aqua with venus in pisces

Hey aquas!!!

I met this aqua guy with venus in pisces and moon in aries a couple of months ago. we started texting everyday, all day.. he was in to me, and i in to him. we went out for two dates, that went really good. it was friday and saturday... he is very romantic, holding my hand, kissing me in the streets etc.

all of a sudden he went really cold.. we still talked but not as much. he cancelled on a date, an hour before, the week after, and i was kinda dissapointed.. i told him that too. a month passed, we are still texting, and we met for a date again. it went good, we had fun, got back to his place and had sex, it was good.. two days later we were together again. again we started talking alot..

and then he goes cold again... i asked him "why are u so cold towards me?" and he said something about he was stressed about money, he had some financial problems and things like that and that he liked me alot, but was confused about getting in to a relationship right now. i said, i understand, no rush lets take it slow..

3 days later, i havent heard from him. i was on a cafe and heard some girl talking about him (i live in a small place), i admit i didnt really hear what she said, but i got angry, and thought "aha thats why u are so cold". so i texted him "hey. why would u even lie to me and say u are stressed about money, when thats clearly not the case. not talking to u again. take care" ....i know it was immature not to ask him about it first, but i just couldnt handle a rejection if that was the case, so id rather just end it. we discussed, and he said "u are lying about u heard someone talk about me, i dont believe u. if u wanna break up, do it, dont come up with excuses. u are fucked up, i knew u was like this, fuck u bla bla bla"

i dont know what to do... should i even do something. im very confused. cause i like him, but his reaction kinda scared me too, his language to me was really ugly..

anyone out there with aquarius sun, venus in pisces— or anyone with experience with them... help :/

LoL, I'm and Aqua with some heavy Pisces placements but I doubt I can help you.

All I can really say with certainty is that both Pisces and Aquarius are Idealist. This makes for a very idealistic type of individual despite the layed back type of persona they appear to have. The money could really be an issue if he only likes to take you out to nice places but I would imagine it is very easy to turn him off as well.

The idealist nature makes for one to expect perfect true love and affection that realistically no human can do. So, when you don't or appear that you don't because you will it can cause doubt and unrest.

But all that shit aside I can't condone giving you seesaw of attention and coldness. I'm sure there is a method to the madness but you would have to get to know him well enough to see it. You need to do whats best for you and obviously this has not been very comfortable for you.

If you still wanna try I'd just confront him with the issues you have and if no change than it's just not for you.

Some part of that outburst could be part sun and part moon. All I can say is if this were happen to me you'd probably end up in the bad books unless you own up to it and give me a very good reason to look past this.

I'll take it you've not seen him angered before seeing you were surprised by his reaction so perhaps figure out if this is a behaviour you'll tolerate yourself. If and when you feel like approaching him again just be honest about how you feel and hope that chemistry is still there.

I wanna kinda back up what Nacho said about being idealists. To me even if I don't pack the punch that aries mooners do, if I was accused of anything it usually destroys that little dream land of mine. Even if I accepted the explanation and dealt with the issue it may not be the same.

Him having hot/cold moments could def. be attributed to the Aquarius/Pisces placements in his chart.

However, the foul language aint got nothing to do with astrology baby girl! lol

He probably was talking to other women. Sometimes, men have no clue that when they're trying to juggle women, it shows! It's very hard to give your undivided attention to multiple people w/o communication or consistency or SOMETHING lacking somewhere!!!

I'm a big fan of believing in coincidences. What are the odds that you'd be in the same cafe, at the same exact time, & close enough to the very person who just so happens to know him! Small town or not, that's a pretty big coincidence! And since I believe that God works in mysterious ways, I would completely understand why someone would take this & run with it!

His response was completely disproportionate & a little too defensive for someone who isn't guilty. The fact that he's now trying to call you a liar is nothing more than reverse psychology. He's using that trick b/c it usually works. You turn the tables on someone, start accusing them of things & from there, watch them sweat trying to prove to you that they're the honest person when they were supposed to be the ones on the hot seat!!!

People use this trick b/c the moment someone falls for it & starts explaining themselves to them, it reduces the feeling of rejection that they were feeling the minute you 1st told them to go to hell! It's their way of saying, HA! I just dumped YOU, not the other way around! Works every time lol

Bottom line: If your intuition is telling you that this guy's excuses were bullsh**t, then listen to your gut. If you have that lingering feeling that you jumped the gun, jumped to conclusions too fast & are probably wrong, then listen to your gut. If you still want to talk to him, apologize to him for attacking him w/o 1st hearing him out BUT also request an apology from him for talking to you with such disrespect. If you're someone that he was truly interested in to begin with, he will accept your apology & try this thing with you again! He may need some space & some time to calm down & refocus his thoughts, but nonetheless, if he wants it/you bad enough, he'll be back.

thanks guys!!

today he texted me about a ring i lost at his place the first time i was there :/ he tried it on as a joke, and dropped it on the floor, and we couldnt find it.

him: "did u forget ur ring here? i found it in my jacket pocket"
me: "yeah a long time ago. we couldnt find it"
him: "u probably put it in my pocket urself hehehe 😄"

i was thinking about apologizing to him in a couple a days... he is obviously not mad. so i dont think imma apologize... 😛