I know this is not right - can't stop thinking about my ex Gemini

Like I said I know this is not right, the relationship wasn't perfect, it was on and off for 3 years.

Not all his fault, BOTH of us were just not right for each other. I've stopped talking to him like a month now.

This is the longest, I've ever stopped talking to him and he did the same for me out of respect. We both still look at each other's stories on Instagram.

I can see that he's still lurking around and I'm sure it's the same for him.

I know it's bad If I text him. It will be bad for us and him. I don't even miss the romantic side of him. I just wish we didn't stop but I get that we had to.

It was the longest relationship I ever had, I loved him despite our ups and downs. I got to know and shared memories with him and the thought of us not talking to each other is bothering me lately.

He's Sun Gemini/Moon Libra and I'm Sun Libra/Moon Leo, I felt like we were THE perfect match when we started seeing each other 3 years ago. but we ruined each other. I hope he's happy without me and find someone nice but yeah, lately I miss my friend. I love having Geminis around me.

I know I shouldn't contact him for both of our sakes but it's hard to cut someone off completely isn't?

Posted by Aac

Okay, how many guys have you liked this week? I’m losing track. Not slut shaming, go have fun, but you seem to be in love with a new guy every other day. Maybe try picking up a new hobby or something, to get your mind off your ex 🤷‍♀️ I took up running when my ex and I broke up, just saying

Don't worry, I agree with you. I'm so well aware that I've been so open to dating recently. A hobby is a good idea though. It's just hard for me to think that I shouldn't talk to him again or ever. I don't want to get back with him.

Running actually sounds great right now

You need a good distraction. Eventually you will stop thinking about him. Instagram doesn’t help, try deleting it for a while, it’s like an addiction. Just stop looking, try to last a day at first, then two.. it’s the only way.

just realise that this is part of a habit for you. it shouldn't come as a surprise.

accept that this is going to creep up on you from time to time and resolve to break the pattern. past behaviour is a good predictor of future behaviour. if you want something different, then you must do something different.

what you are experiencing is just the process of getting to the next stage.

Posted by Aac

Okay, how many guys have you liked this week? I’m losing track. Not slut shaming, go have fun, but you seem to be in love with a new guy every other day. Maybe try picking up a new hobby or something, to get your mind off your ex 🤷‍♀️ I took up running when my ex and I broke up, just saying

#libraproblems - oscillating is the thing we do best.

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Posted by Aac

Okay, how many guys have you liked this week? I’m losing track. Not slut shaming, go have fun, but you seem to be in love with a new guy every other day. Maybe try picking up a new hobby or something, to get your mind off your ex 🤷‍♀️ I took up running when my ex and I broke up, just saying

#libraproblems - oscillating is the thing we do best.

Surprisingly(?), most of the libras I know have only been in one or two relationships their entire lives, and never dated around. Then I discovered this forum, and I learned about this libra stereotype 🤔

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some will flit from person to person but our mind is never really made up. those libras you know most likely spent a long time wondering should they or shouldn't they get involved.

i'm similar to the people you know but i have spent a shamefully long part of my life deiciding on things. sometimes you spend so much time trying to make your mind up, you realise that the moment has passed.

Posted by Gobby

I actually briefly thought about my ex-Gemini today. I haven't seen her in almost 15 years...

So it’s rime to ask her how is she doing. Probably great. I think anyone after you is a blessing! 🙏🏻

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We both still look at each other's stories on Instagram.

I can see that he's still lurking around and I'm sure it's the same for him.

I know I shouldn't contact him for both of our sakes but it's hard to cut someone off completely isn't?

You can mute him on ig. It'll remove his posts and stories from your feed so its not in your face. But its not like a block so you don't have to re-request to follow.

Great feature would help you get the space you need till your ready to see his stuff on the daily.

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I actually briefly thought about my ex-Gemini today. I haven't seen her in almost 15 years...

So it’s rime to ask her how is she doing. Probably great. I think anyone after you is a blessing! 🙏🏻

And I love you too...

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Oookey...you can take a number and get in line...😂

Do you have a fixed moon too?

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Posted by Gobby

I actually briefly thought about my ex-Gemini today. I haven't seen her in almost 15 years...

So it’s rime to ask her how is she doing. Probably great. I think anyone after you is a blessing! 🙏🏻

And I love you too...

Oookey...you can take a number and get in line...😂

Fine but, knowing you, I won't be queuing for long... 😆

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Or you might lose your hair and develop ED while waiting...🤷‍♀️