Aqua male bestie

He cares too much for me. I have made it clear multiple times that I cant be anything more than a friend to him but he's not backing off. Its starting to effect our friendship. He doesn't give me space but he doesn't want me to leave right now either.

I am leaving at the end of the year though and he seems to be okay with it. He knows that I still love my Ex Aqua but I just dont understand why he cant distance himself, knowing all he knows about my life.

He has said that I am good at pushing him back when he feels im getting too close to him so he doesn't want me to leave.

He always buys me things even when I dont want him to and state that I dont want him to.

He does a lot of things for me that none of my other friends do.

I dont want him to love me, I dont want to lose him as a friend either. He is my best friend.

what do I do?

I am a cancer. We have known each other a long time but his feelings started a couple of years ago. I didnt know about it until a mutual friend told me about his feelings and by that stage we were already sharing a house. We've lived together for 10 months now. we are not fwb but he had mentioned a couple of months ago with teary eyes that he likes me a lot and doesn't want me to go.

(I was contemplating leaving because of family commitments) he has told his family things and they ask me things like 'when are you two going to get married' and that I am good for him and invite me to family things. He doesn't invite anyone to family things.

Hmm, well this is what I was afraid of. I am moving at the end of the year but I hope our friendship isn't going to go to dust in the meantime. when I get boxed, I react in a way that is not very pretty. im afraid I cannot handle this much longer.

Posted by Geminiforever23
Run for the hills. I just met an aqua who is super clingy and i just stopped responding to his messages. Move out if you can, asap.

Is there another aqua or is this the Melb—

I never had much to do with Aquas but the past 5 years have been filled with them! One after another! I'm not sure why I started attracting them because I had always attracted Leos, Saggis and Virgos.

They all got attached but not all were clingy, none as clingy as my friend.

I have a Gemini moon.

Posted by drunkghost
my bro be like this but he can take a hint and move on although it's hard for him to do because he truly does care for people and is sensitive it does take him a while to realize a person ain't worth the time but super loyal

Honestly the best friendship blurring the line cause I'll bet you want the treatment just not the more than friends feelings he's catching

Actually you might be surprised but I do not want the treatment. I have been independent for as long as I can remember and the gestures make me seriously uncomfortable. I have told him this but he still does it. im not sure if he thinks im playing hard to get or if he thinks ill realise how great he is?

he knows i am not emotionally available as well. i cant give someone something i dont have.

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Posted by Geminiforever23
Run for the hills. I just met an aqua who is super clingy and i just stopped responding to his messages. Move out if you can, asap.

Is there another aqua or is this the Melb—

Its another one. I told Saweetz about him the other day. An aqua born in Jan 28 and met him online coincidentally. Asked me out many times, told me he was having a bad day and wanted to call, i wasnt responding and was still texting me over and over. Told Melb aqua about it and he told me to keep ignoring til the guy gets tired of it. I attract aquas left, right and bloody center online and offline — being a gem with Leo moon I think it just happens to me a lot lol

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You such an aqua magnet lol

If he is in Australia, pass him to Saweetz —?? she'll take "good" care of him.

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Posted by Isabeau90
I never had much to do with Aquas but the past 5 years have been filled with them! One after another! I'm not sure why I started attracting them because I had always attracted Leos, Saggis and Virgos.

They all got attached but not all were clingy, none as clingy as my friend.

I have a Gemini moon.

Prob has something to do with your Gem moon!!!! 🙂 I'm a gem with Leo moon and I attract aquas like crazy.

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Im in thought with you! Attracting is one thing though, and I do absolutely adore Aquas but yes, my predicament. ?

arggh im going to take your advice and stick to being consistent!

Im going to need a lot of time away from the house.... just to keep my cool.