Aquas - do you find it hard to be 'sexy'?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by Airfairy215 on Friday, August 11, 2017 and has 20 replies.

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@Airfairy215
9 Years

I feel like I'm not particularly sensual or sexy in the most conventional sense. I'm pretty awkward when it comes to flirting and I have other aqua friends who feel the same. Is it just us?

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@CrabNextDoor
9 Years500+ Posts

Posted by Airfairy215
I feel like I'm not particularly sensual or sexy in the most conventional sense. I'm pretty awkward when it comes to flirting and I have other aqua friends who feel the same. Is it just us?

Most Aquas I know aren't generic so the typical idea of 'sexy' doesn't cut it for them, they're cut from a different fabric but a sexy fabric in my opinion y'all are way unique!

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

well i have attracted Aries venus/Aries dominant men. no matter the sun sign.

so guess what?? what does that mean?

tomboyish. 😛

kind of like this....

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but i have been known to dress going out with a nice dress with heels.

and this is my style , (I used an Aquarius supermodel for this too) lol

i love boots and really nice looking jackets and my hair in whatever...

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

Posted by Capmercury87
The first night I met my now bf, I was sloppily eating crab and sucked it all down. He said it was hot.

I don't even have to try.

and you're with a virgo moon?? 😕

virgo men/virgo dominant men don't like that. especially in public.

if you're alone with him privately they dont care as long as you're gonna clean up.

but really?? in public..

cause you said you got food everywhere, sloppily.

edit --- omgosh....virgo does have a stick up their ass sometimes. lmao.

so does capricorn. (i'm capricorn dominant so i do have a stick up my ass out there in public)

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@Parkourler
10 Years1,000+ PostsTaurus

Posted by Airfairy215
I feel like I'm not particularly sensual or sexy in the most conventional sense. I'm pretty awkward when it comes to flirting and I have other aqua friends who feel the same. Is it just us?

I think you limit yourself when you have only one picture or definition or sexiness in the head. You are intellectuals. I picture you as a sexy booknerds with glasses. There are many archetypes of sexy women out there. Just find yours. Do an experiment, go on google picture and type all types

of types in and add sexy to it. I give you a list:

warrior/tomboy

intellectual

princess

businesswomen

farmer

+ sexy,

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@The_eleventh_sign_11
16 Years5,000+ Posts

Do I find it hard to be sexy? Being sexy isn't something I try to be otherwise it's forced. I know I have sex appeal, I know I'm sexual and I know the art of seduction therefore I am a sexy person lol

For me being sexy is just naturally being myself naked and luxuriating around the house like I'm a rich widow

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

Posted by Parkourler

Posted by Airfairy215
I feel like I'm not particularly sensual or sexy in the most conventional sense. I'm pretty awkward when it comes to flirting and I have other aqua friends who feel the same. Is it just us?

I think you limit yourself when you have only one picture or definition or sexiness in the head. You are intellectuals. I picture you as a sexy booknerds with glasses. There are many archetypes of sexy women out there. Just find yours. Do an experiment, go on google picture and type all types

of types in and add sexy to it. I give you a list:

warrior/tomboy

intellectual

princess

businesswomen

farmer

+ sexy,

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yup even the warrior/tomboyish look.

that's why Mars ruled men really loved me, desired ect. because they really love that warrior look lol

i realize that when i used Sasha Pivovora (Aquarius sun) model, she IS married to an Aries sun. lol

so she is definitely the warrior princess in her husband's eyes. 😛

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tried to look for more tomboyish looks.

OP, just love what you love. What fits RIGHT for you.

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@MyStarsShine
9 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Do I find it hard to be sexy? Being sexy isn't something I try to be otherwise it's forced. I know I have sex appeal, I know I'm sexual and I know the art of seduction therefore I am a sexy person lol

For me being sexy is just naturally being myself naked and luxuriating around the house like I'm a rich widow

Scorp moon ?

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@ladylibra21
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Different is super awkward but he smolders maybe that is his Scorpio rising. He was in disbelief when I told him that he smolders I'm pretty sure he blushed. Then again I am not his second serious relationship so far.

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@aquaglass
13 Years1,000+ Posts

I seem to attract a lot of men who just wants me for sex and they just told me that they're horny when we're hangin out in person or just talkin on the phone or chat. Even when i just do nothing really, idk.

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@hbbrnaqua
9 Years

yeah same - also awkward when it comes to flirting or romance in general.

Wish I was not, that makes it really hard for guys to approach me even if I don't mean to but the awkwardness needs to be escaped haha

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@Aerazo
9 Years1,000+ PostsAquarius

Posted by aquaglass
I seem to attract a lot of men who just wants me for sex and they just told me that they're horny when we're hangin out in person or just talkin on the phone or chat. Even when i just do nothing really, idk.

Hahahhaa sounds like story of my life. They say they want to marry me even and many times I think it's just guys talk but they won't stop saying how attracted they are to me. Even after years and years...

And I think that dxp is the only place I expose my sensuality mostly in writing. I think if I post anything sexual on social media will increase the fact that guys wanna bang me all the time.

I even wear covered clothes to not RAISE any awareness bc of cleavage and they are still on my tail.

This cap I've known for years says that I have my own way of flirting and I'm like what!!!! I flirt— I never flirt, I don't know how to be flirty! plus I always have a poker face ?

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@AquaNextDoor
11 Years1,000+ PostsAquarius

Posted by lisabethur8
well i have attracted Aries venus/Aries dominant men. no matter the sun sign.

so guess what?? what does that mean?

tomboyish. 😛

kind of like this....

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but i have been known to dress going out with a nice dress with heels.

and this is my style , (I used an Aquarius supermodel for this too) lol

i love boots and really nice looking jackets and my hair in whatever...

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Well thats because you have class lady

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@AquaNextDoor
11 Years1,000+ PostsAquarius

Its also an asc thing I believe, a leo asc doesn't worry about how to look sexy.. they just do naturally by the way they walk, carry their ego and smile. Its a confidence thing because confidence IS sexy!

Not overtrying by doing too much or even try to be the complete opposite LOL

Have class, manners, be happy and confident!

🙂 confidence is something you can work on though

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@aquaglass
13 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Aerazo

Posted by aquaglass
I seem to attract a lot of men who just wants me for sex and they just told me that they're horny when we're hangin out in person or just talkin on the phone or chat. Even when i just do nothing really, idk.

Hahahhaa sounds like story of my life. They say they want to marry me even and many times I think it's just guys talk but they won't stop saying how attracted they are to me. Even after years and years...

And I think that dxp is the only place I expose my sensuality mostly in writing. I think if I post anything sexual on social media will increase the fact that guys wanna bang me all the time.

I even wear covered clothes to not RAISE any awareness bc of cleavage and they are still on my tail.

This cap I've known for years says that I have my own way of flirting and I'm like what!!!! I flirt— I never flirt, I don't know how to be flirty! plus I always have a poker face ?

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Haha high five for poker face!