A question Aquarians?

I you had lost interest in someone, would you tell them or just shy away from the situation and ignore them?

I you had lost interest in someone, would you tell them or just shy away from the situation and ignore them?

I would tell them if they asked me.

If they don't ask... I assume they're fine with it.

Totally agree with what's been said so far.

When I was single I would allow the situation/relationship to take it's course and naturally move on but if I'm directly asked I would definitely be upfront and honest about the current reality of the situation.

Same, if they directly ask me I'll tell them but I usually just expect them to understand (unless they've proven to be highly annoying and holding onto me for dear life).

Ignore them, I mean if it comes up in conversation then I would explain, but I ignore to a fault. I'd hint around the fact that things are changing. Or begin to ask strange questions or get really silent.

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I didn't do that!!! I only posted it once grrrr..

So when you lose interest in someone you were just seeing, and no longer speak to them, why would you keep that person as a facebook friend? One would think you'd delete them when you started seeing other people.

Oh c'mon, fb friendships are meaningless except for an odd few. Don't gauge stuff by that. An aqua won't!

Posted by M00Nchild
So when you lose interest in someone you were just seeing, and no longer speak to them, why would you keep that person as a facebook friend? One would think you'd delete them when you started seeing other people.

Just because someone doesn't want to date you anymore, doesn't mean you're not friend worthy. If the relationship ran it's course and hurt feelings aren't involved, why not keep them as a friend on facebook? I am still friends with lots of exes. As long as they don't harrass me or bother me, I just keep them as a friend.

Sometimes people don't think about cleaning out their friend list on FB. Or they are too lazy to do it.

Then again, I don't understand why so many people put such an emphasis on Facebook activity.

So i asked him directly (in an email)and was as direct as i could be! That was a week ago and still no reply? I do not annoy him, in the past couple of weeks I've sent only about 3 emails! I know he is working about 14 hours a day at the moment, but i just don't get it? He seemed so into me and it was pretty obviously so...

Posted by TheBlisster
So i asked him directly (in an email)and was as direct as i could be! That was a week ago and still no reply? I do not annoy him, in the past couple of weeks I've sent only about 3 emails! I know he is working about 14 hours a day at the moment, but i just don't get it? He seemed so into me and it was pretty obviously so...

directly in an email is an oxymoron...

that said, you won't be hearing back from "3 emails" you sent IF he hasn't responded to the first, sigh

Well i cannot exactly call him! He may be in an important meeting or out on location?

what happened?

maybe you said something that turned him cold

if he hasnt replied as fast as he normally does to your blunt question then that shows me he isnt interested as highly as you are to him

if im into someone i will make no doubt about it to them as soon as i can . with no hesitation.

hope this helps

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Posted by TheBlisster
Well i cannot exactly call him! He may be in an important meeting or out on location?

OK, but why do you keep sending him emails if he's not responding?

be wary.

he is taking longer than a normal aqua attracted to someone would be.

no matter how busy his schedule is he could spare 15 mins to type up an email to someone he is interested in once a week.

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aqua sun
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aquapiscescusp... He has ignored many messages before, it seems he will only reply to messages he feels like replying to and they are usually the ones that are not aimed at his feelings?

I just have a gut feeling that i need to hang on!

Aquaguy3000.. I really don't think that i said anything that have turned him off? But he may have done a few things to embarrass himself? Could that be a reason?

Sammy20.. I am not going to mail him anymore! I know he is definitely stressed with work, but he is very committed to his job and plus he has his children at weekends!

So i guess i need to just get on with my life, although it will be frustrating because i cannot stop thinking about him '

This is true for most people not just aquariuns.

If you are a big part of our life, we will stay in touch with you and make time for you. Even an independent aqua male would.

The fact that he's not responding is an answer in itself.