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I always start my posts with hello, but well Hello šŸ‘‹. If you’re familiar with my account you may know I was involved with a Pisces in a very casual way, well I’ve decided to call things off.

I’m currently talking to a few guys, the main ones I’m interested in is an Aries and a Libra. I’m getting fuckboy vibes from the Aries though, he seems more interested in a physical way maybe? He also seems more immature despite being older than me.

The Libra guy, he’s ...lovely? He gets cheeky at times but when I show I’m not up for that he backs off and will carry on talking to me, even if it does get boring. The Aries...not so much.

He seems really nice, and seems eager to meet me and I’m a little nervous because all of the libras I know are very...intense and well I’ve never dealt with a Libra before šŸ‘€. Any advice would be welcome. Same for the Aries, the Aries guy I was interested in called me frigid šŸ˜‚šŸ™ˆ.
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Lol! Wait the fuckboy Aries called you frigid? Is there more than one Aries? I'm confused. 😜

You can't go wrong with either one imo. Aries and Gems make great partners. And I have a place in my heart for Libra's too. My first b/f was Libra and I always call them The Sign of the Boyfriend. How I haven't stumbled into another one is beyond me. Such a sweet and easy relationship and I hate myself for breaking his heart.


Bitch! šŸ˜‚

Un-break it!
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Lol! Wait the fuckboy Aries called you frigid? Is there more than one Aries? I'm confused. 😜

You can't go wrong with either one imo. Aries and Gems make great partners. And I have a place in my heart for Libra's too. My first b/f was Libra and I always call them The Sign of the Boyfriend. How I haven't stumbled into another one is beyond me. Such a sweet and easy relationship and I hate myself for breaking his heart.


Different Aries that called me frigid šŸ˜‚šŸ™ˆ. I think the ā€œwinningā€ factor is that Libra messages me all the time, the Aries...every other day, I’m not about that. I like attention 😩
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I can only advise in Aries!

Do it! We are good match.

Fire needs an air. That’s why he wants to get your ass! Lol

And he won’t beat around bushes.

Mine told me after we were involved that he was t planning on dating me. We are still laughing about it.


Hmmm, apart of me wants to but I don’t want that ....hardship of not knowing :/. But he is really hot ....
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I can only advise in Aries!

Do it! We are good match.

Fire needs an air. That’s why he wants to get your ass! Lol

And he won’t beat around bushes.

Mine told me after we were involved that he was t planning on dating me. We are still laughing about it.

Hmmm, apart of me wants to but I don’t want that ....hardship of not knowing :/. But he is really hot ....
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Yeah...every other day ...he must just want sex...

However it does t mean it’ll end with sex.

When Ram is hot - it’s non stop communications unless he has attention elsewhere. And being hot it’s probably the case.

What does he sound like when texting?
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I can only advise in Aries!

Do it! We are good match.

Fire needs an air. That’s why he wants to get your ass! Lol

And he won’t beat around bushes.

Mine told me after we were involved that he was t planning on dating me. We are still laughing about it.

Hmmm, apart of me wants to but I don’t want that ....hardship of not knowing :/. But he is really hot ....

Yeah...every other day ...he must just want sex...

However it does t mean it’ll end with sex.

When Ram is hot - it’s non stop communications unless he has attention elsewhere. And being hot it’s probably the case.

What does he sound like when texting?
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He’s extremely flirting when texting, also he hints that if I was to take it further he would be open to that.
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I can only advise in Aries!

Do it! We are good match.

Fire needs an air. That’s why he wants to get your ass! Lol

And he won’t beat around bushes.

Mine told me after we were involved that he was t planning on dating me. We are still laughing about it.

Hmmm, apart of me wants to but I don’t want that ....hardship of not knowing :/. But he is really hot ....

Yeah...every other day ...he must just want sex...

However it does t mean it’ll end with sex.

When Ram is hot - it’s non stop communications unless he has attention elsewhere. And being hot it’s probably the case.

What does he sound like when texting?

He’s extremely flirting when texting, also he hints that if I was to take it further he would be open to that.
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Can you post a real example?
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I can only advise in Aries!

Do it! We are good match.

Fire needs an air. That’s why he wants to get your ass! Lol

And he won’t beat around bushes.

Mine told me after we were involved that he was t planning on dating me. We are still laughing about it.

Hmmm, apart of me wants to but I don’t want that ....hardship of not knowing :/. But he is really hot ....

Yeah...every other day ...he must just want sex...

However it does t mean it’ll end with sex.

When Ram is hot - it’s non stop communications unless he has attention elsewhere. And being hot it’s probably the case.

What does he sound like when texting?

He’s extremely flirting when texting, also he hints that if I was to take it further he would be open to that.

Can you post a real example?
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Not really we use snapchat 😭, it’s a pain in the ass, but he’s sent me topless pics etc šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø.
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I can only advise in Aries!

Do it! We are good match.

Fire needs an air. That’s why he wants to get your ass! Lol

And he won’t beat around bushes.

Mine told me after we were involved that he was t planning on dating me. We are still laughing about it.

Hmmm, apart of me wants to but I don’t want that ....hardship of not knowing :/. But he is really hot ....

Yeah...every other day ...he must just want sex...

However it does t mean it’ll end with sex.

When Ram is hot - it’s non stop communications unless he has attention elsewhere. And being hot it’s probably the case.

What does he sound like when texting?

He’s extremely flirting when texting, also he hints that if I was to take it further he would be open to that.

Can you post a real example?

Not really we use snapchat 😭, it’s a pain in the ass, but he’s sent me topless pics etc šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø.
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I might be wrong (there IS first time for everything you know šŸ¤¦ā€ā™€ļø) but man wants your ass and that’s all. You can drag this indefinitely but I just know what I am saying. And I am not saying it’s a bad thing if you up to it. Just don’t see him as your kids father. That’s all. Good luck.
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Lol! Wait the fuckboy Aries called you frigid? Is there more than one Aries? I'm confused. 😜

You can't go wrong with either one imo. Aries and Gems make great partners. And I have a place in my heart for Libra's too. My first b/f was Libra and I always call them The Sign of the Boyfriend. How I haven't stumbled into another one is beyond me. Such a sweet and easy relationship and I hate myself for breaking his heart.

Different Aries that called me frigid šŸ˜‚šŸ™ˆ. I think the ā€œwinningā€ factor is that Libra messages me all the time, the Aries...every other day, I’m not about that. I like attention 😩
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lol every other day?
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is not enough ? lol you are a gemini

Exactly, I like every day...ever hour....every minute if I can šŸ˜‚šŸ™ˆ

damn lol

is that why you dropped the pisces ?hahaha

Nah, I just isn’t feel a spark after a few times it just dwindled.
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damn.

maybe my gemini feels the same about me already

womp womp
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is not enough ? lol you are a gemini

Exactly, I like every day...ever hour....every minute if I can šŸ˜‚šŸ™ˆ

damn lol

is that why you dropped the pisces ?hahaha

Nah, I just isn’t feel a spark after a few times it just dwindled.

damn.

maybe my gemini feels the same about me already

Okay I feel like I need to help here, so, geminis appreciate effort, we don’t like things to get comfortable quickly, or at least I don’t. I think we like someone who’s a little more on the dominant side as well, and we know when it’s natural or not (Orr might be opposite). We know when someone’s not that into us as well, we’re very intuitive with these things, so the pisces I had a thing with was so...awesome at the beginning, he was super chatty, so eager to talk to me, we bounced off of each other and it made the sex good. But then the Pisces backed off, only messaged me when he wanted sex, there was no friends there...it made what spark I had fizzle and vanish. I felt...like I was a just a little better than a wank. It sounds stupid but I appreciated that effort he put in to be friends, for him to value my company other than sex, because he didn’t do that...no. And then I went somewhere else for that attention, and once it got my attention I lost all interest in him. It’s harsh but true. Even if I didn’t reply to him as fast I liked that he gave me that attention. And now I have it somewhere else, and we bounce so I’m enjoying it.

I can do casual sex but I didn’t like him just for the sex, I liked the friendship I got with it. So that’s honestly why. I don’t know much about your situation so I can’t help at all :/

womp womp
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is not enough ? lol you are a gemini

Exactly, I like every day...ever hour....every minute if I can šŸ˜‚šŸ™ˆ

damn lol

is that why you dropped the pisces ?hahaha

Nah, I just isn’t feel a spark after a few times it just dwindled.

damn.

maybe my gemini feels the same about me already

Okay I feel like I need to help here, so, geminis appreciate effort, we don’t like things to get comfortable quickly, or at least I don’t. I think we like someone who’s a little more on the dominant side as well, and we know when it’s natural or not (Orr might be opposite). We know when someone’s not that into us as well, we’re very intuitive with these things, so the pisces I had a thing with was so...awesome at the beginning, he was super chatty, so eager to talk to me, we bounced off of each other and it made the sex good. But then the Pisces backed off, only messaged me when he wanted sex, there was no friends there...it made what spark I had fizzle and vanish. I felt...like I was a just a little better than a wank. It sounds stupid but I appreciated that effort he put in to be friends, for him to value my company other than sex, because he didn’t do that...no. And then I went somewhere else for that attention, and once it got my attention I lost all interest in him. It’s harsh but true. Even if I didn’t reply to him as fast I liked that he gave me that attention. And now I have it somewhere else, and we bounce so I’m enjoying it.

I can do casual sex but I didn’t like him just for the sex, I liked the friendship I got with it. So that’s honestly why. I don’t know much about your situation so I can’t help at all :/

womp womp

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I want to give her both honestly if she's up to it.

I mean I really do appreciate her company

sometimes I don't reply to her text right away because I'm kind of spacey and sometimes I don't know what to say immediately.
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is not enough ? lol you are a gemini

Exactly, I like every day...ever hour....every minute if I can šŸ˜‚šŸ™ˆ

damn lol

is that why you dropped the pisces ?hahaha

Nah, I just isn’t feel a spark after a few times it just dwindled.

damn.

maybe my gemini feels the same about me already

Okay I feel like I need to help here, so, geminis appreciate effort, we don’t like things to get comfortable quickly, or at least I don’t. I think we like someone who’s a little more on the dominant side as well, and we know when it’s natural or not (Orr might be opposite). We know when someone’s not that into us as well, we’re very intuitive with these things, so the pisces I had a thing with was so...awesome at the beginning, he was super chatty, so eager to talk to me, we bounced off of each other and it made the sex good. But then the Pisces backed off, only messaged me when he wanted sex, there was no friends there...it made what spark I had fizzle and vanish. I felt...like I was a just a little better than a wank. It sounds stupid but I appreciated that effort he put in to be friends, for him to value my company other than sex, because he didn’t do that...no. And then I went somewhere else for that attention, and once it got my attention I lost all interest in him. It’s harsh but true. Even if I didn’t reply to him as fast I liked that he gave me that attention. And now I have it somewhere else, and we bounce so I’m enjoying it.

I can do casual sex but I didn’t like him just for the sex, I liked the friendship I got with it. So that’s honestly why. I don’t know much about your situation so I can’t help at all :/

womp womp

I want to give her both honestly if she's up to it.

I mean I really do appreciate her company

sometimes I don't reply to her text right away because I'm kind of spacey and sometimes I don't know what to say immediately.
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Hmmm...try gifts? They’re a,ways hood to put, keeps things going whilst portraying you well
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is not enough ? lol you are a gemini

Exactly, I like every day...ever hour....every minute if I can šŸ˜‚šŸ™ˆ

damn lol

is that why you dropped the pisces ?hahaha

Nah, I just isn’t feel a spark after a few times it just dwindled.

damn.

maybe my gemini feels the same about me already

Okay I feel like I need to help here, so, geminis appreciate effort, we don’t like things to get comfortable quickly, or at least I don’t. I think we like someone who’s a little more on the dominant side as well, and we know when it’s natural or not (Orr might be opposite). We know when someone’s not that into us as well, we’re very intuitive with these things, so the pisces I had a thing with was so...awesome at the beginning, he was super chatty, so eager to talk to me, we bounced off of each other and it made the sex good. But then the Pisces backed off, only messaged me when he wanted sex, there was no friends there...it made what spark I had fizzle and vanish. I felt...like I was a just a little better than a wank. It sounds stupid but I appreciated that effort he put in to be friends, for him to value my company other than sex, because he didn’t do that...no. And then I went somewhere else for that attention, and once it got my attention I lost all interest in him. It’s harsh but true. Even if I didn’t reply to him as fast I liked that he gave me that attention. And now I have it somewhere else, and we bounce so I’m enjoying it.

I can do casual sex but I didn’t like him just for the sex, I liked the friendship I got with it. So that’s honestly why. I don’t know much about your situation so I can’t help at all :/

womp womp

I want to give her both honestly if she's up to it.

I mean I really do appreciate her company

sometimes I don't reply to her text right away because I'm kind of spacey and sometimes I don't know what to say immediately.

Hmmm...try gifts? They’re a,ways hood to put, keeps things going whilst portraying you well
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I told her I had a small gift to her a few weeks back and that it was on the way.

still not hear...I'm second guessing giving it to her because it's semi sexual in nature lol
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is not enough ? lol you are a gemini

Exactly, I like every day...ever hour....every minute if I can šŸ˜‚šŸ™ˆ

damn lol

is that why you dropped the pisces ?hahaha

Nah, I just isn’t feel a spark after a few times it just dwindled.

damn.

maybe my gemini feels the same about me already

Okay I feel like I need to help here, so, geminis appreciate effort, we don’t like things to get comfortable quickly, or at least I don’t. I think we like someone who’s a little more on the dominant side as well, and we know when it’s natural or not (Orr might be opposite). We know when someone’s not that into us as well, we’re very intuitive with these things, so the pisces I had a thing with was so...awesome at the beginning, he was super chatty, so eager to talk to me, we bounced off of each other and it made the sex good. But then the Pisces backed off, only messaged me when he wanted sex, there was no friends there...it made what spark I had fizzle and vanish. I felt...like I was a just a little better than a wank. It sounds stupid but I appreciated that effort he put in to be friends, for him to value my company other than sex, because he didn’t do that...no. And then I went somewhere else for that attention, and once it got my attention I lost all interest in him. It’s harsh but true. Even if I didn’t reply to him as fast I liked that he gave me that attention. And now I have it somewhere else, and we bounce so I’m enjoying it.

I can do casual sex but I didn’t like him just for the sex, I liked the friendship I got with it. So that’s honestly why. I don’t know much about your situation so I can’t help at all :/

womp womp

I want to give her both honestly if she's up to it.

I mean I really do appreciate her company

sometimes I don't reply to her text right away because I'm kind of spacey and sometimes I don't know what to say immediately.

Hmmm...try gifts? They’re a,ways hood to put, keeps things going whilst portraying you well

I told her I had a small gift to her a few weeks back and that it was on the way.

still not hear...I'm second guessing giving it to her because it's semi sexual in nature lol
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Hmmm, are you vibing her right?....I’m just curious because when I like someone I’d love a gift, but if I wasn’t vibing it...I could go a lil nasty, especially if it’s sexual in nature. However if she’s vibing you DO.IT. She’ll love it, have something whitty to say alongside it
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is not enough ? lol you are a gemini

Exactly, I like every day...ever hour....every minute if I can šŸ˜‚šŸ™ˆ

damn lol

is that why you dropped the pisces ?hahaha

Nah, I just isn’t feel a spark after a few times it just dwindled.

damn.

maybe my gemini feels the same about me already

Okay I feel like I need to help here, so, geminis appreciate effort, we don’t like things to get comfortable quickly, or at least I don’t. I think we like someone who’s a little more on the dominant side as well, and we know when it’s natural or not (Orr might be opposite). We know when someone’s not that into us as well, we’re very intuitive with these things, so the pisces I had a thing with was so...awesome at the beginning, he was super chatty, so eager to talk to me, we bounced off of each other and it made the sex good. But then the Pisces backed off, only messaged me when he wanted sex, there was no friends there...it made what spark I had fizzle and vanish. I felt...like I was a just a little better than a wank. It sounds stupid but I appreciated that effort he put in to be friends, for him to value my company other than sex, because he didn’t do that...no. And then I went somewhere else for that attention, and once it got my attention I lost all interest in him. It’s harsh but true. Even if I didn’t reply to him as fast I liked that he gave me that attention. And now I have it somewhere else, and we bounce so I’m enjoying it.

I can do casual sex but I didn’t like him just for the sex, I liked the friendship I got with it. So that’s honestly why. I don’t know much about your situation so I can’t help at all :/

womp womp

I want to give her both honestly if she's up to it.

I mean I really do appreciate her company

sometimes I don't reply to her text right away because I'm kind of spacey and sometimes I don't know what to say immediately.

Hmmm...try gifts? They’re a,ways hood to put, keeps things going whilst portraying you well

I told her I had a small gift to her a few weeks back and that it was on the way.

still not hear...I'm second guessing giving it to her because it's semi sexual in nature lol

Hmmm, are you vibing her right?....I’m just curious because when I like someone I’d love a gift, but if I wasn’t vibing it...I could go a lil nasty, especially if it’s sexual in nature. However if she’s vibing you DO.IT. She’ll love it, have something whitty to say alongside it
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she seemed to be excited about it when I told her.
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@Adreamuponwaking - stop all this *second guessing* and give her the damn gift (when you get it) already. Your push/pull is making me crazy and I'm just a bystander! 😵


this is what I'm gifting her....

it's pretty strange :

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It's an old medical Vintage USSR needle and syringe.

( backstory is she is a public health major like me and is into needle play)