Morgan89
@Morgan89
13 Years
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Posted by AliCar15
Here's my take, based on my past, my steady relationship with my Aqua, the fact that I'm a fire sign, that I have dated several Leo and have several Leo best friends- one of which who is a Leo/Aqua moon: I think you like this man because your competitive and like a challenge. You're a fire sign- it's part of who you are. You enjoy the chase and you view yourself in competition with his girlfriend. Because this man is still contacting you, it means you are gaining some victory over his girlfriend, giving you some sick twisted sense of satisfaction. This boost to your ego makes you even more attracted to this unavailable man. The fact that you are "winning" in your battle vs. his girlfriend (in your mind) makes this all the more exciting and addicting.
The relationship is also attractive to you because your getting the ego boost you so desperately crave (Leo sun) without the commitment that you so truly fear (Aqua moon). You're cold and lacking in empathy (Aqua Moon) and are too fixated on what you want (Fixed signs- Leo sun/Aqua moon) to fully grasp- or even care about the consequences of you actions.
Sadly, you are so incredibly stubborn (Leo sun/Aqua moon, immaturity) that my post, this thread, the opinions of friends or anything else will not even touch you. You'll do what you want when you want without caring about any collateral damage you've caused.
Posted by RealTalk
^^^And yet you seek advice from people you don't know on a blog about a guy you "don't care about/or like that much". Why do care about what people say if it's not that serious? Because they're not telling you what you want to hear? It's bullshit. I think you care more for him than you're letting on. But what do I know right? You ONLY made a thread dedicated to what you think he may be feeling for you. Haha.


Posted by aquaj
I don't actually believe in karma. From my observation, the most ruthless people are the most successful.


Posted by 1urbanicbluePosted by aquaj
I don't actually believe in karma. From my observation, the most ruthless people are the most successful.
success doesn't mean happiness though. true happiness is something you can't buy. and finding peace before you die.click to expand
Posted by AliCar15
Morgan- I know I came across harshly in my posts to you. I can talk about your situation because I have been intimately acquainted with very similar circumstances. I feel like the only way to really try to *pull* you out of it is to be tough with you.
It can be hard being a fire sign. We like to win the "prize". Just make sure when you go for that prize, it's actually worth the battle.
Good luck. Glad to hear that you've distanced yourself from the situation. Try to learn from it- you could very well avoid this situation ever happening again if you take away the right lessons. With age comes wisdom.
Posted by 1urbanicblue
you do believe in a higher power, you said.
even if you do have your own principles, you arent exempt from the human race. and that's that. you can weasle your intellect, (which is by the way confusing, cause you go back and forth) but you're not god.
Posted by Ninjagirl
Hey girlie,
Firstly he's got a girlfriend, he was honest with you about that. Can't knock him for that. It may be wise to take a step back and evaluate the situation, he obviously wants a casual set-up with you...is that what you want? If it is, continue with him but know that you won't fully have him, he'll be swinging back and forth as much as you'll let him. You can roll around with him in your insatiable romantic bubble he's created but the reality is...he's taken.
Thing with the aqua men they can lay it on thick in the beginning, you feel like you're the only one when your with them and it's all magical and wonderful....the words they tell you, vibes they give off...it's hard to pull back when your in with em, but *sigh*
Take a step back and see things for what they really are.
Good Luck!
Posted by exam
Your best friend is right to be worried because she doesn't fully understand your own set of moral values and she doesn't know how many more own values you have that are deviated from the norm. She's worried that you will create more principles as you go along when dealing with questionable situations. I'm glad you stopped to question here and hope you get the answers you're looking for.
Posted by AliCar15
Although you are trying to paint yourself as the victim here, Morgan, in truth, you are JUST as guilty as this Aqua. You know he as a girlfriend and yet you proceed in this "relationship". This makes you just as reprehensible as he is.
We women should be better than this.
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I've been reading this message board for a few days now and have only come up with half answers to my situation. So I'll just give you a background, I met this guy at a bar on a Friday and we instantly hit it off, flirted and exchanged no.'s we were heading to different spots that night so I did not anticipate seeing him again. I went to the club and there he was, things got heated. We ended up getting it on in public a couple times each time he stopped it saying he wasn't feeling it. We came back to my place. I'm no fool or a stranger to what happens after this kind of encounter and I told him such. He said he wasn't like that and he has my no. and wants to see me again.
He didn't call as he said he would and I wasn't about to. I dropped him a casual 'hey' text on Sunday. I was out living my life and received 2 missed calls and a text saying if i need him just let him know. Well I don't need him so I guess I won't call lol. I responded apologising for the missing the calls etc. and promise to call back. I missed a further 2 calls from him :s. So I call he makes plans with me. We exchange texts and he's overly sweet like those BF type text messages. I sensed something was off. When he came round something made me ask if he had a GF, and he told me he did! SMH. I asked why he was here with me and he said there is something about me (whatever) anyway he got really affectionate and stuff happened. I started getting obsessive texts friday night from him saying he wants me and that he has 'feelings' for me. I freaked out and told him I'd deal with it the next day. He came round knowing nothing sexual could happen and he was drunk, I wasn't amused and he kept bringing up his elusive feelings for me. I ended it the next morning, he seemed slightly taken aback but I could not read his emotions at all.
I changed my mind in a moment of madness a couple days later and we see each other like once a week for about a month. We had one petty argument and he didn't contact me for 4 days. I figured we were done. He called me a bad friend for not contacting him after the little tiff that he started. He came round and it was nice, we just hung out for ages. He spent a lot of the time just staring at me :/. I was mean and trying to keep an emotional distance. He referred to me as 'his woman' in front of his friends, he's overly affectionate and he always sleeps over which has got me confused. Is he just playing me or is there more to this? I'm a leo if it mat