11 Reasons

I argee cause I have Aquarius moon and I dont show emotion because I don't like too many burdens as sometimes I do too often. I am quite simple and hate complicated problems. So I ignore arguments, but I am huge with communication and I will speak my mind. But the Taurus side is 100 percent loving and unselfish. And totally romantic at heart. And caring, nurturing, patient with really important personality traits that make me who I am. And the experience as an adult and what I have experienced through dating. Changes all people and what life throws at you.

Yikes! It should say SHOULD!!!!

Maybe my subconscious is saying something here? haha

This is where I wish there was an edit button.

11 reasons Why You Should Date An Unemotional Woman.

Aqua's, do you think this could be about us? :-)

http://elitedaily.com/women/unemotional-woman-dating/820245/<BR>

There's a special subset of women who get a bad rep because they??re not the bubbly, outwardly girly, let's-share-our-feelings type of characters. They largely keep to themselves, don't show much affectation and are frequently written off as cold bitches by other women and men.

These ladies, however, are anything but heartless brutes. In fact, they possess a much deeper, purer kind of character because it's kept hidden from view so often.

These are the women who deal with their problems on their own and don't like going to people when they??re upset.

They??re the ones who act like they don't care but are very tuned into the conversation. They??re like the pragmatic, methodical Amy from —Gone Girl?? (minus the psychotic part).

This nuanced intrigue is what makes an unemotional woman. She's not the slanderous misnomers we liken her to.

Her subtlety is also her biggest attraction. And when you fall for her, you??ll feel like you??ve never met someone so entirely her own person. Here are the 11 reasons why you should date an unemotional woman:

1. She doesn't want to talk about her feelings

Unemotional women aren't completely devoid of emotions (read: we aren't sociopaths), they just don't want to sit in a circle, taking turns discussing their inner feels. They??d simply rather move on from them or tackle them alone.

2. She won't put on airs to make herself feel better

She doesn't feel the need to fake it around people or do something dramatic to improve her mood. She doesn't seek out attention to draw away from her problems, or spiral out of control.

Because she??ll keep her downtrodden spirits to herself, an unemotional woman is the easiest and yet hardest friend to have.

3. She doesn't care what people say about her

She cares more about how she would describe herself. For this reason, unemotional women are confident and remain unaffected. They??ll take the blame for a friend and ownership of their actions because they don't get upset by what other people think of them.

4. She's not great at comforting others

It's not that she doesn't care about your feelings — she isn't well-equipped to handle them. She often says the wrong things, but it's not meant to hurt. The way she tries and misses can be sweetly endearing, though. Remember, her intentions are good.

5. She??ll never come to you asking for reassurance

Her actions are dictated by her thoughts, not her emotional responses. Because she has a difficult time opening up and making herself vulnerable, she isn't going to be dependent on the support of others. Those who she does, in fact, open up to are special.

6. Those she loves, she loves deeply

She doesn't particularly like or love anyone outside of her small inner circle. It's not that she's asocial or socially awkward, she just interacts with people on a purely functional level. She doesn't associate degrees of affection for people who she doesn't let into her life.

This allows for her to be a devoted friend, lover and family member because she directs all of her heart to this meaningful group of people.

7. She releases her tensions through constructive ways

She's not going to lash out or break down and cry (at least not in front of you). She won't dump her problems on you or have long, miserable venting sessions.

An unemotional girl channels this energy through productive or creative means, like kick boxing, writing, dancing, painting, playing music. She might avoid deep talks, but she??ll welcome deeply good fun.

8. Outward displays of affection make her uncomfortable

She gets embarrassed for couples who are overly emotional or publicly intimate. But in the most private and protected depths of her soul, she relishes romantic moments with her partner and the many layers of falling in love.

Don't worry about having her show up to a guy??s night — she knows how to play it cool in front of the boys.

9. There are only a few people she needs validation from

You??ll know if you??re there. She doesn't need random peripherals reinforcing her self-esteem. In fact, she hardly even thinks about her self-esteem because it's a non-issue.

To those she seeks approval from, she would never admit. It makes your bond all the more sacred, and the attention she does give all the more coveted.

10. She never noticeably cracks under pressure

This is because she doesn't over-analyze a situation to the detriment of finding an appropriate solution. Without her flighty emotions bogging things down, she only gets stronger and rises to the challenge. You can always rely on her to see the bigger picture and get things done.

11. She gets the feels

She does indeed have feelings, just not ones that she cares to express to others. She??ll cry, but will never be seen crying in the arms of someone else.

Despite appearing tough on the outside, she has her weaknesses like tragic love stories and plush animals and the beach at dusk. And if you??re lucky, she??ll reveal this side to you.

Posted by tiziani
Sounds like Scorpio and somewhat Virgo.


Also sounds like number one candidate for swinging. More female accountants get involved in the swinging world than any other profession.

A swinger? that's interesting.

That kind of describes a capricorn woman. Except #3, I think we do care what other people think about us. It's all about status and public persona. And, I do need reassurance occasionally. Otherwise, it fits capricorn pretty well.

And, yes, it does describe aqua women very well, too.

Posted by truecap
That kind of describes a capricorn woman. Except #3, I think we do care what other people think about us. It's all about status and public persona. And, I do need reassurance occasionally. Otherwise, it fits capricorn pretty well.

sounds like my cap mother in law, you'll never see her being an emotional wreck. she has, it seems all-together. like a rock. but deep down there's something there. sensitivity.

i dont know about the article, because some things don't ring true. but #11, i don't know....it resonated but then i cry very easily and often when i watch sad/heartbreaking films. it's pathetic but i won't hold it in and i won't even try.

My husband will sometimes, poke to see if i care, and often i show him through "actions" all the time how much i love and care, but he'll just poke, and i can see what he's doing.and i always fall for it. lol i hug and kiss him lots. he doesn't often get bouts of insecurity, but when it does come, you gotta ride the wave. hard to explain. Wish you all could understand deeply what it's like to be in a marriage with two people who just love and understand eachother. There are several people here on this forum who are married/ or with a signifcant other/boyfriend/girlfriend, so their dynamics is probably different.
i can only offer and explain the best i can, and it's not easy. you can't explain it you know, it's more than just explaining, and more than just showing. He provides me with alot of security and love, i always feel safe with my husband. In return, i want him to feel safe and secure with me.

lucky is the woman who feels safe and secure with any man in their life. Ladies, if you feel safe and loved, you are fortunate indeed.

Posted by truecap
That kind of describes a capricorn woman. Except #3, I think we do care what other people think about us. It's all about status and public persona. And, I do need reassurance occasionally. Otherwise, it fits capricorn pretty well.

I agree true cap, when I was reading the article I immediately thought of aqua and caps. Although, there are some minor differences, we are pretty similar.

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by truecap
That kind of describes a capricorn woman. Except #3, I think we do care what other people think about us. It's all about status and public persona. And, I do need reassurance occasionally. Otherwise, it fits capricorn pretty well.

sounds like my cap mother in law, you'll never see her being an emotional wreck. she has, it seems all-together. like a rock. but deep down there's something there. sensitivity.

i dont know about the article, because some things don't ring true. but #11, i don't know....it resonated but then i cry very easily and often when i watch sad/heartbreaking films. it's pathetic but i won't hold it in and i won't even try.

My husband will sometimes, poke to see if i care, and often i show him through "actions" all the time how much i love and care, but he'll just poke, and i can see what he's doing.and i always fall for it. lol i hug and kiss him lots. he doesn't often get bouts of insecurity, but when it does come, you gotta ride the wave. hard to explain. Wish you all could understand deeply what it's like to be in a marriage with two people who just love and understand eachother. There are several people here on this forum who are married/ or with a signifcant other/boyfriend/girlfriend, so their dynamics is probably different.
i can only offer and explain the best i can, and it's not easy. you can't explain it you know, it's more than just explaining, and more than just showing. He provides me with alot of security and love, i always feel safe with my husband. In return, i want him to feel safe and secure with me.

lucky is the woman who feels safe and secure with any man in their life. Ladies, if you feel safe and loved, you are fortunate indeed.

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Lisabethur8,
You're extremely lucky to have met someone that completes you. I could only hope that I too will find that emotional, spiritual and loving connection with an amazing man.

@aquadeer it mostly describes me...1-2 are kinda wrong but the rest are me 🙂

Aquadeer, ohhhhh don't get me wrong...it's not all a bed of roses. lol marriage isn't supposed to be "perfect" i hope you do find a man someday to commit to you and you can be able to go through the trials of marriage. The only way to learn and live through it, is to experience it, and live in it yourself.

I dont care about what people think about me... when I hear something it's usually that they are jealous of something I was told..

I believe in space but my Taurus sides wants some of your time all too myself.

And hm I did a post about swinging. That's out of the question. But not against people who do it. I don't judge.

Sweet sayings to me isn't really what's going to keep me...but you got proof your actions too..then my Taurus sides.. is just going to wait patiently.. which can be a real pain in the ass...cause my Aquarius moon...has no time for bullshit either...I am very intuitive...I just act dumb till I can't any longer. Then my Mars might intervene really quick

And I forget about what even happen. And usually that's other air, mutable signs. Say one thing and forget the next. Do one thing then don't do it...inconsistencies are a bitch.. we all do it. Cause everyone is placed with it in their charts. Sun signs, moon, mercury, mars, venus, and ascendant.. life is a merry go around.. lol

Aqua and Cap is wary similar!

ELEVEN reasons. of course it is about Aquarius. 😛

Sounds like a Capricorn female.

Close, personal experience with one taught me well.

My Taurus sides wants to try the marriage life. My Aquarius side wants to just be free flowing. But I don't believe in open relationship.. this is such a fucked up way that I have to deal with..

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
My Taurus sides wants to try the marriage life. My Aquarius side wants to just be free flowing. But I don't believe in open relationship.. this is such a fucked up way that I have to deal with..

it sounds like you don't know what you want in life.

Aquarius if NOT afflicted, is honestly, according to astrologers the most loyal of all signs.

there seems to be alot of misconceptions about this sign all the time. I do notice if they have prominent Gemini in the chart, they like the multiple partners (Brigham Young) Who is a Gemini Sun w/ stellium there in the 10th with an Aquarius Moon 6th house. He had alot of mercury influence in which he can't sit still and be boring if he wanted to. He needed lots of outside stimulation. His prominent 10th house is all about CONTROL and he managed that, by manipulating lots of people to go his way to make lots of women be in multiple partners relationship because they could not fight against the CONTROL, or the power of 10th house. They needed a leader when in weakness, or a STABLE home/security. Unfortunately, it got misconstrued and therefore, the society of Mormonism became discovered.

We should look into every sign/placement of all Mormon followers and see why they like that following.

Let's look at Jim Jones. One of the most INFLUENTIAL, cult leaders of ALL TIME.

people could not see through the bullshit. They BELIEVED in him. Believe in what? To die?? to take their children too??

that's some really good influence.

Capricorn Rising/Taurus Sun/Aries moon/Leo Mars

lots of 3rd house with his aries. Cap rising - Again, Power and CONTROL.

Holy crap there's ALOT of FIXED and determination. This guy could sell anything to you and and you'd believe it!!

Taurus = you better believe it, POWER behind the seduction.

http://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Jim_Jones_&#37; 28cult% 29

This can work for both ILL and good. In this case, it's ILL.

so obviously ALOT of signs can be AFFLICTED.

if people can't see through the baloney, they will fall to their doom and death. Just like the Jim Jones followers.

IF only they had WOKEN up and said, "WHAT?? you want me to kill my child and poison them??!! to what?? To send them off to the great yonder beyond? that life out there is better?"

Then be quiet, because you will be osctracized or someone will poison you if you don't FOLLOW.

So you just nod, and then make a way to ESCAPE. Just because someone in the cult realizes the error, they are TOO afraid to speak out for fear of being poisoned and that you didn't follow their way.

Trust me I know what I want. It takes along time though.. that's all..and I at Taurus which makes me the loyal and honest type.. not Aquarius..

Hm not going to look into Mormon stuff.

.No one said it was going be easy. Lol

I don't get the occult..but I don't get what this has do with marriage and kids.. sorry

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
I don't get the occult..but I don't get what this has do with marriage and kids.. sorry

um astrology is kind of, erm, occultish.

but if used (cap energy) for good and not for ill, then it's all good.

i was being very imaginative!! Place yourself as one of the cult followers of Jim Jones!!

Place yourself as the woman with babies or small children and the cult leader tells you you have to poison your children. What would you do??

How would you ESCAPE?? Because once you "wake" up to see that what he said was all his manipulation to place your LIFE in his hands, CONTROLLING you and your children's lives. That you, yourself have no control and FREE WILL, then what happens??

place yourself in that woman's (some random woman) in that cult group. What would you do?

you have got an aquarius moon. Many of them are quite intelligent.

ie. Bill Murray (Virgo sun/Aquarius moon)

Ethan Hawke, Scorpio Sun/Aquarius moon, (he married a famous taurus lady, with dominant gemini in her chart, but divorced, and now married to a Gemini sun)
He is supposedly quite intelligent, but very shy and quiet like.

George Lucas = Aquarius moon/Taurus sun. Pisces Sun/Aquarius moon Bruce Willis.

I have to look up the women. I'm only citing the men.

So i got curious and looked at Jim Jone's Jamestown MASSACRE:



according to wikipedia, 276 children were killed there.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jim_Jones<BR>
"Deaths in Jonestown[edit]
Later that same day, 918 inhabitants of Jonestown,[89] 276 of them children, died of apparent cyanide poisoning, mostly in and around a pavilion.[90] This resulted in the greatest single loss of American civilian life in a deliberate act until the September 11 attacks.[91] The FBI later recovered a 45 minute audio recording of the suicide in progress.[92]"

holy crap!! I was curious of George Lucas's partners.

He is married to an Aries Sun/Libra moon:



and his former ex wife is a libra sun (didn't look up her chart) but he can't get away from the libra energy!! 😆 😆

He's a taurus Venus, 3rd house Cancer Mars. w/ Saturn Gemini.