HELP PLEASE!!!

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Eleventh
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Posted by aq61
I'm an aquarius and I don't know things about relationships. I'm wondering if what I feel or how I'm feeling is normal.

Do we go back to old lovers even if they hurt us?
If so why?
How do we get over that person hurting us and move forward with them?
Do we let stuff go easily?
How do we handle break ups?
etc any help is great...



This is my opinion, we usually use our magnetism to lure in a partner to us instead of actively seeking someone out this is what a fixed sign like aquarius is prone to do opposed to a cardinal or mutable sign, we like to sit in the centre of the universe and we magically let things gravitate to us more or less lol??_

Sometimes we attract good people and we start a relationship with them, because they came to us then it usually means they are smitten and they love us more than we love them (happens in every relationship someone always loves the other more). On the off chance that we have gone out of our way to approach someone that we really like and we end up snagging them and we like them shit loads more than they like us but at the beginning it seems that they like us the same amount and were so much in love with them but over time they fall out of love with us then thats when we start to go a bit crazy I think, old mates jealousy and insecurity rear their ugly heads and thats when we come back to earth and are remind ourselves and everyone else that were human. Just remember the 5 Gs - Good God Girl Get a Grip you'll need them.
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Posted by aq61
I'm an aquarius and I don't know things about relationships. I'm wondering if what I feel or how I'm feeling is normal.

Do we go back to old lovers even if they hurt us?
If so why?
How do we get over that person hurting us and move forward with them?
Do we let stuff go easily?
How do we handle break ups?
etc any help is great...



Are you really an Aqua or just someone curious about an Aqua in your life? Your approach seems odd.

For me, yes I do. If I'm still in love and I truly see a future with them. If I ended the realtionship, then it would be over completely. My decisions are final when I end a relationship.

Simple. Move forward. I forgive easily, once i've come to understand their reasons for hurting me in the first place. Though I may feel some reservations about getting back together, I may feel some fear or question whether i'm doing what's right for myself.

I supress my feelings, shut off emotionally orrr if it's too many feelings and i've been hurt really badly then I become self destructive.
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lol i am feb 13. Im young and my feelings are hurt and I'm confused. Plus i never had a relationship before thats why I'm wondering if what i am dealing with is normal...and we aquas do tend to be odd sometimes lol
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Posted by aq61
I'm an aquarius and I don't know things about relationships. I'm wondering if what I feel or how I'm feeling is normal.

Do we go back to old lovers even if they hurt us?
If so why?
How do we get over that person hurting us and move forward with them?
Do we let stuff go easily?
How do we handle break ups?
etc any help is great...



what the hell? You sound like you just stepped out of the "Closet" from a dark room and you never interacted with humans ever before. Did you have parents? Sisters brothers?
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aq61
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Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Posted by aq61
I'm an aquarius and I don't know things about relationships. I'm wondering if what I feel or how I'm feeling is normal.

Do we go back to old lovers even if they hurt us?
If so why?
How do we get over that person hurting us and move forward with them?
Do we let stuff go easily?
How do we handle break ups?
etc any help is great...



This is my opinion, we usually use our magnetism to lure in a partner to us instead of actively seeking someone out this is what a fixed sign like aquarius is prone to do opposed to a cardinal or mutable sign, we like to sit in the centre of the universe and we magically let things gravitate to us more or less lol??_

Sometimes we attract good people and we start a relationship with them, because they came to us then it usually means they are smitten and they love us more than we love them (happens in every relationship someone always loves the other more). On the off chance that we have gone out of our way to approach someone that we really like and we end up snagging them and we like them shit loads more than they like us but at the beginning it seems that they like us the same amount and were so much in love with them but over time they fall out of love with us then thats when we start to go a bit crazy I think, old mates jealousy and insecurity rear their ugly heads and thats when we come back to earth and are remind ourselves and everyone else that were human. Just remember the 5 Gs - Good God Girl Get a Grip you'll need them.
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lol im not chasing them they chased me for a while...its just I'm feeling all types of ways and i wonder if they come back how will i react...this is all new to me. Also what will I need, to get a grip? I was just trying to make sure I was grasping what you meant lol
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Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by aq61
I'm an aquarius and I don't know things about relationships. I'm wondering if what I feel or how I'm feeling is normal.

Do we go back to old lovers even if they hurt us?
If so why?
How do we get over that person hurting us and move forward with them?
Do we let stuff go easily?
How do we handle break ups?
etc any help is great...



what the hell? You sound like you just stepped out of the "Closet" from a dark room and you never interacted with humans ever before. Did you have parents? Sisters brothers?
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Im serious here and you seem to be picking at me. I have a parent a sister and a brother both of whom i barely know. However Im speaking of romance relationships. Im inexperienced. I have tried all routes and it seems that everything leads down to they didn't want to deal with a virgin. Even the older dudes. I have changed my approach to situations even my attitude and all together no one will really take a chance on me or I'm always second choice because i don't have sex. If they would take the time to really give me a chance things could go forward. But i just got done dealing with someone and Im hurt and confused. I don't know if how I feel is normal. I kinda feel like I'm the only person that feels this way. Please don't joke about someone who is inexperienced it just adds to...
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lisabeth
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sometimes dxp has some "jokes" so i dont know...it doesn't sound right.

I just agree with sammy, it is just too weird and especially to come on a forum and ask that.

if you need to ask strangers "how to", then i dont know what to tell you.

It sounds as if you had no guidance from your family members to show you how to have a good relationship....

and also, even if you had a bad one, (because life is like that, you never know) it's called "experience".