I'm aquarius female 32 has any fellow Aquarians ever dated / are in a relationship with male scorpio? The man I like at work is renowned for being really kind nice and sensitive he's 45. Any advice on dating appreciated 🙂 thanks!
Advise for aquarius dating male scorpio?
They're loving, VERY loving...I hope you know what I mean by "VERY" 😉 But then again, I dated one with loads of water in his chart & he almost drowned me lol. It didn't last long. They aren't bad as friends though, they're good people & you just need to be on the same page with them emotionally to enjoy & appreciate all their "VERY" parts. Good luck & I hope it works out for you 🙂
I've hardly had a relationship and I think I would love to have a VERY living man! I think! Do you mean controlling / wants to spend lots time together etc he's been divorced 8 years so might want his own space! I wonder how scorpios change as they get older?
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I've hardly had a relationship and I think I would love to have a VERY living man! I think! Do you mean controlling / wants to spend lots time together etc he's been divorced 8 years so might want his own space! I wonder how scorpios change as they get older?
Dear, I'd love to say they're all a certain way or even make predictions, but that would be wrong. Just try him out & see for yourself. The one I dated had many issues which I don't believe are asto related, so there you go. Date the guy & forget about signs. If it fails then come back & we'll talk crap together lol.
Are you in a relationship with him or just wishing you were?
I'm not dating him were both flirting lots and he's asking me lots about myself and recently learnt he's been asking his colleague / my team leader about me too.
There's a lot of goods & bad
The good:
1. Both have felt misunderstood their whole life so when they come together as a couple, they dedicate their loyalty to trying their hardest to understand the other. This is big b/c feeling understood is a huge deal (or a deal breaker if not) to both signs in order for the ultimate level of intimacy/love to be achieved.
2. They're both very intellectual & passionate. Neither sign will ever have to worry about giving too much & feeling unappreciated for it. Both signs want to know everything about their partner, so neither sign will feel any negative feelings when asked of these things from the other. (Other signs may not take too kindly to fully submitting to their partners b/c they'll feel a sense of being trapped or controlled).
3. They both are extremely creative, imaginative & sexual. Their sex life will be amazing b/c they can both keep up with the other...Scorpio's endless endurance & Aquarian's endless wild imagination is a perfect match!
4. They're both very cautious & observant in the beginning. But this isn't necessarily a bad thing. Both signs can trust a lot more what they've studied forever & have concluded is trustworthy. The love/relationship is much more genuine & longer lasting when both signs took out enough time to "make sure" it was genuine. Since they both have the enormous fear of rushing or falling for the wrong person, neither will feel slighted or pissed off that the other person holds back sometimes. You can't knock somebody for a caution that you also have. Once both have concluded that things are real, all the tests/games stop & from there they start catering to their other fear of messing a once in a lifetime love story up, which just gives them the incentive to give the relationship all they have. That's a good thing!
The good:
1. Both have felt misunderstood their whole life so when they come together as a couple, they dedicate their loyalty to trying their hardest to understand the other. This is big b/c feeling understood is a huge deal (or a deal breaker if not) to both signs in order for the ultimate level of intimacy/love to be achieved.
2. They're both very intellectual & passionate. Neither sign will ever have to worry about giving too much & feeling unappreciated for it. Both signs want to know everything about their partner, so neither sign will feel any negative feelings when asked of these things from the other. (Other signs may not take too kindly to fully submitting to their partners b/c they'll feel a sense of being trapped or controlled).
3. They both are extremely creative, imaginative & sexual. Their sex life will be amazing b/c they can both keep up with the other...Scorpio's endless endurance & Aquarian's endless wild imagination is a perfect match!
4. They're both very cautious & observant in the beginning. But this isn't necessarily a bad thing. Both signs can trust a lot more what they've studied forever & have concluded is trustworthy. The love/relationship is much more genuine & longer lasting when both signs took out enough time to "make sure" it was genuine. Since they both have the enormous fear of rushing or falling for the wrong person, neither will feel slighted or pissed off that the other person holds back sometimes. You can't knock somebody for a caution that you also have. Once both have concluded that things are real, all the tests/games stop & from there they start catering to their other fear of messing a once in a lifetime love story up, which just gives them the incentive to give the relationship all they have. That's a good thing!
But of course there's always the bad lol
1. Their own defensive mechanisms cause great damage to the relationship, which leads to more damage/problems than what the original problem even warranted. Aquarius will straight up get stubborn, shut you out, give you the silent treatment & refuse to back down. Well so will a Scorpio. During this time, neither acknowledge that it's just a defense mechanism & instead take it as a personal attack that leads to arguments like, "Clearly, you really never loved me." They add more trouble to the problems in the relationship when their ways of solving problems are more destructive than the problem itself. Somebody has to give in/back down eventually, but neither sign will want to do it
2. They're both very good at verbally assassinating other people. Scorpio can turn into a very sly, vindictive & hit em where it hurts type of fighter, whereas Aquarius can hit you where it hurts with silence or with 1 sentence that can tear Scorpio a part inside. Both signs often lose their "Edit button" when pushed to the limit, which is why when this particular couple gets into a verbal quarrel, things get really bad!!! Even though it takes a little longer than Scorpio for an Aquarius to finally explode & bring out the verbal guns, it doesn't matter b/c if there's 1 person who can push anyone to their breaking point, it's a Scorpio! This couple has a habit of saying things they can't take back, which again just leads to 1 fight causing more damage than the 10 problems they were probably fighting about originally.
3. They both have a fear of losing what/who they love, so much so that they can become obsessive over their partner. They die inside the minute the realize they put so much effort, work, energy & fought so many internal battles just to be able to allow themselves to fully commit, only for the relationship to come crashing down later. B/c both signs fear that "moment" of realization more than anything else in the world, it can lead them both to settling or putting up with things that they shouldn't, which just causes for a passionately miserable relationship. In other words, it's not so much that this couple stays together b/c it's worth sticking it out, but more so that they stay b/c they are obsessed with their fear of losing their life savings (their heart). These 2 may stay together, not b/c they are actually working to fix the problems, but b/c they can't process the embarrassment & ego-lashing that it takes to a
1. Their own defensive mechanisms cause great damage to the relationship, which leads to more damage/problems than what the original problem even warranted. Aquarius will straight up get stubborn, shut you out, give you the silent treatment & refuse to back down. Well so will a Scorpio. During this time, neither acknowledge that it's just a defense mechanism & instead take it as a personal attack that leads to arguments like, "Clearly, you really never loved me." They add more trouble to the problems in the relationship when their ways of solving problems are more destructive than the problem itself. Somebody has to give in/back down eventually, but neither sign will want to do it
2. They're both very good at verbally assassinating other people. Scorpio can turn into a very sly, vindictive & hit em where it hurts type of fighter, whereas Aquarius can hit you where it hurts with silence or with 1 sentence that can tear Scorpio a part inside. Both signs often lose their "Edit button" when pushed to the limit, which is why when this particular couple gets into a verbal quarrel, things get really bad!!! Even though it takes a little longer than Scorpio for an Aquarius to finally explode & bring out the verbal guns, it doesn't matter b/c if there's 1 person who can push anyone to their breaking point, it's a Scorpio! This couple has a habit of saying things they can't take back, which again just leads to 1 fight causing more damage than the 10 problems they were probably fighting about originally.
3. They both have a fear of losing what/who they love, so much so that they can become obsessive over their partner. They die inside the minute the realize they put so much effort, work, energy & fought so many internal battles just to be able to allow themselves to fully commit, only for the relationship to come crashing down later. B/c both signs fear that "moment" of realization more than anything else in the world, it can lead them both to settling or putting up with things that they shouldn't, which just causes for a passionately miserable relationship. In other words, it's not so much that this couple stays together b/c it's worth sticking it out, but more so that they stay b/c they are obsessed with their fear of losing their life savings (their heart). These 2 may stay together, not b/c they are actually working to fix the problems, but b/c they can't process the embarrassment & ego-lashing that it takes to a
.... These 2 may stay together, not b/c they are actually working to fix the problems, but b/c they can't process the embarrassment & ego-lashing that it takes to admit that once again, they picked the wrong person. This is how you end up with 2 people still living in the same house, refusing to leave each other even though neither of them are speaking or trying to fix the problem
Aquarian/Scorpio relationships are really REALLY good when they're good but really REALLY bad when things get rough! It's usually 1 extreme or the other
Some can survive the extremes, some couples can't
Aquarian/Scorpio relationships are really REALLY good when they're good but really REALLY bad when things get rough! It's usually 1 extreme or the other
Some can survive the extremes, some couples can't
krysrenee7, Thank you for the above.. this really helps me too hehe.. x
My first love is a Scorpio. This is based off of our relationship, so not all Scorp/Aqua relationships can be generalized in this way. Intellectually, we were on point. Sweet and affectionate, always felt wanted. He remembered little details about me, like what drink I like, favorite scent, etc.
The bad: ...so so so so very manipulative and possessive. Gave him no reason to not trust me, yet he was always calling me when I was out with my friends. His questions were like a minefield of trick questions. Arguments were awful, we knew what buttons to push with each other. In an argument, I don't bother to get super mad because I think it's a waste of energy, but he knew EXACTLY what to say to get a reaction out of me. To this day, he is the only one who has pushed me to erupt like volcanoes in every argument.
The bad: ...so so so so very manipulative and possessive. Gave him no reason to not trust me, yet he was always calling me when I was out with my friends. His questions were like a minefield of trick questions. Arguments were awful, we knew what buttons to push with each other. In an argument, I don't bother to get super mad because I think it's a waste of energy, but he knew EXACTLY what to say to get a reaction out of me. To this day, he is the only one who has pushed me to erupt like volcanoes in every argument.
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