Angry Aqua!!

This topic was created in the Libra forum by aquag1 on Friday, September 12, 2014 and has 9 replies.

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@aquag1
12 Years

Ok i messed up the last message sorry lol ((if someone can delete it go 4 it??))

So I'm Aquarius and this Libra has been flirting with me for the longest time. We share a few classes together and we sit next to eachother and he's always flirting etc etc. But I feel that he does this to every girl and these flirts are meaningless even though I don't want them to be.

I get mad because I feel like I'm being lead on and this is just going to no where. He's just doing this for fun because he's bored. I feel like I'm just one of the many girls that a Libra flirts with and it pisses me off and I don't want it to be like that.

Wat do i do!!!!!! Should I just try to pursue something or should I just say fuck off and leave me alone!!!! SOS

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@aquag1
12 Years

Posted by feby
I'd go for something in between...just talk to him and get to know him better if you are interested in him. See what happens...

Thx 4 the advice feby!!! smh at libras am i right

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@rockyroadicecream
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by Gemican01
Libra men are defiantly flirty from my personal experiences, but since your not in a relationship yet I don't see why he can't playfully flirt around that's just their nature when single.
If you want him to be all yours you have to be direct about it but flirty at the same time(; he will eat it up trust me

*definitely.

Though considering Libras, I'm pretty sure "defiant" would work as well.

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@aquag1
12 Years

Posted by Perspicacity
You can do the typical Aqua hot & cold routine. That usually gets our attention. Aquas are pretty much the masters of this game. Act interested so he has something to consider. Then ignore him for days on end. That'll pretty much do either one of two things.

1. Make him absolutely crazy and want to seek you out or
2. Infuriate him and make lose any interest he could have for you.

Or.. You can choose what's behind door number three and just be straight to the point and honest. So few go for that option these days. lol

Wow I was actually thinking of just ignoring him for a bit and just be overall rude.. Wtf i really am aqua

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@aquag1
12 Years

Thank you all for the advice! I think I'm just gonna ignore the person for a bit and just let it be.

Also sorry for the double post!!!!!!!!! wont do it again swear lmao

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@justagirl
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You mentioned classes, how old are you guys out of curiosity?

Also, why be rude? There is no reason for that and what you are planning is game playing (in my opinion). If you like him, which it seems like that might be the case, why not just ask him to hang out?

Libras ARE flirts by nature and if it bothers you this much (as you stated, it pissed you off) and you aren't even dating, it honestly sounds like maybe you need to date someone else.

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@aquag1
12 Years

Posted by justagirl
You mentioned classes, how old are you guys out of curiosity?

Also, why be rude? There is no reason for that and what you are planning is game playing (in my opinion). If you like him, which it seems like that might be the case, why not just ask him to hang out?

Libras ARE flirts by nature and if it bothers you this much (as you stated, it pissed you off) and you aren't even dating, it honestly sounds like maybe you need to date someone else.

I'm 16. And it pisses me off because there's literally no meaning to it. Why flirt with someone just for your own fun, and you don't want anything out of it————? And tru to the I need to date someone else. Thank u for ur input!!

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@rockyroadicecream
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Posted by aquag1

Posted by justagirl
You mentioned classes, how old are you guys out of curiosity?

Also, why be rude? There is no reason for that and what you are planning is game playing (in my opinion). If you like him, which it seems like that might be the case, why not just ask him to hang out?

Libras ARE flirts by nature and if it bothers you this much (as you stated, it pissed you off) and you aren't even dating, it honestly sounds like maybe you need to date someone else.

I'm 16. And it pisses me off because there's literally no meaning to it. Why flirt with someone just for your own fun, and you don't want anything out of it————? And tru to the I need to date someone else. Thank u for ur input!!

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I think you need to get past flirting being serious and considered "dating." Flirting isn't always set in stone in regard to someone's true interest, so I wouldn't use it as a reliable gauge.

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@justagirl
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Posted by aquag1

Posted by justagirl
You mentioned classes, how old are you guys out of curiosity?

Also, why be rude? There is no reason for that and what you are planning is game playing (in my opinion). If you like him, which it seems like that might be the case, why not just ask him to hang out?

Libras ARE flirts by nature and if it bothers you this much (as you stated, it pissed you off) and you aren't even dating, it honestly sounds like maybe you need to date someone else.

I'm 16. And it pisses me off because there's literally no meaning to it. Why flirt with someone just for your own fun, and you don't want anything out of it————? And tru to the I need to date someone else. Thank u for ur input!!

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Awww you are a youngen! Enjoy your teenage years! Sometimes people are just natural flirts, heck I get accused of it when I am just being me. Sometimes people see what they want to see and the other person is just being nice. Again, you are young, not saying that to be demeaning, just saying enjoy life and have fun!

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@aquag1
12 Years

Posted by justagirl

Posted by aquag1

Posted by justagirl
You mentioned classes, how old are you guys out of curiosity?

Also, why be rude? There is no reason for that and what you are planning is game playing (in my opinion). If you like him, which it seems like that might be the case, why not just ask him to hang out?

Libras ARE flirts by nature and if it bothers you this much (as you stated, it pissed you off) and you aren't even dating, it honestly sounds like maybe you need to date someone else.

I'm 16. And it pisses me off because there's literally no meaning to it. Why flirt with someone just for your own fun, and you don't want anything out of it————? And tru to the I need to date someone else. Thank u for ur input!!

Awww you are a youngen! Enjoy your teenage years! Sometimes people are just natural flirts, heck I get accused of it when I am just being me. Sometimes people see what they want to see and the other person is just being nice. Again, you are young, not saying that to be demeaning, just saying enjoy life and have fun!

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TRUU it's whatever, thx for the advice!!!!