Are Aquarius men

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by DMV on Friday, August 29, 2014 and has 24 replies.

Are Aquarius Men Childish or Immature

Aquarius men are often misunderstood as childish or immature when upset, but they are typically independent thinkers who value fairness and innovation. Their reactions can seem unusual, but they tend to prioritize logic and progress over emotional responses. Understanding their personality helps clarify their behavior during conflicts or setbacks.

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@Ssasy
13 Years1,000+ Posts

Yes they are!!! Aquarians can be soo dramatic , when feelings are hurt. They will even make you feel bad for something simple and even make you feel worse about something forgetting how you've feel and focus more on apologizing....

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@The_eleventh_sign_11
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Seriously? I don't get what I want all the time and I'm fine with that lol??_..My little brother on the other hand is so much fun to watch at christmas time because we never get him what he wants and we hide his presents out in the garden and sometimes on christmas it rains and its even more exciting to see him breakdown??_..hes an aquarian BTW and he's the spoilt one of the family and cries all the time when he doesn't get what he wants he even drops down to the floor and shakes and its hilarious because the more we laugh the more he shakes and has a fit..

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Lol, ok so heres what happened. Brace yourselves, were going back to preschool.

Me and this aqua guy were friends. Nothing sexual. Hes a party promoter. Back in spring he threw a party. I had brought a table, $ 100. It rained and I went on the event fb page and asked for a refund. Then I got am email, from the party site issuing the refund. Long story short it took me like 2 months and 2 disputes to actually get it. He kept denying that I wasnt entitled to one, even when I showed him emails. Now my emails to him were businesslike and cordial. His emails to me were nasty, condescending, and showed him in a different light. I even assked him to come at a different way. There was no need to go about business like this. No need to get nasty.

After his 3rd nasty email I stopped responding and let my credit card company do the talking. Then he started FB me nasty emails and I didnt even open them. When I was issued my refund, he sent one last condescending email, again, I ddint bother reading in full or replying. I got my money back, I was good.I think my reluctance to engage him in a email fight pissed him off. I remained nice and he wanted to get nasty.

I went on a camping trip like 2 months later and another promoter I know brought it up 2 me and I thought that was odd. I never discussed it openly to anyone. But the aqua must have told all the other promoters about our tiff. It wasnt even a hig deal, but I feel like he made a mountain out of a molehill. I didnt really talk about it with the 2nd promoter. No need to gossip about it.

fast forward to yesterday. The aqua is throwing a all white labor day party. I brought a regular ticket $ 7 like 2 months ago. I get a text from my virgo friend last night saying that the aqua refunded my ticket and banned me from all his parties FOR LIFE.

look, I havent laughed like this in years. Does he really think im going to beg him to go to a party? He didnt even have the balls to tell me to himself. I still have decided to give him no reaction. I mean its childish.

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@lisabethur8
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he just sounds really stubborn. It's his way or the highway kind of guy. O_O

he doesn't...obviously care about the refund thingy. It's a principle for him it seems. Not a friendship thingy with you. You're not his friend ever. It is ALL BUSINESS with him, for sure, DMV.

Forget it.It's not worth the hassle or headache.Business for him, like being a top promoter is number 1 for him.

Sadly, he doesn't realize, that he will lose his friends like this. *shrug* he is probably the type that isn't fazed or care about friendship with people. It is BUSINESS.

and PRIDE.

honestly, i dont see what the big deal of refunding you the money if you wanted it.

Perhaps it's deeper than that.

I was in a conversation with some people on vacation and we talked about how some U.S. citizens go into foreign countries, such as ...example: middle east territorites or the territory which is very dangerous (war zones) and how they get kidnapped. We were discussing about how the U.S government won't even give MONEY as a REWARD (the kidnappers asked for money, ALOT of money to return the victim) and the U.S. government as a whole believes that if you give ONCE, lots of kidnappers in those foreign countries will kidnap U.S. citizens and ask for millions. So....what did the U.S.government do? They DID NOT give the reward money. So who suffered? The U.S. citizens who innocently go into foreign territory (war zones). That's WHO suffers.

Think about that..... what the government thinks....do you agree?

I dont know why it correlated to your experience....but it reminded me of it.

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by lisabethur8
he just sounds really stubborn. It's his way or the highway kind of guy. O_O

he doesn't...obviously care about the refund thingy. It's a principle for him it seems. Not a friendship thingy with you. You're not his friend ever. It is ALL BUSINESS with him, for sure, DMV.

Forget it.It's not worth the hassle or headache.Business for him, like being a top promoter is number 1 for him.

Sadly, he doesn't realize, that he will lose his friends like this. *shrug* he is probably the type that isn't fazed or care about friendship with people. It is BUSINESS.

and PRIDE.

honestly, i dont see what the big deal of refunding you the money if you wanted it.

Perhaps it's deeper than that.

I think he is really going out of his way to be a douchebag. Why give me so much power over your emotions? He went through some effort. Plus he knows its my virgo gals bday. He has bad intentions. But apart of me is kinda tickled that hes putting alot of energy into me. Sadistic almost.

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Seriously? I don't get what I want all the time and I'm fine with that lol??_..My little brother on the other hand is so much fun to watch at christmas time because we never get him what he wants and we hide his presents out in the garden and sometimes on christmas it rains and its even more exciting to see him breakdown??_..hes an aquarian BTW and he's the spoilt one of the family and cries all the time when he doesn't get what he wants he even drops down to the floor and shakes and its hilarious because the more we laugh the more he shakes and has a fit..

yes, the more i didnt give in to his childish behavior the more enraged he became.

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@lisabethur8
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Posted by DMV

Posted by lisabethur8
he just sounds really stubborn. It's his way or the highway kind of guy. O_O

he doesn't...obviously care about the refund thingy. It's a principle for him it seems. Not a friendship thingy with you. You're not his friend ever. It is ALL BUSINESS with him, for sure, DMV.

Forget it.It's not worth the hassle or headache.Business for him, like being a top promoter is number 1 for him.

Sadly, he doesn't realize, that he will lose his friends like this. *shrug* he is probably the type that isn't fazed or care about friendship with people. It is BUSINESS.

and PRIDE.

honestly, i dont see what the big deal of refunding you the money if you wanted it.

Perhaps it's deeper than that.

I think he is really going out of his way to be a douchebag. Why give me so much power over your emotions? He went through some effort. Plus he knows its my virgo gals bday. He has bad intentions. But apart of me is kinda tickled that hes putting alot of energy into me. Sadistic almost.

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he might be secretly attracted to you. O_O

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by DMV

Posted by lisabethur8
he just sounds really stubborn. It's his way or the highway kind of guy. O_O

he doesn't...obviously care about the refund thingy. It's a principle for him it seems. Not a friendship thingy with you. You're not his friend ever. It is ALL BUSINESS with him, for sure, DMV.

Forget it.It's not worth the hassle or headache.Business for him, like being a top promoter is number 1 for him.

Sadly, he doesn't realize, that he will lose his friends like this. *shrug* he is probably the type that isn't fazed or care about friendship with people. It is BUSINESS.

and PRIDE.

honestly, i dont see what the big deal of refunding you the money if you wanted it.

Perhaps it's deeper than that.

I think he is really going out of his way to be a douchebag. Why give me so much power over your emotions? He went through some effort. Plus he knows its my virgo gals bday. He has bad intentions. But apart of me is kinda tickled that hes putting alot of energy into me. Sadistic almost.

he might be secretly attracted to you. O_O

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fml

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@Bsmurray
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Posted by DMV

Posted by lisabethur8
he just sounds really stubborn. It's his way or the highway kind of guy. O_O

he doesn't...obviously care about the refund thingy. It's a principle for him it seems. Not a friendship thingy with you. You're not his friend ever. It is ALL BUSINESS with him, for sure, DMV.

Forget it.It's not worth the hassle or headache.Business for him, like being a top promoter is number 1 for him.

Sadly, he doesn't realize, that he will lose his friends like this. *shrug* he is probably the type that isn't fazed or care about friendship with people. It is BUSINESS.

and PRIDE.

honestly, i dont see what the big deal of refunding you the money if you wanted it.

Perhaps it's deeper than that.

I think he is really going out of his way to be a douchebag. Why give me so much power over your emotions? He went through some effort. Plus he knows its my virgo gals bday. He has bad intentions. But apart of me is kinda tickled that hes putting alot of energy into me. Sadistic almost.

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Why are you letting it bother you?

Just go to a different party.

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by Bsmurray

Posted by DMV

Posted by lisabethur8
he just sounds really stubborn. It's his way or the highway kind of guy. O_O

he doesn't...obviously care about the refund thingy. It's a principle for him it seems. Not a friendship thingy with you. You're not his friend ever. It is ALL BUSINESS with him, for sure, DMV.

Forget it.It's not worth the hassle or headache.Business for him, like being a top promoter is number 1 for him.

Sadly, he doesn't realize, that he will lose his friends like this. *shrug* he is probably the type that isn't fazed or care about friendship with people. It is BUSINESS.

and PRIDE.

honestly, i dont see what the big deal of refunding you the money if you wanted it.

Perhaps it's deeper than that.

I think he is really going out of his way to be a douchebag. Why give me so much power over your emotions? He went through some effort. Plus he knows its my virgo gals bday. He has bad intentions. But apart of me is kinda tickled that hes putting alot of energy into me. Sadistic almost.

Why are you letting it bother you?

Just go to a different party.

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who said I was bothered? I find my control over him intriguing.

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by HeavySky
when I don't get what I want, I tend to let it go depending on how much it means to me.

There are a lot of variables to take into account (obviously), it looks like you just wanted to rant about your Aquarius friend though x)

Hmm, someone is taking this personal.

Musta hit a sore spot.

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12 Years500+ PostsCapricorn

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Posted by osiris626
are you sure he's not a Leo?

haha, its all the fixed sign men...babies of the zodiac

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@dmv its funny u mentioned this story as i have had a similar issue only diffrence he was my ex lol not a friend or business colleague its on the aquarian forum somewhere mine tried to sabotage my character popped up to my job,party,an the place where i socialize and break at all because i exposed him for the lying cheating dog that he was huge still wouldn't leave things be as ive tried to reach out in the nicest way possible to dead the situation he went around every possible reconciliation so i kno what u mean i also was nice about it and didn't even feed the energy he was vicious like a rabid wolf it was hilarious the power i had over him

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by highlyclassified

Posted by DMV

Posted by osiris626
are you sure he's not a Leo?

haha, its all the fixed sign men...babies of the zodiac

@dmv its funny u mentioned this story as i have had a similar issue only diffrence he was my ex lol not a friend or business colleague its on the aquarian forum somewhere mine tried to sabotage my character popped up to my job,party,an the place where i socialize and break at all because i exposed him for the lying cheating dog that he was huge still wouldn't leave things be as ive tried to reach out in the nicest way possible to dead the situation he went around every possible reconciliation so i kno what u mean i also was nice about it and didn't even feed the energy he was vicious like a rabid wolf it was hilarious the power i had over him

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yes, I do not feed the pig. I giggle.

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Posted by DMV

Posted by highlyclassified

Posted by DMV

Posted by osiris626
are you sure he's not a Leo?

haha, its all the fixed sign men...babies of the zodiac

@dmv its funny u mentioned this story as i have had a similar issue only diffrence he was my ex lol not a friend or business colleague its on the aquarian forum somewhere mine tried to sabotage my character popped up to my job,party,an the place where i socialize and break at all because i exposed him for the lying cheating dog that he was huge still wouldn't leave things be as ive tried to reach out in the nicest way possible to dead the situation he went around every possible reconciliation so i kno what u mean i also was nice about it and didn't even feed the energy he was vicious like a rabid wolf it was hilarious the power i had over him

yes, I do not feed the pig. I giggle.

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O it was funny as hell what i dnt get is why do they want a response so bad lmao