Aquas ALL or NOTHING in everything except REL!

I've been reading SO much about Aqua's & relationships and just need to throw my 2 cents in here about my recent Aqua just for $ hit $ & giggles.

This guy was just ALL or NOTHING when it came to SO many things. Guy decided he was gonna start working out--begins working out diehard (looks great now btw *sigh*), guy decides he wants to learn about music--enrolls in a class, I saw a post from someone where their guy decides he wants to get certified for work ( guy studies for 4 months straight & shuts out the world, my guy has mentioned he would get a full sleeve tattoo (meanwhile he doesnt even have 1!), my guy decided he was gonna do the Paleo diet (could not even be persuaded to eat a slice of pizza).


So why could these Aqua guys go ALL in or NOT at all will all of these things (almost like an OCD) yet can be perfectly ok with a 1/2 @ $ $ ed relationship??

Just thinking outloud here... 🙂

They are afraid of losing their freedom. To them relationship = loss of freedom. Sucks, I know. 😢

Posted by truecap
They are afraid of losing their freedom. To them relationship = loss of freedom. Sucks, I know. 😢

Oh Truecap you're back! You totally abandoned little ol' me on my big post before getting to know my own sign--you're just like another bad boyfriend haha jk 😉

Guys suck in general in my eyes lately-- I should just try girls next time... lol

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Posted by truecap
They are afraid of losing their freedom. To them relationship = loss of freedom. Sucks, I know. 😢

Oh Truecap you're back! You totally abandoned little ol' me on my big post before getting to know my own sign--you're just like another bad boyfriend haha jk 😉

Guys suck in general in my eyes lately-- I should just try girls next time... lol

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Actually, the bachelor signs in the zodiac are Sagittarius and Virgo, according to many astrologers.

I didn't get to read your other topic, but if this guy isn't into you 😢 He's just not going to be around. If they want someone, they aren't hesitant to make the move.

They have freedom in their relationship, to move around because if that's what a guy wants in a committment, he needs to find someone who can withstand their need of space. That means he is free to go tinker around in his workshop, or build something in the backyard, like a tree house for the kids, or make a garden. To be honest, I'll tell you something about Aqua men in "general", they love to invent. Invention is what drives them, even if it's the silliest thing and it doesn't go anywhere at all, if they're 'free' to do that while you are in the background taking care of the household duties, or the home. (if ever this gets this far in the relationship) : it is very similar, somewhat,but depending on what type of aquarius man he is: if he's a nerdy type or, the artist, the athlete, the businessman, ect. He'll always want his "space" which means...waking up in the morning, he'll have his morning coffee, reading his news, because he will want to know the events and go to work. He is actually a very ritualistic man.

*although, first tell me what VENUS sign your aqua? That is very very important.

I'm only familiar with the Mars venus, and that gives off a very aggressive and go - after the girl approach.

If he's an aquarius venus, and I'm not sure how they go.

Posted by lisabethur8
*although, first tell me what VENUS sign your aqua? That is very very important.

I'm only familiar with the Mars venus, and that gives off a very aggressive and go - after the girl approach.

If he's an aquarius venus, and I'm not sure how they go.

I really wish I knew... he's a Feb 1st Aqua born 1983--wasnt born in the US however so I like to say his moon & rising is right up his @ $ $ hehe 🙂

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Posted by lisabethur8
*although, first tell me what VENUS sign your aqua? That is very very important.

I'm only familiar with the Mars venus, and that gives off a very aggressive and go - after the girl approach.

If he's an aquarius venus, and I'm not sure how they go.

I really wish I knew... he's a Feb 1st Aqua born 1983--wasnt born in the US however so I like to say his moon & rising is right up his @ $ $ hehe 🙂

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hey i just searched for 'venus in aquarius men" and this came up:

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/016507.html<BR>
it's another astro board, though, but the commenters had "experience" with some venus aqua men in all the Sun signs that fell into it.
🙂

I do know that if his venus is in aries, he's a chaser, absolutely no detachment. However, in a relationshp, the "space" people/or astrologers vaguely refer to, is the fact that the man likes to do things like his own hobbies. If he's an athlete, he'd more likely enjoy practicing a lot on techniques on how to do something better or unique. Or if he's just a businessman, and depending on the mars/moon/venus aspects, he'll be very ambitious.

well at least we do know he's a mercury decan.

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Posted by truecap
They are afraid of losing their freedom. To them relationship = loss of freedom. Sucks, I know. 😢

Oh Truecap you're back! You totally abandoned little ol' me on my big post before getting to know my own sign--you're just like another bad boyfriend haha jk 😉

Guys suck in general in my eyes lately-- I should just try girls next time... lol

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Didn't mean to abandon you, sorry! The others were contributing much more than I could, so I let them run with it. You know us caps run hot and cold, lol!!!!

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*although, first tell me what VENUS sign your aqua? That is very very important.

I'm only familiar with the Mars venus, and that gives off a very aggressive and go - after the girl approach.

If he's an aquarius venus, and I'm not sure how they go.

I really wish I knew... he's a Feb 1st Aqua born 1983--wasnt born in the US however so I like to say his moon & rising is right up his @ $ $ hehe 🙂

hey i just searched for 'venus in aquarius men" and this came up:

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/016507.html<BR>
it's another astro board, though, but the commenters had "experience" with some venus aqua men in all the Sun signs that fell into it.
🙂

I do know that if his venus is in aries, he's a chaser, absolutely no detachment. However, in a relationshp, the "space" people/or astrologers vaguely refer to, is the fact that the man likes to do things like his own hobbies. If he's an athlete, he'd more likely enjoy practicing a lot on techniques on how to do something better or unique. Or if he's just a businessman, and depending on the mars/moon/venus aspects, he'll be very ambitious.

well at least we do know he's a mercury decan.

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He actually is an athlete & very commited to practice & games. I mean he's even gone to practice on a sunday morning on 3 hours of sleep & hungover!

Posted by rachelsnow12
I'm an all or nothing type of Aqua. I've dated a lot, but have only really committed to one relationship. It takes me a lot to decide to commit to a relationship. That is why I am a huge fan of being friend's first. I think it's because when I commit, I know that it is going to be all or nothing and that I will give it everything I have, and that is why I am always so hesitant. I want to make sure the person is a sure fit for me, as I don't want to decide to commit, fall for the person, and have them not be the right fit.

venus sign please 😄

Posted by rachelsnow12
I'm an all or nothing type of Aqua. I've dated a lot, but have only really committed to one relationship. It takes me a lot to decide to commit to a relationship. That is why I am a huge fan of being friend's first. I think it's because when I commit, I know that it is going to be all or nothing and that I will give it everything I have, and that is why I am always so hesitant. I want to make sure the person is a sure fit for me, as I don't want to decide to commit, fall for the person, and have them not be the right fit.

You're so good with words Rae... just like him! 🙂 your spins on my FIREY rantings are sheer poetry compared to my complete insanity haha xo

I just can't wait to update everyone when he contacts me & what he says... knowing him I just really feel he will contact me somehow & not even to try & lure me back in... more because he misses the friendship aspect of what we were since we really did make good friends (aquas seem to not be able to let go of friendships) Plus his roommates will end up asking for me/about me at some point soon.

I am just curious if he'll just facebook chat me one day like nothing... or actually write me out a novel.

We shall see...

well if he's a "friends first" guy then he's most likely venus in aqua.

venus in aries men don't do friends first. 🙂 true to the arian mars energy.

Lisa, I think the opposite

My venus in aries aqua, was totally be friends first and also detached. He cried infront of me and he got on himself about that non-stop. He totally is into the dont let anyone see you weak or vulnerable.

He's not anymore because one we are more than friends and he trusts me now to show his emotions, but he was in the beginning.

The chasing, he will if i won't meaning if i dont say anything to him he will say something or I cut him off he will contact me or find a way to contact me.

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by rachelsnow12
I'm an all or nothing type of Aqua. I've dated a lot, but have only really committed to one relationship. It takes me a lot to decide to commit to a relationship. That is why I am a huge fan of being friend's first. I think it's because when I commit, I know that it is going to be all or nothing and that I will give it everything I have, and that is why I am always so hesitant. I want to make sure the person is a sure fit for me, as I don't want to decide to commit, fall for the person, and have them not be the right fit.

venus sign please 😄

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How can I figure that out if I dont know what time he was born or the exact city??

Posted by GodMadeBeauty
Lisa, I think the opposite

My venus in aries aqua, was totally be friends first and also detached. He cried infront of me and he got on himself about that non-stop. He totally is into the dont let anyone see you weak or vulnerable.

He's not anymore because one we are more than friends and he trusts me now to show his emotions, but he was in the beginning.

The chasing, he will if i won't meaning if i dont say anything to him he will say something or I cut him off he will contact me or find a way to contact me.

not with my ex. He was a chaser. you'd have to beat him with a stick to get away. No detachment at all. If he wanted something, he went after it with full force. there was none of this silly 'friends first' bs.
they will not allow another man to get in the way of their conquest kind of thing. why wait it out? get her before anyone does.

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Posted by truecap
They are afraid of losing their freedom. To them relationship = loss of freedom. Sucks, I know. 😢

Oh Truecap you're back! You totally abandoned little ol' me on my big post before getting to know my own sign--you're just like another bad boyfriend haha jk 😉

Guys suck in general in my eyes lately-- I should just try girls next time... lol

Didn't mean to abandon you, sorry! The others were contributing much more than I could, so I let them run with it. You know us caps run hot and cold, lol!!!!

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I kid I kid darling 🙂 no worries!!! lol 😉

here's a good site on venus in aries attraction:

http://astrology.about.com/od/venus/qt/The-Venus-In-Aries-Man.htm<BR>
First out of the Gate
A Venus in Aries man is impulsive, but sensitive hearts should take note -- he's not always able or willing to finish what he's started! The thrill of the beginning gives him a rush. If you see long term potential here, it's up to you to set a pace. Don't let him gobble you up in one sitting! Keep him wanting more, as you build up a solid bond.

For him, active dates are best. He expresses his joy in a very physical way. He's attracted to strong-willed partners who are as direct as he is. He's revved by clashes -- they make him feel alive and even close to the other person. The tension in a relationship is what keeps him interested.

Venus as Hunter

and this is for the aquarius venus men:

http://astrology.about.com/od/venus/p/VenusAquarius.htmi<BR>
guess it's all about attraction and what type of women they like. Sagittarius venus would love a freedom type of woman/gives loads of space.

Lisa what sign are you—

"The tension in a relationship is what keeps him interested" --- welp now I know why he won't leave me alone.

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Posted by rachelsnow12
I'm an all or nothing type of Aqua. I've dated a lot, but have only really committed to one relationship. It takes me a lot to decide to commit to a relationship. That is why I am a huge fan of being friend's first. I think it's because when I commit, I know that it is going to be all or nothing and that I will give it everything I have, and that is why I am always so hesitant. I want to make sure the person is a sure fit for me, as I don't want to decide to commit, fall for the person, and have them not be the right fit.

venus sign please 😄

How can I figure that out if I dont know what time he was born or the exact city??

lady, that was to the shy aqua posting saying he wants "friends first" 😄

Posted by GodMadeBeauty
Lisa what sign are you—

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aqua 🙂

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"The tension in a relationship is what keeps him interested" --- welp now I know why he won't leave me alone.

lol well if you're /or been chased by an aries venus man you know they love to conquer! 🙂

it's that martian energy.

My pisces ex was also Venus Aries 🙂 With mars in pisces. A chaser too. No holds bar.

Posted by GodMadeBeauty
Lisa, I think the opposite

My venus in aries aqua, was totally be friends first and also detached. He cried infront of me and he got on himself about that non-stop. He totally is into the dont let anyone see you weak or vulnerable.

He's not anymore because one we are more than friends and he trusts me now to show his emotions, but he was in the beginning.

The chasing, he will if i won't meaning if i dont say anything to him he will say something or I cut him off he will contact me or find a way to contact me.

Have to agree on this ^ my aqua is also venus in Aries and he's the same. He gives off the 'I'm not vulnerable' vibe on the outside but behind doors....different story. He's actually VERY sensitive. He also chases me when I drop the communication and he'll tell me how many days we haven't spoken and will ask why. he'll try to contact me in different ways too, sometimes an out-of-blue text or he'll comment on my BBM broadcast or something to open me up.

I'll have to chase him this time round though...I snapped at him a couple days ago over something silly and we've both retreated.

thank goodness no sagittarius venus. I'd go mad if he ran off with four hooves. TOO MUCH FREEDOM..ewww... and i think i'd have to look for other pastures. By the time a sagittarius venus guy comes back home to roost, the woman is gone!

🙂 'scuse me, i'm in a comedic mood this evening. My husband is working late so I'm taking the time to have fun with my astrology interest/fun with you ladies.

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Posted by GodMadeBeauty
Lisa, I think the opposite

My venus in aries aqua, was totally be friends first and also detached. He cried infront of me and he got on himself about that non-stop. He totally is into the dont let anyone see you weak or vulnerable.

He's not anymore because one we are more than friends and he trusts me now to show his emotions, but he was in the beginning.

The chasing, he will if i won't meaning if i dont say anything to him he will say something or I cut him off he will contact me or find a way to contact me.

Have to agree on this ^ my aqua is also venus in Aries and he's the same. He gives off the 'I'm not vulnerable' vibe on the outside but behind doors....different story. He's actually VERY sensitive. He also chases me when I drop the communication and he'll tell me how many days we haven't spoken and will ask why. he'll try to contact me in different ways too, sometimes an out-of-blue text or he'll comment on my BBM broadcast or something to open me up.

I'll have to chase him this time round though...I snapped at him a couple days ago over something silly and we've both retreated.

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are you serious? maybe my ex aries venus guys are just the go after the girl no matter what. they won't let up. Although, yeah they're sensitive and do cry. I guess it's okay to say this, cause it's not like they're going to read this and go, Ohhh noo she revealed that i actually weep hard. 🙂

Posted by rachelsnow12
Hey lisabethur8, my Venus sign is Pisces... kinda new to this stuff :-)

awwwww. i'm new to this too. 😄

http://astrology.about.com/od/venus/p/VenusPisces.htm<BR>
In Love and Romance:

For you, love can be a mystical experience with the right person. You're impressionable, so it's important to learn to weed out those that would take advantage of your sensitive and yielding nature. You tend to fall in love at first sight, and you might not see the red flags passing in front of your face. Even if someone treats you badly, you're liable to hold onto the connection, choosing to see through rose-colored glasses.
Friendship style :

Your kind heart can lead you to go out of your way for friends, but also for any person or animal in need. This makes you a thoughtful listener, with an extraordinary capacity to empathize. But often this blurs the lines, and you get overinvolved with the emotional burdens of others. When younger, you might get bossed around a lot, but find the strength later to direct your course more. More than most signs, you'll need to steer clear of those that drain you, and gravitate to those that uplift you.
Creative Expression

Lisa, Maybe its because you are an Aqua
I am a Virgo and I see Ninja is a Sag and we have a lot of the same traits.
So it could be that you are maybe aloof so he counter balanced that with showing emotions, and I am not really aloof and Sag's aren't usually either so our Aquas became the unemotional ones. (the only time I'm aloof and emotionless is if I feel like i am going to be hurt, played or being lied too)

This is just random guessing I am doing here.

Yup I have venus in aries and boy do I chase hard lol I love when they play hard to get sometimes it's just a thrill.

Posted by rachelsnow12
Thanks lisabethur8! Yes, totally get the love and romance part. The long relationship that I decided to commit to, oh boy, red flags galore and I stuck around for 6 years!! Since then, I am very careful :-). That part is very true for friends, which is probably why I only have 1 real friend these days, aside from my family of course. I would rather put forth my effort and energy towards those that don't take advantage.

yeah *sigh* I get what you mean. Ah well, you live and learn from the past. 🙂 I'm a hermit by trade. truth. only family for me right now. My best friend, lover, everything in my life is my husband. I hope you find yourself a wonderful woman someday. and read people with 'clarity'

Posted by GodMadeBeauty
Lisa, Maybe its because you are an Aqua
I am a Virgo and I see Ninja is a Sag and we have a lot of the same traits.
So it could be that you are maybe aloof so he counter balanced that with showing emotions, and I am not really aloof and Sag's aren't usually either so our Aquas became the unemotional ones. (the only time I'm aloof and emotionless is if I feel like i am going to be hurt, played or being lied too)

This is just random guessing I am doing here.

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hmm maybe. but virgo too can be "aloof" see? Or maybe cause like it says in the venus in aries descrip,they love the chase and hard to get women 😄 I guess we're the "hard to get" women. Beat them off with a stick, :-) persistent persistent.tsk.
hey there's one consolation: the venus in aries men love "aphrodite" type women. hmmmm...

Posted by GodMadeBeauty
Lisa, Maybe its because you are an Aqua
I am a Virgo and I see Ninja is a Sag and we have a lot of the same traits.
So it could be that you are maybe aloof so he counter balanced that with showing emotions, and I am not really aloof and Sag's aren't usually either so our Aquas became the unemotional ones. (the only time I'm aloof and emotionless is if I feel like i am going to be hurt, played or being lied too)

This is just random guessing I am doing here.

oh btw I meant that in a "general" sense,the aloof part. Like we're kind of "stuck up" but really we're not at all.just more,like contemplating on the situation....and watching the guy do his chase.

Posted by Aqualad
Yup I have venus in aries and boy do I chase hard lol I love when they play hard to get sometimes it's just a thrill.

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and we have another chaser 😄

Really wish I knew my guys freakin chart!!! Knowing my full chart now makes so much more sense as to who I am I can't even begin to describe!!! I've always felt not so Aries

Posted by rachelsnow12
Hey lisabethur8, I think you may have my gender preference mixed up :-) I'm female, hoping to find that one guy that you have been so fortunate to have found!

Oh! pardon for that mishap 😄

anyway, i found with a few athlete's charts whose sun is in aquarius (male) are usually sagittarius venus and/or venus aries.

so at least a strong "fire" there. We didn't know the OP's Venus sign,so maybe he's sag or aries venus.She's certainly an "aphrodite" type of lady 🙂 but he can also be a sag venus.

I posted Gerard Pique in the other thread and he's a sag venus, and his girlfriend is the sexy cute singer Shakira 🙂

:...I want to make sure the person is a sure fit for me, as I don't want to decide to commit, fall for the person, and have them not be the right fit."

I can relate to this. I don't like to dive into relationships first and then see if the shoe fits. I like to be courted and to be friends first. I dated an Aqua/Leo moon before and the transition was so smooth. Lots of passion!

Posted by Aqualad
Yup I have venus in aries and boy do I chase hard lol I love when they play hard to get sometimes it's just a thrill.

You're too cute...truth is he was pretty chasey in the beginning- always wanting to include me in his plans with friends & what not... I think what ruined that was for SOME stupid reason in the beginning of a budding relationship when I feel they want to hang out too much I start to push them away (in some cases it's because I get scared, in other cases it's because I feel it's for ulterior motives) and thissss is why chicks shouldn't jump into the bed too quick- it messes with your head!

The pushing away makes them chase more but then...all of a sudden once we're hanging out more on my pace all of a sudden it hits me like a ton of bricks that I really like the guy--but by then they've gotten accustomed to what they think are my hanging out boundaries and now I crave hanging out/ talking a lot more but because I figured out I really like them I start to feel weird/awkward regarding everything I say & do... ohhh god I am so effed up-- meh :-\

Dear self: dxp is NOT therapy LOL!

Posted by Somedaystarswillalign

Posted by Aqualad
Yup I have venus in aries and boy do I chase hard lol I love when they play hard to get sometimes it's just a thrill.

You're too cute...truth is he was pretty chasey in the beginning- always wanting to include me in his plans with friends & what not... I think what ruined that was for SOME stupid reason in the beginning of a budding relationship when I feel they want to hang out too much I start to push them away (in some cases it's because I get scared, in other cases it's because I feel it's for ulterior motives) and thissss is why chicks shouldn't jump into the bed too quick- it messes with your head!

The pushing away makes them chase more but then...all of a sudden once we're hanging out more on my pace all of a sudden it hits me like a ton of bricks that I really like the guy--but by then they've gotten accustomed to what they think are my hanging out boundaries and now I crave hanging out/ talking a lot more but because I figured out I really like them I start to feel weird/awkward regarding everything I say & do... ohhh god I am so effed up-- meh :-\

Dear self: dxp is NOT therapy LOL!

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Lol thanks and wow sounds like a couple of my former relationships. Thank you so much for the female insight I actually feel kind of stupid now that I've never realized it like that.

Also dxp is not just therapy it's group therapy 😛

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Posted by Aqualad
Yup I have venus in aries and boy do I chase hard lol I love when they play hard to get sometimes it's just a thrill.

You're too cute...truth is he was pretty chasey in the beginning- always wanting to include me in his plans with friends & what not... I think what ruined that was for SOME stupid reason in the beginning of a budding relationship when I feel they want to hang out too much I start to push them away (in some cases it's because I get scared, in other cases it's because I feel it's for ulterior motives) and thissss is why chicks shouldn't jump into the bed too quick- it messes with your head!

The pushing away makes them chase more but then...all of a sudden once we're hanging out more on my pace all of a sudden it hits me like a ton of bricks that I really like the guy--but by then they've gotten accustomed to what they think are my hanging out boundaries and now I crave hanging out/ talking a lot more but because I figured out I really like them I start to feel weird/awkward regarding everything I say & do... ohhh god I am so effed up-- meh :-\

Dear self: dxp is NOT therapy LOL!

Lol thanks and wow sounds like a couple of my former relationships. Thank you so much for the female insight I actually feel kind of stupid now that I've never realized it like that.

Also dxp is not just therapy it's group therapy 😛

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Don't ever feel stupid about anything! Not everyone is the same and you're still young you will have lots of experiences that will make you... well no you'll never truly understand chicks-- lol :-p

That's why we all need group therapy--aka dxp!

Posted by lisabethur8
here's a good site on venus in aries attraction:

http://astrology.about.com/od/venus/qt/The-Venus-In-Aries-Man.htm<BR>
First out of the Gate
A Venus in Aries man is impulsive, but sensitive hearts should take note -- he's not always able or willing to finish what he's started! The thrill of the beginning gives him a rush. If you see long term potential here, it's up to you to set a pace. Don't let him gobble you up in one sitting! Keep him wanting more, as you build up a solid bond.

For him, active dates are best. He expresses his joy in a very physical way. He's attracted to strong-willed partners who are as direct as he is. He's revved by clashes -- they make him feel alive and even close to the other person. The tension in a relationship is what keeps him interested.

Venus as Hunter

and this is for the aquarius venus men:

http://astrology.about.com/od/venus/p/VenusAquarius.htmi<BR>
guess it's all about attraction and what type of women they like. Sagittarius venus would love a freedom type of woman/gives loads of space.

Shiiiiiiiiit...I'm a Venus in Aries lady and I chase like it's my job. It actually turns me off if a man chases me too hard. Ick.

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Posted by lisabethur8
*although, first tell me what VENUS sign your aqua? That is very very important.

I'm only familiar with the Mars venus, and that gives off a very aggressive and go - after the girl approach.

If he's an aquarius venus, and I'm not sure how they go.

I really wish I knew... he's a Feb 1st Aqua born 1983--wasnt born in the US however so I like to say his moon & rising is right up his @ $ $ hehe 🙂

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Hey Lady! What country was he born in? You don't need to know the city...

Learning my Aqua guys entire chart helped me BIG TIME. It's invaluable if you are trying to navigate a relationship.

Posted by bubblyaquarius
Your not soo bad Aqualad. 😉

Aw I agree Aqualad is a sweetheart 🙂 young & yet I'd never guess!!!! You must have an older soul luv

Figured out his Venus is Pisces....which to me would one would think he shouldn't be an emotional retard!!!

Perhaps I'm way off lol

Boom- his chart:

Sun Aquarius
Moon Virgo
Mercury Capricorn
Venus Pisces
Mars Pisces
Jupiter Sagittarius
Saturn Scorpio
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra
Lilith Capricorn
Asc node Cancer

Posted by aquansidenout
This is just my opinion from observation. Aqua men born in early feb are super independent and less inclined to want anything serious until later on in life or remain bachelors for life. Both of my aqua exes and a guy I briefly got to know all born between 2/1 and 2/5 were more into friendship and just going with the flow. I'm a cap venus...flow my arse....lol .eventually we better be talking relationship or I'm out. I don't just date just to date. Casual doesn't appeal to me. Then again all of them had issues with their moms so that could play a factor in it as well. O_o

Hmmm what kind of issues with their moms? You can private message me if you like I'm very curious & have something of my own to share. 🙂

Posted by Somedaystarswillalign
Boom- his chart:

Sun Aquarius
Moon Virgo
Mercury Capricorn
Venus Pisces
Mars Pisces
Jupiter Sagittarius
Saturn Scorpio
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra
Lilith Capricorn
Asc node Cancer

that's a very nice chart imo.

Mars in pisces, slow to anger, or none at all, and will swim away.
I like this site, so this will show you an indication of his love attraction: his venus and Moon.
http://www.astrologyzine.com/attract-men-pisces.shtml<BR>
MOON or VENUS in PISCES

The type of woman who attracts you is romantic and emotional, or sensitive and passive. Should she be intriguing or mysterious or able to make you feel secure, she could really appeal to you.

You're a sucker for secret love affairs, and for people who need help or emotional support. You are compassionate yourself, and respond to women who are especially compassionate, caring, and selfless.

You may be attracted to especially creative or imaginative women, like artists and poets; or to women who are psychics or empaths (like Counselor Troi in the TV series "Star Trek, The Next Generation").

The sweet, ultra-feminine type of woman appeals to you - such as the "Southern Belle" or "Old-Fashioned Girl".

Saving a "damsel in distress" is a turn-on for you - and so is being helped or healed by a sympathetic savior or caring comforter or compassionate nurse.
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MOON or VENUS in VIRGO

The type of woman who attracts you looks neat and clean, or well-groomed and conservatively-dressed - and, above all, appears "proper". You want: intelligent, honest, healthy, reliable, modest, refined, efficient, practical, methodical, loyal and faithful...but you might settle for "perfect"!

Good manners and good taste are turn-ons for you, as are "competency" and skillfulness.

Posted by aquansidenout
It's a common theme with all three. Their moms have handicapped them meaning they are not as independent as they can be and any time they fail they've never been told to be a man and deal with it they just healed their wounds for them and no consequences were given. They were the favorites of the family but have not progressed. They want independence but they can't hold down a job or just seem to have a plan set in stone or no clear direction. Plus they're very good looking so even if their mom doesn't wipe their wounds some new woman would. One is practically living the life now because he found a nurse and married her in less than two months. Mind you he had no car, a place to stay or anything and now he has all of that because she provided it for him.

Oh wow I'm floored!!! Verrrryyyy similar situation with mine!!! He owns a house but a house he could NEVER afford if he didn't have roommates. AND I find out his mom does all his bills for him so she can manage his finances & balance his check book for him!!! You're a grown man who owns a house & yet your mommy pays all your bills so you don't have the responsibilities of paying bills on time. Lol I can't!!! It's so crazy how you just pinned his "disability" lmao 😉

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Somedaystarswillalign
Boom- his chart:

Sun Aquarius
Moon Virgo
Mercury Capricorn
Venus Pisces
Mars Pisces
Jupiter Sagittarius
Saturn Scorpio
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra
Lilith Capricorn
Asc node Cancer

that's a very nice chart imo.

Mars in pisces, slow to anger, or none at all, and will swim away.
I like this site, so this will show you an indication of his love attraction: his venus and Moon.
http://www.astrologyzine.com/attract-men-pisces.shtml<BR>
MOON or VENUS in PISCES

The type of woman who attracts you is romantic and emotional, or sensitive and passive. Should she be intriguing or mysterious or able to make you feel secure, she could really appeal to you.

You're a sucker for secret love affairs, and for people who need help or emotional support. You are compassionate yourself, and respond to women who are especially compassionate, caring, and selfless.

You may be attracted to especially creative or imaginative women, like artists and poets; or to women who are psychics or empaths (like Counselor Troi in the TV series "Star Trek, The Next Generation").

The sweet, ultra-feminine type of woman appeals to you - such as the "Southern Belle" or "Old-Fashioned Girl".

Saving a "damsel in distress" is a turn-on for you - and so is being helped or healed by a sympathetic savior or caring comforter or compassionate nurse.
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MOON or VENUS in VIRGO

The type of woman who attracts you looks neat and clean, or well-groomed and conservatively-dressed - and, above all, appears "proper". You want: intelligent, honest, healthy, reliable, modest, refined, efficient, practical, methodical, loyal and faithful...but you might settle for "perfect"!

Good manners and good taste are turn-ons for you, as are "competency" and skillfulness.

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^^^^ YESSS!!!!! He most definitely mentioned very early on that he likes girlie girls. Too bad I'm a total dude hahaha 🙂

You gotta analyze my chart girl! It confuses the crap outta me. I posted it in Chart Interpretation thread

sorry i'm not a chart interpretator. I suck at it. You'd probably do a way better job than I could.
I dont understand all that conjunction junction, direct here to the trine and the 7th house,make a wish in the 11th and be careful of the 8th house. Bleh. No comprehende.

Posted by lisabethur8
sorry i'm not a chart interpretator. I suck at it. You'd probably do a way better job than I could.
I dont understand all that conjunction junction, direct here to the trine and the 7th house,make a wish in the 11th and be careful of the 8th house. Bleh. No comprehende.

Haaaaa I just legit laughed out loud!! "conjuction junction, make a wish- no comprende" LOVE IT!!!!

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when the moon is in the 7th house....and all that:

Posted by lisabethur8
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when the moon is in the 7th house....and all that:

LMFAO!!!!!!!! Niceeeeeee

I been reason all these posts and rachels stuck out. When you said be friends first,and its all or nothing,just give aquas space in the relationship,just has made me come back down off of my bullshit. I have been friends with my aqua man for over a decade. He is always around me,and I'm on the aqua cusp, Jan18 , he's jan29. I have been understanding until this ex of his called me. I believe him about it,but I see we both test each other to see if we are a perfect match. I recall him making a statement the otherday saying,his moms been asking about me alot,so he knows she wants to have me around to feel me out. He said he wasn't ready yet,because he wants to be sure we will workout,and he doesn't wanna let me meet her then it doesn't work. I thought that he was just saying what I said early on,but you said it to. Also,you calmed down my anxieties,cause whenever I feel overwhelmed by him, he must feels the same way, cause he gives me space,then I wonder where he is,what's going on,cause his people come to me looking for him. I guess we're just alike,but different.

Posted by aquansidenout

Posted by Somedaystarswillalign

Posted by aquansidenout
It's a common theme with all three. Their moms have handicapped them meaning they are not as independent as they can be and any time they fail they've never been told to be a man and deal with it they just healed their wounds for them and no consequences were given. They were the favorites of the family but have not progressed. They want independence but they can't hold down a job or just seem to have a plan set in stone or no clear direction. Plus they're very good looking so even if their mom doesn't wipe their wounds some new woman would. One is practically living the life now because he found a nurse and married her in less than two months. Mind you he had no car, a place to stay or anything and now he has all of that because she provided it for him.

Oh wow I'm floored!!! Verrrryyyy similar situation with mine!!! He owns a house but a house he could NEVER afford if he didn't have roommates. AND I find out his mom does all his bills for him so she can manage his finances & balance his check book for him!!! You're a grown man who owns a house & yet your mommy pays all your bills so you don't have the responsibilities of paying bills on time. Lol I can't!!! It's so crazy how you just pinned his "disability" lmao 😉

See what I mean. My advice is to run. The one's like this are imature and have mommy issues and will never have a normal relationship with a woman. They're more oportunist than anything. If you provide for them in the sameway as their mom they're there until something prettier comes along with a bigger bank account bigger bed to lay in. I find them to be really cool the first couple of months very fly by the seat of their pants, adventurous, affectionate then bam....the fact they're in a committed relationship kicks in, they can't breathe, feel .claustrohobic and they head for the border.

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Wow and you know what's really really crazy?? My grandma's friend who is psychic (did not know my situation or this guy what so ever) told me specifically that this guy will marry an older woman who was very very financially secure so that she would take care of him and be the one he can fall back on when all of his "making mon