Okay, so I ended up giving my Aqua Man the boot. I guess it is the typical ebb and flow with them (maybe) but I felt like he was not respecting me like I know he can and I did not appreciate it. I told him tonight that I would do us both a favor and stop talking to him and if he decided he wanted to date me and no one else he should give me a call and we could talk about it. He really has been blowing me off and like I told him if we were not having sex I could handle it but based on the fact that we are intimate I feel he is being disrespectful. So, lay it on me...tell me I didn't deal with it the right way 🙂 That said, I feel so much better. I was getting way too needy and hating myself. I feel like I took care of myself and demanded the respect I deserve. So no matter what its a win for me.
Not an Aquarius here but it seemed like the right thing to do for me. Holding up to ur values and not letting him keep using u. Wish most girls could do that but they keep hoping men could change and want to be committed. They can, but it needs to be their decision. And I think backing off and giving him space to make his decision about u was a good thing. Even if he decides that he doesn't want to date u, at least u got this over with sooner than later. Better now then months or years down the line when u get more attached. Like me!! Blah I hate it. I'll know for next time to give the boot sooner if a guy is wishy washy about a relationship.
He really has been blowing me off and like I told him if we were not having sex I could handle it but based on the fact that we are intimate I feel he is being disrespectful.
So, lay it on me...tell me I didn't deal with it the right way 🙂 That said, I feel so much better. I was getting way too needy and hating myself. I feel like I took care of myself and demanded the respect I deserve. So no matter what its a win for me.