@JayTheFantastic
6 Years500+ PostsAries
Certain planetary aspects and placements in a man's birth chart, such as weak Venus influence or difficult aspects involving Mars or Mercury, can lead to a less noticeable presence. These factors may influence charm, confidence, or social visibility, making him less likely to attract attention from women.
Any placements and aspects that doesn't have mines I suppose 🤷♂️
Like say for instance. If I post my picture I certainly won't go unnoticed by the ladies here. Or the men for that matter.
Any placements and aspects that doesn't have mines I suppose 🤷♂️
Like say for instance. If I post my picture I certainly won't go unnoticed by the ladies here. Or the men for that matter.
We're still waiting for you and MrBalance to post a photo. It's taken on a mythological status.
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Bwahahahahaha!!! It'll blow you away believe me. And MrBalance. If there's anybody I'm interesting in seeing would be him if not nobody else.
Any placements and aspects that doesn't have mines I suppose 🤷♂️
Like say for instance. If I post my picture I certainly won't go unnoticed by the ladies here. Or the men for that matter.
You mean the picture of your chest?
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Hmm🤔 this kind of got me in suspense, kinda like in a "you know me" kinda way. I don't think I ever posted my chest. At least I haven't since I first arrived in 2011. Gemini man's chest is bombing. That'll really blow you ladies away. You are a lady I assume?🤔
Well this didn’t go as expected 😂
I've had women and even men go crazy over me in the past. I'm not bragging by saying that. I try as hard as possible to go unnoticed, because I'm not really sure if I truly trust people all that much. Especially random ones. Anyway it's easy to go unnoticed. Anyone can do it. Step one is never continue a conversation with people. Like ever. No matter how nice they are being, be polite, but get the hell out of the conversation as fast as possible. Over time people will get the hint. The way I see it if I can get people to be nice, or simply neutral with me, then I'm doing social anxiety the right way.
Second is never look at people, or learn how to look at people without actually looking at them. Most call it peripheral vision, but you can get really look at looking at people, then looking away faster then they can notice you were sizing them up. It's extremely important to never make direct eye contact with any person. On a side note I actually play around with this. I'll act shy for months, then suddenly start looking a person directly in the eyes. It's extreamly funny to me they act somewhat like I always did. Aloof and not wanting to make eye contact. But I'm getting distracted. This topic is about going unnoticed, not about mental games I like to play.
Third is always, and I cannot stress this enough, is to always make sure your are taking in more information around you then giving off. Taking step on of never having deep conversation, and step 2 of never making eye contact instantly throws you into the background. Except now you can listen and view the world in ways you never could. Like taking in everything around you, but no one notices you are doing so. Even when it comes to sizing people up. You learn to look away faster then they can notice, and if they do notice, you just look away and never look at them again. That makes them feel like the creep staring you down, and makes them question if you were truly looking them up and down in the first place.
As for placement idk. I kind of just said my on thing in this topic I guess. Most men that try to be noticed are, and those who don't want to be aren't. As uncomfortable as either can be.
My guess is my venus in retrograde and Mars sign not enough fire in my chart oh well lol I guess it’s better to focus on one self and get money positive side of not attracting a lot of women is when you have a lot of money you won’t have to worry about who actually likes you instead you can eliminate all potential gf’s cause you know they only in it for the money.
I've had women and even men go crazy over me in the past. I'm not bragging by saying that. I try as hard as possible to go unnoticed, because I'm not really sure if I truly trust people all that much. Especially random ones. Anyway it's easy to go unnoticed. Anyone can do it. Step one is never continue a conversation with people. Like ever. No matter how nice they are being, be polite, but get the hell out of the conversation as fast as possible. Over time people will get the hint. The way I see it if I can get people to be nice, or simply neutral with me, then I'm doing social anxiety the right way.
Second is never look at people, or learn how to look at people without actually looking at them. Most call it peripheral vision, but you can get really look at looking at people, then looking away faster then they can notice you were sizing them up. It's extremely important to never make direct eye contact with any person. On a side note I actually play around with this. I'll act shy for months, then suddenly start looking a person directly in the eyes. It's extreamly funny to me they act somewhat like I always did. Aloof and not wanting to make eye contact. But I'm getting distracted. This topic is about going unnoticed, not about mental games I like to play.
Third is always, and I cannot stress this enough, is to always make sure your are taking in more information around you then giving off. Taking step on of never having deep conversation, and step 2 of never making eye contact instantly throws you into the background. Except now you can listen and view the world in ways you never could. Like taking in everything around you, but no one notices you are doing so. Even when it comes to sizing people up. You learn to look away faster then they can notice, and if they do notice, you just look away and never look at them again. That makes them feel like the creep staring you down, and makes them question if you were truly looking them up and down in the first place.
As for placement idk. I kind of just said my on thing in this topic I guess. Most men that try to be noticed are, and those who don't want to be aren't. As uncomfortable as either can be.
Are you saying not making eye contact or helps you become noticed or unnoticed? Yeah it is what is I don’t care that much I was just curious cause I know guys that women wouldn’t like but still get attention
Although it could be tied to astrology, I think it's more of a social environment thing than anything. It's a social phenomenon that people have had to care about physically attracting a partner only in the last 100 years or so. Before that, it was more of an arranged marry-into- your social circle type thing. The concept of marrying or getting together for love is a relatively new one. And because we don't live in villages where the village gives us automatic friends and acquaintances, it leaves this new area where we have to make connections beyond what's already given to us. Strange world out there.
I've had women and even men go crazy over me in the past. I'm not bragging by saying that. I try as hard as possible to go unnoticed, because I'm not really sure if I truly trust people all that much. Especially random ones. Anyway it's easy to go unnoticed. Anyone can do it. Step one is never continue a conversation with people. Like ever. No matter how nice they are being, be polite, but get the hell out of the conversation as fast as possible. Over time people will get the hint. The way I see it if I can get people to be nice, or simply neutral with me, then I'm doing social anxiety the right way.
Second is never look at people, or learn how to look at people without actually looking at them. Most call it peripheral vision, but you can get really look at looking at people, then looking away faster then they can notice you were sizing them up. It's extremely important to never make direct eye contact with any person. On a side note I actually play around with this. I'll act shy for months, then suddenly start looking a person directly in the eyes. It's extreamly funny to me they act somewhat like I always did. Aloof and not wanting to make eye contact. But I'm getting distracted. This topic is about going unnoticed, not about mental games I like to play.
Third is always, and I cannot stress this enough, is to always make sure your are taking in more information around you then giving off. Taking step on of never having deep conversation, and step 2 of never making eye contact instantly throws you into the background. Except now you can listen and view the world in ways you never could. Like taking in everything around you, but no one notices you are doing so. Even when it comes to sizing people up. You learn to look away faster then they can notice, and if they do notice, you just look away and never look at them again. That makes them feel like the creep staring you down, and makes them question if you were truly looking them up and down in the first place.
As for placement idk. I kind of just said my on thing in this topic I guess. Most men that try to be noticed are, and those who don't want to be aren't. As uncomfortable as either can be.
Man soul I swear you about the only dxper who makes a lot of sense. Everybody else is just here to pick on me and act stupid especially gemi granny. I read some of this. I'll finish reading all of this in a bit. It's so lengthy. But let me just say it's not easy for me to go unnoticed. I'm anti social who really do have social anxiety. I feel those are the ones that gets noticed a lot quicker than those fiery ones who gets thirsty for attention that can't get it like me.
I am surprised at this because when I’ve met my ex Aries I read a lot about this sign and it said in many ways that if you meet single Aries man - hold on to him because Aries do not come single often. Meaning Aries men are very desirable.
If you aren’t ‘popular’ - look at your chart and if it doesn’t show you why - try to think about yourself honestly.
Have you ever dated? This is the beginning that might lead to an answers. Tell about your love experience in general.
Where is ‘Fantastic’ came in your name you chosen for yourself? It is sound kind of cocky and not intelligent at all. Like…WTF are you doing asking THIS question while choosing name like ‘Fantastic’?
We have a few dolts here who are proclaiming themselves super desirable…but BS walks…are you the one of those? Hope not.
Posted by GemiMay
I am surprised at this because when I’ve met my ex Aries I read a lot about this sign and it said in many ways that if you meet single Aries man - hold on to him because Aries do not come single often. Meaning Aries men are very desirable.If you aren’t ‘popular’ - look at your chart and if it doesn’t show you why - try to think about yourself honestly.
Have you ever dated? This is the beginning that might lead to an answers. Tell about your love experience in general.
Where is ‘Fantastic’ came in your name you chosen for yourself? It is sound kind of cocky and not intelligent at all. Like…WTF are you doing asking THIS question while choosing name like ‘Fantastic’?
We have a few dolts here who are proclaiming themselves super desirable…but BS walks…are you the one of those? Hope not.
Maybe your Aries ex had a lot of fire in his chart. I chose fantastic cause I was thinking of the fantastic four lol no i never claim to be super desirable that’s cringe and besides i scare people away.
I don't think it's chart related tbh.
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Hey guys I was wondering what aspects or placements cause a guy to go unnoticed by woman