He confuses me

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by Libragirl263 on Sunday, November 25, 2012 and has 2 replies.

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@Libragirl263
13 Years

Hello. I am a Libra woman dating an Aquarian man. 1st of Feb. My question is if he trusts me...I ask because I don't usually trust easily, but i trusted him, until I caught him in a lie. He says he doesn't mind me hanging out with guys then after I do he would say things like someone saw me kiss one or have sex with one or the latest i never told him who i was going with. I began saving bbm chats as this is our main way of communicating and I was able to prove to him that I did indeed say who I was going with and I called the person by name. He didn't apologize he acted as if it was nothing. I decided to cut all contact with the person(he was an ex...14-15 years ago 😐 I feel absolutely nothing for the person) and the other person i was accused of kissing and doing things with is gay 😐 😐 So my thing is why say it's ok then act like its not? Also, we very rarely hang out together as a couple. He always hangs out every weekend with his friends and i hang out maybe once a month with mine (even less since he keeps accusing me of things when I go out)Why is that? We're perfect together but even when I plan a lime for us to be together with mutual friends he cancels at the last minute or just doesnt show up, then gives a lame excuse after. He promised me dinner for my birthday, but we never went. He promises a lot of things and don't ever deliver so I have stopped hoping. When he says Im gonna do this for you or get that for you I never believe him until I see it with my own eyes 😐

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

If there's no trust this early on, there probably never will be. Without trust, it won't ever work. Move on, is my advice. But realize, this is coming from a Cap perspective.

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@NotYourAverageAquarius
13 Years5,000+ PostsAquarius

yeah this dude sounds kinda douchy to me...

I mean ... I dunno I hate talking bad about people without witnessing stuff with my own eyes ya know?
But if he has double standards and does not keep his word...

FUCK HIM do you really need that kinda shit in your life... honestly?