Aquas, help me out here

Would you agree?

I copied & pasted this. It's from a friend's post about us on Facebook.

"Aquarians are the abyss. They are so mysterious, hard to get to & fascinating at the same time. Aquarian women are sophisticated, but not even on purpose.

They were born with a canny ability to debate, one up even the most candid intellectual, not because they know it all, but because their articulate words, thorough responses & witty comebacks are a product of their fast racing thoughts. They know this to their advantage

Aquarian women love being "that girl" who is hard to figure out. She wants to see you sweat & try breaking through her barriers. She knows this is tiring to many, but convinces herself that "the one" will have the fuel to complete the obstacle course. She trusts very deeply that those who consider her worthy enough to tear down all of her walls are good enough to receive the prize of the most caring, affectionate & loyal woman, at the end of the obstacle course.

She is her most sexiest, actually, when she's not trying to be. She is the most inspiring & influential when she is not trying to be simply by the courage and confidence in that courage that she has, alone! That in itself is mesmerizing in a world full of followers. This is why she can make many mistakes with her loved ones & be forgiven for them; Doesn't it seem odd that no one wants to lose their Aquarius? They'd rather spend countless hours tiring themselves with their over-analyzation of us than lose us completely. Aquarians have mastered the art of convincing people that their actions aren't wrong, but instead, simply misunderstood; this trick is contagious & thus leads people to stay around a little bit longer to "understand" Aquarius when they would've thrown in the towel long ago with others.

Aquarians are the sign of defense mechanisms that work for them more than against them. Their canny ability to read others, pick up on and notice the little things that other's overlook, & remain loyal to their intuitions has saved them from a many broken hearts. They know this, which is why not even the most important person to them can convince them to turn this part of themselves off. This is one area where they are proud of being stubborn

Although they are unwilling to give others the answers to the test, Aquarians actually wish they could tell you how easy it is to wow them. This is because their mind is complex, but the art of seducing them is quite simple. If only others knew this. It is not your money, fame, social status or good looks that will charm an Aquarian. But they will not tell you this. They'd much rather sit & watch you, while munching on popcorn, pull out all of your tricks to wow them, until you finally get it right.

Once you get it right, they will fall in love with you from that moment on. Their sudden 180 degree change afterwards, may even scare others off. But again, Aquarians figure that if you deem them worthy, you'll be back. If not, they will pack their short-term feelings into a suitcase and throw them into the Recycle Bin in their head, like you never existed; like you never happened.

....And for this, an Aquarian will not apologize or feel any sympathy for putting you into their internal Recycle Bin, for in their mind, you discarded of them first.

Aquarius is the sign of simple complexity. There is often no grey area. They either love you completely and with all their might or they are completely disconnected from you. For those who notice how often they take flight, it is simply because they don't believe in a grey area. They don't believe it is fair to self or to others to give half of themselves. They'd rather give all or nothing; know though that an Aquarian is emotionally and physically prepared for both.

Aquarius sexually is like an untamed beast. It is not often that others will introduce a kinky idea that an Aquarian hadn't already thought of first. They may not have acted on these fetishes and kinky thoughts, but nonetheless, they get the award for having the idea first. Aquarian needs passionate but quick sex. Leave the long drawn out love-making sessions to the other signs. Aquarians would much rather get their quick fix, then get back to their minds, and the racing thoughts in them.

....And for this, an Aquarian will not apologize or feel any sympathy for putting you into their internal Recycle Bin, for in their mind, you discarded of them first.

Aquarius is the sign of simple complexity. There is often no grey area. They either love you completely and with all their might or they are completely disconnected from you. For those who notice how often they take flight, it is simply because they don't believe in a grey area. They don't believe it is fair to self or to others to give half of themselves. They'd rather give all or nothing; know though that an Aquarian is emotionally and physically prepared for both.

Aquarius sexually is like an untamed beast. It is not often that others will introduce a kinky idea that an Aquarian hadn't already thought of first. They may not have acted on these fetishes and kinky thoughts, but nonetheless, they get the award for having the idea first. Aquarian needs passionate but quick sex. Leave the long drawn out love-making sessions to the other signs. Aquarians would much rather get their quick fix, then get back to their minds, and the racing thoughts in them.

My Aqua is living by this. Has often said her Intuition does not allow her to trust me.
Almost 2 years and still no physical evidence of being unfaithful (and I havent) but she believes it will happen....

Sigh....Isnt it possible to just confuse fear with Inutuition? How easy it is to let go of love based on inuition....

I can tell its a constant battle, she still says no matter what I love you...Cant stop thinking about you....

:/
Aqua Aqua Aqua.

Oh but there are flaws within the Aquarius. Surprisingly, to others, Aquarius is very aware of these flaws and if asked, will gladly tell you their faults. Unrealistically though, they are secretly expecting that their abilities to wow you should easily override their abilities to piss you off. Aquarians are aware of this unfair expectation, yet go about life with this with no shame.

The Aquarius has an enormous data base of knowledge stored in their psyches and can be 1 of the most open-minded signs you will ever encounter. However, once their minds are made up or are convinced that something is black & white, their open-mindedness suddenly ceases & is stubbornly thrown into the abyss.

Aquarius is the sign of silent suffering. It is not that they do not have the faith in others to hear and/or help with their problems. It is because Aquarius has a superman complex within themselves...they must be the hero for themselves; they depend too much on their own thoughts, intuitions, and psyche to guide them through life without realizing that what they consider to be their psyche might be balled up emotions in disguise. Aquarians are the kings/queens of not making emotional decisions, yet don't realize that often times they, themselves do, which makes them sitting in a room to cry to themselves during an ordeal very unhealthy. If religious, Aquarius would benefit greatly from the biblical passage, "Lean not unto thine own understanding."

Posted by Ssasy
My Aqua is living by this. Has often said her Intuition does not allow her to trust me.
Almost 2 years and still no physical evidence of being unfaithful (and I havent) but she believes it will happen....

Sigh....Isnt it possible to just confuse fear with Inutuition? How easy it is to let go of love based on inuition....

I can tell its a constant battle, she still says no matter what I love you...Cant stop thinking about you....

:/
Aqua Aqua Aqua.

I think we Aquas are very smart, sometimes too smart. Unfortunately, sometimes we're not smart enough to understand for ourselves the difference b/w an irrational fear/insecurity vs. a genuine instinct.

We Aquas believe in every bit of information our intuition sends us. We are profoundly loyal to that information & to the sender (our inner selves). But if an Aqua has not done the inner work within themselves so that things like fears/insecurities don't interfere with their intuition, they will most likely make the mistake of not realizing their insecurities (and not intuition) was speaking/thinking for them

Your ex will most likely never toss out her insecurities with you unless she somehow acknowledges that irrational fears/insecurities is what's driving and doing the thinking for her. And it will require for her to in the ultimate state of nakedness & vulnerability & that rare occasion that she looks in the mirror, in order for her to notice this flat/glitch in her inner system & fix it.

That is why it is best to leave an Aqua be. They do all their crying AND fixing of themselves in the dark. They are not designed to do such work when they are still in the storm, being clawed at or still in the presence of that person. But a lot of people don't wanna give Aqua that space b/c they fear that they may never come back. True, this is a possibility, BUT if you're willing to take that risk, you might have a completely new Aquarian that comes back much better than before.

Im gonna drown in this AQUA Thing....

Ive had a Virgo, Aries, and NOW an AAQUA....
The ONLY signs that have had my hear...BUT nothing compared to an AQUA.

So complex, but Extreamely Simple!

Thanks for the wishful thinking....lol

someone who wrote that sure knows how to puff the ego.

Words words words. Where's the bribery of a delicious velvet cake? Or maybe MONEY?

Jewels, darling jewels.

words are just words. "a kiss maybe grand...but it won't pay the rental."

I want a piece of that red velvet cake please.

Ohhhh that's a lot of fun stuff about us! I love my ability to read people. Have often had people say "yea right you don't know me" then I turn around and give them some insights that leave their head spinning and they look at me like HOW??!! I agree that sex is quick and to the point. And for the love of everything holy Im not a fan of cuddling afterwards. I always have men think I'm insensitive. I'd much rather a high five and let's move on. Lol. And sadly I've moved on from relationships for completely asinine reasons. Like once I wouldn't date a guy once I found out his last name rhymed with my first name. I think I looked at him blankly while I thought "this has zero chance of ever working now" lol ahhhh well.... what ya gonna do?

Posted by Aquarius77
Ohhhh that's a lot of fun stuff about us! I love my ability to read people. Have often had people say "yea right you don't know me" then I turn around and give them some insights that leave their head spinning and they look at me like HOW??!! I agree that sex is quick and to the point. And for the love of everything holy Im not a fan of cuddling afterwards. I always have men think I'm insensitive. I'd much rather a high five and let's move on. Lol. And sadly I've moved on from relationships for completely asinine reasons. Like once I wouldn't date a guy once I found out his last name rhymed with my first name. I think I looked at him blankly while I thought "this has zero chance of ever working now" lol ahhhh well.... what ya gonna do?

I find it interesting that the people who don't mesh well with us Aquas haven't figured out yet that we Aquas LOVE being Aquarians LOL

Actually, I don't think I've ever met an Aquarian who hated that they were an Aquarian. Sure, they admit that we have flaws but I don't think the words, "I hate being an Aquarian" can possibly come out of their mouth lol

Being an Aquarian is fun! Dealing with us may not be, but I figure that eventually they'll get over it, while in the mean time I'm still enjoying being an Aqua lol I kinda like us =P

I wanna put it out there though that I DO like cuddling in general! How could you not?! However, If I'm getting enough of it during other times though, I don't need/want it after sex!

Lol. I agree I love being an aquarius!!! And how many of us secretly love the song "age of Aquarius" raise your hands!!! It's ok I'll wait.... 😉

I am one of the first to openly admit my flaws. I get it. My friends and family do too. When I get in my solitary mode they all just kinda back off for a bit and leave me alone. If you think about it...we are kinda ON a lot. We def need a recharge after that! And I get that we can be infuriating to others but mainly just in love. Since We make pretty great friends...it's a good thing that we can be alone easier than most signs.

It does get lonely sometimes but I wholeheartedly agree with your post that I feel I'll eventually find the one that can handle me...until then no settling!

I was just over in the Virgo forum asking about a guy I'm interested in, getting insights. Though an aqua/Virgo match is a terrible idea. I've come to respect this forum so much more...those Virgos over there are vicious and not very good at the social thing. So glad to find you all here!

Posted by Aquarius77
Lol. I agree I love being an aquarius!!! And how many of us secretly love the song "age of Aquarius" raise your hands!!! It's ok I'll wait.... 😉

I am one of the first to openly admit my flaws. I get it. My friends and family do too. When I get in my solitary mode they all just kinda back off for a bit and leave me alone. If you think about it...we are kinda ON a lot. We def need a recharge after that! And I get that we can be infuriating to others but mainly just in love. Since We make pretty great friends...it's a good thing that we can be alone easier than most signs.

It does get lonely sometimes but I wholeheartedly agree with your post that I feel I'll eventually find the one that can handle me...until then no settling!

I was just over in the Virgo forum asking about a guy I'm interested in, getting insights. Though an aqua/Virgo match is a terrible idea. I've come to respect this forum so much more...those Virgos over there are vicious and not very good at the social thing. So glad to find you all here!

im a social virgo some... ask away... and yes the aqua board is the best... my fav

Posted by Aquarius77
Lol.
I am one of the first to openly admit my flaws. I get it. My friends and family do too. When I get in my solitary mode they all just kinda back off for a bit and leave me alone. If you think about it...we are kinda ON a lot. We def need a recharge after that!!

Isn't it amazing that these things about us seem like rocket science to others but are as easy as 1+1 for an Aquarian to explain?! lol

And yes, it's true that my closest family/friends have FINALLY accepted this about me & no longer take my "Me time" moments personal. It DID take a long time though. I had to kinda "train" them lol

I think it only worked b/c no matter how much they tried getting me to change that particular side of me, I wouldn't budge. I even tried once or twice before, but just couldn't. And any time I was starting to buy into their "opinions" that something must be wrong with me, I quickly went back to my true roots & said, "Like it or hate it, I don't give a F!"

After all that rebellion, my friends/family were finally like, Alright, that's just how Krys is so we might as well accept it. I had my popcorn in hand, like yep, bout time you azzholes got it through your heads! lol

And yes I'm on SO much. But when me being on starts to drain me so much that I can't even have fun in my "me time" b/c I'm so spent & tired from being there for everybody else, I take twice as long of a break lol Oh that pisses people off so bad. Aw welp!

Yeah I agree. Can't do the Virgos anymore

I tried though lol