What happens if man moon and venus arenot making any aspect with woman´s personal planet in synastry

Will it be unrequited/one sided love for woman?

Posted by LittleStar

The one time I was in this situation my Cancer Mars was conj his Venus and my Gemini Sun was opposite his Scorpio Moon.

Definitely the closest I’ve ever come to feeling devoted and loyal and all those sappy things.

He still only saw me as a friend I think. It was confusing. I have blocked him from everything in my life because I get quite obsessive over him.

But anyway. I think there isn’t a hard rule.

In general if there are no connection to a man’s Moon and Venus he probably just won’t feel comfortable and you might not naturally connect. But I wouldn’t say the relationship is impossible.

but i have seen men madly in love when their moon and venus makes an aspect with woman sun or mars , they are madly attracted to her. I have seen a man marry woman when his venus conjunct her mars.

Posted by LittleStar

These days I feel like unrequited love is more about validating your own ego than loving someone who doesn’t want or need your love.

I say this gently as someone who was obsessed with someone for 6 years and ruined other relationships for a dream that isn’t real.

Venus-Neptune’s a bitch.

what happens when man's mars is making aspect with woman moon and mars? I think he will feel only sexual and physical attraction for her not love. It will be lust only from his side.

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Posted by Pari23

Posted by LittleStar

These days I feel like unrequited love is more about validating your own ego than loving someone who doesn’t want or need your love.

I say this gently as someone who was obsessed with someone for 6 years and ruined other relationships for a dream that isn’t real.

Venus-Neptune’s a bitch.

what happens when man's mars is making aspect with woman moon and mars? I think he will feel only sexual and physical attraction for her not love. It will be lust only from his side.

Maybe I’d have to see the chart.

But in general it’s just energy at play. People still make their own decisions.

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what do you mean by energy?

You just have similar tendencies, which makes you relate to one another. Thus, you feel comfortable. From my experience it doesn't exactly imply anything about attraction

Posted by besarlalluvia

You just have similar tendencies, which makes you relate to one another. Thus, you feel comfortable. From my experience it doesn't exactly imply anything about attraction

please donot mind can you explain it with an example.

Love is love. There are different types though for sure. Above all love is a choice.

If your attracted strongly to someone there is always a reason. You might realise something about yourself or vis versa. It's never a waste.

I prefer female friends and have personally come across a few types of love and connections.

First thing I did when I discovered astrology was compare past relationships to test the validity of astrology.

To be honest without good Venus and mars aspects there is this spark that is missing. Those aspects naturally bring out the traditional romantic love you see in movies in me. Could other people be ok without that? Yes. Me? No.I both want and crave a deep bound. I've only come across one woman, that I loved very deeply, and our mars and Venus placements were not tangled directly. They where aspected into other placements though and I considered her one of the loves of my life. So there is that.

I have many working theories on this subject that would require a full essay or my own site to describe. No thanks.

The deeper you get into astrology the more complicated you realise it is. Stick to the organic way until there is a serious question or issue later down the road with someone. Otherwise don't look and spoil the experience for yourself.

Posted by Lostthoughts

Love is love. There are different types though for sure. Above all love is a choice.

If your attracted strongly to someone there is always a reason. You might realise something about yourself or vis versa. It's never a waste.

I prefer female friends and have personally come across a few types of love and connections.

First thing I did when I discovered astrology was compare past relationships to test the validity of astrology.

To be honest without good Venus and mars aspects there is this spark that is missing. Those aspects naturally bring out the traditional romantic love you see in movies in me. Could other people be ok without that? Yes. Me? No.I both want and crave a deep bound. I've only come across one woman, that I loved very deeply, and our mars and Venus placements were not tangled directly. They where aspected into other placements though and I considered her one of the loves of my life. So there is that.

I have many working theories on this subject that would require a full essay or my own site to describe. No thanks.

The deeper you get into astrology the more complicated you realise it is. Stick to the organic way until there is a serious question or issue later down the road with someone. Otherwise don't look and spoil the experience for yourself.

the girl u love most, you have venus or moon aspects with her mars or sun? Or she has her venus moon with your planets? I think when man moon and venus is involved then he loves more.

Posted by Pari23

Posted by Lostthoughts

Love is love. There are different types though for sure. Above all love is a choice.

If your attracted strongly to someone there is always a reason. You might realise something about yourself or vis versa. It's never a waste.

I prefer female friends and have personally come across a few types of love and connections.

First thing I did when I discovered astrology was compare past relationships to test the validity of astrology.

To be honest without good Venus and mars aspects there is this spark that is missing. Those aspects naturally bring out the traditional romantic love you see in movies in me. Could other people be ok without that? Yes. Me? No.I both want and crave a deep bound. I've only come across one woman, that I loved very deeply, and our mars and Venus placements were not tangled directly. They where aspected into other placements though and I considered her one of the loves of my life. So there is that.

I have many working theories on this subject that would require a full essay or my own site to describe. No thanks.

The deeper you get into astrology the more complicated you realise it is. Stick to the organic way until there is a serious question or issue later down the road with someone. Otherwise don't look and spoil the experience for yourself.

the girl u love most, you have venus or moon aspects with her mars or sun? Or she has her venus moon with your planets? I think when man moon and venus is involved then he loves more.

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I Said I loved her very deeply and one of the loves of my life, not most. I have only met one other person I have felt more strongly about and we do have a lot of the more traditional contacts and then some. It's a more purer type of love and scared me honestly. That is another story altogether.

Anyway, The relationship and her herself made a profound impact on what I look for in a partner.



Huge heart and very compassionate and loving person. Hard worker(where I met her) and she was quick and perceptive. Very passionate... yes she did have a temper but it took a lot. She had a very rough life but still pushed forward and didn't give in to the darkness in her past. It hurt her but didn't spoil her personality or taint her heart. I greatly respected her for that.

Physically I don't think most would find her as attractive as I did. She did have a lot of qualities there I liked, which made it easier but it was her and her energy that attracted me.

She loved to flirt as much as I did. She would tease and toy with me to my face, which I adored. We are both big on touch and intamacy. Sex was closer to spiritual experience then physical. Incrediably passionate and open emotionally. Felt like mating/bounding then sex.. We where very effectionate with each other. I loved loving her.



Chart wise and your question, I had asked her one day and she told me her full birthday and time without hesitation. I have SagmarsX Libra venus. We have Her sun conj my venus and my sun sextile her venus.

. Moon quite a bit. I have natally Taurus moon opposition Scorpio Saturn and pluto loosly. She has Scorpio venus, mercury, and Pluto oppposition my moon. As for her moon(conjt mars) it squares my pluto. If you have more questions I have no problem sending you our synastry chart.

I do agree moon venus contacts do play a big part in attraction and attractments. I want to say it again, there are different types of love too.