Aquarius bossyyynnneessssss

Yes or no? Are you more protective and more stubborn n bossy when you r more closer to someone?

Like pushy or controlling in minor things!!! It started to get pretty annoying lol — is this a common Aqua trait?

Posted by Capmercury87
Im pretty passive.

Depends on the persons birth chart.

I hate being controlled so I never control anyone.

I hate it when some one is pushy with me so I never push.

I am protective, ill have your back behind your back, if some one is hurtful or rude to you behind your back ill put them in their place.

Im protective over my old best friend even though we aren't friends anymore. Just because I don't want to be her best friend anymore doesn't mean I'm gonna let people do her dirty around me.

Won't have it.

What's your chart?

Yes, mine is. Not always, but he has his moments when I would also like to hear a "please" when he asks for something. But this happens on his bad days, when he is too stressed out. Otherwise no, he won't impose anything on me, except that he expects me to behave as he would like me to. When I don't do that, he becomes slightly annoyed, but says nothing. But his passiveness speaks loudly.

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Like pushy or controlling in minor things!!! It started to get pretty annoying lol — is this a common Aqua trait?

NO ?

Posted by saweetz1988
Like pushy or controlling in minor things!!! It started to get pretty annoying lol — is this a common Aqua trait?

i'm married to a very controlling type of man. lol what do you think?

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well...it's his way or the highway. but there's some compromise, as in all relationships.

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Like pushy or controlling in minor things!!! It started to get pretty annoying lol — is this a common Aqua trait?

NO ?

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Sure boss lpl

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Posted by Capmercury87
Im pretty passive.

Depends on the persons birth chart.

I hate being controlled so I never control anyone.

I hate it when some one is pushy with me so I never push.

I am protective, ill have your back behind your back, if some one is hurtful or rude to you behind your back ill put them in their place.

Im protective over my old best friend even though we aren't friends anymore. Just because I don't want to be her best friend anymore doesn't mean I'm gonna let people do her dirty around me.

Won't have it.

What's your chart?

Aqua sun

Pisces moon

Pisces asc

Sag mars

Cap Venus

Cap mercury

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Hah interesting !!! You share the same sun moon and mercury as him. I wonder where his need for his control and my way or high way come from. The closer we are the more he is also passing those traits onto what I do.. arghhh like the cook up last time he was all over my kitchen telling me how my cooking should be done lol.. it was a fun stubborn battle but god it was annoying lol. He was trying to push my buttons though coz I am extremely stubborn hahahaha... he demanded I serve the mashed potato onto the same bowl as his pad Thai!!!! And even forced to spoon feed me the rest of my food when I couldn't finish it! I letrally had to run Away like a little kid. He's starting to act like my dad lately .

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Posted by saweetz1988
Like pushy or controlling in minor things!!! It started to get pretty annoying lol — is this a common Aqua trait?

i'm married to a very controlling type of man. lol what do you think?

😆

well...it's his way or the highway. but there's some compromise, as in all relationships.

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Oh god! Wait what's your husbands chart!!!!—? T_T

This tendency and traits shown up heaps last time he came over and it's all brand new I never had him interfere so much with everything that I do ... it's nice coz I know he cares deeply about everything that I do but god I just ditched the leo coz I find him being too bossy and too direct so when the Aqua came over and was insanely wanting to know and changing everything I do to his ways.. that was a lot of fun of stubbornness battaling. Lol.. I also don't give in easily I'm also very much like a rebel so HAhahhaa fun time.

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Like pushy or controlling in minor things!!! It started to get pretty annoying lol — is this a common Aqua trait?

NO ?

Sure boss lpl

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Good I don't take no as an answer ??

controlling...?............................a little...but it's because I care

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Posted by Capmercury87
Im pretty passive.

Depends on the persons birth chart.

I hate being controlled so I never control anyone.

I hate it when some one is pushy with me so I never push.

I am protective, ill have your back behind your back, if some one is hurtful or rude to you behind your back ill put them in their place.

Im protective over my old best friend even though we aren't friends anymore. Just because I don't want to be her best friend anymore doesn't mean I'm gonna let people do her dirty around me.

Won't have it.

What's your chart?

Aqua sun

Pisces moon

Pisces asc

Sag mars

Cap Venus

Cap mercury

Hah interesting !!! You share the same sun moon and mercury as him. I wonder where his need for his control and my way or high way come from. The closer we are the more he is also passing those traits onto what I do.. arghhh like the cook up last time he was all over my kitchen telling me how my cooking should be done lol.. it was a fun stubborn battle but god it was annoying lol. He was trying to push my buttons though coz I am extremely stubborn hahahaha... he demanded I serve the mashed potato onto the same bowl as his pad Thai!!!! And even forced to spoon feed me the rest of my food when I couldn't finish it! I letrally had to run Away like a little kid. He's starting to act like my dad lately .

What's his mars and venus

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Pisces... that's what I don't understand lol.. he said he used to b very controlling back when he was younger but now he's learnt to be different still very influential according to his words but recently he's been very direct with me !!! Like the way he is to his sister... like eat babe. Me no... babe eat... me no... T_T

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Like pushy or controlling in minor things!!! It started to get pretty annoying lol — is this a common Aqua trait?

NO ?

Sure boss lpl

Good I don't take no as an answer ??

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Easier to just pretend u have it ur way. Hoo hoo hoo

Posted by momo4
controlling...?............................a little...but it's because I care

IMAo a little bit? Yes I figure that. I know if he doesn't he wouldn't bother but wud it get more intense . My Aqua moon is freaking out lol.

Ex. There was one piece of chicken left in my soup n I was so full like I was going to vomit from the fullness and he Wundt give up he says I shudnt waste food and that he wants me to eat and stay healthy !! Literally shuffled the spoon and the soup in my mouth. Like I Wass 5 years old! Cudnt take it n had to literally jump off the chair lol. That's one example. Me having Aqua moon I let people be!!!! Why is he not like that lol yesterday he was trying to feed me ice cream infront of everybody n persisted ! We r in our 30 lol.

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Posted by Capmercury87
Im pretty passive.

Depends on the persons birth chart.

I hate being controlled so I never control anyone.

I hate it when some one is pushy with me so I never push.

I am protective, ill have your back behind your back, if some one is hurtful or rude to you behind your back ill put them in their place.

Im protective over my old best friend even though we aren't friends anymore. Just because I don't want to be her best friend anymore doesn't mean I'm gonna let people do her dirty around me.

Won't have it.

What's your chart?

Aqua sun

Pisces moon

Pisces asc

Sag mars

Cap Venus

Cap mercury

Hah interesting !!! You share the same sun moon and mercury as him. I wonder where his need for his control and my way or high way come from. The closer we are the more he is also passing those traits onto what I do.. arghhh like the cook up last time he was all over my kitchen telling me how my cooking should be done lol.. it was a fun stubborn battle but god it was annoying lol. He was trying to push my buttons though coz I am extremely stubborn hahahaha... he demanded I serve the mashed potato onto the same bowl as his pad Thai!!!! And even forced to spoon feed me the rest of my food when I couldn't finish it! I letrally had to run Away like a little kid. He's starting to act like my dad lately .

What's his mars and venus

Pisces... that's what I don't understand lol.. he said he used to b very controlling back when he was younger but now he's learnt to be different still very influential according to his words but recently he's been very direct with me !!! Like the way he is to his sister... like eat babe. Me no... babe eat... me no... T_T

Both his mars and Venus are in Pisces?.

You just need to smack him around a bit let him know who the boss is.

This kind of scenario would be hot in bed tho

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Hehehe I think that's why he does it. I told him before that that mental battling n stubbornness actually turn me on in bed IMAo..... but no he was just tooo bossy. I told him I hate bossy people lol... in bed... I like him having the control n being all controlling n me totally give in n be his submissively !!! Mmmm hottttttt ... otherwise it's my kitchen it's my cooking ! Sit down and just eat my food !!! LOL

He has moon , venus , mars in Pisces! That's why I don't get where this controlling thing is coming from!!!

Posted by saweetz1988
He has moon , venus , mars in Pisces! That's why I don't get where this controlling thing is coming from!!!

Stop moaning, his placements are good, particularly Venus and Mars —?

Are you talking about the Bogota Boy?

I thought he's finished —?

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He has moon , venus , mars in Pisces! That's why I don't get where this controlling thing is coming from!!!

Pisces is so manipulative. The fact he has you believing otherwise is cause he's got you in a classic Pisces illusion

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So you telling me now that he's actually a straight out bossy lol. N how he's willing to show me all of him to see if I can handle it? Lol it's not that bad like he doesn't tell me what to wear or something it's more concerning my health and stuff but then he started to say I spoil my son too much!!! lol whatttttt what happened to his Pisces caring nature... he still kiss n care for me though just a bit more bossy about everything these days.

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He has moon , venus , mars in Pisces! That's why I don't get where this controlling thing is coming from!!!

Stop moaning, his placements are good, particularly Venus and Mars —?

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Moaninggggggg mmmm the only thing is amazing is in bed but let's forget about that for now hahahaha

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Are you talking about the Bogota Boy?

I thought he's finished —?

What the hell is a bogota boy? Lol nah not finished . IMAo. N it prob won't b for a long while .

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He has moon , venus , mars in Pisces! That's why I don't get where this controlling thing is coming from!!!

Pisces is so manipulative. The fact he has you believing otherwise is cause he's got you in a classic Pisces illusion

So you telling me now that he's actually a straight out bossy lol. N how he's willing to show me all of him to see if I can handle it? Lol it's not that bad like he doesn't tell me what to wear or something it's more concerning my health and stuff but then he started to say I spoil my son too much!!! lol whatttttt what happened to his Pisces caring nature... he still kiss n care for me though just a bit more bossy about everything these days.

Mutables, they change randomly

Pisces is basically an emotional Gemini

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Yike!!! I'm so much more grounded than him. N he's telling me how to do stuff. also alwaus have double standard lol is that Pisces or Aqua lol

I can be bossy. But protective? No

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He has moon , venus , mars in Pisces! That's why I don't get where this controlling thing is coming from!!!

Pisces is so manipulative. The fact he has you believing otherwise is cause he's got you in a classic Pisces illusion

So you telling me now that he's actually a straight out bossy lol. N how he's willing to show me all of him to see if I can handle it? Lol it's not that bad like he doesn't tell me what to wear or something it's more concerning my health and stuff but then he started to say I spoil my son too much!!! lol whatttttt what happened to his Pisces caring nature... he still kiss n care for me though just a bit more bossy about everything these days.

Mutables, they change randomly

Pisces is basically an emotional Gemini

Yike!!! I'm so much more grounded than him. N he's telling me how to do stuff. also alwaus have double standard lol is that Pisces or Aqua lol

Pisces.

Ooooo yeah my gf has Pisces moon, so much work lol but she reciprocates so it's all good

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Please elaborate so much work? Also he's sooooooo sensitive n me having Aqua can hurt him without me even knowing lol. Like the other nigjt the next morning he asked me how was the rest of my night coz he left early from work so I replied saying amazing night as this handsome man came over n gave me amazing sex lol !!!he prob got upset n didn't response for ages. He thjnkns I just used him for sex. IMAo... can't joke with them sometimes !!!!

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He has moon , venus , mars in Pisces! That's why I don't get where this controlling thing is coming from!!!

Pisces is so manipulative. The fact he has you believing otherwise is cause he's got you in a classic Pisces illusion

So you telling me now that he's actually a straight out bossy lol. N how he's willing to show me all of him to see if I can handle it? Lol it's not that bad like he doesn't tell me what to wear or something it's more concerning my health and stuff but then he started to say I spoil my son too much!!! lol whatttttt what happened to his Pisces caring nature... he still kiss n care for me though just a bit more bossy about everything these days.

Mutables, they change randomly

Pisces is basically an emotional Gemini

Yike!!! I'm so much more grounded than him. N he's telling me how to do stuff. also alwaus have double standard lol is that Pisces or Aqua lol

Pisces.

Ooooo yeah my gf has Pisces moon, so much work lol but she reciprocates so it's all good

Please elaborate so much work? Also he's sooooooo sensitive n me having Aqua can hurt him without me even knowing lol. Like the other nigjt the next morning he asked me how was the rest of my night coz he left early from work so I replied saying amazing night as this handsome man came over n gave me amazing sex lol !!!he prob got upset n didn't response for ages. He thjnkns I just used him for sex. IMAo... can't joke with them sometimes !!!!

Haha yep

I gotta be constantly showing affection or she thinks I'm mad

Good thing I have Virgo rising to notice almost absolUtley everything

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Oh dear you are right! Sounds familiar. I read somehweee that you can never make Pisces moon people feel emotionally secure lol. When you mean affection, what do you mean by that? What's her sun? Mine has Aqua sun so I don't wanna bomber him with too much affection either. It's a tricky one lol

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I can be bossy. But protective? No

Bossy 😉 how? Guess protectiveness is more for Aqua man

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Posted by Capmercury87
Im pretty passive.

Depends on the persons birth chart.

I hate being controlled so I never control anyone.

I hate it when some one is pushy with me so I never push.

I am protective, ill have your back behind your back, if some one is hurtful or rude to you behind your back ill put them in their place.

Im protective over my old best friend even though we aren't friends anymore. Just because I don't want to be her best friend anymore doesn't mean I'm gonna let people do her dirty around me.

Won't have it.

What's your chart?

Aqua sun

Pisces moon

Pisces asc

Sag mars

Cap Venus

Cap mercury

Hah interesting !!! You share the same sun moon and mercury as him. I wonder where his need for his control and my way or high way come from. The closer we are the more he is also passing those traits onto what I do.. arghhh like the cook up last time he was all over my kitchen telling me how my cooking should be done lol.. it was a fun stubborn battle but god it was annoying lol. He was trying to push my buttons though coz I am extremely stubborn hahahaha... he demanded I serve the mashed potato onto the same bowl as his pad Thai!!!! And even forced to spoon feed me the rest of my food when I couldn't finish it! I letrally had to run Away like a little kid. He's starting to act like my dad lately .

What's his mars and venus

Pisces... that's what I don't understand lol.. he said he used to b very controlling back when he was younger but now he's learnt to be different still very influential according to his words but recently he's been very direct with me !!! Like the way he is to his sister... like eat babe. Me no... babe eat... me no... T_T

Both his mars and Venus are in Pisces?.

You just need to smack him around a bit let him know who the boss is.

This kind of scenario would be hot in bed tho

Hehehe I think that's why he does it. I told him before that that mental battling n stubbornness actually turn me on in bed IMAo..... but no he was just tooo bossy. I told him I hate bossy people lol... in bed... I like him having the control n being all controlling n me totally give in n be his submissively !!! Mmmm hottttttt ... otherwise it's my kitchen it's my cooking ! Sit down and just eat my food !!! LOL

He sounds like a Scorpio merc/venus lol my bf has a Scorpio merc/venus and he is always telling me what to do, especially with food, friends etc, I think its a way of showing he cares ALOT

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Hahaha I don't know where it's coming from! He hasn't got ANy Scorpio in him. My ex had Scorpio venus he wasn't likely that either. Yesterday he was feeding me ice cream n I said nooooo ( funny coz apparently I shud be avoiding sugar, ofcoz if he offers then I should obey?) IMAo... then my other friend offered too n he's like to my other Aries male friend !. She won't eatttttttttt!!!!!!!!! lol ... I'm like whatthe hell.... then he went to offer my son ice cream n I said no ofcoz he persisted... or if he speaks to me in Spanish n I said I'm not Spanish he then replied with one word ( LEARN ) lol... now I'm like don't wanna telll him too much stuff coz I'm very carefree ( Aqua moon) lol... I think it will only going to get worst from here though. lol last time I told him he shud treat me like his sister n his family n maybe this is what the sudden change lol.

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Posted by Capmercury87
Im pretty passive.

Depends on the persons birth chart.

I hate being controlled so I never control anyone.

I hate it when some one is pushy with me so I never push.

I am protective, ill have your back behind your back, if some one is hurtful or rude to you behind your back ill put them in their place.

Im protective over my old best friend even though we aren't friends anymore. Just because I don't want to be her best friend anymore doesn't mean I'm gonna let people do her dirty around me.

Won't have it.

What's your chart?

Aqua sun

Pisces moon

Pisces asc

Sag mars

Cap Venus

Cap mercury

Hah interesting !!! You share the same sun moon and mercury as him. I wonder where his need for his control and my way or high way come from. The closer we are the more he is also passing those traits onto what I do.. arghhh like the cook up last time he was all over my kitchen telling me how my cooking should be done lol.. it was a fun stubborn battle but god it was annoying lol. He was trying to push my buttons though coz I am extremely stubborn hahahaha... he demanded I serve the mashed potato onto the same bowl as his pad Thai!!!! And even forced to spoon feed me the rest of my food when I couldn't finish it! I letrally had to run Away like a little kid. He's starting to act like my dad lately .

What's his mars and venus

Pisces... that's what I don't understand lol.. he said he used to b very controlling back when he was younger but now he's learnt to be different still very influential according to his words but recently he's been very direct with me !!! Like the way he is to his sister... like eat babe. Me no... babe eat... me no... T_T

Both his mars and Venus are in Pisces?.

You just need to smack him around a bit let him know who the boss is.

This kind of scenario would be hot in bed tho

Hehehe I think that's why he does it. I told him before that that mental battling n stubbornness actually turn me on in bed IMAo..... but no he was just tooo bossy. I told him I hate bossy people lol... in bed... I like him having the control n being all controlling n me totally give in n be his submissively !!! Mmmm hottttttt ... otherwise it's my kitchen it's my cooking ! Sit down and just eat my food !!! LOL

He sounds like a Scorpio merc/venus lol my bf has a Scorpio merc/venus and he is always telling me what to do, especially with food, friends etc, I think its a way of showing he cares ALOT

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How is he telling you what to do?

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He has moon , venus , mars in Pisces! That's why I don't get where this controlling thing is coming from!!!

Pisces is so manipulative. The fact he has you believing otherwise is cause he's got you in a classic Pisces illusion

So you telling me now that he's actually a straight out bossy lol. N how he's willing to show me all of him to see if I can handle it? Lol it's not that bad like he doesn't tell me what to wear or something it's more concerning my health and stuff but then he started to say I spoil my son too much!!! lol whatttttt what happened to his Pisces caring nature... he still kiss n care for me though just a bit more bossy about everything these days.

Mutables, they change randomly

Pisces is basically an emotional Gemini

Yike!!! I'm so much more grounded than him. N he's telling me how to do stuff. also alwaus have double standard lol is that Pisces or Aqua lol

Pisces.

Ooooo yeah my gf has Pisces moon, so much work lol but she reciprocates so it's all good

Please elaborate so much work? Also he's sooooooo sensitive n me having Aqua can hurt him without me even knowing lol. Like the other nigjt the next morning he asked me how was the rest of my night coz he left early from work so I replied saying amazing night as this handsome man came over n gave me amazing sex lol !!!he prob got upset n didn't response for ages. He thjnkns I just used him for sex. IMAo... can't joke with them sometimes !!!!

Haha yep

I gotta be constantly showing affection or she thinks I'm mad

Good thing I have Virgo rising to notice almost absolUtley everything

Oh dear you are right! Sounds familiar. I read somehweee that you can never make Pisces moon people feel emotionally secure lol. When you mean affection, what do you mean by that? What's her sun? Mine has Aqua sun so I don't wanna bomber him with too much affection either. It's a tricky one lol

Libra sun. I just let her initiate and go along with it. I'm not very affectionate so when I do show it it's for real

I do have serious heartfelt talks with her tho

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Libra sun Pisces moon is a nice combination . Better than Aqua sun Pisces moon