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Guess we have a Moon conjunct Moon which is a sweet combo.
Posted by VenusStellium7
Annoys tf out of me with the constant complaining. That's her Moon in Virgo with Sun in Sagittarius and combine it with the electric SUDDEN overreactions of the Mars in Aquarius. Quite frankly the most disturbing.What’s your moon?
click to expandMy Moon is in Taurus and in it is exactly at it's house placement of 2nd house.
click to expandMine too!
click to expandGuess we have a Moon conjunct Moon which is a sweet combo.
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What degree?
It's the 4th House which shows relationships with our mothers, not Moon. Moon is how we see our mothers.
Posted by VenusStellium7
Annoys tf out of me with the constant complaining. That's her Moon in Virgo with Sun in Sagittarius and combine it with the electric SUDDEN overreactions of the Mars in Aquarius. Quite frankly the most disturbing.What’s your moon?
click to expandMy Moon is in Taurus and in it is exactly at it's house placement of 2nd house.
click to expandMine too!
click to expandGuess we have a Moon conjunct Moon which is a sweet combo.
click to expandWhat degree?
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Moon in Taurus 2nd House 22 degrees
Posted by Som
It's the 4th House which shows relationships with our mothers, not Moon. Moon is how we see our mothers.
Thanks
Yes there’s a difference in how you perceive and how your relationship is with her
I’ll remember that in future 👍
Posted by Moon4
Cancer woman mom - Libra man sonIt's never going to work out between us this is what I have realized lately
She treats me like trash, doesn't support and love me, disrespects me and use me as her toy not a human
I have tried everything but if I'm the only one trying to make this pairing work it's not going to work, I am exhausted and gave up lately
I live with her but working on myself to get my sht together so I can move out asap and live a peaceful life
Cancer Libra pairing is that we see other as the devil, so there is no love and trust pretty much what I have gone through my entire life
What are both your moons?
My relationship with my mother has always been really well. That's likely odd coming from a Scorpio moon, since 99.9 of astrologers will say a Scorpio moons relationship with their mother is supposed to be terrible. She was never bad to me though. I mean she had her strict Leo moon side, but never beat me or made me feel like I was worthless. If anything she spoiled me, and did every single thing in her power to make me have a good childhood. Idk if that is a result of her own personal childhood and trying to compensate, but for as a single Virgo sun Leo moon mother in the 90s and 2000s I feel she did everything she possibly could to raise me. As a young adult and still wanting to have fun however, there is a ton of times she pawned me off to my grandparents, but overall she never truly betrayed me, or made me feel worthless. I give her a pass, and it's sad because sometimes she breaks down in regret like she didn't do enough. It's hard for me to show corny emotions, so I try to lightly tell her she did find, and I don't hold any type of resentment towards her. Which is true. I know she did everything she could, and I forgive her rare fuck ups and imperfections. Yet she deeply feels like she didn't do enough. I always thought living as a Leo sun with Scorpio moon was tough. I can't even imagine a Virgo sun with Leo moon.
Posted by serenidad
the last time my biological mom was in our family home (visiting) was:
i was 15 and came home from school one day to my mom screaming at our nanny, practically terrorizing her so i told her she can’t talk to our nanny like that and told her to go home. she called my dad later that night crying saying that i liked the nanny more than her to which my dad replied with “well, you can’t really blame him” which only made matters worse (she’s an off and on alcoholic. sober for certain periods and then relapses again when something doesn’t go her way).
but in hindsight though, i feel like i could’ve handled the nanny situation a lot better than i did. i was 15, my mom was screaming at our nanny, our nanny was looking like she was about to cry, i had to do something so i just blurted out “mom, you can’t talk to her like that. you need to go home.”
i dunno i was just pissed cuz my mom who was always a mess when anyone needed her was screaming at our nanny who was always there for us when she wasn’t.
my mom always had a tendency to drunk call me when she needed to vent/complain about something (didn’t matter if i had to get up super early for school the next day) but was never really around when it mattered to us (also i guess cuz my dad told her not to come around too often). she has a child (my half brother) by another man she became involved with after my dad.
we’re on good/decent terms now. i only talk to her on occasion.Horrible side of moon in Scorpio
🥹💙
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an unevolved scorpio moon will happily drag you to hell with them.
they will self-destruct in the worst way they can think of in order to make a point and then say to you “look what you did to me.”
Posted by Som
It's the 4th House which shows relationships with our mothers, not Moon. Moon is how we see our mothers.
yup
pluto in 4th house here
and scorpio in 4th
😅
My favourite part about it is those mothers which say, "I AM A WONDERFUL MOTHER, I do everything for my baby, what a crap you say about his/her Moon in Scorpio", blah-blah-blah. They forget that the behaviour which they perceive as self-givingness, their children may see as not more than overprotection. But it's their POV!
yup
pluto in 4th house here
and scorpio in 4th
😅
Posted by serenidad
the last time my biological mom was in our family home (visiting) was:
i was 15 and came home from school one day to my mom screaming at our nanny, practically terrorizing her so i told her she can’t talk to our nanny like that and told her to go home. she called my dad later that night crying saying that i liked the nanny more than her to which my dad replied with “well, you can’t really blame him” which only made matters worse (she’s an off and on alcoholic. sober for certain periods and then relapses again when something doesn’t go her way).
but in hindsight though, i feel like i could’ve handled the nanny situation a lot better than i did. i was 15, my mom was screaming at our nanny, our nanny was looking like she was about to cry, i had to do something so i just blurted out “mom, you can’t talk to her like that. you need to go home.”
i dunno i was just pissed cuz my mom who was always a mess when anyone needed her was screaming at our nanny who was always there for us when she wasn’t.
my mom always had a tendency to drunk call me when she needed to vent/complain about something (didn’t matter if i had to get up super early for school the next day) but was never really around when it mattered to us (also i guess cuz my dad told her not to come around too often). she has a child (my half brother) by another man she became involved with after my dad.
we’re on good/decent terms now. i only talk to her on occasion.Horrible side of moon in Scorpio
🥹💙
click to expandan unevolved scorpio moon will happily drag you to hell with them.
they will self-destruct in the worst way they can think of in order to make a point and then say to you “look what you did to me.”
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Evil
Posted by Som
My favourite part about it is those mothers which say, "I AM A WONDERFUL MOTHER, I do everything for my baby, what a crap you say about his/her Moon in Scorpio", blah-blah-blah. They forget that the behaviour which they perceive as self-givingness, their children may see as not more than overprotection. But it's their POV!yup
pluto in 4th house here
and scorpio in 4th
😅
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My mother used to say “you wouldn’t have me any different would you”?
Lol
Her cap sun and Leo moon were never in the wrong 😏
Ajna (Age 01 to 32 perspective ): I love her. She was my best friend. I had the best childhood because of her.
Ajna (age 37 onward perspective):
There's a lot of things I'm finding out that makes our relationship complicated though I love her. I don't feel like I truly knew her and because of how she was raised. I still communicate with her though she's crossed over.
Moon 🌚 ---- Scorpio 🌹🌋🌑🦂🥷👁️🖤💀
Posted by xxAjuxx
Ajna (Age 01 to 32 perspective ): I love her. She was my best friend. I had the best childhood because of her.Ajna (age 37 onward perspective):
There's a lot of things I'm finding out that makes our relationship complicated though I love her. I don't feel like I truly knew her and because of how she was raised. I still communicate with her though she's crossed over.
Moon 🌚 ---- Scorpio 🌹🌋🌑🦂🥷👁️🖤💀
You both have Scorpio moon?
Posted by Som
My favourite part about it is those mothers which say, "I AM A WONDERFUL MOTHER, I do everything for my baby, what a crap you say about his/her Moon in Scorpio", blah-blah-blah. They forget that the behaviour which they perceive as self-givingness, their children may see as not more than overprotection. But it's their POV!yup
pluto in 4th house here
and scorpio in 4th
😅
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yeah some people mistake ego for love.
they think they love you but they’re really just pushing their own ego on you and calling it love.
Posted by xxAjuxx
Ajna (Age 01 to 32 perspective ): I love her. She was my best friend. I had the best childhood because of her.
Ajna (age 37 onward perspective):
There's a lot of things I'm finding out that makes our relationship complicated though I love her. I don't feel like I truly knew her and because of how she was raised. I still communicate with her though she's crossed over.
Moon 🌚 ---- Scorpio 🌹🌋🌑🦂🥷👁️🖤💀You both have Scorpio moon?
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No just me.
Mom : Aquarius sun/ Taurus Moon
Posted by xxAjuxx
Ajna (Age 01 to 32 perspective ): I love her. She was my best friend. I had the best childhood because of her.
Ajna (age 37 onward perspective):
There's a lot of things I'm finding out that makes our relationship complicated though I love her. I don't feel like I truly knew her and because of how she was raised. I still communicate with her though she's crossed over.
Moon 🌚 ---- Scorpio 🌹🌋🌑🦂🥷👁️🖤💀You both have Scorpio moon?
click to expandNo just me.
Mom : Aquarius sun/ Taurus Moon
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Opposing moons can be challenging 😥
Posted by Moon4
Cancer woman mom - Libra man sonIt's never going to work out between us this is what I have realized lately
She treats me like trash, doesn't support and love me, disrespects me and use me as her toy not a human
I have tried everything but if I'm the only one trying to make this pairing work it's not going to work, I am exhausted and gave up lately
I live with her but working on myself to get my sht together so I can move out asap and live a peaceful life
Cancer Libra pairing is that we see other as the devil, so there is no love and trust pretty much what I have gone through my entire life
cancer moms can either be great or just stifling. I'll never understand those kind of moms that try to make their children a surrogate husband 😳
Posted by xxAjuxx
Ajna (Age 01 to 32 perspective ): I love her. She was my best friend. I had the best childhood because of her.
Ajna (age 37 onward perspective):
There's a lot of things I'm finding out that makes our relationship complicated though I love her. I don't feel like I truly knew her and because of how she was raised. I still communicate with her though she's crossed over.
Moon 🌚 ---- Scorpio 🌹🌋🌑🦂🥷👁️🖤💀You both have Scorpio moon?
click to expandNo just me.
Mom : Aquarius sun/ Taurus Moon
click to expandOpposing moons can be challenging 😥
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Taurus energy is very easy for me and soothing. I have a lot of 2nd house placements too. Sometimes but Her sun though I think might have been challenging for sure.
Posted by xxAjuxx
Ajna (Age 01 to 32 perspective ): I love her. She was my best friend. I had the best childhood because of her.
Ajna (age 37 onward perspective):
There's a lot of things I'm finding out that makes our relationship complicated though I love her. I don't feel like I truly knew her and because of how she was raised. I still communicate with her though she's crossed over.
Moon 🌚 ---- Scorpio 🌹🌋🌑🦂🥷👁️🖤💀You both have Scorpio moon?
click to expandNo just me.
Mom : Aquarius sun/ Taurus Moon
click to expandOpposing moons can be challenging 😥
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opposing moons can either be best friends or irritate tf out of one another. if you two are on the same page as far as your values go, it’s fun and engaging but if not, it’s like world war 3 😂
square moons get along pretty well from personal experience despite the discomfort and tension that’s supposed to be there.
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What’s your relationship like with your mother?
If you can state her and your moon sign, that’d be good
It’s something I’ve been interested in for some time. Please feel free to vent 😃
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