Here We go AGAIN

you're just going to give yourself a headache. Your other posts about your ex aqua was confusing.
I'd give up on this girl right away as soon as you saw aqua on a dating site. Get away FAST!!! RUN!!!!
do not look back and go for someone else who will give you security and comfort. You're just torturing yourself constantly.

Remember, Sassy, Aquas come on strong in the beginning then slack off a little so don't be surprised when she slacks. Aquas are notorious for taking a couple of days or more in initiating contact. Don't be afraid to contact her something upbeat and humorous but don't smother her with stuff either.

She probably was having a bad day, so I would give her the space she needs to deal with whatever is going on. Have faith. She will probably tell you next time you talk. I had a hard time with that one in the beginning, but my aqua was always explaining why he missed a day of contact or didn't respond to a text until hours later and the reasons were always valid. I had to learn to have faith that it wasn't about me. He remained consistent so it became easier to accept.

You are at least armed with knowledge of the aqua ways. 🙂

And remember, you haven't met yet, so don't read too much into anything at this point.

Glad you're out there again and interested in someone! Keep it light and flexible and you'll be fine.

Posted by truecap
Remember, Sassy, Aquas come on strong in the beginning then slack off a little so don't be surprised when she slacks. Aquas are notorious for taking a couple of days or more in initiating contact. Don't be afraid to contact her something upbeat and humorous but don't smother her with stuff either.

She probably was having a bad day, so I would give her the space she needs to deal with whatever is going on. Have faith. She will probably tell you next time you talk. I had a hard time with that one in the beginning, but my aqua was always explaining why he missed a day of contact or didn't respond to a text until hours later and the reasons were always valid. I had to learn to have faith that it wasn't about me. He remained consistent so it became easier to accept.

You are at least armed with knowledge of the aqua ways. 🙂

And remember, you haven't met yet, so don't read too much into anything at this point.

Glad you're out there again and interested in someone! Keep it light and flexible and you'll be fine.

Thank You Cappy!
Unlike some folks this makes sense...
I know ALOT of the AQUA traits...
But I was just taken back a little...

And im brushing it off for now...

Remember tho, don't punish other people for the mistakes others have made. With that in mind, do keep an eye out for similar behavior that you do not like-- learning from the past.

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I mean surely we don't all hold the same ideals but me personally (I'm not even sure if it's an aqua trait) I hate being compared to someone else especially if I don't relate to them. E.g. Well he's asian so you must know what he's like right? (well actually that might just be racist lol) but you get my drift.

Just remember someone us don't open up that quickly. It might seem like we are and that is all. I don't think I owe people explanations as to what I am doing and why and when if I just started speaking to someone.

*some of us

PS Stop analysing everything and just let things flow for a bit. I'm sure you know by now even on DXP all aquas are different.

Posted by aquasnoz
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I mean surely we don't all hold the same ideals but me personally (I'm not even sure if it's an aqua trait) I hate being compared to someone else especially if I don't relate to them. E.g. Well he's asian so you must know what he's like right? (well actually that might just be racist lol) but you get my drift.

Just remember someone us don't open up that quickly. It might seem like we are and that is all. I don't think I owe people explanations as to what I am doing and why and when if I just started speaking to someone.

That was pretty RACIST haha BUT I get the AQUA Assumptions point youre trying to make. lmaoo I really laughed out loud at that one.