Venus in Virgo & Venus in Libra

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My venus is in virgo. First off, there are two types of virgo's. The ones suffering incredibly low self-esteems, that sleep with almost everyone for social validation (I've run into *at least* three sun virgos with herpes, just saying) then you have the positive virgos, with healthy self-esteems, but that critique everyone down to a fault. With that said about the sign in general, Venus, is in detriment in virgo. Venus is about love and what turns us on, but when it's in virgo, emotions get filtered through logic and thought, which withers the feelings out. Individuals with venus in virgo oftentimes hardly ever let romances get off the ground because we privately nitpick and find fault in everyone, or, a quality that could be a flaw down the line. I've met some venus in virgos in their sixties that have never had a relationship at all. (I do natal charts) **If you're after a venus in virgo, know this; we will not flirt, or even open up to you romantically unless you convince us that you are completely and utterly into us and us alone. If you can do this, I know I would look past some of your shortcomings. But be prepared to have a conversation about any flaws I perceive (a very soft, kind and well picked conversation in the right place at the right time with a *alot* of tact, but make no mistake it will come and I will find out if this flaw can be fixed.

If not, then I'll probably leave. If I cared enough to bring it up, rest assured, **it matters to me** if it doesn't bother me, you'll never hear about that flaw from me, as matter of fact, I might lightheartedly joke with you about it, just to send the message that I love you and accept you despite, If it's a flaw I know you're sensitive about, I will absolutely never bring it up, and actually do small things to help you with it if I know it bothers you or gets in your own way towards progressing wherever you are in your life, I will do small things to help you that you will never even suspect I had a hand in; you'll just think help "happened to fall upon your lap" because I love you and respect your touch buttons so much).

Also, Virgo is a freak in the bedroom, developed or underdeveloped virgo aside. When we are with you, we are incredible freaks. Sex is all about your pleasure, even over our own. Some virgos even allow a third person into the bedroom for their lover if they know your fantasy is something that they can't fulfill, or cannot fulfill it alone (monogomous relationship or not).

Read up on how virgo is a mutable sign, as well as service-oriented.
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My venus is in virgo. First off, there are two types of virgo's. The ones suffering incredibly low self-esteems, that sleep with almost everyone for social validation (I've run into *at least* three sun virgos with herpes, just saying) then you have the positive virgos, with healthy self-esteems, but that critique everyone down to a fault. With that said about the sign in general, Venus, is in detriment in virgo. Venus is about love and what turns us on, but when it's in virgo, emotions get filtered through logic and thought, which withers the feelings out. Individuals with venus in virgo oftentimes hardly ever let romances get off the ground because we privately nitpick and find fault in everyone, or, a quality that could be a flaw down the line. I've met some venus in virgos in their sixties that have never had a relationship at all. (I do natal charts) **If you're after a venus in virgo, know this; we will not flirt, or even open up to you romantically unless you convince us that you are completely and utterly into us and us alone. If you can do this, I know I would look past some of your shortcomings. But be prepared to have a conversation about any flaws I perceive (a very soft, kind and well picked conversation in the right place at the right time with a *alot* of tact, but make no mistake it will come and I will find out if this flaw can be fixed.

If not, then I'll probably leave. If I cared enough to bring it up, rest assured, **it matters to me** if it doesn't bother me, you'll never hear about that flaw from me, as matter of fact, I might lightheartedly joke with you about it, just to send the message that I love you and accept you despite, If it's a flaw I know you're sensitive about, I will absolutely never bring it up, and actually do small things to help you with it if I know it bothers you or gets in your own way towards progressing wherever you are in your life, I will do small things to help you that you will never even suspect I had a hand in; you'll just think help "happened to fall upon your lap" because I love you and respect your touch buttons so much).

Also, Virgo is a freak in the bedroom, developed or underdeveloped virgo aside. When we are with you, we are incredible freaks. Sex is all about your pleasure, even over our own. Some virgos even allow a third person into the bedroom for their lover if they know your fantasy is something that they can't fulfill, or cannot fulfill it alone (monogomous relationship or not).

Read up on how virgo is a mutable sign, as well as service-oriented.

Accurate. There’s definitely two types that you described. I have dated both kinds. The former kind did end up contracting Herpes too. I dated the nit picky one long term and while he was everything you described, he did have a very low self-esteem too. Both of them had a low self-esteem. However, what separate them apart was that one slept with anything that walked while the other was selective about who he slept with. I think V in Virgo is not a confident placement. Never met one that was. My nephew and sister in law also have this placement and both have shitty self-esteem as well. It’s a placement that’s hard on itself.

Also, the criticizing partner for their flaws with tact is all fine and dandy but I don’t think this placement handles criticism well when they are on the receiving end. Food for thought.
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Posted by SassyKiwiAre Venus in Virgos turned on by neurotic, ocd tendencies?

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I have VIV and am attracted to and get obsessed with absolute losers, in general. Deros, ice addicts, punks, troubled people... You name it. I even had an infatuation with a well known gunmen in my area, before he committed his horrible crimes that is.

Yep, i have no hope.
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A question. Is it really the person themselves such a you describe you are drawn to or what you can/want to do for them. Why exactly are you drawn you to them?
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yes i like nervous and shy boys

where do you bury the bodies?

Yeah that’s where I was getting at. I suspected Virgo placements have creepy tendencies that are good at coming off demure when in fact they are not 🧐
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you seem like the type who believes MJ is a pedo

only aries ever truly understands virgo energy

everyone else just pretends to
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I love Venus in Libra (and Leo).

Married to a Venus in Libra in the 7th conjunto Pluto. You talking about love you to death. Love brotherhood.

Yes, might have metro vibes 'til you get to known them and see them in action for the ones they love... and you'll forget all that elegance. They don't tell you, they don't brag, they just turn-up. That's still an Aries/Libra axis.
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Posted by SassyKiwiAre Venus in Virgos turned on by neurotic, ocd tendencies?

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I have VIV and am attracted to and get obsessed with absolute losers, in general. Deros, ice addicts, punks, troubled people... You name it. I even had an infatuation with a well known gunmen in my area, before he committed his horrible crimes that is.

Yep, i have no hope.
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I can kind of relate to this. But I'm not sure which natal placement it's cause by. It might be that my venus is in the eighth house, and my sun sign is all about helping others, my life path no 6 is service oriented and my south node is in pisces; so it could be any of these.
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I can kind of relate to this. But I'm not sure which natal placement it's cause by. It might be that my venus is in the eighth house, and my sun sign is all about helping others, my life path no 6 is service oriented and my south node is in pisces; so it could be any of these.

That's interesting. The south node in Pisces could accentuate your cancer and scorpio (?) placements, esp the Cancer sun. The south node is what we're moving away from (so in your case, it's Pisces) and towards virgo, which is reserved and analytical but also service oriented, but you probably already know that!
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I did but by all means I love the give and the takeaway. I could miss something, and the fact that you provided feed is appreciated;
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Posted by colliereborn

yes i like nervous and shy boys

where do you bury the bodies?

Yeah that’s where I was getting at. I suspected Virgo placements have creepy tendencies that are good at coming off demure when in fact they are not 🧐

you seem like the type who believes MJ is a pedo

only aries ever truly understands virgo energy

everyone else just pretends to
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I think anyone with Virgo in their chart or who is fairly logical can figure a Virgo out. It’s just what to do, once they have been figured out.