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What is the best way to spoil an aqua?
Posted by CluelessCancer
1) Traveling
2) Doing something utterly weird/unique like a burlesque show
3) Going to a Protest March
4) a Rally of some type
none of those interest me. except for the traveling part, but only limited. i don't like crowds.
Shopping spree..😉
Posted by AVG
Shopping spree..😉
nope.not me.
dont like to spend money. Too frugal. I have to think of the future. And we want to save money for our children's education kind of thing.
So NOPE. WRONG.
if you love shopping then, you better get a top career and make lots of money...
but look even women who make good money (Look at Sex and the City's Jessica Parker) who is SINGLE and not saving for her family and has a good career....
she spent her MONEY on expensive shoes.
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by AVG
Shopping spree..😉
nope.not me.
dont like to spend money. Too frugal. I have to think of the future. And we want to save money for our children's education kind of thing.
So NOPE. WRONG.
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It's not your thread, so I'm not talking too you...😉
Posted by AVG
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by AVG
Shopping spree..😉
nope.not me.
dont like to spend money. Too frugal. I have to think of the future. And we want to save money for our children's education kind of thing.
So NOPE. WRONG.
It's not your thread, so I'm not talking too you...😉click to expand
ooops. no harmful intention done. Just chiming in. 🙂
Why are you talking about sex and the city? Who even watch that!!
but im an aqua so i thought i'd chime in anyway.
so NOPE! don't like any of those things.
Posted by AVG
Why are you talking about sex and the city? Who even watch that!!
I DO!! *raises hand* i watch "Desperate Housewives" too!! and all those fun tv shows. I LOVE IT!!
I love drama with the ladies and their men in the neighborhood!! 😆
its so much fun to watch!!
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by AVG
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by AVG
Shopping spree..😉
nope.not me.
dont like to spend money. Too frugal. I have to think of the future. And we want to save money for our children's education kind of thing.
So NOPE. WRONG.
It's not your thread, so I'm not talking too you...😉
ooops. no harmful intention done. Just chiming in. 🙂
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I'm just messing around with you... But the reason I said shopping spree... Because if she has a Aqua guy like I know... He will return that shopping spree 10 fold.. 😉
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by AVG
Why are you talking about sex and the city? Who even watch that!!
I DO!! *raises hand* i watch "Desperate Housewives" too!! and all those fun tv shows. I LOVE IT!!
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Hahahahahahahaha... 🙂
Posted by lisabethur8
I love drama with the ladies and their men in the neighborhood!! 😆its so much fun to watch!!
I feel ya... 😄
Cook him a nice dinner, if you can cook... If not, take him too a nice restaurant ...😉
Shopping- Dinner-Movie .... Yeah that..😉
Oh, and steamy!! ?
Posted by tiziani
Lol the revenge threadCap:"you think you can just spoil me and get away with it?"
Lol!!
Well, I give back rubs. And I cook. A little random inexpensive gift here and there. And I treat with tickets to an event he likes every so often.
Any ideas from the aquas?
Posted by AVG
Cook him a nice dinner, if you can cook... If not, take him too a nice restaurant ...😉
cook dinner for him is the best.
That avi you're using is distracting 😆
he's got virgo and pisces in his chart right?
use some WILD imagination. Put on a song.... (since the master and servant thing came up) lol
Posted by Lust
Note: you may not call him master though, he may feel this fake. Just the behavior like; so he feels the leader of you two. The MAN of his castle.
Calling him Master is NOT gonna happen. Lol!!
Posted by smellycat
"Any woman that thinks the way to a man's heart is through his stomach is aiming just a little too high."
Wah hoo! 😉
Posted by lisabethur8
domination is the name of the game... forget about equality!!add some spice into your life, truecap.
Lol!
Posted by smellycat
What about boys toys? Not inexpensive though but hey you want "Spoil" him no? 5-6 years back Ipad was pretty nice gift I received? See any old gadget that requires upgradation ?
I was trying to think of more inexpensive personal things. I do like the Ipad idea for Christmas.
Posted by smellycat
"Any woman that thinks the way to a man's heart is through his stomach is aiming just a little too high."
well if we want to get SERIOUS here....
my husband loves that i cook for him daily. He loves to be spoiled.
So cooking helps alot. Part of love to his stomach i guess. Because it shows you care, love , nurture him in a way.
but it all depends on the guy you know, and your dynamics.
Truecap knows her man more than us.
*not withstanding the days we go out to dinner like last weekend with the family. Of course not daily, but many days, and almost everyday.
take him on a nice hike
thats always nice 🙂
What is his favorite hobby? Anything you can do or get that is inexpensive but shows that you acknowledge and support whatever it is? Defiantly cook a really nice dinner for him, especially if he works hard.. coming home after a long day and having someone waiting with a hot meal.. best ever with maybe a small gift of his hobby.. or a book from a favorite author ( aquas typically love books).
you in a bow... waiting to be unwrapped 😉 letting him know you are his to do whatever he pleases... within reason of course, unless there are no limits to what you will do!
I have to admit that being taken out to dinner is pretty fucking amazing for me, but what makes it more amazing is an impromptu dinner when all the planets have aligned and everything is perfect and you know the gods are smiling down on you that evening. When the air is balmy and the environment is perfect and theres the right amount of people in the restaurant and don't get me started on the food if I order the wrong thing, or theres no-good vegetarian option or the portion is too small I will fucking cry at the table in front of everyone. Perfect evenings and moments that money can't buy lol I know it seems like a lot to ask for but I always take time to store a nostalgic memory in the vault.
Either that or buy him a watch!
tell him how great he is
Pretty much, I love being doted on. Take your man out on a date, to all his favorite places and get his favorite food, add friends if you know he will really like that. If he likes sports, take him to a game, get him some crazy ballpark/stadium food, hit up a bar or tavern with friends, a comedy show, maybe even take a small road trip out of the city and treat him to a camping trip or maybe even do something he has always wanted to do. Maybe even some local festival! Making an entire day centered around new things or things I like, I'd totally feel special. I don't want to FEEL pressured that its all for me, just like "What're you doing on your day off? Nothing? Good, I got shit planned be ready by 10AM."
So many awesome ideas! I'll have to do them all - got lots of time!
i think him seeing you try to spoil him in any way will be appriciated
thats whays matters most
is you trying
and he wont forget that
what*
woops
sorry for bad spelling
had too many margaritas
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by AVG
Cook him a nice dinner, if you can cook... If not, take him too a nice restaurant ...😉
cook dinner for him is the best.
That avi you're using is distracting 😆
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😉
A book about zombies. Or a movie about them. Alt movies, maybe sci fi.
A history book of sorts, like history of African women tribes or female pirates. History of lost civilizations.
A shirt with a loud color that screams, "I am a MAN!" I'm guessing pink. Or a lime green button up.
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I am trying to spoil him. Just curious how other aquas would like to be spoiled. Interested in your wishes/desires/wants....
And, by the same token, what do you not want in terms of spoiling? I want to ask this because what one sees as spoiling, the partner might see as smothering. You know how us independent types are. lol!