Aquarius men, how are you when you're jealous?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by meangirl0715 on Sunday, October 19, 2014 and has 16 replies.

How Aquarius Men Express Jealousy

Aquarius men often respond to jealousy with emotional distance and may withdraw to process their feelings. They value independence and can appear detached, but underlying it they may seek reassurance. Understanding their unique way of handling jealousy helps improve communication and trust in relationships.

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@sassafras
12 Years

I'm not an aqua man but I get pretty cold about it. If the issue that makes me jealous persists, I will tell them off rather harshly then ice them out.

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Not sure what your intention was for asking this question, but I gotta say this:

Don't play the jealousy game with an aquarius. If you set out to get his attention, it will backfire on you every single time. They don't play that game. Aquas will let you be, decide you're not as worthy as they though, let the other guy have you and slide right on out of your radar. You'll be left wondering where they went.

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@IAmMystified
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by truecap

Posted by IAmMystified
someone you like is talking to a buddy of yours.

Define talking.

Texting?
Phone calls?
Saying hi when you run into them?
Private conversations at a party?
Flirting?

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I read somewhere that aqua men or aquas in general don't get jealous easily and I forgot what reason it always aid but they do get jealous like if you are talking to a friend of theirs.

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

I'm sure it has to do with the context and I'm not an aqua, so I really can't say, but this is my impression:

If it's just friends, friends you had before you met them and have had for a long time, and they know it's just friends, then I don't think they would. Coworkers, no, I don't think so. You better not get jealous of their female friends either, though.

If it's their friends that you met through them, then probably because that's just weird. Really can't say.

If it's a game to spark their interest or get a reaction out of them, then you lose and they slide away.

Mystified, I wasn't directing the jealousy as a game post at you, it was for the OP. Wanted to clarify.

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@IAmMystified
12 Years1,000+ Posts

@truecap

Didn't think it was directed at me. I didn't notice that part honestly lol.

But I agree it depends on the context but I'm speaking more rather a freind of his that you have known just as long as you've known the aqua.

Aqua male does get jealous. It doesn't even have to be his friend but its especially with his friend. Won't ever admit it but I know subtle jealousy when I see it. Like once the friend (who is also an aqua) wanted to treat me out to eat and my aqua male will sacrifice important plans to hang out with his buddy so when I was treated, aqua buddy purposely didn't go.

Even uses his friend as a ploy to get me to go places when I know darn well his friend doesn't care if i go or not.

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@IAmMystified
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Nice. THough no one has to be jealous of anyone. It's simple.

If you want someone around and be all into you, then be the same way you expect them to be.

Pointless jealousy i think.

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@cancergoddess143
12 Years500+ Posts

An Aqua man I was best friends with and dated said that he felt like he was having a heart attack when he thought I was texting another man while we were on a date LOL. HGope that helps, hehe 😛

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@NotYourAverageAquarius
13 Years5,000+ PostsAquarius

Generally speaking I don't really get jealous. NOT that I don't necessarily it just depends on the situation. And, usually I never act out on it but as I've gotten older sometimes I do just because I think it's really rude to do that as some ploy.

So basically I generally just make an ass out of myself 🙂