Hoping you can give me some advice- Aquarius man

...going on. lol

Thank you for replying Aquarius78, I know you are probably right. It's just always a little un-nerving when someone you like, appears to distance after "the deed"

He's still processing.

Perhaps you're so paranoid now b/c you're on edge & more emotionally in-tune with him, hence the reason for you noticing his every move and hanging onto his every word...Rekindling an old flame and finding that they're still a good catch alllll those years later is freakin' exciting! And with excitement comes a little fear (natural fear), especially after that 1st hot and cold spell happens

I understand why you noticed or why you may even feel that his sudden distance is significant, but if I were you, I'd just ease up a little and not worry too much.

However, him being an Aquarius doesn't mean that you're wrong to expect consistency. It's still early so technically he owes you nothing, plus you're not his girlfriend. But as time goes by, he needs to understand (and you need to demand) that consistency is important to you. Yes, we Aquas don't find it so easily natural to attach to a newcomer, but he has to understand too that opening up and giving your all isn't necessarily so easy for others either!

So it'd be in his best interest to make sure that he's not giving YOU a reason to run either! Sometimes we Aquas are so analytic and protective of our own hearts that we forget to make sure that we're not sending out red flag warning bells to you either!!

WE understand why we're distant in that moment. WE know that it doesn't mean we feel any differently about you. But we sometimes forget that others can't read our minds, & may find our actions suspicious or confusing simply b/c they don't emotionally operate the same way we do whenever they're attaching to someone new.

Of course you won't ever be able to change the core of who he is emotionally, but if I were you, I would bring it to his attention early on that you're not so good at accurately reading into the hot/cold thing. It is SO important when building a foundation (even if just in friendship) to let them know how you perceive and interpret certain actions. Example: I'm an Aqua so if someone suddenly gets distant with me, I def. wouldn't assume anything negative. But that's only b/c I'm the type of person who can love you to pieces, but yet still have days where I just don't want to be bothered lol But see, that deeper understanding I have for that kinda stuff is only b/c I can inwardly relate. That may not be the case for others though & we have to respect that!

Mentioning that to him may not change that he'll have days where he's not so hot and heavy like usual, BUT after he's that way at least he won't be surprised if YOU have certain reactions to it. Make sense? There's nothing worse than 2 people who are actually all good, both thinking something is wrong and freaking out over nothing lol

Don't worry too much, but at the same time, always pay attention and be aware of what someone is showing you b/c a lot of the times, what you see in the beginning is what you'll get later on. Some people automatically shut down completely the minute they hear something they don't like. And for others, it takes a helluva lot more than that before they shut down and go cold.

So again, it's worth noting, but not necessarily worth freaking out over. In the beginning, notate everything, while having fun!

Ahh Krysrenee7 as a long time lurker I was HOPING you would respond!! I have read your aqua guide book and I REALLY respect your posts, your reply tells me you get this. I am by no means a "desperate" girl. I actually put other guys on hold for him because after our "serious talk" I felt it was the respectful thing to do. He is special to me. I don't even know why. He's not drop dead gorgeous but he's cute and he's the kind of guy that when he speaks, people shut the fuck up because he's balanced insightful and interesting and he thinks outside the box, this man can challenge me, and with a load of Gemini/Libra placements, I am easily bored with a more "avergage intellect". Also he is clearly at the point... which is rare with men where he is looking to settle down, as as I am 30 like him, I am too.

However, this is NOT my first Aqua experience, I have 3 ex aqua's, 2 who's hearts I broke (accidentally-because I wasn't in love) and one who broke mine, now this situation reminds me of the one who broke mine. I actually came here to DXP for advice back then and everyone said, be patient, play cat and mouse, be the mouse etc etc, and I lapped it up, I lost him. He ran off with another more exciting girl. 8 years have passed and I am not that naive girl I used to be. I believe whole heartedly that Aqua men take their time, go distant, need time to decide etc. However, I also think being too passive is a mistake. In my experience a man, regardless of sign, respects a woman who can call him on his shit, in a non combative way...

I spoke to a Taurus male friend tonight and he gave me some advice, I'd love to know what you think because just like your post, this makes sense to me...

I don't need this man to be hot and heavy every day, but for example today I have seen him periodically checking the app we speak on and...nada. I'm too old for this crap.

as an aqua[woman]...i'd take that message as coming from a very insecure person who's bragging and i'd say...ok...if you are cool with this, if you have others waiting on line...ok...go...

such a message would never, but never, bring me closer to somebody...

as an aqua involved with a cancer man...you are pretty insecure people...don't make it even more obvious...

i don't think your problem has much to do with him being an aqua...i think it is more related to men...

he might also think you said "i want kids...but not now"...just like this...to keep him close...we tend to believe what a person says/does when not provoked, rather than when they are asked...

after all, yes, he might not be that into you in the long run, we need stimulation...mental one. you do have to take care of your life. but what your message says is more like "i live my life through the man i am with, so, if you are not available, let me run to the other who can be the filter, blanket for me"...this is so unappealing to an aqua...to us independence is more than going shopping by yourself, or paying bills on your own.

It's not insecurity, it's the truth. I don't want to wait around if it's not going anywhere.

He text this morning saying he missed me at the weekend and he wants to take me out. This guy is something else seriously!

I am glad I slept on the text because I decided myself not to send it, but I am probably going to say something about all of this. Something a bit more subtle. Thanks!

Omg hilarious, he told me today that he's trying really hard to show interest without coming on too strong but he ends up seeming like he's ignoring me trying to play it cool, haha I guess he didn't want to scare me off. Seems I had nothing to worry about.

I admire him at least being open at what he's thinking.

When it comes to emotions and stuff, they are very witholding if you know what i mean.

When dating someone you can't necessarily be focused on the "end goal", it creates undue stress. I do believe sometimes people are in our life temporarily becuase in some ways everyone we come across serves a purpose.

Just get to know him for who he is and if it doesn't last long then it doesn't. I know you don't want to waste time but date just to date.

You'll find someone who is right for you whether its him ors omeone else.

you said you're an airy cancer, with those dominant gemini/libra placements. What's his??

it will help if you showed a little of his placements.

what made him attracted to you (his venus/moon) his communication (mercury) what does he look like to you, in your eyes (rising/sun)

if you're complaining about distance, it sounds like he has an air moon. or at least dominant air in his chart.

oh if you're airy, usually airy people are good with airy people, which is why you two stimulate eachother well, relationship wise.

My husband said to me the other night on the way home from grandma's. we were tired, at least i was too, did alot of cleaning, cooking, all weekend but we always go home nightly. Just tired.

but he out of the blue wanted to talk, in the car, and that annoyed me. I hate talking. I want to listen to music. Just music and stare out on the open road. I really really hate talking. He doesn't always want to talk either, but once in awhile he will. Then we back and forth turned off the music, he turned it down and i turned it back - it was like that back and forth for a bit, then i huffed.
dammit i wanna listen to music not listen to you chatter on. lol

then he lols and says, "you hate talking! you're like nothing in between, you are either ORNERY or CUDDLING/snuggable like. You are a crazy woman."

lmao!!!

sigh. love it.

so, go on lady

make some MEMORIES with your man. You only live once.

Posted by IAmMystified
I admire him at least being open at what he's thinking.

When it comes to emotions and stuff, they are very witholding if you know what i mean.

When dating someone you can't necessarily be focused on the "end goal", it creates undue stress. I do believe sometimes people are in our life temporarily becuase in some ways everyone we come across serves a purpose.

Just get to know him for who he is and if it doesn't last long then it doesn't. I know you don't want to waste time but date just to date.

You'll find someone who is right for you whether its him ors omeone else.

I agree Mystified! I admire him too for being so open. He finally called me today too and was very honest he said "I don't want to be in your pocket or show up all the time and start acting like your husband! but I am terrible with gray areas so I give you too much space I think!" aww I told him to stop worrying and just do what he wants to.

I agree too about not focusing on the end goal, I think it was just bothering me that I didn't know if he was interested or not. Now that he has told me he is, I will relax 🙂

Posted by lisabethur8
oh if you're airy, usually airy people are good with airy people, which is why you two stimulate eachother well, relationship wise.

My husband said to me the other night on the way home from grandma's. we were tired, at least i was too, did alot of cleaning, cooking, all weekend but we always go home nightly. Just tired.

but he out of the blue wanted to talk, in the car, and that annoyed me. I hate talking. I want to listen to music. Just music and stare out on the open road. I really really hate talking. He doesn't always want to talk either, but once in awhile he will. Then we back and forth turned off the music, he turned it down and i turned it back - it was like that back and forth for a bit, then i huffed.
dammit i wanna listen to music not listen to you chatter on. lol

then he lols and says, "you hate talking! you're like nothing in between, you are either ORNERY or CUDDLING/snuggable like. You are a crazy woman."

lmao!!!

sigh. love it.

Hahaha are you an aqua?

He has Moon in Taurus, Mercury in Aquarius, Mars in Scorpio and Venus in Capricorn.

I am Libra mars and rising, and Gemini venus

lol yes. But in the end, he always ALWAYS gets his way. We ended up wanting to do what he wanted.

Then i told him, i wanna listen to this song...

but, he said, i have something better. He got his mobile phone and plugged it into his car cd.

I was like, ok. It better be good though.

The other night, I put in this song:

Posted by satoristarlight
aww I love The Eagles! You remind me a bit of my little sister, she's a Gemini
I like his chart too 🙂 plenty to keep him grounded.
Umm about him, well when I first met him he had dread locks, facial piercings, was a bit of a goth and was in to wrestling! But I liked him right away.
Dreads are gone now, as are the piercings, he is a lot more stable, has a mortgage and a steady job. He likes music a lot, movies, doesn't drink much. He has lot's of guy friends who seem to all flock to his house so he doesn't get a lot of space. He's a worrier, omg he worries about everything. It seems to shock him that he openly tells me all his concerns, it's like he suddenly realizes where he is and is stunned that he talked so much, but I tell him I like it.
He's one of those people who could probably be friends with anyone, very varied interests, we have very similar political views, but I am more spiritual and religious.
I do like that he's steady, he's no party animal. He's more the hang out at home and chill type. His last relationship lasted about 8 years, I think he's very much in to long term commitment.
I sent him a load of hearts and stuff on chat tonight and he sent some back and asked what I'm doing, he's very sweet.
I am seriously so in lust with him!!

really? i don't have any gemini placements but i do have 3rd house. So, you can probably feel the "mercury" energy there along with my lone sun. I don't have an air mercury though. i honestly feel houses are very strong, especially doing famous/infamous people's charts and their "history". that's where you can see the elemental power. Through out their journey in life. My husband has air houses too, but placements-wise, he lacks air.

well it sounds like you like him alot. that's cool that you're more spiritual and he's more religious. I'm both, with less relgious freak. you sound very passionate about him. Lust in him is a good start. 😄 lol

I'm the religious one, he's agnostic. I converted to Hinduism a few years ago, so I'm all about the meditation and reading my Gita.

You strike me as very airy indeed. Whats your husbands sign? Did you marry a Cancer?

Hahaha being in lust is the best part, I never want to rush in to a relationship because I love the dating stage! With his mars in scorpio he can definitely respond the way I like!

Posted by satoristarlight
I'm the religious one, he's agnostic. I converted to Hinduism a few years ago, so I'm all about the meditation and reading my Gita.

You strike me as very airy indeed. Whats your husbands sign? Did you marry a Cancer?

Hahaha being in lust is the best part, I never want to rush in to a relationship because I love the dating stage! With his mars in scorpio he can definitely respond the way I like!

really? how so? especially since i dont do much but stay at home (homebody) and don't have friends, except for one bff who i hardly ever see, and only have my family. How is that airy? because i come online and write on a messageboard? truthfully, i do lack air placements and that's the honest truth.

http://astrologyunboxed.com/2011/03/25/creativity-and-element-imbalances-in-the-chart-lack-of-air/<BR>
The lack of Air in a chart can also find its expression through the works of ultra-specialized geniuses, the great thinkers, and intellectuals. Maupassant, Allan Poe, Goethe, Hemingway, Alexandre Dumas, Flaubert, Bertrand Russell, Tolstoy are some of the examples of artist compensating for their chart imbalance.

Many famous actors also have no air in their chart. These artists are either known for being extremely well articulate like Richard Burton, Laurence Olivier, Rex Harrison, or fall into the opposite category.

Warren Beatty, Paul Newman, Jack Nicholson, Robert Redford have elevated their own difficulties in expressing themselves into the Actor??s Studio method of acting.
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but then, i don't believe these astrologers weighed in "houses". and genius, no way.

you have to have at least over 20- 25% % to have a good amount of air.

I think the ease in which you can express yourself and be friendly! Air people always have a unique and almost quirky way of connecting to others.

Posted by satoristarlight
I think the ease in which you can express yourself and be friendly! Air people always have a unique and almost quirky way of connecting to others.

well i'm a prolific writer. :0

other than that, i don't like people around me at all. Only my family. those i'm comfy with.
on this medium i'm ok. because you're just someone on the internet discussing about astrology and relationships. i like relationships (venus style )

Posted by lisabethur8
oh and i used to write NOVELS. 80,000 words easily. I have a BIG imagination.
so that's where alot of my talent goes. My imagination is HUGE. i can imagine anything in the world, and ideas, anything interesting comes into my head and i can make it up and create a story out of thin air.
I believe that's prolific enough 😄

I'm not an airy sun, but I am sure I must have something within my chart, but I used to write as well. At least back in the day when I was younger. I don't do so much anymore, other than my blog.

But I had quite an imagination back then, I used to be able to just look at a photograph and write some short story, poetry or some passage about what the story of the photograph could be. I don't think I can do it anymore.

ugh.

now this convo reminded me of what i wrote again. *checks the short stories i wrote on here* lmao

and i'm gonna hide the last posts. It isn't relevant to what the OP wants. (which is about her guy)

This situation is the exact reason they say "Be true to yourself." It doesn't matter that this about him may not bother me or the next lady, if it bothers you! Your personality, your past, and your preferences all shape and influence what you do/don't like and what you will or won't put up with. And you have that right, so I'm def. not here to tell you that you don't have a right to be annoyed by what you perceive to be inconsistency b/c you absolutely do girlfriend!

What I might consider petty, someone else may feel is significant to how they perceive that person, but hey, the good thing about life is that there's a lot of sh**t that annoys me that others find stupid to be annoyed about lol So in that regards, don't even begin to sorta kinda feel bad for whatever things/behaviors/actions bother you b/c there's always a reason and back story for why certain things hit a chord with you. And that's ok!

And yes you're allowed to be annoyed early on just like you are 10 years into it. Sometimes the soul knows that a certain reaction or behavior is what you'll most likely get from that person in the future & hey, there's nothing wrong with wanting to nip certain things in the bud up front! So many women would be much happier or without so many regrets had they had some confidence in themselves/feelings and nipped certain sh*t in the bud long before the girlfriend title, the marriage and/or the baby! lol In fact a lot of women on this site even are still moping around wishing they had said what they were really feeling or wanted to say! As they said, closed mouths don't get fed

Sometimes you've got to pick your battles, and hush up b/c right-fighting or expecting someone to never annoy you is a dead end street. However, not speaking up about something that honest-to-God really bothers you is also a dead end street.

If this about him didn't really bother you, I'd say oh hush and shrug it off honey. But it seems that this about him bothers you, probably more than you wish it would. And again, that's ok. If this is the case, then talk to him about it...not in a way that you're asking him to change who he is at his core though. Oh and I'm not insinuating that I think you're like desperate or diehard crying over this lol

Knowing how the other person perceives you and your actions is a big part of getting to know someone. It's important for a man to know what hits a chord or is easily offensive or bothersome to you. He may not change or hear you out, but you surely have nothing to lose by speaking your mind. Sometimes women suffer a silent battle within their heads, draining themselves trying to decide whether or not they should communicate certain feelings to a man. But ironically, these same women are quick to harshly grade the guy in the communication department lol w/o realizing that speaking your mind, even when unsure or uncomfortable is a big part of 'communication' too.

Sometimes we ladies have to just speak up, 1. To experience that freeing feeling when you know you're being true to yourself & 2. Give the guy a chance to hear you AND FIX IT! So many guys gladly quit the flaky sh**t when they see that it bothers a woman they truly care about. The key is that they have to truly care about her though. And that brings me to my next point ----> Gauging a man's reaction/actions once/AFTER you've been honest about something that bothers you. THAT is the true test of a man's true feelings about you.

It should be expected that he'll bring certain habits to the next woman/relationship. After all, there's a 99% chance that people will bring a little bit of their personality, habits, moral compass and defense-mechanisms from the past to the present lol But what really counts is the reaction and the actions after those annoyances have been communicated to that person.

A man won't/can't stop or fix what he doesn't know is annoying or bothersome to you. Honest to God, he probably has no clue that you're on a message board speaking about how these things bother you, even if just a little bit lol But what is it about your confidence OR this guy, that hasn't allowed you to have this conversation with him though? Get where I'm going with this?! lol

If my husband hates that I sometimes randomly like distance, I wouldn't know b/c he's never told me that he perceives my sudden need to be to myself as a bad thing or something he takes personal. So if he's sitting at home mad at me or questioning my intentions or worthiness to him as a partner, that's his fault, b/c he never communicated that to me. See what I'm saying?! lol

Now if he did tell me that it bothered him, I wouldn't necessarily ever stop having random moments of needing space, BUT 1. I'd respect him for being honest with me & 2. I'd at least be understanding and be able to make sense of how he might feel granted I do or say certain things.

Again, it's all about finding a balance b/w picking your battles and knowing when to speak up. But you can only find that balance within yourself based on YOU, your preferences, what YOU want & what you need from a man in order to feel confident, vulnerable & safe to open up more to him.

Example: Some men need to see that you keep yourself up physically, are consistent with responding to their text/calls, and are affectionate and open when he's ready to get deep and intellectual with her. And guess what, if those are the things he needs to feel/see in order for him to feel confident and comfortable to open up and contemplate taking things to the next level, then so be it, b/c that's what his personality & preferences want! And if he doesn't get even 1 of those things, it's completely natural and even fair for his perception of her to change, even if just slightly.

So remember that as a woman, you have that right too. If you hate inconsistency b/c it reminds you of your ex OR b/c it's the 1 thing you noticed all the bad guys in the past had in common, then own that!!! And hope that the current guy won't knock you for it. After all, who can really argue that consistency isn't important?! lol

Try to find that balance. None of us can do that for you b/c we all have different pasts, personalities, preferences and standards.

+1 Krysrenee.

I agree with everything you said. It's not enough to let habits that disappoint you continue without saying anything. I think the reason why alot of women don't bother to say anything is becuase typically their significant other usually doesn't change, doesn't react, doesn't apologize, acts like the woman is overreacting or something other what was desired: understanding and willingness to partially change/improve.

I've been in situations where I've been let down, disappointed, neglected or something and in the past I would not say anything because the guy always got defensive and acted like they were doing nothing wrong, or said "wtf are you talking about, or got upset me for nagging them. True while that says something about how serious they weren't about me...but the fact is, those reactions as they add up over time affect someone. But knowing all this and experience all this my most recent attempt at communicating how I felt about something (which i learned not to do for a long time)..and I wouldn't say it got a bad reaction...but it got no reaction. Nothing. Sure the guy listened. But he made no comments, just listened the entire time and then said "Ok." Did anything change? Not really. All it did really was get them to not know what to do for whatever reason and so they did nothing at all ever because they were too worried about pissing me off when I made it really clear as to what I hoped for.

Anyway that was my point. We typically get bad reactions out of men and I really haven't learned of a way to communicate what I wanted enough for a man to understand and want to improve. They've all either got defensive or reverted backwards.

There was something I wanted to point out, but I forgot what it was.

Great posts guys!! so much good advice 🙂

I think as women we get to a point where no man is really worth being unhappy for so we speak up and live with the consequences whatever they may be.

Often "mixed signals" are a sign in themselves that a man is not serious about us. We have to pay attention and observe him but try not to jump the gun either.

I am really lucky that he brought this up before I even had to. I messed things up by telling him to put the breaks on at the start, after that he was worried about scaring me off, even though I, by this point was really feeling it for him.

It's a great sign for me that he is able to open up and talk. Both times he has gone a bit quiet he has come forward and offered an explanation on his own.

I'm not going to assume that everything will be plain sailing from here (no situation is ever perfect) but I'm way more relaxed since he and I talked.

I suppose we have to consider the other side of the coin too, that sometimes men are also worried about coming on too strong and trespassing on our space. I have read about aqua man situations on here where women are talking about an aqua who only contacts them every few months, and they justify it because of his sign. It's a foolish mistake to make.

@Lisabeth, I don't mind you hijacking my thread, it's funny, the Aqua told me the other day that he writes screen plays and would love for me to read them 🙂

Posted by satoristarlight
@Lisabeth, I don't mind you hijacking my thread, it's funny, the Aqua told me the other day that he writes screen plays and would love for me to read them 🙂

that's nice. But i must say, you are very "Intrusive" for a water sign. Asking me questions all the time. i try to minimize my questions, to your guy so we can get a better understanding though.

yeah LACK OF AIR is usually characterized by what i posted below. (great or better achievements through intellect/academics) Lack of water is usually those who make music so they can express themselves through music. they try to HEAL themselves through music and making music.

people who use drugs alot and prescription medications (addictions) BLOCK out their feelings because they lack water. This is the case of lack of water. Water dominant people usually don't NEED to block out their feelings because they can ride the storm thorugh and through.

such as in the case of Marilyn Monroe. Yes she had a water placement (her mars, but it was NOT enough); she still lacked water. She overdosed on medication. Also, Amy Winehouse comes to mind. Who lacked water and did amazing music, but she overdosed and had a terrible drug addiction. She is a perfect case of someone who lacked water and made MUSIC to express her lack of water, but she still BLOCKED out her feelngs by using drugs.

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by satoristarlight
@Lisabeth, I don't mind you hijacking my thread, it's funny, the Aqua told me the other day that he writes screen plays and would love for me to read them 🙂

that's nice. But i must say, you are very "Intrusive" for a water sign. Asking me questions all the time. i try to minimize my questions, to your guy so we can get a better understanding though.

yeah LACK OF AIR is usually characterized by what i posted below. (great or better achievements through intellect/academics) Lack of water is usually those who make music so they can express themselves through music. they try to HEAL themselves through music and making music.

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I'm a bit over confident, my sun has progressed to Leo now maybe that's why. I work as a counselor too, so maybe it's become a habit to pry a little

Posted by lisabethur8
such as in the case of Marilyn Monroe. Yes she had a water placement (her mars, but it was NOT enough); she still lacked water. She overdosed on medication. Also, Amy Winehouse comes to mind. Who lacked water and did amazing music, but she overdosed and had a terrible drug addiction. She is a perfect case of someone who lacked water and made MUSIC to express her lack of water, but she still BLOCKED out her feelngs by using drugs.

I am fascinated by Marilyn! Have you read "The secret life of Marilyn Monroe"? it's amazing but heart breaking

no i have not. I have though, watched the film and i thought in all honesty that Marilyn was a spoiled, self centered woman who had a lot of insecurities. i honestly don't like her much. there are other actresses i liked better than her. She really had NO talent at all, but was an icon figure for men (like a PIN UP) who adored her. She was iconic. Me and my mother-in-law watched the black and white film where Clark Cable was in it - the last film Marilyn Monroe was in with Gable. It didn't make a whole lot of sense, honestly. Her acting is simpering and acting pretty and vulnerable. Which is fine if you like that stuff.

you did it again. you asked questions. You are the question asking person all the time. You need to leave the therapy to your work if you are really a counselor. that's an indication that you lack water too. You want to HEAL people by working as a counselor.

you must be REALLY interested in me.

and i don't even care to ask about you, but its cool. you volunteered to tell me you are a counselor and that you know astrology well enough to say your sun progressed to LEO. which tells me you know astrology very well.

Posted by lisabethur8
you did it again. you asked questions. You are the question asking person all the time. You need to leave the therapy to your work if you are really a counselor. that's an indication that you lack water too. You want to HEAL people by working as a counselor.

I don't lack water, I'm a triple Cancer, but I feel my air placements more.

Ok...ask yourself, why are you so uncomfortable with people asking you questions 😉

Posted by satoristarlight

Posted by lisabethur8
you did it again. you asked questions. You are the question asking person all the time. You need to leave the therapy to your work if you are really a counselor. that's an indication that you lack water too. You want to HEAL people by working as a counselor.

I don't lack water, I'm a triple Cancer, but I feel my air placements more.

Ok...ask yourself, why are you so uncomfortable with people asking you questions 😉

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obviously i'm answering them. But i don't like to say in an OPEN forum.

you should respect that. And not pry.
i'm not one of your patients.

for all i know, you could be a MAN pretending to be a woman.

Posted by lisabethur8
for all i know, you could be a MAN pretending to be a woman.

I haven't tried to counsel you dear, I have asked superficial questions which are relevant to your posts. No idea why this makes you defensive.

Posted by satoristarlight

Posted by lisabethur8
for all i know, you could be a MAN pretending to be a woman.

I haven't tried to counsel you dear, I have asked superficial questions which are relevant to your posts. No idea why this makes you defensive.

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i just kind of found it odd you're asking these questions. Right down to "did you read Marilyn Monroe?'

I guess i thought it was weird, since you keep asking from the very beginning. You never talk about YOU much, which makes me think you have 7th house/libra placements.

*duh*

NO WONDER.

You said you are Libra rising/Libra moon. Now you said you are triple cancer?

Posted by satoristarlight

Posted by lisabethur8
oh if you're airy, usually airy people are good with airy people, which is why you two stimulate eachother well, relationship wise.

My husband said to me the other night on the way home from grandma's. we were tired, at least i was too, did alot of cleaning, cooking, all weekend but we always go home nightly. Just tired.

but he out of the blue wanted to talk, in the car, and that annoyed me. I hate talking. I want to listen to music. Just music and stare out on the open road. I really really hate talking. He doesn't always want to talk either, but once in awhile he will. Then we back and forth turned off the music, he turned it down and i turned it back - it was like that back and forth for a bit, then i huffed.
dammit i wanna listen to music not listen to you chatter on. lol

then he lols and says, "you hate talking! you're like nothing in between, you are either ORNERY or CUDDLING/snuggable like. You are a crazy woman."

lmao!!!

sigh. love it.

Hahaha are you an aqua?

He has Moon in Taurus, Mercury in Aquarius, Mars in Scorpio and Venus in Capricorn.

I am Libra mars and rising, and Gemini venus

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oh never mind. I knew you had LIBRA.

you folks are so INTRUSIVE.

well anyway, his taurus moon will be awesome for your libra parts/cancer.

My sister has taurus moon and she is with a libra who is water dominant. 🙂

I never said I had a Libra moon, I have a cancer sun and moon, Libra rising and mars, Gemini venus. You mentioned Marilyn Monroe so I thought of a book I recently read and reciprocated. Next time I will stfu

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I never said I had a Libra moon, I have a cancer sun and moon, Libra rising and mars, Gemini venus. You mentioned Marilyn Monroe so I thought of a book I recently read and reciprocated. Next time I will stfu

no no it's cool.

This is WHY i was with dominant aries men in my life. Astrology makes ALOT of sense.

I don't mind the females with libra in the charts, but only for a short while. Sorry!!

it's just how it is. 😢

i like the libra mars, but only if it's just that alone.

it feels bad being honest about this. *cries***

Meep 😐