repost. How shall I play it?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by doublesidedGem on Sunday, September 28, 2014 and has 9 replies.

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@doublesidedGem
12 Years

Didn't mean to flag the last one. Phones and all.

Hey y'all. I posted on here about myself and an Aqua lady. She is Leon moon, and I'm Libra also a Gemini if that adds anything. Anyway, we hit it off big time and soon after things went a bit downhill. Partly from both of us.

She then blocked me from everything and we never spoke for 3 weeks, until Friday when she sent a message say she received an email I sent her, just giving my side an explaining that I understood the situation. She apologized for her part and we cleared the air. She stated she isn't ready for anything yet, and I'm cool with that. But I don't want to be the forgotten guy, yet I don't wanna force or pressure or pursue her I wanna be on her peripheral. She gets a lot of attention partly from social media. Which I'm still blocked on but haven't mentioned anything.

Bottom line, how should I act.

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@StarMooney
12 Years

I think that last act on her behalf means that you are in her peripheral. Just take it easy from here on out and let the healing process take reign.

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@Blackvirgo
12 Years

Blocking people is extreme which means she still has feelings for you ..

Her head may be stuck in her butt due to all the social media attention.

Just do your own thing

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@doublesidedGem
12 Years

Thank for the advice.

@Truecap - I can see why you'd say that, I occasionally think that too but then the other side says no, she must've felt something?!. But we'll see I'll surely keep you update!

@Star & @Feby - Thats what I was thinking. I mean she didn't have to reply nor apologize, even for the way she acted as she put it. So I'll keep it easy and stay cool, see how it goes!

@BlackM - Not so much Facebook, but instagram and Twitter!

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@AquaFox
12 Years

Uh, hate to burst your bubble Gem.. But she blocked you, because something about you irritates her, and, or annoys her.

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@doublesidedGem
12 Years

That maybe true and I'm kind of here nor there about it at times, I mean I'll live lol. I just liked her something about her, Aquarius women do something to me.

Anyway going of what I wanted to say, she decided to message me about 1am this morning. Not reading to much into it but I haven't made any contact with her for a week, see how it continues. I know she starts work next week after being off for 3 months, ill message her during the week, don't wanna give the impression I'm not interested, but don't wanna play it too cool hah!

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@doublesidedGem
12 Years

@Mindof Sorry here ya go.

Things are moveing slowly I guess, she randomly messaged me informing me of some good news about herself (1:30am lol), I messaged her about 12:30 the next evening and she was like a bit late lol, nevertheless we messages for a couple of hours.

Is this a common game, or is she making sure I can do what she asked and gave her the space?