@truecap
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Aquaman is spoiling me...
How Do Aquaman Men Show Love Subtly
Aquaman men express love through small, thoughtful gestures rather than grand displays. They are caring and romantic in understated ways, such as cooking, helping with chores, or paying attention to details that show they care. Their subtle actions often go unnoticed but reveal deep affection and commitment.
We thank you 🙂
Posted by smellycat
Reciprocate ! Loving is sharing or other way around.
I do! I try to anyway, I just hope he sees it as its intended. 🙂
Posted by ScorpioHarmony
enjoy it while it lasts 🙂
That just sounds so negative.
Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
We thank you 🙂
🙂
Posted by Gobshite
What is he secretly up to?
Why would he have to be up to something?
haters gonna hate.
Truecap is a living unicorn amongst Aquas. Where do I find my own one?
Posted by aquasnoz
haters gonna hate.Truecap is a living unicorn amongst Aquas. Where do I find my own one?
Awwww. Thanks for the sweet words. I adore you guys! 🙂
Believe it or not, he was my favorite of the Super Friends when I was a kid. I have no idea why. I just thought it would be cool to breathe under water.
I know! Maybe it's some kind of karmic destiny!! lol!
Sounds like what every other woman is saying before coming on here weeks later saying what happened. Don't speak so soon... sounding a little arrogant there... You never "got" an Aqua.
Posted by prettyladii
Sounds like what every other woman is saying before coming on here weeks later saying what happened. Don't speak so soon... sounding a little arrogant there... You never "got" an Aqua.She's been getting it right for more than a few weeks, lady.
If anything I'd be taking notes at what an actual, functional healthy relationship looks like and thank God there's something other than the 98 percent dyfunctional, juvenile noise on here that people think passes for romance.
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Thanks!!
I thought this board needed something positive. We hear all the "help" questions and venting issues, but it's not often we get to hear the good stuff. I just thought I'd share.
Posted by prettyladii
Sounds like what every other woman is saying before coming on here weeks later saying what happened. Don't speak so soon... sounding a little arrogant there... You never "got" an Aqua.
2 1/2 year relationship with this aquaman. I don't think I'm speaking too soon. Lol!
Posted by prettyladii
Sounds like what every other woman is saying before coming on here weeks later saying what happened. Don't speak so soon... sounding a little arrogant there... You never "got" an Aqua.
You are obviously new to this site. TrueCap is the aqua whisperer and has been with her man for a long time. She not only has gotten him, but she "gets' Aquas! LOL
WTF is up with all the negativity throughout this thread? Can't aqua have one positive one without all the negative nancy's coming out to sour it?
Posted by prettyladii
Sounds like what every other woman is saying before coming on here weeks later saying what happened. Don't speak so soon... sounding a little arrogant there... You never "got" an Aqua.You are obviously new to this site. TrueCap is the aqua whisperer and has been with her man for a long time. She not only has gotten him, but she "gets' Aquas! LOL
WTF is up with all the negativity throughout this thread? Can't aqua have one positive one without all the negative nancy's coming out to sour it?
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*ahem* You've never seen the Cancer board, have you?
Good to read something positive for a change.
Although I have to say that a goat dating Aquaman is going to make the Pisces women jealous....
Posted by prettyladii
Sounds like what every other woman is saying before coming on here weeks later saying what happened. Don't speak so soon... sounding a little arrogant there... You never "got" an Aqua.2 1/2 year relationship with this aquaman. I don't think I'm speaking too soon. Lol!
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That is a beautiful thing.
Don't worry, I'm sure the Negative Azz Nancy's will soon be trolling this thread, and it will be turned into a Jerry Springer show. I think 2 years of dating substantiates your positive comment. Anyway, continued success @ Truecap.
Posted by prettyladii
Sounds like what every other woman is saying before coming on here weeks later saying what happened. Don't speak so soon... sounding a little arrogant there... You never "got" an Aqua.You are obviously new to this site. TrueCap is the aqua whisperer and has been with her man for a long time. She not only has gotten him, but she "gets' Aquas! LOL
WTF is up with all the negativity throughout this thread? Can't aqua have one positive one without all the negative nancy's coming out to sour it?
*ahem* You've never seen the Cancer board, have you?
Good to read something positive for a change.
Although I have to say that a goat dating Aquaman is going to make the Pisces women jealous....click to expand
LOL I know this happens on the other forums. As for the cancer forum, ya I tend to say away. I like happy, positive, non-emo 😛
That's so sweet and good to hear you guys are looking after each other,
keep up the good work and the positivism!!!
Posted by prettyladii
Sounds like what every other woman is saying before coming on here weeks later saying what happened. Don't speak so soon... sounding a little arrogant there... You never "got" an Aqua.You are obviously new to this site. TrueCap is the aqua whisperer and has been with her man for a long time. She not only has gotten him, but she "gets' Aquas! LOL
WTF is up with all the negativity throughout this thread? Can't aqua have one positive one without all the negative nancy's coming out to sour it?
*ahem* You've never seen the Cancer board, have you?
Good to read something positive for a change.
Although I have to say that a goat dating Aquaman is going to make the Pisces women jealous....click to expand
I'm envious, but at the same time happy for TrueCap.
She is the sort of woman who deserves to be loved and respected and won't put up with anything less.
Posted by prettyladii
Sounds like what every other woman is saying before coming on here weeks later saying what happened. Don't speak so soon... sounding a little arrogant there... You never "got" an Aqua.2 1/2 year relationship with this aquaman. I don't think I'm speaking too soon. Lol!
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forget the negative naysayers. They're there to remind us that it's AWFUL to be around so much negativity. All the freaking time. It's gonna DROWN YOU! I don't mind it once in awhile, but too much is TOO much....
my ex husband was around negativity ALL the freaking time, and it drowned him to hell. He drove himself to drink and drugs (the stellium pisces ex)...this is the symbol of the fishes. NEEDS HAPPINESS!!! and a dose of reality too. Too much of criticism and hatred and negativity will drown someone.
they should have the ability to be mutable and get off the negative train FAST.
Besides, can you REALLY possess a human being? Nope you can't. But if they love you, they'll stay with you forever and forever, till your last dying breath and even beyond ...till your next lifetime. And they meet again.
Posted by prettyladii
Sounds like what every other woman is saying before coming on here weeks later saying what happened. Don't speak so soon... sounding a little arrogant there... You never "got" an Aqua.You are obviously new to this site. TrueCap is the aqua whisperer and has been with her man for a long time. She not only has gotten him, but she "gets' Aquas! LOL
WTF is up with all the negativity throughout this thread? Can't aqua have one positive one without all the negative nancy's coming out to sour it?
*ahem* You've never seen the Cancer board, have you?
Good to read something positive for a change.
Although I have to say that a goat dating Aquaman is going to make the Pisces women jealous....I'm envious, but at the same time happy for TrueCap.
She is the sort of woman who deserves to be loved and respected and won't put up with anything less.
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Yup. she's suffered alot in her life. She deserves happiness. 🙂
Thanks for all the support and kind words! Remember, I owe you guys a LOT for helping me understand him better, so yall get credit for the success as well.
And I don't mind the negative nancys. I understand where they're coming from, too.
how luxurious to be spoilt! mmmmm baaaby...
It's not worth the disappearing/distant act.
Aww how sweet!
Posted by prettyladii
Sounds like what every other woman is saying before coming on here weeks later saying what happened. Don't speak so soon... sounding a little arrogant there... You never "got" an Aqua.You are obviously new to this site. TrueCap is the aqua whisperer and has been with her man for a long time. She not only has gotten him, but she "gets' Aquas! LOL
WTF is up with all the negativity throughout this thread? Can't aqua have one positive one without all the negative nancy's coming out to sour it?
*ahem* You've never seen the Cancer board, have you?
Good to read something positive for a change.
Although I have to say that a goat dating Aquaman is going to make the Pisces women jealous....click to expand
Its funny u say that i just posted a recent thread the saga continues and the girl is a pisces lol
Im very happy for you trucap thats wuzup
Posted by ruffles
It's not worth the disappearing/distant act.
He can be aloof sometimes, but he's never disappeared or went distant on me.
truecap
Im happy for you, but enjoy it while it lasts. My daughter is an Aquarius and her friend is a Cap, and she isn't so happy with him at times, they make good friends. But she said Nope they aren't in a relationship together. But I hope yours last. But just be watchful. And I agree with prettyladii don't speak so soon they change like water flows down a river. Their air sign
Good grief!!! Can't ANYONE throw out a positive story about a relationship with an aqua man without all the snide comments disguised as warnings? What? Just because all these other women's relationships didn't work with an aqua, they don't think an aqua can have a happy, long-lasting relationship?
I think his history within the last 2 1/2 years has proven he's in it for the long haul. He has spoiled me more than not over that time frame.
Posted by truecap
Good grief!!! Can't ANYONE throw out a positive story about a relationship with an aqua man without all the snide comments disguised as warnings? What? Just because all these other women's relationships didn't work with an aqua, they don't think an aqua can have a happy, long-lasting relationship?I think his history within the last 2 1/2 years has proven he's in it for the long haul. He has spoiled me more than not over that time frame.
i know right?
well if they aren't happy with them all the time, that's good right? Always happy happy is weird in my opinion. There's something "off".... I mean, if something bad happens in the family like having a disease, people leave your life that you love, funerals, are you gonna be happy? Plus, always around happy happy people makes me suspicious.
My husband stayed home all week this week so i'm very happy to be honest. He's taking his work home so he's with me daily. We did the garden earlier together. Then he has to do his work.. I have to leave him alone when he's working. but he's always next to me doing his work. Unless he has a phone conference we have to leave the room. He doesn't want any giggling and noise talking to his boss or something.
Posted by angiedbc457
truecapIm happy for you, but enjoy it while it lasts. My daughter is an Aquarius and her friend is a Cap, and she isn't so happy with him at times, they make good friends. But she said Nope they aren't in a relationship together. But I hope yours last. But just be watchful. And I agree with prettyladii don't speak so soon they change like water flows down a river. Their air sign
hey do some research silly!
You know that big celebrity Rene Russo?? Aquarius sun? She's married to a Cancer sun man..... a long time. And he used to DATE a leo sun, *drumroll* Madonna!!!
Good point smellycat. Thank you for reminding me.
And I do realize where they are coming from, I'm still a little prejudice against gemini men, though GG has inadvertently challenged me to rethink some of that. I bet he doesn't even know that. 🙂
Posted by truecap
Good grief!!! Can't ANYONE throw out a positive story about a relationship with an aqua man without all the snide comments disguised as warnings? What? Just because all these other women's relationships didn't work with an aqua, they don't think an aqua can have a happy, long-lasting relationship?I think his history within the last 2 1/2 years has proven he's in it for the long haul. He has spoiled me more than not over that time frame.
click to expandForgive them True Cap. A lot of people who come here to seek advise esp in particular sign section I realize are going through some pretty rough time in their life. I see so many Help headlines in the topic and so many are trying to seek mental peace coming freshly out of loss of their partners or loved ones or similar dreary situation. These people usually at this moment have low esteem and can be harshly critical or irritated even and very vulnerable . What they actually want is to recognized , loved , cared , guided and are in deep need of compassion but unfortunately in these changing times many people are malnourished in these area. Depression is quite common for a reason too . This people need help , real help not some pop spirituality shit. Look I entered in dxp or astrology not because of crisis but actual love of astrology. I first learned western and then even to some extent vedic which is so alien to most of us but there are people too who come here in DXP seeking real help or at least require real help like company of good friends, coping with break ups.I just hope they realize astrology is poor substitute for real medical help of mental health. As for us aqua men who have poor reputation , some of it is quite justified. When I was younger I too used to be quite aloof, for some reason did just the opposite of what should be done in love and tested people to see how far people can go.But with time and experience(some credits to dxp 🙂 )I realized how immature it was. Also other air sign who gave similar treatment made me realize quicker. I still see this ignorant behavior from many aquarians in day to day basis which I hope someday they too will realize and evolve.
I Just hope these people can learn from their mistake and make better decision and try being positive rather than blaming people
^ Well said Smelly Cat.
lisabethur8
I don't need to do research, I am surrounded by Aquas, I even have a daughter that is one so I know how they are. I have multiple friends that are Aquas to, but if truecap and her Aqua hit it off im glad for u. And you cant believe everything you read
lisabethur8
I don't need to do research, I am surrounded by Aquas, I even have a daughter that is one so I know how they are. I have multiple friends that are Aquas to, but if truecap and her Aqua hit it off im glad for u. And you cant believe everything you read
honestly you sound very disappointed in them. Like a debbie downer. If you're a mother of one, i'm sorry you feel that way about your daughter. Infact no matter the sun sign, i feel that you're not a very encouraging mother to your child. just something from your words. Very disheartening and negative.
Truecap, your aqua man sounds a lot like me when I'm with someone. Sounds like everything is going great and he clearly cares and is taking care of you 🙂
lisabethur8
I am not disappointed, first of all in what. Yes I am a mother of an Aqua and proud to be a mother of one but my daughter also know I will never sugar coat anything for her I will be very upfront with her and not lie to her. But I am happy for truecap and I hope it works out for u. The final decision is trucap anyway no matter what anyone thinks or feels. And me and my daughter are best of friends.
I know this is somewhat of an old threat, but I'm happy for you. I've been with my aqua man for only 3.5 months. I came on here because I've never dated aquas just mostly caps. He's nothing like all of the negatives posts I'm reading. Yes, I know. The relationship is new, but he's already seen all sides of me. It's been a pretty stressful past few months for me, and he hasn't shown any signs of retreating. He spoils me like no other. While I feel like I don't do much for him. He told me I do enough just being me 🙂 and that feels good. No more capricorns for me!
Posted by truecap
And I think I like it! 🙂Aquamen are labeled with confusing, detached, aloof, unromantic....and this is all true when compared to other signs who make the big guestures or are more vocal about their feelings. However, aquamen can be quite sweet and romantic in their own way. It's subtle. One has to pay attention and notice all the little things they do for the one the care about.
They are so subtle in their efforts that a lot of people don't even notice how they go out of their way for their loved ones and that's really sad because aqua men get such a bad rap when, in fact, they do know how to take care of their woman.
^ This in particular is very true.
If one does not expect or need 'in your face' and 'obvious' gestures of romance Aquas are extremely caring in their own way as you say.
My bf would never bring me flowers or chocolate for example but he will cook an incredibly lovely meal that takes HOURS.
Always gives me the more comfortable seat
Fixes things in my home
Even the way he teases and bugs me is his way of showing affection.
Theyre great in a way that is more meaningful than bold and grand gestures IMHO
Posted by truecap
And I think I like it! 🙂Aquamen are labeled with confusing, detached, aloof, unromantic....and this is all true when compared to other signs who make the big guestures or are more vocal about their feelings. However, aquamen can be quite sweet and romantic in their own way. It's subtle. One has to pay attention and notice all the little things they do for the one the care about.
They are so subtle in their efforts that a lot of people don't even notice how they go out of their way for their loved ones and that's really sad because aqua men get such a bad rap when, in fact, they do know how to take care of their woman.
^ This in particular is very true.
If one does not expect or need 'in your face' and 'obvious' gestures of romance Aquas are extremely caring in their own way as you say.
My bf would never bring me flowers or chocolate for example but he will cook an incredibly lovely meal that takes HOURS.
Always gives me the more comfortable seat
Fixes things in my home
Even the way he teases and bugs me is his way of showing affection.Theyre great in a way that is more meaningful than bold and grand gestures IMHO
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Yup! I'm already thinking up what I want to cook up for my virgleeb after he moves into his new place. I have 3 pages of ingredients for different dishes that will probably take me hours or all day to do for him. Its more than "just dinner".
Posted by truecap
And I think I like it! 🙂Aquamen are labeled with confusing, detached, aloof, unromantic....and this is all true when compared to other signs who make the big guestures or are more vocal about their feelings. However, aquamen can be quite sweet and romantic in their own way. It's subtle. One has to pay attention and notice all the little things they do for the one the care about.
They are so subtle in their efforts that a lot of people don't even notice how they go out of their way for their loved ones and that's really sad because aqua men get such a bad rap when, in fact, they do know how to take care of their woman.
^ This in particular is very true.
If one does not expect or need 'in your face' and 'obvious' gestures of romance Aquas are extremely caring in their own way as you say.
My bf would never bring me flowers or chocolate for example but he will cook an incredibly lovely meal that takes HOURS.
Always gives me the more comfortable seat
Fixes things in my home
Even the way he teases and bugs me is his way of showing affection.Theyre great in a way that is more meaningful than bold and grand gestures IMHO
Yup! I'm already thinking up what I want to cook up for my virgleeb after he moves into his new place. I have 3 pages of ingredients for different dishes that will probably take me hours or all day to do for him. Its more than "just dinner".
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Adorable. and VERY Aqua 😆
Posted by truecap
Good grief!!! Can't ANYONE throw out a positive story about a relationship with an aqua man without all the snide comments disguised as warnings? What? Just because all these other women's relationships didn't work with an aqua, they don't think an aqua can have a happy, long-lasting relationship?I think his history within the last 2 1/2 years has proven he's in it for the long haul. He has spoiled me more than not over that time frame.
plenty of aqua suns do have happy relationships. *shrug*
you have to consider the source. Why are they saying that? Because they are probably UNHAPPY in their lives.
Look at weddings. Do you see people hating on the bride? and who are the ones hating on the bride and not being happy for her? those who don't love her and hate her.
think about it. like you wonder...why the fuck are they ragging on that shit? sure it's awesome to see the bad /dark sides, but maybe these people don't have that bad of a dark side? Maybe their dark side is just being lazy or something stupid like that. We're not perfect, none of us are. The stupidity of it all is just mind-boggling.
3 pages of ingredients?? O_O
i'm not saying how i go about it. *secret*
Posted by lisabethur8
3 pages of ingredients?? O_Oi'm not saying how i go about it. *secret*
Well, he did say his fridge was empty and I was planning on making dishes to remember 🙂
Shes' still with him and fine as ever. We're all envious lol which she knows.
She gets aqua men while the rest of us are just confused.
Things are hunky dory!
Posted by truecap
Things are hunky dory!
🙂 good to hear, truecap!
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And I think I like it! 🙂
It's not easy for an independent cap to sit back and let someone spoil them. I like to pitch in and pull my weight - whether it's work, fun, financial, etc. Aquaman just says "sit back and relax, I got this!". So I let him and it seems to make him happy.
Aquamen are labeled with confusing, detached, aloof, unromantic....and this is all true when compared to other signs who make the big guestures or are more vocal about their feelings. However, aquamen can be quite sweet and romantic in their own way. It's subtle. One has to pay attention and notice all the little things they do for the one the care about.
They are so subtle in their efforts that a lot of people don't even notice how they go out of their way for their loved ones and that's really sad because aqua men get such a bad rap when, in fact, they do know how to take care of their woman.
He cuts my steak up into bite size pieces after he pulls it off the grill, won't let me tote anything, checks the air in my tires, cooks for me, insists I sit in the comfy soft seat while he sits on the uncomfortable one, looked all over town to find an extra stadium seat just for me, the light touch with just a little extra rub of affection, and the list goes on.
Just thought I'd spread some happy things about aqua men!