do aqua guys call?

I swear he seems to want to hang out and do stuff but they never actually call or make plans. I usually initiate things. Is this typical of an aqua or is it just a guy that is not interested?

read through "i know not to analyze a aqua man but..."
that will give you some insight!

I don't know about Aqua Guys, but I am terrible when it comes to calling people. If he is interested in hanging out thats a good sign. Maybe mention something about him not calling you, but do it tactfully.

he's probably interested.. maybe even too much and he gets a bit shy about it all now.. or too confused. dont rush him though, show some love but dont chase him.
i find it very difficult to meet up with my current boyfriend when he said he's afraid of falling in love with me cause he's not ready for relationship and he's constantly on the road (which is true) .. he would literally ignore me for no reason but once i would show him all the charm and give him a kiss he would melt into me... but there would be always the problem of meeting up (cause he knows he won't resist me and he knows he shouldnt be with me)

so your actual bonafide boyfriends give you hard time? geez. difficult!oh well, it's nice to know they are quite similar. im just trying to even figure out if i even got a chance with this one...i feel i would know if he'd just invite me out sometime. he has before but not as of late...geez. if they show up at bars and stuff and just talk to you for hours...is this a good thing or are they just chat machines?

lol...leokitten, so true! that is exactly how my aqua is!!! i cannot plan anything with him, which is very frustrating for me b/c i am a planner. with him, i never know what is going on until the last minute. and even if something is planned, the plans always change somehow 😉

Some of my friends wonder why I even have a cell phone since I usually let about 10 voicemails stack up until I listen to them.

I figure if it's an emergency, they'll keep calling...and usually by the time I listen to the voice messages, the messages are old news.

I respond to email quicker than I return a phone call.

but fudge, i'm not an aqua....so i guess scratch my comment. 😛

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THAT IS CUTE, RP!!!

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I so wanted that Bachelor to choose Sadie but he chose Jennifer.

That is so true about not planning. My aqua "friend" told me he does not like to plan things as he feels pressured or they never work out. About the phone thing he does call me but it's a mutual thing. E-mails well he has a myspace and is forever on it so i'm to assume he does not mind the myspace messages he gets.

yess girl they are bad about the calling, but that does not mean he is not interested. if he is responsive to you when you initiate he is interested .

"moonchild...the worst is trying to get a committment for something like a wedding. i have a wedding dec 29th....he is all, hmmm....that is so far away. i told him he had to tell me by tomorrow or i was going alone"

-i can relate to this completely b/c i have 2 weddings coming up, one in feb. and one in april and he cannot commit to either one. well, he told me last week that he is going home the week of the feb. wedding, and then he tried to tell me that i never invited him to the wedding...whatever! and with the april wedding, i need to know b/c it is in cancun, mx...but of course, he cannot give me an answer on that one either. i mean, c'mon it's cancun...how do you say no!!!

hmmmm...not cool...seeking jealousy, out of frustration...not cool....

yeah, you prob. shouldn't have said anything about hanging out with a bunch of guys...
how would you feel if he said he was going to hang out with a bunch of his girl friends at a wedding— not a good feeling...

good for you, take a stand...

hmmm, you seem to get the whole independence thing (must be that leo) 🙂 I always say be assertive...😉

leokitten...i totally understand what you are saying. and yes, i agree that it gets frustrating to have someone who doesn't want to do things as a couple such as going to a wedding... i am in the same boat as you, remember.