Aquas and upbringing

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rochellea
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I have an Aquarius, older half-brother who is terrible. He is not a good person. I am a Cap female and have watched the way he has destructively lived his life and brought others down with him. I no longer speak to him. He's that bad. He behaves just like a sociopath and even became a fake preacher at one time and misled people.

Glad I allowed him no influence over me in my life ever. The rest of my half siblings followed him blindly and fell on their faces.

When my mother and father got together they both had 3 kids each...and then had me, so I'm the youngest. My dad was a single dad raising his 3 kids, when he met my mother, she was raising her's. They got together and created a "Brady bunch" so to speak with me being the glue tying all the kids together.

My Aquarius older brother could never appreciate that my father raised him when his own biological father abandoned him. When he was 18 he got put out of the house because he wouldn't follow the rules.

He is now in his late 40 's and that's all he complains about in life, is when he got put out at 18. He hated my late father too, never really showed appreciation for anything positive he received.

A few months ago is when I realized he is an Aquarius. He is a very confusing and scary person to me. Not saying his behavior is indicative of all Aquarius people but Iately I have been paying attention to the Aquarius sign for more info; because I have an Aquarius male chasing me very hard. He says he's in love with me and professed rather too quickly. Guess I don't trust him or believe it's true love or something. (Will create a thread shortly seeking advice)

Hope I'm not hijacking this thread but wanted to tell my experience in dealing with an Aquarius family member on this subject.







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AerialView
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Posted by aquaglass
Aquas,

How's your relationship with your parents and family in general?

And how was your family life?

Tell me more about your upbringing, will you?

Some people said that we're aloof, detached and so on. I'm just curious of how those things developed.
Just wanna say those 3 placements are super hot! Ckckck

Your:

Aqua sun

Scorp rising

Taurus moon



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they probably squaring each other tho.
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Posted by AerialView
Posted by AneemA08
Posted by aquaglass
Aquas,

How's your relationship with your parents and family in general?

And how was your family life?

Tell me more about your upbringing, will you?

Some people said that we're aloof, detached and so on. I'm just curious of how those things developed.
Just wanna say those 3 placements are super hot! Ckckck

Your:

Aqua sun

Scorp rising

Taurus moon




they probably squaring each other tho.
Yes the friction may creates tension and that tension exudes intrigues

Sorry op for gossiping about you.

Pls clarify. We're rascals, we know that. Right Aerial, say yes or we're not be friends no more. 😛
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LOL
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SelenaKyle
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Posted by aquaglass
Aquas,

How's your relationship with your parents and family in general?

And how was your family life?

Tell me more about your upbringing, will you?

Some people said that we're aloof, detached and so on. I'm just curious of how those things developed.
horrible. finally getting sort of close to my sister. My brother can go fuck himself.

Extremely violent and excessive turmoil. Couldn't move away fast enough. I honestly try not to think of my childhood much.

Im very guarded, closed off etc,, but once i open up i become very protective and give my all to them.
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uncertainme
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I am pretty closed to my family very much family oriented.Yeah I agree I tend to resolve my own problem and always wonder. I was known to have a strong personality but deep down inside I was a sook the father of my son used to call me Big Sook cos I talk to much but I only tried to expressed myself and being misinterpret by most of the people. I was a straight forward person . I tend not to talk with those people having issues by I'd like to help even I got nothing more for myself and in the end I never thought I was being abused and used. I always give people a chance not twice but till I cant count of my finger., but when I had enough I will not able to talk to u. I tend to disappear and doing my own things and forget some people around me . having my own world just to chillax and unwind .
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iMapisces
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Posted by OrGasMe
My parents were separated before I was born. My dad and I had a good relationship when I was little. But when he got girlfriends he would become very neglectful and verbally abusive. He ended up marrying an abusive woman, and actually having a daughter who shared my birthday. LOL. He disappeared from my life fairly young. (Leo dad)

My mom has always provided financially but was extremely abusive verbally and physically. Total control-freak and extremely manipulative. (Taurus)

My grandma was my rock. She was my best friend growing up as I had severe anxiety from my mother who was always tearing me down. She would come to my rescue when things got physical and I told her everything that went on in my life. She is the reason I am here today. (Pisces)

I was a very awkward kid. I didn't know how to talk to people and was bullied a lot for that. I was always afraid people would not accept me.

I read somewhere that Aqua females often experience a difficult relationship with mother and putting father on a pedistool. Before my dad disappeared, he was my favorite person. I think that it's common for Aqua women to look for dad-like figures in relationships. I always end up with older men who have a certain something about them that makes me feel safe. Daddy issues is real. Hahaha