Anyone have Sun in Aquarius and Venus in Pisces?

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I have those. I'm very open about the way I feel about a person. Most of the time I try to be as direct as possible which catches everyone off guard, including myself, but when it comes down to it if I stick around for long periods and keep showing up at your doorstep it means you're special. Personally I don't feel the need to validate the relationship by being upfront about it all the time with grandiose gestures or even little ones. You know I'm here you're here let's do stuff together and let it be. And then there will be times where I turn into a goddamn puppy and I'll literally throw flowers at you like a 95mph fastball thinking I'm being romantic. Because who doesn't like getting a face full of flowers right?
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Dude's probably scared to put himself out there right now and trying to figure things out. Can't blame him though he might have a few issues to work out, then again who doesn't? Best advice I could give you is to just chip away at it. It'll take a ton of patience on your part. Only if you're willing to go through with the process. Is ay this because apparently people have a hard time playing the waiting game with Aquas. As for myself I'm incredibly direct with the way I go about things. I just do not want to deal with the crap in between. Usually I just walk up, say what I need to say then I shut up and wait for the reply. If things go well then we build on it, if there's nothing there I move on. Your guy might be different though. Again just chip away at him.
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I have been rather patient I'm not going to be waiting all my life its just that he's more direct when we're physically together and now we have broken up for uni he's just acting a little hesitant =/ we are trying to build upon it but only time can tell. Btw what happens if you ignore an Aquarius, if so anything? I must have not want to reply to a text so I ignored it do they take it personally?
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Posted by libran123
I have done as much research as I could on familiarizing myself with these kind of guys over web pages so I have a vague idea of what they are like, but if there is anyone with this combination please could you share how you express your emotions. The guy I am interested in is an Aquarius but I wanted to how they act when they like somebody or in love. Thanks x



I'm an aqua w/ venus in pisces. Idk how much different a girl is w/ a guy, but i still have the same qualities of an aqua in the love department where i'm unable to talk about feelings. however, i DO love romantic settings, weddings, flowers, love movies, etc. n i think that's due to my venus being in pisces. lol it's a weird combination.

i feel like i show i care by always being around. if ur aqua doesn't ignore u, answers ur texts & calls timely (or @ least within the same day lol), and seems to always be around and down to hang out with you then it looks like a good sign! 😉 if im not interested in someone i won't be making an effort to physically hang out with them. & esp if he's continuously hanging out w/ u then it has to mean he enjoys ur company. if i don't care for someone i wont hang out with them -- simple as that.

libra + aqua r supposed to b a really good match so u guys r definitely already compatible. i have yet to meet a libra myself! good luck & hope this helped! 😉
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Oh right because I can see that from him but I'm the one that's more open about it lol maybe it's because I'm a girl i don't know =/

yeah he used to always be around me and wanted to spend time together he texts when he wants but yes its within the same day 🙂 most of the time sounds all good to me so far but I don't want to get my high hopes up still.

Thanks it helped a lot aquarius21 🙂 last question...how can I really impress him though? and what makes you really annoyed? x
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i think u can impress him by being a good friend and just appearing to be laid-back, relaxed, easy-going, and witty. if he feels like doing something totally random and out of the blue and you agree to join him, i think that would impress him. i love when people are down to do whatever without any complaints, objections, worry, or too many questions. a simple "let's go" or "yeah, let's do it" attitude always intrigues me. especially because most people are so serious and uptight, it's refreshing to meet someone who can kind of fly freely too.

aquas r the sign of friendship, so i'd suggest being cool with his friends too even if u dont like them haha. one of my aqua guy friends was hanging out with this girl he was kind of "seeing" and his guy friends tagged along, and he thought it was cool that she didn't mind having them included. but then he got turned off b/c she wouldn't participate with the rest of the group, acted snobby and sort of singled herself out. getting along and liking an aqua's friends i think r bonus points.

if u dont want to annoy him, i suggest not talking about yourself too much in a conceited way. personally, that's a turn off for me. i love when people talk, but if they're constantly talking about THEMSELVES the like meter goes down. complaining and whining too much are also turn offs. aquas love giving advice and listening to people problems, but a constant "woe is me" attitude is too draining...
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yeah i've done that so far I am that type of girl anyway so I think it's thumbs up for that so far lol. If i do worry I don't really feel the need to show him anyway. I am familiar with a few of his friends not all of them but they do say hello when they see me. We've also only spoken about general things, he does quite like to know about me but he doesn't like to reveal much about himself (even though I already know lol)

thanks for the info 🙂

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Posted by libran123
I have done as much research as I could on familiarizing myself with these kind of guys over web pages so I have a vague idea of what they are like, but if there is anyone with this combination please could you share how you express your emotions. The guy I am interested in is an Aquarius but I wanted to how they act when they like somebody or in love. Thanks x



This is the best one i found! finding out
what decan his venus in pisces is in
will help out a little more.

Sun in Aquarius / Venus in Pisces

This adds to the kind, humanitarian and charitable qualities of Aquarius and warms the emotions, making the subject more responsive and less distant. Emotional involvement is increased, yet Piscean emotion will blend with Aquarian independence. This is an understanding and sympathetic friend.

Money can be handled badly. Professional help is advised.
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Yea I knew a guy with those placements and he was a totally playa.


He had a leo moon though and sag mars so I think that could also have played a huge part to it har



yeah a leo moon changes quite a bit i think not sure about sag in mars tho =/
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Yea it kinda makes you "love everyone" lol I have it
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I am a Libra as well and dated an Aqua sun Pisces Venus for about 7 months. He didn't really have trouble expressing his emotions for me but wasn't really the romantic type either. I had trouble trusting him because he was pretty flirtatious with other girls esp. sending them messages and what not. I caught him trying to holler at other girls via text and facebook and when I confronted him he admitted to crossing the line and apologized. He spent 4-5 days with me every week and said that by him spending all of his free time with me I should show that he only cared about me.
Ultimately, the lack of trust is what ruined the relationship, spiraling my sanity out of control eventually. I began to smother him I suppose and we argued every other day.
Currently, we are working at being friends but obviously feelings are still there. I'd say he might just want an fwb type of relationship except for the fact that he still shows he cares for me on a more deeper level.
My conclusion is that they expect you to take them for face value - what they show or tell you is basically what they feel. You just have to put your faith and trust in them that they are being up front. Unless you catch them in a lie you just gotta roll with it. And when you do catch them in a lie they usually feel pretty bad about it. My ex broke up with me because he was over it and said he didn't want to cheat on me. No sugar-coating there. But now he is sending mixed signals, still wants to see me and hang out. I'd say it is harder to get them to come around again once they decide to leave. If you really want them prevent them from leaving in the first place. And put your faith in him even through all the flirting etc. Sounds fun, eh?
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One more thought...even though they flirt a lot and have many female friends if you've gotten as far as getting them to even call you their girlfriend is a feat in itself. Getting them to stay is another before you get demoted and fall back into the ranks with the others. And there are many others, all hopeful for more because he is good at making them feel like there could be a slight chance. They are good at that! A million life preservers everywhere in case the main ship sinks, lol.
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As an Aquarius man with Venus in Pisces, let me cut to the chase. The reason this combination can be seen as "untrustworthy," "flirtatious," and "the cheating type" is because 1)Pisces is a sign of universal (rather than personal) love, so "faithful boundaries" will appear less existent, if at all, and 2) Aquarius is a social sign, the sign of friendships, groups, etc.. Combine those two, and the shadow side of Aquarius Sun/Pisces Venus will yield all of what has been posted among the darker elements so far on this thread.

Speaking for myself, I do tend to thrive in groups, but when it comes to relationships, I try to make it very clear to the person I'm interested in that I'm theirs. Once I commit (and I do commit), reciprocation is appreciated.

A reason Venus in Pisces can "roam the field" is a bit complicated, but one of the things it can boil down to is this: we give so much in love and affection that it's a tall order to return it in kind, and when it isn't, or isn't done with the same heartfelt (Pisces) sincerity (Aquarius), our efforts can feel all for nothing. So, we either try again and again and again (Pisces), or we simply move on to the next promising partner (Aquarius). One thing that must be understood about us Aquarius Sun / Pisces Venus people is that even though our affections can appear to have an overly generous side, our apparent darker side of cheating, womanizing, etc. can more or less be the result of a lack of love in return. Not to place blame on anyone else, but if love and affection isn't being returned, who would want to stick around?
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Aquarius with Venus in pisces as well (but I'm a woman). I'm not sure it plays a role in it, but I've never been in a relationship where I didn't have any feelings at all. I'm good at being upfront about my feelings but only if I feel like they will be accepted. I hata grand romantic gestures but I'm still a romantic at heart, romance juste doesn't mean the same thing to me as it does to many people (for me it's all about the small things!). I don't have a tendency to flirt but I do have guy friends and I value their friendship very much, so when my ex got jealous of them it was a real problem for me! Friendship is just as important to me as a relationship, and my partner has got to understand that it doesn't mean I don't love him or that I'm gonna cheat on him (I have very strong principles against cheating!). But I would never try to be flirtatious in front of my boyfriend (unless I feel like he doesn't even care, which might make me want to test him if I'm being immature... or drunk). So if you know this by another way than witnessing it (reading his text messages or going on his facebook account), then for an aquarius you're doing something wrong: I like my independence and my privacy, it's important to me that I still have my own separate life from my partner, and your risk breaking my trust. Plus by being clingy, you would actually be pushing me away....

Hope it helps a bit 🙂 But I understand that this is me, it might have sthg to do with other signs in my chart or maybe it's different for girls?
If you have any question, please ask!
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I'm also a female Aquarius with pisces in venus. It really depends on whom I'm with. My Aries ex brought out the Aquarius side of me. We were living together for 6 years, at the beginning of the relationship, things were better when he had to do frequent business trips. I had the space I needed. Things going downhill when he stopped flying and cried for more affection from my side. I felt suffocated and a loss of individual identity. My pisces venus kept putting up with his irresponsible acts until my Aquarius ended it all. I found it hard to talk about my emotions so my Aries was in huge rage.

Then I met this Taurus guy who brought out the Pisces Venus in me. His aloofness aroused my insecurity and I was extremely affectionate. Even I was very surprised about this side of me. Unfortunately he was too cold and judgmental and we're back to normal friends now. I don't like people playing with my insecurity and I'm actually hating my venus coz it makes me sensitive and vulnerable and very much feeling like a doormat but it is NOT the usual me.
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My husband is has a Venus in Pisces and im a Pisces which is of course, ideal. You would have never guessed his capacity to love from our first years. He has a true heart of gold though. But it doesnt show unless they want to give it to you. When they do, its heavy. He isnt emotional but his love is deep. Im the emotional one. His is a steadfast love.
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Hey, Aquarius' with Venus in Pisces, that's what my Aquarius ex is! Would you guys comment on my post please. I need your help. I'm trying to talk to him again and could use as much advice as possible. Thank you 🙂



Hi,

I have both Sun and Venus in Pisces. I have the Moon in Aquarius. So, with this placement, I feel related enough to this thread to help. All I can offer you is a glimpse of my own behavior in a relationship.
When my girlfriend and I first got together she was passionate from the onset: crazy about me, physically and emotionally on fire. I was the opposite though. I was slow in coming around. I likened my heart to the turning of a ship...it takes time. I guess I was cold and frigid, taking too long to warm up. I was also guarded and cautious. My ideals are high. I knew what I wanted was unconditional love and I was afraid she might not be able to give that to me. But, as time went on it began not to matter since my love for her was growing.
We started out as best friends and as girlfriend and boyfriend. It seemed like it was meant to be and we both believed it. Signs seemed to be happening all the time; it was spiritual I believe. Something that surprised me is that we began to fight a lot. We were stubborn in our ways and couldn't resolve differences.
Then one day she tells me the feelings are gone and we're not to see each other anymore. I asked her where the turning point was for her and she said, "Balboa." This was the place I had made her cry. At the time I didn't want to be there. I still remember that day and I regret my insensitivity. The place had meaning to her. It was important that she share it with me.
Time moves on but my heart does not. Months later she gave me the opportunity to be her friend. But, I looked ahead to the inevitable: one day I would have to see another man take my place, see her marry someone who isn't me. This would destroy me, so I opted for my solution which was to get back together with her. She didn't want to do that. So now she remains a memory, and I miss her so much.
In short, differences may be huge at first, but they will someday not matter anymore. A venus in pisces person can be slow at first, but the love will come and may grow too strong. I would go back to Balboa for her...
A thousand times.
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I'm a woman with sun in Aquarius and Venus in Pisces (as well as a Taurus rising and moon in Aries). I have a woman's perspective, for sure, but I hope it is helpful to you.

I'm not sure what combination of my signs affects me in which way, but I do know that I feel the push and pull of Aquarius and Pisces in romantic situations. My Aquarius side doesn't believe in love at first site, but that sign is dwarfed by Pisces when it comes to romance. I don't love every man I go on a date with, but when I do fall in love, it is 100% for that man and can be quite consuming. Further, I wear my heart on my sleeve for him, so I'm sure there is clearly no doubt as to how I feel. If your boyfriend feels that way for you, he probably showers you with the affection indicative of his love language,

As for winning my heart, it may be confusing. I take care of my body and dress well. I take pride in my appearance. It may appear that I want to be admired solely for my looks, but admiring my physical appearance alone will get a man no where with me. If he stirs my intellect and truly appears to care about my thoughts, beliefs and values, I'm a sucker for him!

There are a couple downsides to the Pisces in me being able to fall in love easily. One is that, down deep I know it can happen with someone else (Aquarius pragmatism) if a current relationship fails (that sounds more awful that it actually is!) I also fall so hard that a relationship can be at the final commitment stage before I realize the man may not be the one I want to spend my life with. Sometimes it can be hard to allow my analytical Aquarius side to step in when my Pisces is saying, "Full steam ahead!!!" They are, really, at polar opposites!

The upsides are that I am 100% loyal to the man I'm with. I don't even have any interest a looking at another man, let alone straying. I abhor confrontation and will do anything to make peace rather than start or engage in a fight. The downside to that is that I shy away from making waves, so if something bothers me I just put up with it, rather than speaking up. Over time, all those little resentments add up so that when the relationship is over, IT IS REALLY OVER. My advice to you is to temperature check your boyfriend if you sense that he is even a little annoyed over something. Better to clear the air now than lose someone you may want in your life forever simply because he was too weak to speak up when he should have (yes, I do accept it as a weakness in me and consciously try to improve that area).

I also feel everyone's pain, which may be especially difficult as an Aquarian. I'm already a humanitarian. I don't need the feelings of the Pisces on top of that, but there it is.

My boyfriend is a Pisces with Venus in Aquarius, so we seem to get each other. Having said that, as an Aquarian, I love the intellect of Geminis and Libras, so your sun sign may be the stimulation your boyfriend needs. Good luck to you!
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Posted by Klschack
I'm a woman with sun in Aquarius and Venus in Pisces (as well as a Taurus rising and moon in Aries). I have a woman's perspective, for sure, but I hope it is helpful to you.

I'm not sure what combination of my signs affects me in which way, but I do know that I feel the push and pull of Aquarius and Pisces in romantic situations. My Aquarius side doesn't believe in love at first site, but that sign is dwarfed by Pisces when it comes to romance. I don't love every man I go on a date with, but when I do fall in love, it is 100% for that man and can be quite consuming. Further, I wear my heart on my sleeve for him, so I'm sure there is clearly no doubt as to how I feel. If your boyfriend feels that way for you, he probably showers you with the affection indicative of his love language,

As for winning my heart, it may be confusing. I take care of my body and dress well. I take pride in my appearance. It may appear that I want to be admired solely for my looks, but admiring my physical appearance alone will get a man no where with me. If he stirs my intellect and truly appears to care about my thoughts, beliefs and values, I'm a sucker for him!

There are a couple downsides to the Pisces in me being able to fall in love easily. One is that, down deep I know it can happen with someone else (Aquarius pragmatism) if a current relationship fails (that sounds more awful that it actually is!) I also fall so hard that a relationship can be at the final commitment stage before I realize the man may not be the one I want to spend my life with. Sometimes it can be hard to allow my analytical Aquarius side to step in when my Pisces is saying, "Full steam ahead!!!" They are, really, at polar opposites!

The upsides are that I am 100% loyal to the man I'm with. I don't even have any interest a looking at another man, let alone straying. I abhor confrontation and will do anything to make peace rather than start or engage in a fight. The downside to that is that I shy away from making waves, so if something bothers me I just put up with it, rather than speaking up. Over time, all those little resentments add up so that when the relationship is over, IT IS REALLY OVER. My advice to you is to temperature check your boyfriend if you sense that he is even a little annoyed over something. Better to clear the air now than lose someone you may want in your life forever simply because he was too weak to speak up when he should have (yes, I do accept it as a weakness in me and consciously try to improve that area).

I also feel everyone's pain, which may be especially difficult as an Aquarian. I'm already a humanitarian. I don't need the feelings of the Pisces on top of that, but there it is.

My boyfriend is a Pisces with Venus in Aquarius, so we seem to get each other. Having said that, as an Aquarian, I love the intellect of Geminis and Libras, so your sun sign may be the stimulation your boyfriend needs. Good luck to you!
I am the same... not the easiest combo🙂 I identify especially with this: "I also feel everyone's pain, which may be especially difficult as an Aquarian. I'm already a humanitarian. I don't need the feelings of the Pisces on top of that, but there it is." Add my cancer moon and aries mars... nightmare at times🙂