Aquarius boyfriend so confusing

We've been together for close on two years and living together for the past 9 months. It's been great and we find living together just flows nicely. I understand his need to withdraw at times and I ensure I give him lots of space to pursue his many talents. Starting to feel to my detriment as starting to feel it's all about what he wants and needs. Anyhoo!

My concern is that we haven't made love in about a month now and he's not making any moves to initiate at all. We love each other and he tells me often like when sending messages he always ends with I love you. Every night we spoon and cuddle but that's it. I made the first move a few times but nothing so just gave up. Yes we are both stubborn and not communicating and it's at a point that I'm not sure what to say. He has been working really hard on a movie and always says he's exhausted and tired which I get but come on - he still manages to go surfing. We hold hands and he's affectionate in public. We a.ways kiss hello and good bye - all pretty normal relationship stuff but the lack of sex is worrying me now. We are both turning 50 - Me in Dec (Capricorn) and him inFeb so not spring chickens.

I'm just confused. Has he lost interest in me sexually? Need clarity and understanding please.

Yes I agree - stop worrying take good care of yourself and do nice things for him - just enjoy being together until things change. Men slow down a bit in that department around that age. But it's still there, no worries.

How important is sex to you?