I’ve known this Scorpio moon since forever. It’s been about a year since he started showing interest in me and giving me the intense eyes and letting me see some real emotions from him. It’s like we got close emotionally and he got real possessive when other guys would come around. He would get close to me and give me an intense stare like I’m his. He would always stand really close next to me or behind but never touching. Like I said I’ve known him for years and I believe he was showing interest in me. So me being an Aires let him know that I wanted him sexually through a text. He responded by showing up to where I was but never bringing it up. I never brought it up either because I hoped he would so nothing ever came of it. I don’t think he was ready I guess. Anyway time passed and it was my birthday and he was sooo sweet to me that day which put me in a Great mood! I was really talkative and I think I pissed him off because by the time I saw him again he gave me the Meanest look I’d ever seen from him and he didn’t speak to me anymore that night. The next day I acted like it never happened when I saw him and I spoke to him then he was pleasant and and seemed relieved that I wasn’t mad and let it go. A couple days later he totally pulled back from me. No communication for a week. When I saw him again I ignored him because I was so hurt. Then I missed him so I reached out to him and gave him a little gift and he seemed very surprised. He became talkative and sweet again. But I’ve grown impatient with his silence and I want and need to be physical with someone. The next day I had a lot to drink and texted him that I was sorry for texting him that sexual text if it made him feel uncomfortable and that I think I misread a chemistry between us. His reply was “All good.” That’s it. I saw him later that day and he looked at me and I didn’t look at him. I see him every day and I’ve avoided looking at him or talking to him for about a week now and he never tried to speak. I was talking to this guy and he saw us and slammed 2 doors shut. I didn’t even know he was anywhere around listening. I got angry because I thought he would fight more to keep me in his life instead of just saying “All good.” and that’s it. It’s been about a week now and he has walked past my area twice today but not looking at me. But otherwise still avoiding each other. Have I lost him? Can I fix it somehow?
Confused by a Scorpio moon
I forgot to put in I was being talkative to a different guy on my bday.
I forgot to put in I was being talkative to a different guy on my bday.
I forgot to put in I was being talkative to a different guy on my bday.
Posted by Aires1234
I’ve known this Scorpio moon since forever. It’s been about a year since he started showing interest in me and giving me the intense eyes and letting me see some real emotions from him. It’s like we got close emotionally and he got real possessive when other guys would come around. He would get close to me and give me an intense stare like I’m his. He would always stand really close next to me or behind but never touching. Like I said I’ve known him for years and I believe he was showing interest in me. So me being an Aires let him know that I wanted him sexually through a text. He responded by showing up to where I was but never bringing it up. I never brought it up either because I hoped he would so nothing ever came of it. I don’t think he was ready I guess. Anyway time passed and it was my birthday and he was sooo sweet to me that day which put me in a Great mood! I was really talkative to some guy and I think I pissed him off because by the time I saw him again he gave me the Meanest look I’d ever seen from him and he didn’t speak to me anymore that night. The next day I acted like it never happened when I saw him and I spoke to him then he was pleasant and and seemed relieved that I wasn’t mad and let it go. A couple days later he totally pulled back from me. No communication for a week. When I saw him again I ignored him because I was so hurt. Then I missed him so I reached out to him and gave him a little gift and he seemed very surprised. He became talkative and sweet again. But I’ve grown impatient with his silence and I want and need to be physical with someone. The next day I had a lot to drink and texted him that I was sorry for texting him that sexual text if it made him feel uncomfortable and that I think I misread a chemistry between us. His reply was “All good.” That’s it. I saw him later that day and he looked at me and I didn’t look at him. I see him every day and I’ve avoided looking at him or talking to him for about a week now and he never tried to speak. I was talking to this guy and he saw us and slammed 2 doors shut. I didn’t even know he was anywhere around listening. I got angry because I thought he would fight more to keep me in his life instead of just saying “All good.” and that’s it. It’s been about a week now and he has walked past my area twice today but not looking at me. But otherwise still avoiding each other. Have I lost him? Can I fix it somehow?
It seems he lost interest. Maybe try with the "different" guy now.

This entire thread reads like you seeing random "signs" as him being attracted to you, when there may not be any interest.
I don't really know how you can lose something, that was never even yours to begin with.
Weird.
I don't really know how you can lose something, that was never even yours to begin with.
Weird.

Posted by HearttofTopazz
Quit playing with him.
“So me being an Aires let him know that I wanted him sexually through a text. He responded by showing up to where I was but never bringing it up. I never brought it up either because I hoped he would so nothing ever came of it. I don’t think he was ready I guess.”
He showed up, then y’all stood there and twiddled ur thumbs instead... lol
This ☝️. You're playing games and they are the only ones that get to do this. jk 😂 but you are playing too much with him. Then you go around talking to other guys to make him jealous and shit. You don't have to be a Scorp moon to wonder how many dicks you got going on and how many you text to fuck around with.
If you like him...then tell him. If he rejects you..oh well, seems like you got others in your back pocket to move on to.

This is off to a bad start.
I would let him come to you if he wants to.
I would let him come to you if he wants to.

If you really do want to fix this and you're just not looking to bed him and get your rocks off...
Try truly acknowledging the situation verbally. Take responsibility. Admit your faults. Then tell him if any of his actions made you feel a way. But not out of order. You have to acknowledge your mistakes 1st.
Dont assume how he is feeling in any way. Dont make judgement about his behavior. Stick to the facts when it comes to his behavior.
Dont ask for sex. Dont try to grope him or anything. Be mature.
He probably still wont trust you after your talk. He will wait and see if your actions line up with your words.
Try truly acknowledging the situation verbally. Take responsibility. Admit your faults. Then tell him if any of his actions made you feel a way. But not out of order. You have to acknowledge your mistakes 1st.
Dont assume how he is feeling in any way. Dont make judgement about his behavior. Stick to the facts when it comes to his behavior.
Dont ask for sex. Dont try to grope him or anything. Be mature.
He probably still wont trust you after your talk. He will wait and see if your actions line up with your words.
He's a waste of your time. Next.

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